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lusid: 10:04pm On Jun 06
Breaker001:


I can connect you to one decent lady. Very homely; everything you would a wife should be. You will thank me later... after 10 years.
But my only fear is that I don't know you personally. Such a good lady should not fall into the hands of a wrong husband. I know her because she my wife's sister.
she get yash?
lusid: 10:06pm On Jun 06
Okechinwadike:
I swear I don tire, yawo Yawo ladies here and there
you don meet hookup gal?
lusid: 10:07pm On Jun 06
RichIgboBoy:
omo we plenty wey dey this table o
The ones wey dey hover around me I no like them, I just dey knack them
I dey find Phamarcist or nurse or babe wey get good handwork
you fit connect me to one of these gals make I leve single life?
RichIgboBoy: 10:08pm On Jun 06
lusid:
you fit connect me to one of these gals make I leve single life?
I meet one nurse recently but she no fine
lusid: 10:09pm On Jun 06
dauntless15:
Na must to marry? Must you marry to achieve your purpose in life, Omo I don't prioritise marriage not with what I've seen, nothing kills faster than ending up with the wrong person, love fades, and there's no guarantee you'll find happiness after tying the knot, if your fear is procreation, baby mama is the way to go, you mustn't get married before you can kpai in peace.
you don't want to marry?
Brandiebird: 10:09pm On Jun 06
Scamburster:

You dey mind the guy. Only that to find a working class lady at that age range is very slim.

Were you working class at that age range?

Some confused boys masquerading as men grin

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adamkkk: 10:10pm On Jun 06
Olachase:
The only advice I have for you

Don't settle for a single mom

According to what one poster said look out Nigeria try Ghana or Kenya 400k as income is something bro

Nigerian girls don't love they're just after the money

I know what my sister did to her husband

I swear, apart from my wife, there is no Nigeria woman that will genuinely love you like those days and it only because my wife is always busy working as an officer... even d luv sef get k leg.

Infact my wife .

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od501: 10:13pm On Jun 06
CTee1:


Making sense….
Thanks

Yap. Try this. I'm doing exactly the same. By God's grace, this year. I can't suffer to make it and still end up with rubbịsh.

I strongly recommend East African girls.ike...i don hear update about them die: all shades of good.

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Brandiebird: 10:14pm On Jun 06
adamkkk:


I swear, apart from my wife, there is no Nigeria woman that will genuinely love you like those days and it only because my wife is always busy working as an officer... even d luv sef get k leg.

Infact my wife .

You're so funny! I nearly chocked on my tea 😂

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hartson: 10:14pm On Jun 06
Juliearth:



Unless you live in a cave, it shouldn't be rocket science finding a compatible partner with these features.
compatible means 100%/100% both side.impossible
Breaker001: 10:15pm On Jun 06
lusid:
she get yash?

Meaning?
RichIgboBoy: 10:23pm On Jun 06
Breaker001:


Meaning?
meaning, her back side big? IKEBE grin
Chief2410: 10:46pm On Jun 06
MrMcJay:
People outside marriage want to get in.

People in marriages want to get out.
the irony of life

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eepeepook: 10:51pm On Jun 06
There is a first time for everything.

Gerrard59:

I'm curious, what do you get out of the marriage since there are no children? I hardly come across Black men who desire a DINK relationship. Besides, many men in Nigeria aren't open to it.
dauntless15(m): 11:05pm On Jun 06
lusid:
you don't want to marry?
at all, it's one loveless contraption that dwindles with time.

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dauntless15(m): 11:06pm On Jun 06
Gerrard59:

Children raised in the two parent household have better prospects than those raised in single parent homes. That's the global result. So all these baby-mama comes across as irresponsibilty. It's hard to see a responsible man intentionally state he wants to have a baby-mama arrangement.
right, shey all the number of miscreants in Nigeria are raised in single parent households, this is baseless assumption backed by sentiments cuz alot of people have deadbeats as dad's who are hardly there and they grew up as independent adults who always tackle problems on Thier own with radical and outside the box thinking.

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JobAndVacancies: 11:12pm On Jun 06
CTee1:


I’m a working class bro.
Salary 300-400k/mth
girls out there are something else 🤦🏾‍♂️
what of us wey don 37 but with salary of 40k.
No hope for us be that

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Chief2410: 11:33pm On Jun 06
JobAndVacancies:
what of us wey don 37 but with salary of 40k.
No hope for us be that
the lord is your strength my boss

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Tolu2024(f): 11:34pm On Jun 06
Samantha125:
Are you a lesbian?

Forget the moniker
Tolu2024(f): 11:35pm On Jun 06
lusid:
I'm thinking of toasting a POS gal I saw by the roadside. Should I go ahead

If she have the quality you need go ahead.

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Nnamdipapa(m): 12:23am On Jun 07
Get a girlfriend pregnant and move on, settling down is a scam and most married men with kids are never really settled. You are lucky to be single and have no k8d at 3 and you dont know what you have until you lise it. Most married people in Nigeria are suffering and smiling and, will always lie about their experiences. Do not fall for it.

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Rexnegro(m): 12:28am On Jun 07
CTee1:


Making sense….
Thanks
Are you in Lagos ? Should we plan to try other African countries in search of wifey ? Honestly I'm older than you single and tired ... My prob is I don't go to church anymore maybe just maybe I would have met one to settle down with. Bro to see a core decent girl now ehn hmmm 🤔. Simply put I don tire and no want give birth out of wedlock. Not my wish.

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Nnamdipapa(m): 12:33am On Jun 07
Rexnegro:

Are you in Lagos ? Should we plan to try other African countries in search of wifey ? Honestly I'm older than you single and tired ... My prob is I don't go to church anymore maybe just maybe I would have met one to settle down with. Bro to see a core decent girl now ehn hmmm 🤔. Simply put I don tire and no want give birth out of wedlock. Not my wish.

That is what I tell people. Save money and go on vacation to Ghana, Uganda, Kenya, Gambia and, mix up with other Africans. I will give everything to be in your shoes, na responsibilities go kill you if you marry most Nigerian ladies or African ladies.

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Rexnegro(m): 12:42am On Jun 07
Nnamdipapa:


That is what I tell people. Save money and go on vacation to Ghana, Uganda, Kenya, Gambia and, mix up with other Africans. I will give everything to be in your shoes, na responsibilities go kill you if you marry most Nigerian ladies or African ladies.
Chief you are on point believe me , I do go on vacation at 4 months intervals, preferred destination most time badagry just to go unwind, relax, offload and charge up,but this year I have skipped it tho. I really wanted to take it international to Rwanda but flight ticket is expensive for me at the moment. Saw return ticket for 780k. I'm thinking of trying benin republic or Ghana.

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Nnamdipapa(m): 12:48am On Jun 07
Rexnegro:

Chief you are on point believe me , I do go on vacation at 4 months intervals, preferred destination most time badagry just to go unwind, relax, offload and charge up,but this year I have skipped it tho. I really wanted to take it international to Rwanda but flight ticket is expensive for me at the moment. Saw return ticket for 780k. I'm thinking of trying benin republic or Ghana.

Start with a road trip, there is a bus in Bene that goes through Ghana to Gambia. Most Nigerians don't travel and never enjoy their lives before carrying liabilities under guise of settling down.
I am married and have kids and I would give everything to be single with no kids. Do road trips first before flying and you will be surprised what lays out there.
Most Nigerian married me with kids have never really settled down, do not fall for the societal scam.

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Guest2008: 12:57am On Jun 07
CTee1:


Looking for someone who shares my values: family oriented and God centered
Look no further.. Here am I
WarrenP: 12:59am On Jun 07
Rexnegro:

Chief you are on point believe me , I do go on vacation at 4 months intervals, preferred destination most time badagry just to go unwind, relax, offload and charge up,but this year I have skipped it tho. I really wanted to take it international to Rwanda but flight ticket is expensive for me at the moment. Saw return ticket for 780k. I'm thinking of trying benin republic or Ghana.

How’s the badagry vacation?

You go with groups or what ?
correctguy101(m): 1:01am On Jun 07
advanceDNA:


After you don scatter street....u wan commot....who u wan leave street for...

.no rest for the wicked grin grin

Abi?

No rest for the poor and wicked gringrin

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Pickieox(m): 1:30am On Jun 07
CTee1:
Time to settle down but nothing full outside…
Single at 37yrs, I’m tired.


Marriage is not by force. You can be single and happy. It's just the way you channel your mind and your energy. By the way, you are living your life according to societal narrative. Don't be caught in the matrix.

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Gerrard59(m): 2:12am On Jun 07
dauntless15:
right, shey all the number of miscreants in Nigeria are raised in single parent households, this is baseless assumption backed by sentiments cuz alot of people have deadbeats as dad's who are hardly there and they grew up as independent adults who always tackle problems on Thier own with radical and outside the box thinking.
While there are well raised/responsible children from single parent households, those from two-parent households sur them. Most importantly, this is a global phenomenon - it cuts across all cultures, religions and racial/ethnic groups. That should mean something.

Then again:

It's hard to see a responsible man intentionally state he wants to have a baby-mama arrangement.

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Juliearth(f): 2:55am On Jun 07
hartson:
compatible means 100%/100% both side.impossible





Compatibility doesn't necessarily connote a 100 percent match. In my opinion, it means both parties have an understanding of their strengths and weakness and one person's weakness is complimented by the other's strength. For instance, a man who hates eating out partnering with a woman who loves cooking, a woman who hates laundry partnering with a man who loves laundry...

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