NewStats: 3,263,652 , 8,180,907 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 04:51 AM 6w6s2g

Remymaa:


I do work and have a good career. Thank you for your words. Its so tough because he is everything to me. I go to him for every decision and he has all my savings because he is good with budget.

It will be starting again 😂 even thinking for myself. I know it sounds mad but i met him at 18 now im nearly 40.

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Maybe he will come to his senses once you leave and then readjust his mindset when he starts missing you. But don’t count on it, do yourself a lot of good by preparing for the future. A future without him if possible and a future of setting goals, achieving them and been a better person

You will be fine. It’s better to be divorced and have peace of mind than constantly worrying what next will upset him. I hope you work, if you don’t, start searching for job opportunities cos you will need the finances as soon as the divorce is done.

With time, love will call again. In the interim, get yourself and sanity back in order

UcheKingsley1:
Porn is evil and its demonic.

Masturbation is worse, it gives one to Darkness. Stop it. Get married and be freee.

Did you read the post at all? All ye false sanctimonious people

If you are a yearly tenant, by right you are entitled to 6 months quit notice. If he does anyhow, take him up with any mediation centre around you. After 6 months, you’re entitled to 1 month, then another 7 days before any forceful evacuation. This is applicable to Lagos residents though, not sure of other states

medropoly:


Lol... If only you know that people with the best acct balance, body shape, beauty and all things good don't show off ..
Only low esteemed people show off

There’s a difference between not showing of and been ashamed. Elon Musk wears shots and so do good looking men. Any man afraid of wearing shots is ashame of his skinny wobbly legs

medropoly:
Honestly even as a guy am ashamed of wearing short out during the day..
To me and any sane person out there, this is not fashion but rather madness

You can only be ashamed if your legs are shapeless or ugly. People with good legs show it off

No price?

How much u go buy ps4 pad

how much are you buying car battery?

Namaster:
"Let’s see the ministers—those shameless Rolls Royce connoisseurs—sweat it out in Nigerian-made vehicles too."

Atiku is NOT a smart guy. He also DOESN'T know how to hire smart guys.

Of all the shittiness he could attack the FAILED Tinubu Government for, he chose a BEER PARLOUR argument of extremely DUMB whataboutism.

He uses "sweat it out in Nigeria-made vehicles" which implies he knows that Nigerian vehicles are not yet up to the standard of their foreign counterparts.

YET Atiku thinks it's a good idea for the President of a POLITICALLY-VOLATILE country such as Nigeria to use it as his official car in a PERFORMATIVE attempt to pacify a PERENNIAL loser like Atiku.

Atiku is NOT a smart guy.

Why don’t you give your own Press Release and save your energy wasting away on Nairaland. Oh I forgot, nobody knows you

If the majority of the things purchased for your child are toys, I’m afraid your friend is right. They will end up being meaningless wasteful items once the child outgrows them. Matter of fact, you will start to look for where to dispose them off. I’m speaking from experience.

Apart from the land, get other sure investments that in years to come, it will conveniently cater to her schooling till Masters level if possible. , cost of living in Nigeria is increasing by the day, in years to come, 1million Naira would be too small to pay as school fees for 1 term let alone for several years of schooling

Both girl A, girl B and girl C to Z including the guy, make all of una getat

@OP, begging strangers is not the way out.

Meet your friends, family, church/mosque leaders. You’re lucky it’s just you and not children or wife looking for accommodation. Find a friend to squat with till you get your footing. Not everything you throw your number for. It is an irritating mindset. Do away with it.

Better yet, collect loan from loan apps

blacksam01:
When you approach the age 40, if you are observant, u will notice alot of changes in your life , both physically, mentality, health wise, and people's approach to u...

Some of this changes are listed below through person experience

People's approach to you

1. You will begin to notice the addition of "sir" when younger ones greet you.. this is not to say people don't greet you when you turned 30. But this time around alot of sir will accompany the greetings

2. Alot of aged ladies will b attracted to you if u are still single...

3. Almost everyone that doesn't know you will assume u are married if u are not by that age

3. Any kid playing around you will b assume to b your child by strangers

4. You will b gossiped about alot by everyone in your neighborhood if you are not married yet at that age
5. If u are single ,you will no longer b able to date young girls for two reasons:

1. Is the unmatched appearance together as society will speak about it too much
2. The girls will stylishly say no, cuz to them you are old.. u now have white beards and monstach

Physical changes

1. You will begin to grow grey hair from 35 up

2. Your face will naturally begin to drop from 38.. there will b this obvious daily deep lines running down from your nose sideways down to your side mouth... It will get deeper and more glaring with time

3. You mind will mostly be about finance and good life rather than women

4. You will not b able to jump wide gutters as easily as you previously can..not cuz you can't do it anymore, but your guts will fail u

5. If you are a fast worker, your speed will reduce

6. You may not easily get tired after long work, but your time for body restoration of your energy will now take longer

7. You will begin to wake late unless u maintained the alarm culture...to beat this u need to sleep early unlike the youths..

8. If you embark on a long road travel and you belong in the group of never sleeping in the bus, you will begin experience sleeping in the bus often..

9. From 35 up, u will lower your hair cuts and before or around 40 if u are not an obviously hairy person, u will move to barbing skin hair cut..this is because u will lose very visible part of your hair (baldness) and to measure it up will lead to u barbing skin...

Health changes

1. Family history health concerns will begin to show up..e.g bad eyesight. Etc

2. New set of age prone health issues will also become your concern as BP, low sugar, high sugar breathing problem will all b your concern...

3. Your prowess in the other room will reduce, urge is not affected, but efectiveness will..

You will also have less sleeping time at night. If you usually sleep 8-10 hours at a stretch at night, you won’t go beyond 6-7hrs

Samleke77:
Which one is the cheap one?

Me sef shock as I see the price.

damzy88:
Okay. Thanks. Let me wait for the responses of more reasonable people.

I love the fatality you gave that silly guy. His I-Too-Know is out of this world

Kobojunkie:
1. I am afraid you have got it twisted. It is mostly these proper men like you who suffer at the hands of women. Other men, who have long realized that like men, women are in relationships for their benefits as well, are not that phased in relationships.

2. And I made clear in my last post that it is these so-called men of steeze that litter the pages of Nairaland with stories of their bitter experiences with women.

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Any other contrary opinion you post after this is for your pocket! Kapish

Kobojunkie:
The saddest of all of this is that na these same proper men of steeze dey suffer at the hand of women the most.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I am not for people praying foolishly but engaging common sense in these things. The same way you go about choosing the kain shirt you want to wear, considering weather, occasion, and circumstance, etc., is pretty much the same way any man or woman ought to go about picking a spouse. 🤔

These things are not meant to be do-or-die affairs, and not by number. Saying you are, for instance, surrounded by women begging you to marry them should mean absolutely nothing, but unfortunately, many of you, even after all of the lessons of history, never learn. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

That you suffer in the hands of women does not mean proper men like us share the same fate with you. Don’t post your insecurities or shortcomings to me, I’m not the cause of it.

I have said my beat about me. I am a proper man with steeze. I don’t beg nor brag about women. I just hope the OP finds his own value rather than looking for women to look his way. I have said my piece, any other contrary opinion you post after this is for your pocket!

I get irritated when I see men praying to have women to marry. Are you that poor, ugly or without brain? Some of us have more than 5 decent women with sweet characters begging us to marry them and it’s not as if we are Dangotes or Otedolas of this world. We just have the steeze of a proper man.

Very interesting to watch. Reminds me of my friends and I when we also play and argue football

yarimo:
Everyone in rivers state is commending president TINUBU for the state of emergency

Shut up you liar from the pit of hell. It’s you and your family that are commending the drug baron for abuse of power. The evil you today must surely come to your home to roost