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Time To Settle Down (13622 Views)
Juliearth(f): 3:02am On Jun 07 |
Adesolomon2014: I believe you are capable of rational thinking, so I would put this out here. There are real women out there who are working hard to carve a niche for themselves, but the false narrative being championed by yours likes won't give these women the visibility and the credit that they need because it is fueled by defeated men or men with mummy issues or men with narcissistic tendencies or men who are just ignorant enough to the slander campaign to prove a point. There are good and bad people and it is not gender specific. We have as many male jigolos as we do hookup girls... The good thing is that the signs are always there. This may come off as rude, but I will say it, anyways. Use your head and not your "head" to vet your women. 2 Likes |
Chief2410: 3:09am On Jun 07 |
Nnamdipapa:road trip to Gambia will cost like how much? |
Samantha125(f): 4:04am On Jun 07 |
Why?
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AngelicBeing: 4:32am On Jun 07 |
pocohantas:Hian , 57 crocodiles , like seriously, l know you are joking but continue 😂 Meanwhile, l am the one who called your house assistant to WORK SMART otherwise you will sack her , l have her and cell phone number 😜 |
Bukola94(m): 5:01am On Jun 07 |
CTee1:Ur girlfriend's, those you grow up together or those you have known for years. Tell your sisters, close family friends to link you up with their single sisters and cousins who are matured and ready to settle down. Where is your location? And what job or business are you into |
lusid: 5:22am On Jun 07 |
RichIgboBoy:make we tok? |
lusid: 5:24am On Jun 07 |
Bukola94:instead of telling him to go out and approach girls. Nawa for you |
lusid: 5:26am On Jun 07 |
Juliearth:are you married |
optm(m): 5:51am On Jun 07 |
Samantha125:so what happens in situations that he's not able to provide financially? Who has been providing for you before you met the man? This position of yours buttresses the narrative that the majority of women are not looking for life partners but burden bearers and providers. Marriage becomes transactional in these scenarios. 3 Likes |
SuperOnyi: 6:26am On Jun 07 |
![]() I'm in the toilet and something just came up in my head, now this is not directed at the OP. Despite my extensive knowledge of female psychology, I have avoided contributing to the rot in the society, I'm not perfect but at least I have done well compared to others. Some men would waste their youth fúcking around, teaching and encouraging moral decadence amongst our women; and just like worn-out feminists, they begin to look for a "good fearing" partner when it's time to "settle down." There's a heavy price for stupidity and if we do not pay for ours, someone else would — it could even be our children. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
CTee1: 6:36am On Jun 07 |
JobAndVacancies: No be today this setup start e no fit end tomorrow… tired |
emmaodet: 6:36am On Jun 07 |
Gerrard59: Which lane are you actually Gerrard? You always women being financially independent and mostly don't need men again nowadays since their is intimacy gadget and they can finance their own lifestyle. You also not shamming women for sexual liberation because it is their body and they can use it how they feel without men breeding down on them. Then, somehow you are worried the same men shouldn't go the babymama way because kids raised under this condition are mostly social misfit and such men are dead-beat dads. Let me tell you a truth - The moment we accept women sexual liberation aka women can be shameless without been judged, the "dead-beat dad" statement too goes out of the window. There are no more dead beat dads because you can't use a metric for a man while exonerating the woman. There can't be a jailer, if there are no prisoners. The same law that apply to a masquerade apply to a person using hijab because they are both covered. Nature will always find it's balance irrespective of human's sentiment or biasness. Lastly, no reasonable person invests where their interest is not protected. The men of olden days were not just responsible (this is debated anyway), ready to die for their women and fight for the village to protect their women and kids. They did that out of the personal conviction that the women are their properties. It is the same way you will fight to the end the land you buy and someone wants to take it away from you. But when you have properties that can be taken away from you easily without you saying love-vendor, that property becomes a risky investment to do. If investing my sweat on a lady/relationship, sometimes send her to school, put her on monthly payment, take her abroad etc and she can just wake up to say she is not doing again or give me a bastard or just cheating on me without any repercussion, rather am been laughed at to move on, then it is only natural that survival instinct will kick-off relationship-wise. It will never be about what the kids will turn out to be or whatnot, my survival, sweat, investment is on the line and nothing else people say or gaslighting or emotional blackmailing will do. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
IPG25(m): 6:46am On Jun 07 |
God loves 💕 u
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CTee1: 6:49am On Jun 07 |
Nnamdipapa: I’m confused… free or banned. Single or married. everything comes with a price. I want my own family bro |
CTee1: 6:57am On Jun 07 |
Bukola94: Construction company Lagos… Abeg help me |
CTee1: 7:06am On Jun 07 |
SuperOnyi: If you’re lucky you’d have a chance to set things right. The world has a balance system |
FalseProphet1(m): 7:09am On Jun 07 |
pocohantas:Please give me like 10 of the crocodiles, I want to use it for prayers. |
CTee1: 7:11am On Jun 07 |
Rexnegro: Two good head better 1…. Lets connect bro 2 Likes |
CTee1: 7:19am On Jun 07 |
Guest2008: Patiently waiting |
emmaodet: 7:22am On Jun 07 |
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emmaodet: 7:23am On Jun 07 |
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emmaodet: 7:25am On Jun 07 |
Olachase: Gbaunss!! |
Goldbw122(m): 7:32am On Jun 07 |
mjuvey3: Amen . That not replying DM is so annoying |
Ilekokonit: 7:34am On Jun 07 |
Rexnegro: Baba, not wanting to give birth out of wedlock has made a lot of men rush to marry a lady who got pregnant for them only to find out a few years into the marriage that they were not compatible. So, Baba, enjoy your singleness 'cos a large percentage of married folks are not happy and they feel trapped. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Michaeltreasure(m): 7:44am On Jun 07 |
Samantha125:God bless you for this comment. You will live long... 1 Like |
Breaker001: 7:52am On Jun 07 |
RichIgboBoy: Be descent 😎 |
Breaker001: 7:55am On Jun 07 |
lailo: 8:09am On Jun 07 |
Samantha125:But do u now submit despite the man playing his role of providing? Most married women contest headship of the home with their husband, a major reason why marriages are crashing. Women want to eat their cake and have it. Confused beings 3 Likes |
bigl: 8:32am On Jun 07 |
Picking a partner is not that black and white bro so, lower your so called standard and look at things from another perspective, then you'll find a partner!! Meanwhile, who u wan leave all those u don damage for street for ![]() CTee1: 1 Like |
temi4fash(m): 8:37am On Jun 07 |
MrMcJay: Oga McJay, Where have you being? Its good to have you back. Hope you good boss? |
Bananapill: 8:44am On Jun 07 |
CTee1:My advice is, don't look too hard or too far, because the wife material is usually closer than you think. Listen more than talking when you are with female friends or colleagues, you will hear the statement of a wife material. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Na so I take find my wife. 6 Likes |
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