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Why then did you mention such a sensitive issue on a public platform if it wasn't about her losing your child and her womb? Was that necessary? And you regard yourself as a good husband?

Futuristica:

Was the thread about her losing her child?

I don't need to know her to know that you're a bad husband... You're busy portraying yourself as a saint while demonizing her.

How would you feel if you lost your child and balls and she opened a thread about it? Would you rejoice?

Futuristica:


So you know her?

You come from a family that talks in a calm way, but you'd call her names and shout at her for not steaming the meat or holding the knife the right way? Is that your definition of being calm?

And what kind of a good husband brings his wife's sensitive issues on a public platform without consulting with her first? If you had lost your child and balls, were you gonna be okay with her opening a thread about it on this same forum?

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I don't know.

praisecity:


Were is d link

I used to take my tablet instead of the Bible... The Bible was for only when I was at home or for prayer meetings.

Why relocate to the same people who are exploiting your country's resources to enrich theirs when you should be focusing on how to put an end to it and untilise your resources for your own country's benefit?

Who's gonna save Nigeria if all of you relocate?

This question was already asked in December and the thread made front page, if I'm not mistaken.

Imagine a whole jollof bro trying to educate me about my own people when he can't even tell us apart...🤣🤣🤣

I don't need to convince anyone about my people... And if you think you know better than me, then so be it... Believe whatever you want to believe...🤣🤣🤣

Awoleesu:


Those names...
Nothing really suggested they're from SA precisely. Maybe from Southern Africa? Yes!
Cos I can see names native to Botswana, Namibia, even generic faith-allied names.

Convince me to the contrary!

Public knowledge from SA men, the most disliked men on nairaland... I never thought I'd see this day whereby Naija men are applauding SA men...

Whatever is it that Tinubu has given you guys, he should continue and not stop...🤣🤣🤣

NairaLikes:

These are public knowledge, not specifically invented by SA men. By the way those men are Simps, real men don't say sorry or care for their wife.


Damn someone hit me for head just now...

If you have issues with women, then just stay away from them and be single, no one is forcing you to be in a relationship or to get married... Enjoy your money alone as a single man.

optm:

Oh nice, i see girls having this mindset as the lazy ones.
What makes a man better at making money than a woman in this generation?

Never thought I'd see a day whereby Nigerian men will be agreeing with SA men, especially on this platform...🤣🤣🤣

What did you guys drink today?🤣🤣🤣 Le nwele eng?😂😂😂

Marriage has always been like that from the beginning... A woman would stay at home while the husband would provide.

You men of nowadays are just weak... If he's no longer able to provide financially and he wants me to go back to whoever has be looking after me before him, I'll gladly pack my bags and go back to my father's house... I can't force a grown man to perform his duties as a husband because real men have savings s for rainy days.

optm:
so what happens in situations that he's not able to provide financially? Who has been providing for you before you met the man? This position of yours buttresses the narrative that the majority of women are not looking for life partners but burden bearers and providers. Marriage becomes transactional in these scenarios.

Why?

Tolu2024:


Forget the moniker

Are you a lesbian?

Tolu2024:
Happy I married a good wife though she have her own fault but nothing compared to the ones on the street.

I don’t trust home delivery girls I knack 3 I met in uyo . The funniest 😂 is the one that sell bed sheets I told her i have 4 different types bedsheets, she insists I will buy from her I told her if she will test it and she agreed.

I need help... I find it difficult to even ask my family even though I know they always have my back and ready to help with anything.

As women, it's our duty to be entitled to your money the same way it's your duty to be entitled to our submission... You provide and we submit...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

mjuvey3:
My dear brother,I'm in your shoes

I'm 37,single with no kids but I keep meeting money hungry women....Even the decent ones who comes from good homes and have high paying jobs are money hungry and entitled.

There are still few good women out there but the problem is,they don't go out much and they don't reply DMs on Social media....You can only get them through connections or if you're lucky to meet them on the road or at a particular spot like eateries,malls, church,salon,markets etc

It is well

This is nothing new, I've heard stories of men getting publicly beaten by their fellow men for being abusive to their wives and they still went ahead and continued with their marriages afterwards.

Our neighbours' son back home who's also married was once beaten by his male neighbours for being abusive towards his wife, after they were done beating him up, they called the police on him... His stayed under police custody for a while before he was released, I don't know if his wife changed her mind and dropped the charges or what happened... His employers also dismissed him from his job upon hearing the news, but guess what? They're still together and allegedly his wife even helped him get another job, last time I saw them they were all smiles and looked happy together, even though we don't know how's life behind closed doors.

Why aren't you guys importing your languages abroad since you have the highest migration in Africa?

Oh! That's nice... Thanks for clarity.

Double0h7:


"Mashallah" (ما شاء الله), often shortened to "Ma Sha Allah" or "Masha Allah," is an Arabic phrase that translates to "what God has willed" or "God has willed it". It is used to express appreciation, iration, or gratitude for something good that has happened or that one is appreciating. It can also be used to ward off the "evil eye" or envy, according to some cultural interpretations.

Well, they mostly target the other woman instead of the man, who's the one who willingly brought in a third party into the picture.

Because chances are even if you manage to fight off the first side chick, he'd still get another one and the circle will keep repeating itself over and over again.

Anyways, let's leave it.

Mariangeles:



Who says she cannot make everyone involved in the betrayal pay?
The truth is, nobody can tell a hurt woman how to feel, or who to fight.

What does "Maasha Allah" exactly mean?

Double0h7:
That gave me goosebumps mehn! Maaasha Allah! May The Most High grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous; Amen! 🥰🥰🥰

But I sometimes don't get it, why do some women always see the need to be fighting the other woman instead of the man? He'd have been the one who willingly stepped out of their relationship or marriage?

Mariangeles:
You've got guts for sharing your story though.

Well, the guy did ended up upgrading me into a wife, but don't judge me okay? It happened and life goes on.

Personally, I'll never fight a side chick or even confront my husband about it upon finding out, there are many ways to deal with a cheating husband, you just have to learn to play your cards right.

And the girl is now behind bars for attempted murder.

Mariangeles:



Yet, foolish people think side chicks get the "best part of the deal".
They're still the ones that mock and blame the wife for fighting the side chick.

Do you live with them to know that she's improved? And how was she a terrible cook?

MoneyMan5:


It was her husband that told her to stop cooking because she is a terrible cook, It is not like she isn't making any attempt or too lazy to cook and who told you she haven't make any improvements all these years?

Even if you can't do something you have to make efforts in relationship so that your partner can know you care, communication is useless if it is just all words and no action.

Jay Z also cheated on Beyonce and she chose to forgave him.

Can you your claim with issible evidence?

dontai:
you lied!

Just go to the romance section and you'll see a pile of threads from your brothers complaining and shaming women for not sharing their responsibilities as the providers.

tiswell:
Now that's stereotype.

African men still provides sufficiently for their families,just that the present generation of women canvassed for gender equality where and when it favours them.

The same African marriages require a husband to be the sole provider of his household, yet you guys nowadays have issues with it and want your women to be sharing your responsibilities with you.

tiswell:
African marriages traditionally requires a wife to cook,wash and take care of domestic front.


We are not Beyonce and Jay z

Haibo!!! What do you mean you've missed me? I never left...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

olawaleatanda:
i have miss you so much

Nothing much, you?

olawaleatanda:
Samantha125 wassup

Where's the data to your statement?

Because some of these allegations are just stereotypes used to shame children raised by single mothers... Some daughters raised by their fathers still make bad life choices like any other, it has nothing to do with who raised them.

tiswell:
You are lucky,and he who finds a girl like you.

Most girls who are closer to their dads make good wives and great achievers.

S girl child's first boifren is her dad.

Being a side chick... I wish things could've been done in an amicable way but yeah, it happened.

In as much as it takes two to tango, a lady will always be the one to bear the burden of it all.

I got beaten, poisoned, and even found myself spending a weekend in a police cell because of it... The lady properly dealt with me and gave me a lesson I'll never forget.

So ladies, don't be side chicks because you might never know, it might just cost your life.