NewStats: 3,263,990 , 8,182,179 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 08:08 AM 3k2r5i

cococandy:

It’s a rumor.

I heard that one mentally ill woman ate someone’s cat. But she’s even American so I don’t know how they managed to connect it to Haitians. Except that there’s a good population of Haitian immigrants in that area so obviously if anything goes wrong the racist people know their first reaction is to blame the immigrants

Oh I see. Thanks for the explanation.

Klass99:


E no reach to vex?

They came and told us our way of life and way of doing things wasn't the best. They imposed the English language on us, which truthfully, I don't mind because today that helps us to communicate with one another in a diverse country like mine.

What annoys me is how they put us (an English speaking country) through English proficiency
tests at a fee, when they are not perfect at it themselves. Career purge koh, career page ni! The brits just love to feel superior for nothing if you ask me and IELTS is another way of fleecing people.

It's their superiority complex that made me swear never to the English national football team. Even the Scots and the Irish seem to have beef with them.

What bothers me about the IELTS certificate is that the British Council deliberately sets its validity period to 2 years for most countries. This means you have to keep paying them repeatedly to demonstrate that you are still fluent in English. Mtcheeew!

cococandy:


It’s like someone challenged him to see how many of his core voters he can turn away at this point. Because none of this makes any sense. But again he’s always been like this. People are only just noticing

By the way Coco, that story about Haitian immigrants stealing and eating people's pets in Springfield, Ohio -- is it just a bad joke, or are the residents really losing their cats and dogs?

cococandy:
Dinner

Rice pilaf, chicken and broccoli

When I grow up I wanna be you.

Pilau/pilaf is my favourite rice dish. It's the East African jollof.

Klass99:

The other day I received an email from the British Council's recruitment team titled "career purge."

What they meant to say was career page, I shook my head and thought to myself, this is the body conducting IELTS exams for folks like me to enter their country. Tufiakwa, make I bend if I ever take that nonsense exams for the sake of migrating to UK, temporarily or permanently.

Hahahaha.....
You dey vex.

Proserpina:
Folaké does post some crazy weird preference Never have I imagined someone enjoying slapping men's buttocks

Sounds bdsmwxzy

Probably.
She's talked about liking quiet men. I suspect she terrorizes them behind closed doors.

ForUrgentSale:
I've removed every thought of marriage or having kids from my mind. I just want to live whatever time I have left and leave this wicked world. I don't care about legacies anymore

Is there a particular reason you feel this way if you don't mind me asking?

GloriousGbola:


So you better be on your best packaging when you meet the parents. All that I can dress anyhow I want is just story.

This is so obvious, I don't know why some people think they can just be "themselves" when meeting the parents.

That's actually the one time a girl who dresses like a woman of the night should consider modesty. Same goes for those guys who want to meet their potential in-laws with hair looking like Covid, while wearing ripped/torn jeans (I hate those things! )

folake4u:


I've abstained from men nau. But if I ever have a man, I will touch his bum. Non-negotiable.

Understood.

folake4u:


We no longer use the term "masturbation" for females. The word is so heavy and old school.

We call it "DJ" or "DJing" now. You can search it online.

The old school one we all know is the traditional type, while the use of vibrators is the "modern" type.

I say make I tell you as GenZ education.

***Jots down crucial points on notebook.

Proserpina:


I was shaking my head for Folake. That child haff spoil finish

I'm telling you.
Has she ever mentioned to you that she likes slapping men's buttöcks, despite the fact that I've warned her to stay away from men?

GloriousGbola:


You are a bad girl with good boobs. 🤔

Says a good boy with deadly gbola.

She's young. She'll learn.

chester23:
The same good girl will leave good boy to bad boys.
If a girl notices you are a good guy, she will just be manipulating you any how but will be extremely loyal to a bad guy

For the sake of this thread, what's your definition of;
1. Good girl?
2. Good guy?
3. Bad boy?
4. Bad girl?

Thinktank02:


The reason men stay in their abusive marriages is because men love women unconditionally in most case.
When a man marries a woman, he didn't get into that marriage casually, he makes a decisive stand and chooses to stay with the woman he married through thick and thin.

Women initiate 70% of divorce and move on quite quickly.
Men hardly get the they need after divorce, the blame is on him as a failed leader who cannot lead his home right.

So you see the man has most of the shame and blame for the failure of a home than the woman does.
I know a man whose marriage was dissolved by the wife, he didn't know my wife had knowledge to that information but whenever he sees her he talks as if they are still married.

Men don't love for fun, when they do marry, most men don't just bring a woman into thier house for cruise. They mean business.

A woman can marry because that's the available option at the time or marry because the man can provide. Once a better option shows up they jump ship or start moving crazy in the relationship.

The men have a lot of stakes in the relationship because the men have invested a lot into the relationship. Men pay bride price, sometimes train the woman, nourish and feed her for most part of the marriage. That's a huge investment. No matter how crazy the business is, many won't let go easily because their sweat is in the business.

That's why I encourage men to make their women invest heavily into the relationship so they won't just leave easily in times of difficulty.

Which unconditional love are you talking about? Puleeze!
Is the OP asking for advice on the best action to take in order to be away from a woman he loves unconditionally?

All his actions speak of a man who is fed up with his wife. From his write-up, he doesn't want to be around her at all.

essentialone:
I have read a lot from people's experience and advice about the dangers of carrying your wife abroad to the Western world, as they suddenly turn to beasts of the wild, with endless possibilities of meanness and wickedness to their husbands, over every minor issue.
I am not one of those who believe in all women are not the same jargons.
I am not also one of those who believe that people will change. Nope, people only reveal what they have been concealing, when place or circumstances change.
I also believe in learning from the experience of others, as it is better to be safe than to be sorry.
Now, I am in a dilemma.
1. Keep all the family here in Nigeria?
2. Relocate abroad alone and come back to visit wife and children from time to time?
3. Take the risk of relocating abroad to one country with wife and children?
4. Doing Visa for wife and children to country A with the pretense of ing them later, then fake that my Visa to them there was denied. While I actually do Visa for myself to an entirely different country, probably in a different continent.

Now this is the crux of the matter.
1. I love my children so much and would prefer them to grow up abroad in a country with better amenities and opportunities.
2. My wife has some aggressive attitudes that are not okay. While it can be managed in Nigeria by ignoring it, or walking away when it's heated, it can prove to be actually toxic and disastrous overseas.
3. The children are still too young to be allowed to travel alone with the Father.
4. Funds is not really an issue as I have suffered and struggled hard and raised something in the region of 9-figures.
5. And I do not like to personally remain in Nigeria. I am not one of your patriotic Nigerian citizens who will want to stay back and rebuild Nigeria. After all, even Tinubu and Buhari and Atiku and Obi lives abroad. 😂 This dilemma is what has delayed starting the process as I have already procured ports for the entire family.

If you are the one, how will you resolve this dilemma?

Do you still want to be married to someone you seem to hate?

ghettochild:

Very bad advice.
Knowing the wife has a bad character that's encouraged abroad.....
Lol, he shd discuss his fears with her do she can tell him she will b a good wife only to get there n change.
Dear OP, just jejeli go abroad,then bring ur 2 of ur kids in study n mk sure the one here goes to very good universities.
Then b coming home to visit. Then only do visiting visa for wifey to come visit..

Why is divorce such a difficult option for some of you guys? Why stay in a marriage where you want to be away from your spouse as much as possible? What kind of marriage is that?

If he cannot even trust his wife enough to live with her anywhere in the world, why should he be in that marriage in the first place? Na by force?

This has made me cry.
Sometimes one wonders why human beings were created.

So sickening!!

etrouble:
Pained Olosho has been used and dumped by Reno. Body go pepper her tire

Lmao!

How does a husband use and dump a wife? And why would he wife an olosho in the first place?

GloriousGbola:


right in front of them their nemesis landed wfh remote job - while they were trolling she was hustling. her quality of life has gone forward in a geometric progression, while the lives of her most aggressive detractors have regressed.

they are unable to learn from what is happening in front of them.

or unwilling to adapt to a new reality

She even created a topic and gave a detailed of her remote work journey -- how she came across the opportunity, the challenges she faced, the mistakes she made and what she learnt from them, how she enhanced her Upwork profile, etc.

She basically fed us with all the vital information required to pursue online work and instead of these young men to learn from such a thread, they still followed her there to troll her. Year-in, year-out they troll her while she's doing her best for herself. There's one troll in particular who is so dümb I don't even know how she engages him without losing brain cells. And he's as persistent as a mosquito. Multiple s for over a decade! I'd have pulled out all my hair by now if it were me being stalked by such a character. She's a soldier I'm telling you. Handling village people is no joke.

GloriousGbola:


10 years from now the women you are trolling would have gone even further in their careers and achievements and you will still be nothing but a failed troll sucking on my diik

That's what most of these boys do not seem to understand.

MrLibrarian:
I'm not simping for you oga.
I'm trolling you till you back off from pleasing the likes of Ishi-love co-co-candy Far-falla Pro-serpina Mag-noliaa fo-lake-4u Ma-riang-eles who is also the same person as Ju-wess-gratitude aka Mercy-Chen and the rest of those feminists.
All these anti-male comments you've been generating on this forum lately just to get into their good books and probably lay them WON'T WORK.
CHANGE YOUR FORMAT

Abeg, abeg, abeg.
Keep my name out of your mouth (** in Will Smith's voice).

folake4u:


But I like slapping/ touching men's ass sha.

See this pikin o!

GloriousGbola:


look at these fallen wayward women.

it is called procreation. its purpose is for the human race. not for any devilish things like 'orgasm' which make women wayward. you are supposed to lie down, close your eyes and think of the blessings of the lord

evidence that orgasms are fake.

does an orgasm even exist? it is as fake as squriting. in fact i have it on good authority that wet arse pussy is actually a sign of compromised sexual health as real women do not get wet. doctor shapiro said so

see what you devilish women have caused - my son was here when i was researching this critical information and he just uttered the words ben shario wet ass p*ssy

Since when is Ben Shapiro an authority on orgasm matters? The same Shapiro who thinks female orgasms don't exist? Mtcheeew..

For every fake orgasm, there's a real one Glorious. And they're not that difficult to achieve.

folake4u:


Them go still forbid Kama Sutra too.

Make I nor whine my waist ke? Abeg oh. These people need to be stopped.

Look at the comment of someone from the thread.

Which Kama Sutra? Just the thought of it will have some of them folks binding demons.

About that comment, where do we draw the line between what brings glory to God and what doesn't? That's the big question. There are no clear instructions in the bible concerning what's lewd and what's not, so people come up with all sorts of theories. Next you go hear that rubbing clit and moaning are "worldly" acts.

What I insist on however is that couples should never do what makes them uncomfortable. I don't subscribe to anal sex for instance and I have never understood how people can find pleasure in it, but oh well....

CountDooku:

What can be immoral with my spouse on our matrimonial bed kwa?

That's the big question.

folake4u:


Lmao.

There are some Christians that believe the only "godly" sex style is missionary. Doggy, reverse cowgirl, 69 etc are not "christian-like" of true believers.

I knew it! I was hoping the OP would respond so I can throw in more questions.

I've even heard a certain preacher preach against woman-on-top and doggy style. He claimed that a woman being on top usurps the man's authority as the head of the family, while doggy style is animalistic.

I wonder what else isn't "permitted"? Is whining your waist even allowed?

Wait a minute, why am I even having this conversation with a Gen-Z that I should be nurturing into a model citizen?

Immoral sexual acts with your husband or wife on the marriage bed.

Which one be immoral sexual acts with your spouse?

GloriousGbola:


Allow the silly boy. Unfortunately for him Coco is a hot woman. All he is going to do is make guys jealous of her husband. Oko omoge that can cook, is capable and is smart.

That's why the best he can do is make silly claims about bleaching

Then again like I said light skin chicks are dumb

She's hot mehn!! 🔥🔥

But that aside, the "Food" section is one of the few sane sections of NL. No bickering. No ad hominem attacks on people. Just people pictures of food and others appreciating them. I'm not an active participant here but I enjoy the maturity and peaceful coexistence of the forum here. I can't believe a member of Village People Association wants to ruin this beautiful thread.

About your last statement, let me finish practising my kung-fu kicks and punches. I'll be back.

GloriousGbola:


Good lord. How to it in public that you are a hardcore stalker who has an entire folder of every pic coco ever put up.

Holla911:


What do you look to gain with this show of foolishness by you. Are you so pathetic that you feel taunting others gives you joy ?

I have reported the clown. Violation of Rule no. 10.

Calitoscassius:
Well.. that is your problem if I didn't make sense to you.


You say it is hateful, that is your opinion. I see not nothing hateful, again, i stress! They made their private issues public so they got what they seek


Maybe i am not a normal human being to you, are they normal humans for coming on social media to tell us about their lives? what does a normal human being mean? Who is a normal humang being? Who dertermines which human is normal? You? The human you may think is not normal may be normal to other humans. Who gave you the right to say which humans are normal or not?

i will never meet them and i don't know them but they made their privete isuses public so now i know them. you don't know them either and would never meet them. So what is your problem?

You have never met me also but you have assumed that i am not normal.

May you find peace in your heart and healing in your soul.

Good evening.

2Radii:
Our responsibilities not mine alone...gbana!!

I did not imply that the responsibility is his alone. I was responding to his earlier post encouraging men to be selfish even if it means ignoring both wife and children.