NewStats: 3,264,020 , 8,182,296 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 10:21 AM f3p16

You're a big fool, how many ppl have you ever fought for in your life clout or not.A 5 year old was molested and all your daft brain could comprehend was clout

Minted4:
Seeking relevance after office.

However I'm sure justice would be served. That teacher must face the full wrath of the law

do you think a human being is a goat that you just cut open bcs you hv the knife.checks and consultations with lots of scans are needed to tell you wht your going anything otherwise is just straight up murder.you can tell they were not prepared for anything and whoever led that operation needs to be investigated bcs this wouldnt be the first time theyve played with ppl's life while hoping for the best

omoadeleye:
Does the man mean if the hospital had requested from him to cut her wife fibroid he wouldn't have permitted them to go ahead.

And moreover, does removing fibroid from one's body requires permission again and was the husband a doctor to determine if it is best to remove the fibroid or not, and where is the part in that write up that suggested that the hospital is incompetent?

So what the man just narrated shows that the hospital tried their best to put the wife in a good condition but it was mission impossible.

I understand the man's pain, but he should take it as force majeure

not when the negligence was this much?they knew she would go for CS didnt they run scans b4 the operation how can they decide midway to go for the fibroid without consent,they were just so unprepared and for a private hospital not to have these essential drugs for operations they seem to do everyday??

Basiljoe:
As the person above suggested, no amount of suing or litigation can bring back the dead.

Count your losses and move on. Sorry, I know it's easier said than done.

Leave this shithole if you can, for sake of your son.

R.I.P to the dead.

Edit 3:11pm
Una don cook me today o. 😂
Oya sorry o, I was wrong.
Cases like this should not be neglected for the sake of future reoccurrence.
He should carry on with the litigation.

Make nobody quote me again o.
For the sake of my menral health. 💅🏽

peace of mind is always worth it, better be a coward than pressure yourself

Adexvivacity:
Ur action is that of a coward, including those that left. Will you leave the world cos many crazy people roam there? In any gathering, you dont let the madness of one person decide for you. Just like someone telling me that he stopped coming to nairaland cos people are tribalistic here....U aint ready.

even toddlers get jealous when parents attention are even on their siblings talk more of a child well aware her father abandoned her for another woman and her child, has to go to school and maybe get bullied for only having one present parent and you think the mother needs to make an effort to get her to hate the man

Swaelyf:
its a good thing that you were also once a kid, those relatives you dont talk to, did any1 ask you to stop communicating or bcs of what you saw while growing up. dont judge other ppl's struggle bcs you dont know what theyve been through. So it means of every1 in attendance no one felt it was bad he wasnt invited? family friends inclusive? ppl he knows from interactions with the daughter? No one informed him bcs he was never in her life, and if you think the ex wife alone hates him then you know nothing. If he was absent in her life and sought a relationship when she became an adult i can tell you she has formed alll the opinions she needs to about him and only kids are manipulated that way, so long as she is an adult who has had her own life experiences and decided she didnt want him then know very well its her and he also knows which is why he chose to blame the ex-wife a woman who owes him nothing

Bcs why? its a shared room why make your guest clean after the both of you?GF or not as long as your not hope he should even keep the interaction with her to a minimum but to the point of telling her to sweep tomorrow he'd bring out cloths for her to wash or send her to the market to cook.There are boundaries you just dont cross

Iseoluwani:


he is wrong for doing that, he would have told you, you alone is having d autonomy to do that not him. he is actually rude.

its a good thing that you were also once a kid, those relatives you dont talk to, did any1 ask you to stop communicating or bcs of what you saw while growing up. dont judge other ppl's struggle bcs you dont know what theyve been through. So it means of every1 in attendance no one felt it was bad he wasnt invited? family friends inclusive? ppl he knows from interactions with the daughter? No one informed him bcs he was never in her life, and if you think the ex wife alone hates him then you know nothing. If he was absent in her life and sought a relationship when she became an adult i can tell you she has formed alll the opinions she needs to about him and only kids are manipulated that way, so long as she is an adult who has had her own life experiences and decided she didnt want him then know very well its her and he also knows which is why he chose to blame the ex-wife a woman who owes him nothing

brain54:


I was careful enough not to criticize them...

For whatever led to their break up.

No doubt the woman worked hard to get the platform to what it has become today.( I never said otherwise) Even though Fred claims that it started as his brain child. But it takes hard work to grow to the level of success it has attained over the years. Kudos to her.

You asked if the children were blind and I wonder how old they were at the time to fully understand everything going on.


It's only a mother that can sow such a seed of hatred in the minds of her children against a father. It's naive to think those kids are acting based on what they experienced years ago when they were probably 8 years old or less!

In other words "I am not competent"

Morbeta11:


https://saharareporters.com/2024/09/24/nigerias-army-chief-says-securing-over-200-million-citizens-just-2-million-security

if your a pedo just own it with your full chest, we know 18 is still too old for ppl like you who prefer them infants

Everyday247:
Unfortunately for you strong men can never love an old woman, they are not drawn to old women at all and old women are a big turn off for them. They prefer young 18 year old girls with very tight Kpekus.
(See what I did there?)

do you have pixel 3a screen and how much

GatheringClouds:
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do you have pixel 3a screen

100FIX1:

Still available

Simple, and now he has betrayed those kids he left behind. If a relationship doesnt work why not move on? it may take time but you will find someone or how how else were you surviving b4 meeting them

Eleph:
Too bad.
Fear women o!
But it's not enough to just give up on yourself by letting them have their ways. Though, not always easy, you could have easily moved on with your life rather than just wasting it the way you did.

please report them, let the mother take her child, even if they dont have enough its better she is raised at home bcs those ppl will kill that girl or she may run one day and enter into the hands of evil ppl on the street, theyve already killed her confidence and self worth

Bobodee09:
Long read..

I moved into were am currently staying in 2022 and have seen a small girl suffered abuse alot.

Despite having water running 24/7 in the compound the girl fetch water everyday, she run errands, bath and prepare her uncle 2 son for school and go drop them off.
A girl of 9yrs will do all this with no proper meal, she has no clothes, only wear rags, bruises all over her body
Sometime late last year I got a school bag for free and decided to gift the girl cos she carry polythene bag to school. The next day her uncle approached me, he first thanked me and ended it with I should have given it to the wife directly instead of the girl, I told him he know me and his wife aren't cool at all hence why I didn't do that.
He told me I should have given him instead, ok no wahala.
Guess what this woman didn't allow the girl use the school bag rather her first son was using it and the girl kept carrying polythene bag to school.

Matter at hand.

Yesterday I was off work, after doing some housework I decided to take a nap around 2.....voice of loud cry and scream woke me up about 20min later.
This woman was beating the girl as usual, this kept going on for 30min and I couldn't sleep.
About 50min later I couldn't take it anymore so I went to her apartment to warn habout the noise , after I got back inside my apartment she increased the beating accusing the girl of attracting disrespect to her.

I called the husband he didn't pick, then I called my landlord and explained things to him. I let him know I will get the police and welfare involved.
With annoyance he called the husband to park out since they are even owning him a year rent already.

This morning the man came to my apartment accusing me of hatred towards his family and his wife was raining insult on me.
I just asked him to pay me 20k he is owing me since last year May and the outstanding fee for pre-paid have been loading from February till now.

Am about going to the station to report him and his wife, getting the welfare Involved. My landlord is in full .
Note- the girl is the man sister daughter, she is in the village

The question is why are you afraid of a legal document binding you together? If you dont trust this person why marry her? if she agrees to keep the baby then take care of your child,dont make your life and hers miserable

LilNetty:


When they ask me I told them I will do it later after the marriage they said no that they must do all at once and they told me if we won’t be doing it that my wife to be won’t be changing her name.

A/PC WARRIOR how market? better collect all yo can now and make sure it can feed you for the next four years,Zombie

CyrusVI:


They extended the deadline three times

It's definitely not about the protest

It's even harder to ask them to extend it this time again after the first three

Victim mentality is shit, we should learn to do away with it

better for who exactly??

BeeBeeOoh:


https://dailytrust.com/things-getting-better-under-tinubu-protest-will-harm-economy-tompolo/

. Religion needs to be part of the convo b4 marriage,every1 has the right to their beliefs so if b4 marriage,if there is no conclusion or compromise its better not to go ahead because it always causes issues.

Gr8mind07:
Bro,it's obvious you have been a victim of her manipulating tactics since courtship .

Whatever the background church of a lady, it is expected the she bids the church bye - bye at the wedding ceremony and follows her husband to his church. This is the reason that marriage is conducted in the lady's church and thanksgiving at the Man's church.

Even her so called Pastor knows this.

its the audacity for me, imagine going to a government owned hospital to do child trafficking. who told them they could sell a baby there, who was the and has this been going on there?if so for how long

peekspot:


https://punchng.com/police-arrest-couple-trying-to-sell-two-year-old-son-to-fund-canada-trip/

hope this your ministry can generate enough revenue to sustain itself

Islie:


https://dailytrust.com/just-in-tinubu-offers-fresh-appointment-to-jega/

he doesnt want kanu released bcs his reign would end as the "boys" wont listen to his inhumane orders anymore. imagine staying in a foreign land and causing havoc here

okoro:


https://dailypost.ng/2024/07/08/biafra-you-lack-legitimacy-to-negotiate-for-nnamdi-kanus-release-brgie-to-seast-govs/

this is why its so bad, like 10k of how many ppl in a country where 10k can hardly feed a family for 1 or 2 days and still someone embezzled it

trinnalar:

It's just sallah gift boss, calm down.

calling your fellow countrymen vermins is worse

ribbit:
Good news.

Ofcos it won't trend or attracts children of affliction who only love bad news in their lives..

Imagine if the topic say; Nigeria loses bid to Ghana.

These vermins wil be all over the place foaming in the mouth by now.

No one cares but dare lay your hands on a woman aand dare to brag about it and see wht happens

Nonexisting:
Brother, you have said it all. I don't physical abuse by men but wives who emotionally abuse their husbands and get physically abused by them are not any less evil and should be given same treatment. This is my stand and no matter what all these useless feminist wannabes we have here think, I will not give a flying fucck.

as conditions for what? isnt this strongarming the government into getting appointments for their leaders while not really doing anything for the masses they claim to represent? this is blackmail

BeeBeeOoh:


https://thewhistler.ng/appoint-labour-leaders-into-sensitive-position-in-govt-nlc-urges-tinubu/

i dont have to be sexually active to understand that ppls sexual life is their personal business

NSK4U:


Hmmmmm diz table is not for celibates

she knows she cant cope with what she asked you to fix and wants to see if they can be improved before binding herself to you, its just her being honest with you

Chidex369:
Greetings my people,

Please I really need your advice on how to go about this matter that is really eating me up. We went on a normal date with my girl whom I have proposed marriage to and she accepted it. But in recent time I have been telling her to come and see my parent but was like we are not yet ready, I don't understand it.

Today we went out and she opened up and started telling me areas of my life which she's not really comfortable with and I should improve on them. When she was done she said she needs us to slow things down for now.

I don't really know how to go about this right now. Please I really need your advice on it. I really love this girl and wants to settle down with her. We broke before and reconcile after two years, and we been back for like 6 months now.

Please no insult or curse. Please I need your advice.

i dont need to go practical with you for anything, Im celibate and happy with it, however ppl's orientation should be left to them and their consenting partners, just bcs you like rice and stew doesn't mean the whole world should like it with you

NSK4U:


I think you need to go practical with me to understand what I mean, chat me up on WhatsApp for first hand experience that will change the orientation

does anyone teach dogs which have been so domesticated to have sex? no their biology knows when they are ready and guides them that is the same for every human just the same way sex in itself may be disgusting to some ppl. its best to accept the fact that we may all look the same but are all very different

NSK4U:


Yes, we have been in Nigeria but are not disconnected from the lifestyle/culture of the rest of the world around us. The role of the media contributes greatly to how we perceive and accept or reject things most times. Many Nigerians as you would know watch porn where these things are promoted and they get influenced to begin to try it out among peers. Is MouthAction an African thing? Is it not pervading and thriving today like the missionary which we were used to It's media influence among others

exactly!! in a country where itting that is basically a death sentence especially for the poor yet they still risk it

sparko1:


The truth is many married men and women are but have to hide because they know the implication, so many things are happening in Nigeria.

When I came up with this topic lots of people accused me of being gay, but there's another reason why I am concerned enough to investigate this.

The fact that it's present in our kind of society makes it very unlikely a product of indoctrination, people won't even talk about it in a forum like Nairaland where you can hide your identity, where exactly do you get indoctrinated.

you as a Nigerian living in here does Nigeria look like a place that orientation could happen but every blessed day more of them are coming out which means theyve been here its just SM that has made ppl more aware of them

NSK4U:
It's indoctrination..... Don't think anyone was borne gay. The environment influence most into it

dont go anywhere when they are tired of feeding her and your child in this economy, jjust the insults she will be receiving there would make her run back to you thats if they dont send her back first

INomorethief:
Good evening all. For anonymity's sake I had to be discreet. I am in distress as it is. My wife recently traveled last month for her late father's burial. I showed her all the I could give as a husband according to my means, and due to the situation in the country, I could only convince one of my friends to accompany me to her town on the day of the burial to pay homage and I left that same day which her people also saw. I was expecting her to come back after some days of stay but to my surprise, I received a call the following day that there are some certain things I need to do as an in-law and one of her brother chatted me on whatsapp about it.. with pictures I can't post here. That the family is expecting my return that same week. At first I was surprised and felt he was joking. I even tried to make him understand my situation, that I am not financially strong and am hardly surviving and if it can be skipped. Because in my own town it's just that day alone I just need to come with my people and represent after that it's finish..From what was supposed to be a mature conversation resulted in insults because I can't just stand there and see him insult me... He bluntly told me my wife won't return to my house unless I come to do what was demanded of me by them the family. which costs quite alot. I have been depressed ever since about all this. I never bargained for any of this. I am not the one responsible for her father death.. I spoke to my wife about it and she knows our situation hoping she be able to talk to her people..first she was reasonable but now it seems she has ed them in it. For the sake of my kids I am thinking about taking legal action or human rights because this is another form of bully..I payed for her bride price and I can't be treated in such a manner.

but this is billionaire's fight na, so it wont be so easy

DeLaRue:
Hmm...if what is alleged is true, this is fraud.

Very serious for Zenith bank, and a man of Mr Ovia's status.

He is even Chairman of Zenith. If the man is invited by the Police, his lawyers will have to do everything possible to ensure he is not detained.

Even an overnight detention, let a lone detention over 2 days, will likely result in him leaving his position as Chairman of the bank.

Anyway, this is Nigeria. Even if the Police parade and detain him, he might even become more popular and refuse to resign.

No doubt the CBN is watching this imbroglio from the sidelines.