NewStats: 3,264,780 , 8,184,695 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 11:14 AM 3x5w1w

smartlad:
Since when I get addicted to football betting I forget when last I used my own money buy a good food, clothes or something nice for myself.
All I think is how to source money and place a bet which always cut. I keep losing money but I couldn't stop. Isn't that a curse?
Gambling has turned me celibate, since when I get addicted to this shit, I forget how it feels to see a big assed lady bending over infront of me while I give it to her from behind. Unlike before that I buy nice things for myself and have enough sex.
But now, I always look dirty and busy because my mind is filled with strategies on how to defeat alabi, but whenever I try the strategies I end up being defeated.

Truly, I am tired of gambling, I miss my pre-gambling life.
Since when I sold my phone 2 years ago and lost the money to the bookmakers, I am unable to buy another one, the one I am currently using is one old android4 with a faulty screen giving to me by my brother.

Gambling is an illusion, a worthless venture and a grand exercise of futility desist from it guys if you truly care about your lives.
If there is a strategy to win constantly in betting the bookmakers wouldn't be here.



Gambling, sport betting has stopped me from living I am merely existing.

No money
No girlfriend
No good clothes
No phone
No happiness
Only frustrations upon frustrations

It seems that you are still interested in betting, but just that you are not winning? Yes, you didn't state anywhere that you want to stop.

If you want to stop it, then it's easy.
Follow these steps:


1. Stop believing, hoping and thinking that you will make it big in betting one day! Although it's possible, but it's not guaranteed.

2. it that you made a mistake going into betting.

3. Accept your losses.

4. Don't try to get your money back by placing more bets.

5. Understand that you didn't have a sure strategy that can help you win all the time.

If you understand that you don't have a sure strategy that can help you win the game, then you will know that there is no need for you to place the bet in the first place.

6. Start all over again.
It's not too late to start all over again. Get a new profitable activity that will replace betting in your life. Then spend all your time and focus all your energy on that new activity.
If it will demand that you learn new skills, then start immediately.

7. Stop betting entirely for now.
Don't continue the betting journey again at this time. Otherwise it will get to a point where the spirit of suicide will come after you.

Let me stop here.

But just so you know why I took time to point you in the right direction with warning?

I'm someone who believei that someday, maybe by miracle, a sure strategy that will guarantee constant winning all the time will be created and made available to humans.

As a matter of fact, I have been working endlessly to create such a strategy for the past six years!

And I will put it to you right here that betting is one of the most difficult system to understand and master in the world.

RollinTNDA:

Looking back at that incident in 3D
I was too Nice to her and it backfired so badly..
Forget about the life saving incident
Lets focus on what happened after that.
We got to hangout after that incident. As a guy i took her out and ate and talked. During the discussion
From her own mouth she said

" i like guys that are very honest with me, if you smoke tell me you smoke, if you drink tell me u drink if you womanize tell me instead of hiding it from me. I dont respect a man that will hide and do those things and cover it up"

Now mumu me was blushing like Sabinus, telling her that im a very honest guy. That infact im brutally honest. All of a sudden i began to tell her my secrets to prove that im a very honest guy..SMH

The girl was just giving me adlibs like migos.. Oh wow, seriously, OMG and mumu me was just rapping and exposing things that my family dont even know about.

And she was gaslighting me to tell her more...

Seeing the whole thing backfire to the point neigbours heard about it and it was like the whole compound began to See me finish.
Bro it felt like a real stab to the heart and it changed me for life.
The way i view women now
It will take 10000 years for me to go back to being a nice guy i was last year.

In this life, our experiences is what help reveal our true natures. And I think your experience with the girl in question was just a little test to reveal your true color. The beast you are now ready to let loose was actually in you all along waiting for the right time and opportunity to come out.

I followed your story, and I want to put it to you that you didn't help the girl for free.
Yes, there was a hidden desire that was driving you. You didn't go through all that and helped her because you were a nice person, no. Something was actually driving you -- your desire to be with or have her.

To make it simple for you, answer this question; If it was one ugly girl that had same issue, will you have done it for free because you are a nice person?

In the process of you trying to take advantage of the situation, you broke many rules. And that's why you failed in making that beautiful angel your girl.

Next time, try to follow the rules. Let your intention be genuine or pure and you will be fine.

Sirchiboy:
Nothing you go tell me.
Na today I believe am.
I see am with my monkey eye.
Nothing like work hard or pray for grace.
Is your spirituality that will determined if you will succeed or not.
I can not count number of opportunity i have missed because I am not spiritually activated to see those golden opportunity to grab.
If your spiritual life is dead omo even if they dash you million, you go still go back to square one.
So this life na spiritual kai

You didn't missed those opportunities because you were not spiritually activated.
Rather, you missed them because you were not ready for them. No level of spirituality will make you recognise an opportunity that you are not ready for

Zonefree:
To the lady, the 25k has much value than the 500k.

Nigerian women cherish money gotten from sharing kpekus than money you dash them.

An average woman respects and adores a man that always gift her 10k after lashing than a man that sends her 300k without seeing her pant.

To retain your self esteem and dignity as a man, learn to make sex transactional, even with your partner.

To simps, stop sending women money unnecessarily. It doesn't grow love... besides, Nigerian women don't love.

Women don't care much. If you like buy them a house. They will knack another man right inside that house.

Samantha125:
Sounds like you had a happy ending to me...

Of course. I was speaking from experience when I said you were lucky those guys you secretly crush on didn't come for you.

Samantha125:
What happened?

Back then in high school, there was this beautiful black angel that was every guys dream. She was so beautiful that almost all the guys were chasing her. I was secretly crushing on her. Unknown to me that she was also doing her own secret crushing. Then all of a sudden, she started coming after me. And because I was already fallen for her, I couldn't resist the temptation.
She finally have her way and caused me to entered her Jerusalem

Samantha125:
I'd have been in serious trouble...

Yes, very serious trouble because the door was already opened for them to come in

I've been in such a situation before and something happened

Samantha125:
I've never been tempted to cheat, but I have had some secret crushes here and there.

I think that's just part of life, there'll always be that one person that you find to be very attractive out there apart from your husband or wife... What matters is how you handle that crush.

You are lucky those secret crushes didn't come for you.

Nezy4Real:


This is someone I wish to marry. If I can’t be assured of her loyalty shouldn’t I be worried?

You are too weak! You tolerate too much nonsense.

Pennywise2:
was waiting for you to say this. I will not advice you. But everything I read now tells me she is not your wife. W hat happen to helping and moving on?

Red flags everywhere.

I prefer the other question: what happens to collecting your own share and move on?

Goodmarlian:
Once tinubu loose 2027 this man is finished so make una rig am una best of else this man fit turn beggar

No past governor of Rivers State who successfully completed 4yrs in power will ever turn beggar

galadima77:


100% on point about the nature's pattern... Until one's able to break the generational curse, the pattern continues. It's true but few pay attention to such.

Edited
I think nature is trying to a message to humans by maintaining such a pattern through all generations. But it appears humanity is too busy that they fail to understand. Many people are not even aware of this unbreakable fact. As a result,there is too many human induced problems in the world today. It's not only in relationships that such pattern applies. It's applied to other aspects of our lives.

An employer who sacked a well dedicated honest worker without a just cause will get careless criminal worker in return. It's becoming extremely impossible to get two good experiences back to back when we are defaulting.

Look at Nigeria today? Do you know that Nigerians are going through hell because they rejected a good man? A man that will not sacrifice others for his personal ambition.
This APC government is a punishment of Nigerians for rejecting a good president and there is no telling when it will end?

I actually stumbled on the knowledge by experience and observations.

Am not sure if there's any cure once the pattern is created and set into motion. But it appears there is a second chance if one is lucky enough.

Sirchiboy:
E no go better for you .
30 years you will go trophy less insha Allah .
My 500k make i want start life .
You just wasted it..

Chelsea you will keep losing

Sorry about the loss. Next time if you must play, play with caution.
Know that it is a matter of luck. I'm sure you won't be cursing the blues if you were lucky and won?

Flows001:
Yes.

My current babe is a perfect example of such a lady.

The shocking thing is that she is even Gen Z, but she never behaves like one, she is a gem, sometimes I even wonder whether she stays elsewhere and not in this same Nigeria where ladies have turned relationship into a business and survival strategy...

My babe knows I work and earn well, but she never talks anything about money with me, this same babe can't go a day without hearing from me atleast twice, if I don't call, she does the calling and we could talk for about 30minutes on her own airtime, she works too and makes her own money.

It's been 3years since we started dating, but she has never asked for any favour from me.

Well, I noticed she is too shy to ask me for anything, like, the words always seem heavy for her to say to me despite how playful and close we have become over the years. So what I mostly do is that I just send her stuff from my heart and she genuinely appreciates even if it's 5 Naira she receives from me.

Before I forget, she also gets me gifts occasionally, and she also sends in airtime to me once in a while, even though I've pleaded with her to stop sending me airtime, babe has refused to stop...

I used to think Nigeria was cursed with materialistic ladies until I met my babe. Truly, better bannies still dey Naija, make the singles dem never finish lose hope..

Of course there is plenty good women out there. Just like there are good men too. One just need good luck to meet them

Samantha125:
They take such women for granted.

Am guilty of this and I paid dearly for it. Though in the past. Now, I appreciate and cherish all true love that comes my way

yarimo:
WIKE you are the best governor of rivers state in the history of that State.

No. Is not Wike but Rotimi Amaechi.
Both of them are good, however, each of them have issues. The issue of Amaechi is Bitterness.
While the issue of Wike is greed.

Samantha125:
The guy's mother loves her so much that she even secured a piece of land as their wedding gift, but my sister says she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to live far away from our family house.

Already she has issues with the guy's family and honestly, we her family have seen nothing but love from the guy's family.

Your sister was supposed to embrace this opportunity with two hands. In a time where single ladies without kids are looking for who to marry them. She with two kids is rejecting such opportunity!

Apart from the fact that she didn't love the guy, there seems to be an underlying unknown problem created by either of them (your sister or the guy) in the past.

You seems to have a good heart and you want the best for your sister. But unfortunately, there's very little you can do in this case.

Just seat back and watch how things unfold for them.

As for the mother in-law to be, why is her love not being reciprocated?

I don't know her and her family or whatever might have happened in the past. But I strongly suspect that she might have rejected a previous good girl from her son and she will have her own share of the punishment if her son eventually marries your sister.

mekuso89:
Well if that is so, then I think the duo are in a serious spiritual problem. Most especially the lady in question she might have something to settle with her water spirits if not she may still become single again

It has nothing to do with water spirit. It's purely bad energy playing out or manifesting.

Either of them created the bad energy in the past.

willi926:
When ever I see ur topic, I dey rush open am because, it's kind of funny how only u go get this kind of vices. Ashawo ontop betting habit and then down to owing loans. U strong sha.

Have you checked his name?
Do you know why he chooses such a name?
I think he's trying to fulfill his destiny

Samantha125:
I just hope she'll change, because I really feel bad for the guy.

There is a pattern I have observed in nature. And it seems that is what is playing out in the case of your sister. She will not change. Infact, she will even get worse with time.
If they eventually marry, then the guy in question must have signed up to a lifetime of misery.

There is a high possibility that the guy in question have previously hurt, maltreat or disappointed a good girl that truly loved him.
And your sister is his punishment for rejecting an angel.

Factcheck0001:
life is truly unfair

With things wey I don see I no dey counsel any young lad again

Just go out there n do what pleases u cos even those we think live right end up badly most times n those we think live wrong end up good

If tinubu can become president despite his life n shits he did n still live to see old age Wetin come remain?

I don't think life is unfair. We I do think is that we have limited knowledge of life or nature. So we don't really understand the manifestation of things and why?

Each time I wondered about life and it's manifestations, my conclusion is always one thing: "Destiny ". I strongly suspect destiny as a major factor that is driving life's manifestations

adeoyekay:
Guy you are 100% on point
Your points is valid

Money is a spirit, and it brings happiness

Most actrocities people are committing today is as a result of lack of money

To religion level, if you get money THE CHURCH will value you even the so called holiness is our watchword

In this life just have money 90% of your problem is solve

No, money is not a spirit. Money is powerful.

Animegirl:



How powerful is my mind, hmm.

You see, what you men want vs what I want is quite different. I'm unlucky meeting guys who don't align with mine. Moreover I'm not obsess with power, I just want to be successful and wealthy.

I'm not sure if you are unlucky meeting the kinds of guys that will your dreams.
Maybe your mind is not yet ready for success.
Maybe your desire for success is still a wish and weak.

What I'm sure of is that when your desire for success becomes an obsession and strong enough, you will activate the law of attraction and then the right men will begin to come your way.

Let me tell you right now that your desire is just at it's primary stage. You need to move it to it's secondary stage where your true desire for success will be tested.
Then, if you the test, you will become whatever you want to be and achieve the wealth that is available to you.

But if you fail the test, then you have to kiss your dreams goodbye.

epainos:


Nice one there.

I recommend that you add logic to it as well. Knowing coaches and players is logical because it allows you to learn about their strengths and weaknesses. Then use math to award points. There should be a place for reasoning, logic, and watching as many games as possible in order to master the system.

Above all, please ensure that you have a steady source of income. This is extremely important.

Best of luck, sir.

Thanks for the advice.
But you see, base on my findings; the soccer system beat logic. Plus no matter how you watch them play, you can't really tell what will happen all the time. I don't even watch matches. No.

What I do is to capitalize on the bookies knowledge to create and develop my data base. The data is provided by the bookies as Odds.

Attached to this reply are samples of my data base just so you have an idea of what your brother is building.

Observe carefully and you will see that there are no football teams, country or leagues in the data base. The Codes represent the teams, countries and different leagues of the world.

There are also blue and red colors. Red color is a no go area. One must not predict or bet on such match.

My system does not consider team's past wins or losses.. it doesn't consider the position of a team on the table. The only consideration of my system is a team's strength of the moment or at the moment for the match in question.

My method is entirely different and first of it's kind.

Take a look below

epainos:
Lol! This is an interesting thread.

Sport betting is a form of gambling that most people struggle to master. Of course, I would not play it in Nigeria because the owners or operators of online betting sites can easily cheat players. This is the truth. So, if you play it in Nigeria, you can expect to be destroyed eventually.

It is a different game in a well-regulated setting. Sport betting has been around for a long time in the UK, and most of our grandparents bet with UK-based companies. Those grannies you saw with red, blue, green, and other single-color sheets at bus stops back then were into it. Of course, the majority of them were losers. Why?

Our grandfathers were losers because they knew nothing about probability, logic, or reasoning. How many of them can even solve a simple algebraic equation? Gambling is a mathematical game with probabilities. And you use the pattern there to make decisions. So, you need an analytical mind to master it. How can they master it when they are always with bottles of alcohol? Lol. A skill that you need to be composed to get done. Lol.

It is exactly the same with trading. Trading forex, futures, stocks, bonds, and other financial markets is nearly identical. OK. Forex trading is bad...right? But you buy stocks of companies and call it an investment. Lol. Education is important mehn!

So, I am just smiling at everyone here saying Sport betting is a curse. If so, stocks purchasing is a curse too. Lol.

The main issue here is that forex and sports betting are so simple to get started that everyone just jumps in. However, intelligence outweighs having a Ph.D. Lol. You can imagine that if proper screening is performed, 99.999% of those involved in sports betting and forex trading in Nigeria are unqualified to do so. Period.

Qualification
1. You are prepared to master an evergreen skill that will earn you money for the rest of your life.
2. You already have a source of income that will you for at least five years.
3. If you still live with your parents, you have mastered contentment. In fact, most children should avoid it because they struggle with contentment.
4. You are somewhat proficient in mathematics.
5. You possess a high intuitive skill.
6. You can train your analytical mind.

Trading is preferable to sport betting in Nigeria.

Duration of mastering trading
Minimum of 1 year, and can extent to 5 years. During the first stage, you are to use only a demo after rigorous study. It should not be less than 6 months.

What next?
To see patterns, you must first process data from your chart and then interpret it. This is why mastery of trading requires analytical skills.

Backtesting is very essential
Once you have identified enough patterns, thoroughly backtest your findings. This is where probability comes in. And this is where I help most people. You need to know your win-loss ratio and then map it to the appropriate risk-reward ratio. This way, you will be able to know which trades to take and which not to. This is where most traders fail. And this is where I assist my friends (only my network... one must be careful with losers that will damage ones reputation, and not to run into trouble with the authority if tou are in a well regulated place...and this is why good traders dont take money anyhow to trade...run away from anyone soliciting for investment from every Jack and Jerry) who are presently trading. I do not teach trading because there are so many free online resources available, but I do try to show friends who trade how to backtest effectively, and so far, some have improved to become better traders.

After going through the above proces for almost a year, you will spend between $25 and $600 (an amount you can afford to lose) to open a prop firm or live with a broker with an amount you can afford to lose after extensive backtesting. What is your assignment here? Not for profit, but to defend this for as long as possible. I defended mine for more than a year before I began profiting. So, do you see why you need an income and months of study, practice, and review before you can master trading?

So, tell me, did our grandpas do all this? How many of today's gambling boys go through this process? Do they even have the IQ to do what I described above? Think about these things. You want to do the same thing Wall Street gurus do, and you think you can lay around with sachets of alcohol gambling at Nigerian bus stops?

If you want to learn an evergreen skill that will make you very comfortable in life, you should read this post again. It takes between one and five years to begin making a profit. Can you find a source of income first? And then, can you defend your first investment against losing it for a year or more?

Good luck to everyone.

Like seriously, you just described my experience.

For over five good years, I have been studying soccer and playing bets without a single win!

As I matter of fact, am actually developing a Tracking System for soccer and virtual games.

A system that will track matches and provide options that cannot fail for people to bet on.

And guess what? The system is pure numbers! Completely mathematical figures

The system, when completed successful, is set to rake in billions of dollars from across the world.

But to be honest with you, I'm actually trying to accomplish the impossible!

Baldwretch:


@Bolded: Thank you.

Watching teams play live enables a punter to make informed decision, but there is more to it.

I used to avoid FC Monaco when they cut my ticket sometimes back, but man, I watched them play yesterday.

Those Monaco guys have ballers oo! Awon agba ballers. They sabi ball, no be lie.

But you see, despite how good a team might be, and despite how often we watch team play live, there would come a time when they lose back to back.

And this loss is caused by different factors: The Referee's bias or poor judgment. One or two missing key playmakers. The Pysche or emotional well-being of the players. The length or type of stadium the match is being played in. The spectators. A red or yellow card especially to some crucial players. The football used to play the match, hahaha. The side they are starting the match from. The wastefulness of the losing team. Even the type of goal the opposition team score them first with. These reasons and more might sound quite ridiculous, but they might influence some games (and cut your ticket) to some extent. This is often beyond one's ability to predict.

I think all good teams have bad spells, but some last longer than others.

Regardless, gambling as you said, is still a game of luck and winning one's bet especially for several accumulations is a wild stroke of luck even though the game of football itself is largely a skill-based game.

If you like Pick Man City to defeat Kano Pillars at the Etihad - if it will cut, it will cut.

You are welcome.
You've said almost all the reasons why games cut. It shows that you are watching closely. Observe more closely and pick your team with care.
Like I said earlier, it will help increase your profit and reduce your loss.

Baldwretch:


Sorry about this. To lose 3k in this current regime no easy.

If you want to put good money on a sporting event, it should be a norm to watch them play live from time to time. Relying on the odds the bookies give is doing less than the barest minimum. Gambling should be a full-time business for people who put good money; although watching teams play is no indication that our predictions would play out as predicted.

Did you watch Madrid vs. Stuttgart or Stuttgart vs. Sparta Prague? If you did, you should be aware that this Stuttgart team is a team to be feared and weary of. I would not near the home team with a nine inches pole no matter how good they are when Stuttgart are playing away from home.

I watched their match against Sparta and they outplayed Sparta Prague really hard. Omo, since that day, I dey look dem with one kind eye. Even when the bookies gave Bayern 1.36 odds to defeat them, I just , and yet, Bayern won 4 nil.

There's a lot of sense in this post. Betting should be taking seriously. It will help to maximize profits and reduce losses.

Is a game of luck no doubts. But there is a place for intelligence

olamoses75:
and that girl is taking doggy from a random street guy that doesn't send her papa. A woman can fall in love with a guy that just helped her change the car engine oil, forgetting the guy that bought the car for her. That gender ehn..... Make I no talk.

The issue with women is that they don't care that much. They also don't think twice. They can take decision and change their minds within minutes.

Perhaps this is the most dangerous and favorable aspect of women

Sparrk007:
This is the reason I don't want to see any man close to my wife, be you neighbours, church and co workers infact I had to stop her from her hospital work and open a chemist for her. Stay away from someone wife bikonu

Sorry, but you cannot stop your wife if she wants to cheat on you. Except it is by her own decision not to cheat, all these your efforts will just be in vain.

Do you follow her to the market?

Sharingiscaring:

Please, can you tell me how I'll be hurt by continuing to share this story? Plus, you said I should seek advice, and I've received many helpful pieces of advice here already. If I go to someone offline to seek this same advice, the rumor might spread and become more harmful. So, I'll appreciate it if you let me know how sharing this on a faceless forum can hurt me as you said. I'm open to advice. Thanks 🙏

The continuation of sharing this story means that:

1. You are not only keep the thought of sleeping with her alive, you are also giving more power to such thought. If you are familiar with how thoughts works, you should understand that it ( the thought ) will eventually seek expression and you will sleep with her.

2. The consequences. You can never tell how it will end.

Any advice? Yeah, I got some practical advice for you. If you genuinely don't want to sleep with her and you are serious about it; here is what you should do?

1. Start avoiding her. Avoid any close proximity with her.

2. Stop staying at home with her. Find somewhere you can be staying to do your work snce you work from home. A friend place is better.

3. Stop sharing this story so you don't find reason to be with her to keep updating the thread.

4. Relocate if possible. Yes, leave that environment. This option is the hardest but it's the best to remedy your situation.

4. Reverse your thoughts towards her. How?
End the romantic thinking about her. Activate brotherly thought and see her as your sister. The problem with this option is that she might not think the same way. But it will help you

5. DANGER!! Imagine that you are caught in the act and your life is shattered and destroyed. The consequences can be very severe if caught. You could end up in jail got poisoned by the husband. It can ultimately lead to untimely death!

Sharingiscaring:

This is about the 6th time I'm facing such a temptation. Yet, I've never fallen. I hate olosho, but instead of me to Bleep a married woman, I'll move into town and look for pay as you go. So, don't worry, I'm never going to give in.

You're saying she has not started liking me. But, you'll see as I continue this story, how she has been checking me out. Most of these Gen Z girls no get conscience at all.

Your decision to keep sharing this story may eventually hurt you. Instead of you to seek for advice on how to escape if you really don't want to do it, you decided to be sharing the story. How do you think it will end?