NewStats: 3,264,907 , 8,185,057 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 06:46 PM 1r3i54

I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving.

During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her.

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.

In everything you do, DON'T SEND TRANSPORT O!
Infact, this kind of girl cannot be trusted with a job link coming from one, she may put you in trouble. As for your question,You got the 🗡️, you got the yam.

You big am
Forgive am

Lol.. FORGIVENESS na LIE.

Finish the mission my G!

Since she don fall your hand on to say she nor send you as e be say she just need your connection......what's your plan.

I see two choices

#1 choice:
Tell am say the guy for HR don give you her appointment letter based on say you and the guy Na paddy.

But she must meet you to collect the appointment letter that way you nor go lost.

#2 Choice:
Get her wrong address make she Waka tire.

Now you have the 2 Choices.

Choose wisely.

I would have said you should ignore her but, she cunningly collected transport fare from you and bail out on you. That's wickedness!!

Evil people get away with consequences that's why evil is still leading today. A girl like that would do it to another guy again (that's if she's not done it severally before or after you), if she's not taught a bitter lesson..

Three options: 1) Perfect your tricks and bang her well. 2) You report her to the police so that she can pay more. 3) Give her the assurance that she won't have accommodation issues when she comes, as hotels are expensive and she can't go back the same day (PH-Lagos). Further tell her to hit the road at noon so that she can arrive Lagos in the evening. When she finally arrive at night, switch off your phone and/or block her number (that's after she's arrived Lagos and you've dropped a text for her on why you did what you did)...

In this case, forgiveness is a sin bro, she tried to outsmart you but as a real n1gga, I recommend corporal punishment. The brotherhood is solidly behind u👍

I don laff tire 😆😆😆. Some of una really get time to waste for frivolities oooooooo. Oya make I analyze this your situation and show you where you mess up.
1. Never ever send money to a girl to visit you. If she no fit afford tfare, she no need relationship but a job.
2. If a woman loves you genuinely, she go look for transport by herself without asking.
3. You never know the character of the girl and you don dey look for job for her, all because of kpekus
😆😆.... Nairaland dey make me laff atimes because na different species of people we dey meet here on a daily . Oga O.P, just lockup the matter and overlook am, besides na you messup initially. If mugu no fall, guyman no go chop. But the girl no get shame oooooooo, she come even unblock you sef 😆 😆. Where una take dey meet all these low class of non-virgins aka boreholes? Abeg screenshot her response make we red am
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Omo make she embark.wen she arrive tell her wetin dey sup.

wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving. During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her. Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER? Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.

Pay her back her own coin. Someone manipulating and using you.

You will be a fool not to pay back.

wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving. During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her. Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER? Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.

Guy. Vawulence pro max. How you take think this thing. 😂

Until matters like this are reported to police they won’t learn…

You have to let go it’s not worth it ,try to collect your money back and let her go

wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving. During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her. Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER? Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.

send her address but not your company address, tell her u will come pick her up at the park.


The moment she gets to the park in Lagos n she calls u then u can block her everywhere n off your phone

I can bet everything that u can't do that cos u will want to try your luck so that your money won't waste but I bet u if u allow that girl in, u will pay a price u will forever regret

Baba, forgive her but never have anything to do with her again.

You must teach a romance scammer a lesson so she doesn't scam another victim of their hard earned money, actions should come with consequencess

Zaheertyler:
You big am
Forgive am

She will do others its not about him, wome girls (scammers) need to be paid in their own coin else they woll continue to scam men

Nehyooh:
Baba, forgive her but never have anything to do with her again.

If them forgive all thieves and scammers our society will be worse. You are saying yahoo boys should be forgiven since a yahoo girl is forgiven by you.

Allow her to embark on the trip. Teach her a lesson.
If u no do am eh… make I no just swear for u.
Sha treat her Bleep up.
Abeg hope the company add na island sha.
Tell her on the day of interview u won’t be around.
Abi u want knack her??
Then play ur cards right mk she use her money come meet u for lag. Then after u don knack her wella send msg say the interview has been postponed till the next month cos she go fit stay few more days before leaving

Forgive her my brother, she no what am and what s the probability that you will knack her even if she come your side, better let her go.

The best revenge is to give me her number. Don’t worry, my cousin will help you punish her.

God could be protecting from contracting HIV/AIDS and you are still bent on fvcking her.

Don't forgive her

As someone said up there, let her come then block her at the park. Your transport no waste, Simple!

PLEASE FORGIVE HER.

I AM NOT ING THAT SHE COLLECTED YOU TRANSPORT FARE

BUT IF YOU HAVE A YOUNGER SISTER, I AM NOT SURE YOU WILL WANT HER TO GO SLEEP WITH A GUY.

An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth

Simp

wayray:
I met a girl during a short visit to Ibadan at my uncle's place. We exchanged numbers and we got talking online. She happens to be a fresh graduate serving.

During one of our usual gist, she said since I'm based in Lagos, I should assist her to look for job by sharing her cv which I obliged. We fixed a date to lash ourselves as Omo ogbon that I am. But my stay got cut short due to urgent stuff at my workplace. ( I forgot to add that I was on leave during this visit) So I left but we still continued gisting and had the date rescheduled for Lagos at my place. When the date for the meeting came, this babe demanded for transport fare which I gave without thinking twice. But surprisingly this babe blocked me immediately after receiving the fund. As a sharp guy, I switched to plan B after waiting for a week without success. I used my other line WhatsApp to chat her and claimed to be chatting her from the company from which I dropped her cv. My people immediately, this babe unblocked me and started apologizing. I said no whala, I pretended to follow up with the company so that they can pick her.

Now I have dropped a particular address not too far from my home for her in Lagos as the location of the company? SHOULD I ALLOW HER TO EMBARK ON THE JOURNEY OR I SHOULD FORGIVE HER?

Pls. I need your advice before Monday. I apologize about the long write up typo.

you are dense for bringing this here

You supposed don know say, na public property/toilet you wan lash so.....
Public toilets come with infections
Your hunger for knack fit land you for land of no return.
No say, l no tell you.
But do wertin dey your mind
because if anything later happen
E still no concern me.

Alright