NewStats: 3,263,903 , 8,181,807 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 04:53 PM 1d3p2g

Picking a partner is not that black and white bro so, lower your so called standard and look at things from another perspective, then you'll find a partner!!

Meanwhile, who u wan leave all those u don damage for street for

CTee1:


Looking for someone who shares my values: family oriented and God centered

Looks like a stun gun .... its good to have that in traffic jam cos of boiz wey dey break car glass to rob ... pray u don't encounter them for lagos

Naturalgbola:
If its not real, what's a pastor doing with toy gun 🔫??

Eeya, sowie my dear brother....

Sometimes, life happens to us and we need to just simplify it, a lil bit ...

Lemme start by asking u about school ... did u, say, attend kinda tertiary education? Even if na Ond, lemme know!

Now, do u have any marketable skill that people will be willing to pay you for?

Talking about your present leverage, are u living with your parents or living alone

What are the stuffs you've tried over the years that have not worked??

See, whatever present condition we find ourselves, its always and almost based on the decisions we took in the past....

So, lets both figure this out ... then i may be able to profer one or 2 things u can do to move up and outa the trenches ...

As per DM, nairaland doesn't have the feature or else, i would have preferred to have a one on one discussion with u.

Stay blessed!!!

Cleanthes:
I am tired of living in uncertainty and lack, I want to start living in prosperity and abundance. I am 29 years old but very poor and struggling, my net worth is 7k despite the fact that I am not lazy.
I do a lots of hard labours to survive but I always don't have money. All my money is for food and data, if I spend two days without working I starve. I am tired of this life style. It hurts me seeing my mates/friends living in abundance, eating and drinking what they want, buying nice clothes and going out with beautiful girls, while I always work hard, eat and sleep. I can't afford any good life.
All my friends I grew up with are doing better than me, it got me thinking that I am under a,spell or what? Or my village people are after me, why all my efforts are in vain? For 29 years on earth I still have nothing and feed myself with difficulty.

I want to change my life. Maybe I am following a,wrong path or maybe there is something that I dont know about money.
I create this thread, to seek for ideas and solutions about my situation, truly I want to enjoy life before I kpai, and to enjoy life I need to be successful with money.
Anybody that has an idea that will change my life and make money flow to my side please share with me for that I truly need it. I am tired of toiling inside a blazing sun everyday and earn a meagre amount that won't solve my issues. I want to start earning smart for that I realized its how people get rich not by working hard, hard works give waist pain and backache.
My DM is open

Eeya ... mine picked up and started working again after some hours ... but e don get small belle (pregnancy)

I still dey use am sha ...

Paystack:

Same here

Thank God for whoever brought the matter to court and the quick judgement/order given!!!

There should be a law against this rubbish religion ... So their religion permits life to end than to take blood transfusion??

I can bet with my left ball that even their so called head would have taken blood transfusion secretly at some point time while telling their followers to not do it!!!

OLAADEGBU:


Regrettably, the parents of Ruth declined, stating that they were of Jehovah's Witnesses and their faith did not allow blood transfusion.

Its like lending money to the government .... And get paid with interest.

If u get energy well well and have 50 million, u can buy directly from cbn but if u are super broke like moi, then u can buy from 3rd party fellas like your commercial banks and i think for as low as 100k or so ...

Tenure/maturity is 3 months, 6 months and 1 year ... they all have their interest rates

Smilleydr:
pls can you explain what s Treasury bill for me, pls and how it operate.

Apart from the Catalytic converter, there are some other tiny but important components in the car that affects/impact fuel consumption!!!

One of the major culprits is your ECT (engine coolant temperature) sensor ... When u start the car in the morning, it tells the computer to pump fuel into the cylinder so it can reach an operating temperature (Open Loop) ... when the operating temperature has been reached, then it goes into Close Loop (normal fuel consumption) and hands over the fuel management to the Oxygen Sensors (popularly called O2 sensors)...

If that sensor is bad, then is stays in open loop forever, consuming fuel ...

Your oxygen sensors might also be dirty ... You are supposed to clean them or replace them the moment u get a used or tokunbo vehicle.

These cars are not built to consume so much fuel by design but due to our kazeems tampering with some stuffs to keep us coming back every week, dem go guzzle your fuel...

Your gear, if the oil is dirty/brownish colours and smells burnt, needs a change and that will also aid in it down shifting to lower power gear which in turn affects fuel consumption.

From my experience, these are the stuff that will affect your fuel consumption.

BlindAngel:
Hello Nairalanders, as y'all can see from my previous threads, I bought a 2008 toyota camry July last year, the fuel consumption was something else and totally out of this world, I went from mechanic to mechanic, to detect and get It resolved, but the fault remained the same, nothing changed. So August last year, I bought a 2012 corolla, but it seems It also consume fuel which I didn't realized until I stormed upon a thread here on Nairaland, I came to this conclusion when I saw a thread on Nairaland titled "how much fuel per km does your car consume" I clicked on the thread and read all the comments and to my surprise, my corolla consume more fuel than those using v6 cars, a guy commented that his Toyota Venza goes 490 miles for 40k fuel, which is approximately 42 liters, I saw another comment where a guy stated that his camry goes 270km for 20k fuel.

Whereas my 2012 corolla goes 150km for 30k fuel which is approximately 31L of fuel. This Is the 5th time I have timed and calculated it's fuel consumption, the first I got 150km for 30k fuel, the second I got 144km for 30k fuel, the third I got 152km on 30k fuel, the forth, I got 146km on 30k fuel and the last which was four days ago, I got 149km on 30k fuel. I used "km" because my corolla gas milage reads in km and not miles.

Nevertheless, upon realizing this, I got a Nigerian used 2008 camry yesterday, the engine Is in great shape "very silent" but my mechanic I went with to purchase It warned me that there's no catalyst on it, In which I still proceeded in purchasing it, as I intended buying a catalyst for it tomorrow morning. I'm yet to test it's fuel consumption because I'm unable to drive It yet because my papers are not yet ready.

I have not sold my 2012 corolla yet, I told myself that If it consumes just like the corolla or consumes slightly just above the corolla, then I would sell my corolla, but If it consumes far more than the corolla then I would sell the newly bought camry and continue using my corolla.

For those using the 2007, 2008 or probably 2009 camry, what's your fuel consumption How many miles/km does your car goes per liter

Below are the pictures of my corolla and my newly bought camry.

Treasury bills ... run the quarterly (3 months) plans and keep re-peating ... its about 10 to 18 percent ... Its safer than all those CBEX stuff

Roseodd:
I need an urgent advice please.
Should I use my 4million to buy Treasury bills,or mutual funds.
Or I should just buy the mini bus and drive.
Urgent answer needed please

Now u see say, the airforce are justified for going to their office to beat them up

Distribution companies are our enemies ... and until their heads are sacked or jailed, they will continue this their drama

SalamRushdie:
This can't be true that a whole deputy governor is finding it hard to get metered ?

Good question seun and this tells me you're very intelligent!

1. Ability to show what we feel about someone's post - like, love, angry, shouting etc ...
2. Escrow services - yeah ... a lot of transactions happen on nairaland and to ensure people don't get scammed of their hard earned money, i feel nairaland can have escrow services (like an intermediary - hold funds from buyer, hold & inspect item from seller) ensure both gets to each party - not free sha ...

Those 2 for now ... if any other ones come to mind, i'll drop em!

Thanks once more for creating nairaland!

Seun:
Hello Guys,

I'm throwing this question to you because it's very important. Every time I ask, "how is Nairaland?" I'm told that it is fine. If I ask what are the challenges I'm told there are none.

So I need to talk to you guys directly about what you think is going on and what you want us to do. I have not had the confidence to make major changes on Nairaland. I have a little confidence now because of AI.

What are your complaints, your challenges, your issues. What are the things that can drive people away and need to be nipped?

Speak your mind, but don't be rude. Thanks.

Well, the question you should ask your mind and body is, why are u not attracted to such a good girl

If i'm in your shoes, i'll marry her ... rather than those "spec ladies" that might end up not giving u peace of mind ...

Most times, the bigger the assets, the more likely you'll not be able to control its access ...

Learn to love this lady ....

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she s me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that s her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

Use Iphone 11 swap for Samsung S10? E choke oooo

hunterezi:


Make we swap with my samsung s10e

That's not bad .... I'm eyeing their 800w or 1800w version ... But the money tough small

coolie1:


Not that great maybe like 8 hours. But I want to pair mine with solar so it can be unlimited during the day.

Nope, i disagree .. most have not backslided but have been discourage by various factors ... one of which is pastors attitude these days ...

U can't claim to be a pastor and talk to me anyhow cos i play keyboard for your church ... it will take the grace of God for us not to have a verbal encounter ...

That's why most people prefer to stream services of other churches at home and have a peaceful sunday ...

AngelSlay:
Many Christians have backslided from attending church service due to one reason or the other.

I am no here to judge, I only wish you can tell us your peculiar reason for you to stop attending church and hopefully someone might be here to advice you on what to do.

No one is perfect, we all learn from birth to death always have a open heart to the endless possibilities been alive.

Don't be fooled by the "ikoyi thingy"

Get married at any registry in lagos and use your document to travel out!

The ikoyi thing has been debunked since na ... why waste money?

Hope u know dem go bill u well well there sha

Safe trip o

Hagiazomakai:
There have been a lot of debates on whether Federal Registry is more authentic than Local or State Government Registry?

Well I am not here for that though but Federal is still superior though you can use both certificates to travel abroad as it is acceptable in embassies all around the world.

Moving forward


I will do another thread on what to expect when going to Ikoyi Registry.

Aircoolers actually work ... i've not bought those big ones shown in your post but a small portable one i bought, proved that they are not bad.

However, i'll not buy aircooler, rather, i'll buy 1 hp portable ac ... infact i saw one inverter type sef which saves 70% energy (LG of course)...

That's a better option ... and buying as tokunbo is the best way to save money cos the brand new price can kill ...

The toks are about 100 to 200k depending on how much greed dey the sellers eyes

Asamota:
I've been reading a lot of from Europeans and Americans, but now I would like to hear from someone living in Nigeria.

Are air coolers worth it?

Running ACs at night with an inverter costs an arm and a leg. The only alternative I can think of now is air coolers.

Have you used air coolers in the past, do you currently use one today?

Is it really better than a standing fan?

Are u buying the ecoflo solar s or the regular solar s

I'm asking so as to know steps to take when i get mine too ... Thanks

coolie1:


Not that great maybe like 8 hours. But I want to pair mine with solar so it can be unlimited during the day.

Well, try some low brow areas where u can get room and parlour self con for less than 500k sha ... na low brow area o ... and no POP ...

Na all those POP, terazzo or all walls tiled dem dey take chop u ...

Rent for low brow area and enjoy peace of mind ...

Funny thing is, all those 2 million area, some associated bills might still show up that you won't ever envisage and the agents won't tell u so consider your options carefully ....

To me, staying in low brow area is a great way to save money ... rather than dashing away your hard earned money to these agents

concho:
I have a business that will keep me in Lagos for 18 months, so I decided to secure accommodation before relocating—I hate being stranded.

Knowing that rent on the island is quite high, I focused my search on Main land .

Omo, the cheapest room and parlor apartment I found was ₦1.2M, with a total package of ₦1.6M. Another agent even quoted ₦2M as the total package for the same type of apartment.

I’d love to get some insight into how much you all are paying to see if these agents are overpricing or trying to rip me off.

Also, if you have any advice on renting in Lagos for a JJC like me, please share.
Thanks 🙏

You should understand that some people are at war with themselves ... how do u think such people won't be at war with anybody they see around them

Try as much as possible to avoid interacting or getting over familiar with your neighbours ...

In our former place, one single mother wants to borrow money without giving it back ... infact, we got so familiar that if her gas finish, she would come beg us to use our cooking gas ... na we cause am ... we learnt the hard way ...

In current our place, i stay upstairs but u see the neighbours downstairs, won't light up (put bulb) on the path that leads to their apartment but wetin concern me? They recently killed a snake that almost bit one of their kids ... u know, i came back from work to see them all gathered ... but you will think they will be sensible enough to buy 1k bulb so as to avoid walking in the dark after what happened but na lie, till now, they don't care ... me sef just face front ... the day snake bites someone, that's when they will learn ...

Bro, caution your people against having interactions with your troublesome neighbours ... if possible, avoid spreading clothes when the others will ... if u have a washing machine, spin those clothes till they will need just 10 mins sun to dry ...

As per those clips thing, mark all your clips or study what they are using ... buy something waaay different and avoid borrowing from them ...

If while the altercation was happening, she falls down and out, hope u know say, na manslaughter

Na money to chop we dey all find o ...

Jozilinn:
I have noticed that people don't like peace,they would just use it as an opportunity to step on you, brush you even chop you .

There's this guy that just got married where I stay the wife wanted to collect clips from my cousin sister and she said she doesn't have, she started saying that she doesn't want to bring it out. Next thing she hot in and brought out the clips which wasn't even enough for her to clip her kids clothes.

Now according to her, she saw some clips which she collected from our neighbor and discovered our clips inside it. She wanted to take it this woman was saying she shouldn't on that she wasn't the one that gave her clips.

Just Thus evening I receive a call that there was a confrontation before my sister and this neighbor of ours. Now my sis said after the woman dropped the clips outside after use, she decided to remove our own from inside mind you the neighbor that gave out the clips is very close to us.

Now this woman came out and said that my sister should go inside and bring out the clips so she can hand them over,and she told her that the clips are ours next thing she started raising her voice at her, the neighbor came and then she ed her saying my sister is very stingy and that she's wicked because of clip oh and these two women are from the same tribes they started speaking their language.

My sister got so infuriated she started throwing insults at this lady when she went outside to start unclipping our clothes knowing fully well that our clips mixed. Immediately my sister started shouting and she said she's mad. Immediately this lady as if it's a plan she started throwing blows pushing and looking for objects. She said she refused to be calm and immediately she tried to defend herself from her after then a series of dragging. They were eventually calm and me myself am in shock over the whole issue that is why I'm here.

After I came and I was told I blamed her for telling her she's mad afterall, and still told her that it's her over familiarity that brought about all these.

She shares everything with this lady, clothes, food yet she is calling her stingy. I thank God she didn't bring up this thing I just said now in the quarrel to give them what to say.

I think I have brought a particular topic about this lady earlier, that she is actually ungrateful.

Now I'm scared for myself and my cousin after their tribes person told her to be careful and still blamed her for bringing herself low for them.

I need your advice on how to handle this issue for now I have told her anything with any of them should end whether she greets them or not is not my business.

I need more input please and also more advices just in case I'm wrong.

Guy, your problem is simple: and use the official whatsapp ... once u do that and u use your no that everyone knows, your whatsapp will work!!

All those YoWhatsapp, Gbwhatsapp, NairaWhatsapp, has been declared illegal by whatsapp years ago ...

Iamdbull:
I know how many haters I get for this platform and I know how many people are always waiting to mock me.

I work primarily as a graphics designer design logo, fliers, animation, banner and once once I dey run Photoshop for boys( no blame me na hungry finish me so I no fit say no).

Last week Monday while in middle of a deal with a client, was about sending my details, WhatsApp just told me my has been banned.

Like play like play na so them ban my o, I feel it was because I was deleting lots of numbers, anytime I one view status I go dey see like 1000 people status.

Wetin come finish me pata pata na when people talk say make I use new phone, na so I rush go carry all the money I get buy new phone o omo the thing no gree work

And it's that whatsapp that all my clients know, I have done paid adverts with that number, so now I can't even get customers.

Below is the screenshot of the message I dey get from WhatsApp.

Please if any Samaritan fit help me with money to do paid ads here on nairaland or Twitter or Instagram

400k for a single room? Which area be that?

Bro, you shoulda worked on staying in some low brow area that cost less and use the extra to do some meaningful stuffs ....

U gas use street sense to spend your money o ... so, no go give yourself heart problem cos u wan impress ...

I'll personally advise u stay off marriage for now till you've sorted your financials cos adding another human to your bills isn't smart ....

, ladies can be understanding but the understanding get "time limit" ... I love you the way u are doesn't mean "i want u to remain the way u are" ... Hope u get my drift??

Though, u can settle down inside your 1 room apartment but having to share toilet with someone else? Is a no - no for me ...

Its the cheapest way to toilet disease that will eventually make u spend on drugs ... that's counter productive ...

Goodmarlian:
I am starting to get myself together financially after 5 years of struggle, I recently rented an apartment, its a single room in a three storey building but it's downstairs,very spacious and I have to share toilet and bathroom with the security.I initially wanted to get an apartment in ikorodu or mowe ibafo but considering the nature of my job it would be too stressful for me .
It's cost me 400k to get the room and I plan furnishing it,getting a flat screen television and at least a sofa,I already have a big bed,I believe i will be able to do the rest this year by God's grace.
Getting accommodation in Lagos is too hard and I think planning to get another bigger apartment would take another two years Or more I am tired of plotting and planning again as time is going ,we dey age everyday so I just want to stick with this one get settle down here and rather plan building my own house from here instead.
I have not hinted my girlfriend about the plan yet so I would like to hear advise from the more experienced people here

Why ranting na if you've trully moved on

Do not accept her back ... period!

We all have the lady we loved deeply and who eventually messed up our mind ...

.... love is a decision ... understand that ... she knew what she was doing when she left u ...

If the guy she ran after no do am strong thing, she won't come back ...

You're just an option amongst her several options ... so why make her a priority

I can bet with my left balls that there are good ladies with good hearts who are dying and ready lay down their lives for u ....

But na lie, na wetin go give u heart break una go dey chase after ...

Move on brova ... she was never "the one"

Wizzy13:
My ex who left for another guy has return begging after leaving but unfortunate for her i have moved on with my life.
I thank you all for your advice

here is the previous thread
https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/8347707/how-stop-thinking-ex

Ohh wow!

So, how far How's the performance cos i'm also considering it but person has to be super sure it works for long hours (atleast 10 hours for laptop and fan only) before pushing out funds o

coolie1:


840k. Ecoflow delta 2 I've not used it for long I just got it yesterday. And nepa is giving light for now

Whatever u do, ensure u record the conversations and keep it handy incase wahala wan sup ... he is likely to change and deny his words in the future ... na so dem dey do but evidence can save u a lot of pain

underpinna:
I rented a self contained apartment last year March at 70ķ. On February, this year, the landlord called to tell me that my rent has expired. I told him that my rent will expire on March but he insisted so I told him okay. I also told him that I will be paying by the end of March and he agreed. I thought all was settled until I heard him saying that he has increased his rent to 150k. I was like how on earth and why telling me now. We argued and he told me 130k last while I stood at 100k. I argued that the duration of notice is short. So we couldn't settle, so he ended the call. I later found out that three people were engineering him to increase his rent or throw me out. These three people are close to me. I feel betrayed and looking for another accommodation. Ì wanted to stay because of the yard, we are just two tenants and I have a small garden of cassava.
I spoke with the landlord 8 days ago and we settled and 110k. Just today, he has changed and now demanding 120k. Ìt is getting out of my budget and too, having those three friends around isn't giving me happiness anymore. I am confused.
Copied.....

I quite understand u cos i was in about same condition in our former place ...

A woman in "its quite complicated relationship" with 2kids, earning more than our combined salaries will still come borrow money, pots etc ...

Infact, if her gas finish, she will bring her food to finish cooking ...

Till i put a stop to the rubbish then we became bad people but atleast, peace dey and i have access to my stuffs whenever i need em ...

Do not borrow them your iron again! And as per the money, stop borrowing them ... to retrieve the ones u don borrow them and dem no gree return, tell them to pay up all they've borrowed to have access to fresh borrowing and the moment dem pay up peren, lock the gates and face front!!!

Talk is cheap bro! Dem go talk tire and then, keep mute!!!

Its always good to be a bad person but have peace and be able to do live your life as u want it ...

Squere:
In life, one must learn to tolerate people for peace to reign. Though peace is not necessarily the absence of conflict. But managing conflict is crucial and critical to harmonious coexistence amongst people especially your immediate neighbors.
As an introvert, I like being alone and try as much as I can to avoid issues. Whenever I perceive trouble looming, I do everything to avert it. I believe in building good relationships with people cos nobody knows tommorow. Besides, your neighbors are like your security, they help watch over you. In fact they are your first family.
I have a neighbor who is doing pretty better than me. He and his girlfriend(a live-in lover) come to borrow stuffs from me. Sometimes, little money. Most times, household equipments and electrical appliances. But when they do, they fail to return them. As for the little money they come to borrow, they don't return it and I also don't ask. My major issue is my pressing iron and Mortar. Once they come to get my mortar, they don't return it after use. I will have to go get it from them before I can cook. They have NEVER borrowed and returned without me going by myself to collect it back. There are times I go and not meet anyone of them at home, then I get stranded and unable to cook my food. I don't use powdered pepper to cook, it's fresh pepper, onion and crayfish I pound whenever I'm cooking, and sometimes, okpehe. Same issue with the pressing iron. We all know how NEPA operate. Nobody knows when the lights will come on or go off, so whenever there's light, I try to iron a few clothes. But most times, I won't be able to do so because the iron is locked inside their room and they are not home. This attitude of theirs is really pissing me off. Mind you, I don't have any issue giving my things to neighbors. My only issue is why don't they return it after use? These are adults who are way older than me for crying out loud. I'm not good at handling issues with diplomacy whenever I'm angry. I just blow up whenever I've had it to the brim.
There was a day I needed to iron a dress for work, Its a dress code for a particular day. I had returned home late that day and forgot the pressing iron was with me and I slept off. When the light was restored in the middle of the night, I woke up to get the clothes ironed but ed they had borrowed my iron the previous day. I couldn't go to wake them up that night and before daybreak, NEPA had seized the light. I ended up not using the dress code meant for that day, my boss issued me a query and also fined me for flouting the rule.
As I write, my mortar is still with them and has being with them for a week now. I'm planning on retrieving it soon and once I do, I will never give them again. Leaving the mortar with them means they know I don't cook always and I see it as me allowing them to know too much of me. I have a girlfriend who's a baby mama that comes around once in a while and she's really not happy about this. She said it's because I'm too gentle and soft that's why I'm being treated this way.

I feel disrespected.

Ohhh wow!!! Congrats once more!!!

Thanks for the response!!!

coolie1:


840k. Ecoflow delta 2 I've not used it for long I just got it yesterday. And nepa is giving light for now

Wow! Congrats!!!

Which of the ecoflow did u buy and whats the price & capacity

And pls, share your experience, using the ecoflow!!!

coolie1:
I want to sell it for 30k I just got it last year. It is actually original the 100% is actually 100%. This one is really good.

Reason for selling it. I just got an ecoflow because of my system.

Joker

Na till person pai, abi

Nanyi:
This is all too early. This istration still has 6 year to go

una no kee person with laughter oo!!

Ki11YurSev:
Lol.. FORGIVENESS na LIE.

Finish the mission my G!

Ohh cool .. u have steady inflow ... meaning u can plan/budget etc ...

Nice one!

Lastly, ensure you're mentally prepared for it and that's all ... Get good counselling/books or which ever works for u!!!

And yeah, ensure your wife to be is working ... e get why ...

Scaredguy:



We are both AA. I actually do not have an issue with sorting bills cos i get a steady funds from my lounge and i work at different events almost every weekend. I think i will just ensure i have other source of income just to be on the safer side. Also, I will get an apartment.

Its good to get married but judging by what you posted, i'll say it sounds like an "impulsive" move ...

The time might not be good for u to settle down ... especially without an apartment of your own ... except maybe, your parents gave u an apartment to live in, all by yourself ..

Djing, i don't have any issue with that but do u have enough savings or have a constant pay from, maybe a club u do dj in

If not, you're in for a rather stressful journey cos when the bills starts popping up from all angles, that love wey dey una eyes, go clear sharply ... i'm not wishing u bad but just telling u the reality....

I hope both of you are not AS sha??

If not, k.ill (pai) that love!

Scaredguy:
I am 30 years 1. No apartment of my own 2. No stable job except DJing 3. I lack self control 4. I am getting married. is this right?


Note: I love her so much and i feel she is d only one who can give a sense of being responsible.

20k kwa? Nooooo ... 10mbps for 10 or 15k will be fine!!!

I'll quickly do 6 months jeje and close eye dey look!!!

Na this flat rate/speed based plan pay ...

If i consider the amount of data i don use this month and na mtn i dey use run am, i for don spend plenty money

Lets see how it goes sha

twosquare:
That's true. I don tire sef....make dem give us 10MBPS for 20k.