NewStats: 3,263,822 , 8,181,512 topics. Date: Sunday, 08 June 2025 at 06:11 AM 13n25

UjuJoan2:


So what are the things he does . . .

1. He gives me ANYTHING I ask. I know you'll think this is impossible, but my husband is the type of person that will use his last card to buy me an iPhone, just because I asked. He can never say no to me, he just can't. No matter how unreasonable the request, he just won't be able to say no. Even when we are quarelling and not talking, I would send him a message on WhatApp just to avoid talking to him . . . "I need to go to the salon, come and drop me off", he would still do it. I can't tell you the kind of confidence that gives me.

2. I am always right . . . Even when I'm wrong he still s me. Whenever I complain about anyone to him, he automatically hates the person. It doesn't matter what happened, if you make me unhappy you become his enemy.

3. He s me . . . Whatever I need to get to that next level, he provides. He doesn't get threatened, instead he pushes me to reach for the top. He thinks I'm the best, most intelligent and most gifted person on earth. I wish I could see myself through his eyes.

4. He lets me get away with almost anything. I can do almost anything and get away with it. To him I can do no wrong.

Let me stop here sha. . . .

I don't believe you.

Crispels:


See what's showing here

It's not the same case with my server.

Crispels:


I'm currently in North America and the website is down here. Same with my friends in Lagos. I suspect CBN activated a security measure to prevent the hackers from posting messages on the website. But the website is definitely down.

It's not been down. I'm browsing from the same location.

Crispels:


No. As at now, it's not. www.cbn.gov.ng

The website is functioning up to now. Where are you browsing from? Perhaps, most of you've network problem.

Holuwaxheun:


No longer functional.

It's still functioning up to this very moment.

The website is functioning.

pocohantas:


Stop deceiving yourself. You are him and he is you. This weak attempt to prove you have money while acting like you are attacking yourself is so lame.

Q.ueenkwin, P.eeress, Vandp, K.winp...etc
All you and him, L.ordKO.

Goodnight.

I have warned you some months ago to leave me out of your madness. Let this be the last time you will try this nonsense.

DrKlever:
Winners Chapel ni

I hope you've seen the result. Some of us are football master analysts.

Only a few people will understand the true reason behind his action.

Congratulations your Excellency.

They've really been playing nice football. Meanwhile, people shouldn't write-off Lyon because I see them winning Man City in the match.

pocohantas:


She is a hoe because she can give cowgirl style? Something must be very wrong with your head.



Very true Vandp. You get many s walahi. I wonder how you do it.

Keep me out of your madness. I will not warn you again.

It's not about "different leagues" but 3 of the 5 top European leagues:

EPL, La liga and Serie A.

phemmyfour:
Olodo

See the definition of income

income
/ˈɪnkʌm/
Learn to pronounce
noun
money received, especially on a regular basis, for work or through investments.

Stop being stupid. With the word "especially" it means that it can be money received once in a while, like in the country where house rent is paid once in two years. Even some investments only brings yearly yields. Now run along, "Olodo."

phemmyfour:
OP didn't know the difference between "no job" and "low income earner". I stopped reading at " low key wedding". A man without a job cannot even afford a "low key wedding"

You're the ignorant one here. No job doesn't automatically mean no income and savings. So, a man without a job can afford a wedding.

coputa:
since he's here before you,he's your senior,baring age.

Your reply shows that common sense is truly not common, lol.

Common sense is one knowing that because his/her Nairaland moniker is older than mine doesn't automatically mean that he/she is my senior in age and other things.

Pretenders have hijacked item 6, so it's no longer a thing to lookout.

Ariza:
Just fvck off already! Attention seeking wh.ore!

Hahaha!

Ariza:
Why not give your own piece of advice and stop attacking people with insults. Do you think using derogatory words on people makes you appear wise or intelligent? You and your group are so used to doing this. Quoting people up and down without making any point.

Nonsense!

The posturing woman. Imp, run along.

michlins:
From everything I have read here, it's obvious that none of them are married and don't understand the power dynamics of marriage. Marriage is different from dating. Having said that, you need to seek help from family who wish you well and inform them of your suspicions. Let your wife explain to everyone why she's missed by John and why he wants to hold her again

Stop being foolish. People like you who take pleasure in belittling others do not know how foolish you do appear to others.
The people you belittled gave better advice than you.

rasheylaw:
If you no pity yourself pity your female kids
And don't listen to nairaland guys, most of them are under age with no experience of marriage

Any decision you are making concern your children they are your number one priority their future matters

I wonder why people like you take pride in foolishness. Marriage should be a source of happiness, not bondage. You don't have a sensible advice to give, yet you didn't see a reason to respect those who have given him sensible advice.

Phenomenal16:
Yes ooo
Now make I share my experience or should I leave it.....
In conclusion shaa.....men are committed when they spend on their woman especially if he doesn't av much to spare.......

Share your experience.

thariodamaniac:

na story you dey find.... Just like the guy above said.... It's easier to penetrate my bank than my heart... If i see a girl that is after me.... I go run...
I hate being chased... But the headline above is still bullshit

What makes the heading bullshit? Also I don't understand how a man spending his money on his woman means the same thing as the woman being after him as you put it. Do you really understand the thread?

That the way a man shows that he values his woman and relationship between them is by spending money on her all the time.

Justbehave:
We are now minding our business Kpele

Must you repeat the same words severally? Stop constituting nuisance all over the place.

Jullima:
You actually have it backwards, Nigerians will never mind their business when it comes to people’s lives and their personal choices e.g when to marry? When to have a child? How many children? Etc. However they will look the other way when a crime is committed, e.g 419, domestic violence, rape etc.

Just like you OP, you’re seriously comparing criminals committing a crime to a young girl’s private life?? Her boss has no business with how she lives her life, his only business is how she does the job she’s been paid to do.

Selective moralist, stop being bias.

The following is one of the greatest lies ever "In other words, dating someone who is wealthy means that you’ll have a lot more options to enjoy the finer things in life."

You can only benefit from the person if he or she truly loves you and is generous.

jeff1607:
How single people give advice or marital issues on Nairaland eh ,is mind boggling

It takes wisdom to address things like marital issues. So both married and unmarried people who are wise will always be able to give solutions to marital issues. Knowing this is common sense, unfortunately common sense is not common.

I wonder if people who do click "like" on a post like this are truly normal human beings.

To the dead, RIP.