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vandp: 7:53pm On May 24, 2020
Kingarthur21:
my dear,I have dome paternity test for my son,he is my son.

I will do same for all of my kids.
When I find out any of them is not mine,the marriage ends.
I will not also bring a love child home.
That is equity

Expecting my "loyalty" to the end even in cases of pure biasness is what I will not give.


Yourself and kuns84 can rant as you wish or call me names,I don't give a rat ass about your nasty opinions.
I am not here to please you.


In as much as the women of nowadays have failed woefully and are nothing compared to the feminine princesses we once adored. it will be foolish to pretend our present day men are all saints.

In my father's days,ladies were taught to be more chaste and pure,but if accidentally a man got a lady pregnant,he will look for money and pay her dowry. That was seen as a noble deed on the man part and he was praised for it.

Now they are deadbeat dads littered every where,drinking in beer parlour, womanizing while the lady is working her ass out to single handedly raise the child.

No man on this forum will openly call such men out,but they will be the first to run into SM threads and sham single moms.
Even when u.bunja talked of lying to the his baby mama to come over for upkeep just to have sex with her,no man called him out for it. He got several likes for the post.

Men here will mess up,and its innocent white men that will suffer from the lashes of feminism and gynocentrism not the deadbeat dads that are littered over here.

@kuns84,I am not here to please you,you can ignore posts if you wish

Stop being a hypocrite. You do not need to paint all men on this forum bad just because you want to be regarded as the only decent man. Of course, I have always known you to be ubinja's disciple, even before you dropped your old monikers for this new one. Not all men on this forum are hypocrite like you, even though you are now trying so hard to appear decent for whatever hidden aim you have up your sleeve. I hate hypocrites.

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vandp: 4:11pm On May 20, 2020
donbachi:
Hahaha..wives academy.hope they are taught how to control their mouths and make less cash demands.

This is very important.
vandp: 9:19am On May 09, 2020
This is a good development. Meanwhile, we can now joyfully say that he went to quarantine small with his girlfriend, he has the look of a player.
vandp: 10:40pm On May 08, 2020
cococandy:
I’ll say that on the basis of equality and fairness, things are better for women here than it is for women in Nigeria (my personal experience. Anyone feel free to disagree please) but women here still have a loooong way to go in achieving real and true equality. And it’s awork in progress. It took thousands if not millions of years to build the patriarchy, I don’t expect it will be dismantled in a few decades.

Why people think that women have overrun America (or the west as most ignorantly call all 1st world nations) is because for those who benefit from the oppression, equality seems like they are being cheated of their birthright. And they don’t know how to adjust to a world where they have to treat others like they want to be treated.





There is nothing ignorant about people who use the phrase "West" in place of the 1st world countries, in an informal discussion, even though not all 1st the world countries are part of the geographical West in the formal sense. It is understandable and acceptable among world leaders both in politics and business.

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vandp: 2:35pm On May 08, 2020
Fake news. I have made an inquiry, the imo state police commissioner said that it didn't happen.
vandp: 1:20pm On May 03, 2020
Mariangeles:
From time to time, couples tend to disagree (which is normal), and that could lead to a slight or heated argument.
Now, my question is what would be the appropriate thing to do in such cases if kids were involved: To argue in front of the kids and make up to let them know it is normal or to pretend all is fine, then take the argument out of their hearing?

Kindly share your experience...

I hope you are married, share your experience first.

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vandp: 8:17am On May 03, 2020
bukatyne:


Well, peeps hate others who are different and dare to think differently which is a mark of high self-esteem.


I do not believe that everyone who thinks differently has high self-esteem.

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vandp: 11:07am On Apr 30, 2020
lefulefu:
she used u as a rebound nigga..just wipe ur tears and move on

but OP wants to make babies with her. hahaha. he is not a serious man.
vandp: 6:30pm On Apr 26, 2020
1240

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vandp: 4:32pm On Apr 21, 2020
Imo state has lost an iroko.

RIP great man.
vandp: 11:25pm On Apr 08, 2020
Warsaw saw war and . . . you know!
vandp: 9:08pm On Apr 07, 2020
Ellipsoid:
Aww, thanks! I am okay!

I'm not in NYC. I'm close though
(two hours away via flight across the border).

Hope you're also safe wherever you are!

It's good to hear you're safe. It shall be permanent. I'm safe too.
vandp: 8:19pm On Apr 07, 2020
SharonLoveth:
Afonja Needs To Borrow Sense..

It seems you like small trouble, lol.
vandp: 1:32pm On Apr 07, 2020
Ellipsoid:
cry cry cry cry

It's my utmost wish that you're safe where you're. Or, should I make an arrangement to evacuate you from there?
vandp: 2:40pm On Apr 05, 2020
Ellipsoid:

Hahaha grin

I'm self-conscious undecided

Okay embarassed

I have a mandate to perfect your self-consciousness. Stay-tuned.

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vandp: 11:49am On Apr 05, 2020
Ellipsoid:
Kudos to the friend for standing by him.

Stop deleting most of your posts, at least until I read them, else I will vex for you. Lol! Actually, I enjoyed the few I have read so far.

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vandp: 3:24pm On Mar 28, 2020
Ariza:
Now where's franchasng that was typing lon grammar to defend ED? grin


Stop making faux accusations against Franchasng, Peeress, Zmpp and others. Like I said before, I know Peeress in person and her claims are true.

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vandp: 1:19pm On Mar 28, 2020
franchasng:
lol, did anybody claimed to be a bank ED here Maybe I didn't read that cos I mostly scan through Nl looking for hot topics and threads with trouble potentials lol


Though, some occupations Nigerians rever so much in Nigeria, in most foreign countries outside Africa, they are no big deal.

Most banks abroad are empty, few staff, people don't even rever bankers cos it's a boring job, just like oil company job Nigerians worship, outside Africa, it's seen as a tedious, stressful job cos work rate is almost same, only the overtime or extra hours that differs, and maybe hazard allowances based on risk exposure.

But then, could be right, a bank ED may likely not disclose her position online, but I said "may" cos we cannot conclude how all EDs behave, human personalities varies a lot.

The poco of a woman and her ers are dumb. I know Peeress in person and all her claims are true. She is not even a Nigerian and does not fully base in Nigeria. But she is married to a Nigerian and has worked both in Nigeria and other countries.

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vandp: 10:19am On Mar 07, 2020
NextD18:
She's a Nairalander, met him through my professional , we are currently dating but she's unaware that I'm the one behind this .

She's mostly active in Health, Foreign affairs and Literature section.

She's from a wealthy home, working and doing her masters. Very young, tall but not taller than me.

Had to hit her up for professional reasons, she became interesting and boom, we vibed.

We don't fvck, as I'm a spiritual man who's by the Holy Ghost not permitted to fornicate to avoid the spiritual wrath.

I won't be telling and narrating how we met so that she doesn't read and find out.

Chai! Whenever she confesses her feelings for me, I laugh and wish I'll be more open to her about my online persona. cry

And yes, I'm the first man in her life! grin



You can lie for Africa. The same you Donstan18, who claimed married during last December/New year. You and that Franchas.ng, I do not know who lie .

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vandp: 4:43pm On Feb 26, 2020
yvelchstores:
my dear, I am o. I am ashamed on behalf of others from anambra. What a shame! There are customs we adhere to. There is a way things are done.

Good to hear that you are from Anambra state, same as the main poster and his wife. Now shame on you for trying to abuse Imo state women. I am glad that your imagination failed you.

I am not from Anambra, though.

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vandp: 4:36pm On Feb 26, 2020
yvelchstores:
imagine. I am disappointed!

Are you from Anambra state?
vandp: 10:07pm On Oct 07, 2019
To be good is noble.

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