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Sijo01(f): 9:31am On Mar 06, 2024
Na wah o
Why will a man dump masculinity and embrace femininity undecided

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Sijo01(f): 10:15am On Mar 04, 2024
Must be an indian undecided

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Sijo01(f): 2:06pm On Mar 02, 2024
Once we exhaust the one at home now, no more 😔

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Sijo01(f): 1:52pm On Feb 26, 2024
Gradually, it's spreading!

Same protest currently ongoing in Benin
Sijo01(f): 12:35pm On Feb 24, 2024
Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?

Judging by your previous thread, your wife obviously brought out the rebellious nature from your daughter.

Sending her back home is not a bad idea if she was still teachable. I'll advise against it because you'll be shifting your responsibility of nurturing her to someone else who's not her parent.

This is the time to be close to her, take her out, walk with her and get her to talk to you. Make her to understand that you're her best friend and that she can share her worries, fears and mistakes with you and you'll not judge her. Make her to communicate with her mother if she isn't.

You and her mom should also communicate and coparent her. It's obvious she lacks motherly care and , your wife is not mothering her at all.

DON'T SEND HER HOME YET UNTIL YOU GET CLOSE TO HER AND ESTABLISH A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER.

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Sijo01(f): 12:09pm On Feb 24, 2024
Eluuupeeee all the way
Sijo01(f): 9:34pm On Feb 23, 2024
TheDemola:
Stale news

Very stale 😕

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Sijo01(f): 9:24am On Feb 23, 2024
naija4life247:
Well done Shaibu, show that ugly Vagabond governor that you are also a bastard. Ogun kee the two of you

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Sijo01(f): 7:17pm On Feb 21, 2024
Who expected a supreme court governor to conduct a free election primaries undecided

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Sijo01(f): 9:49am On Feb 21, 2024
Criminal sponsored by who?
Does that mean Nigerians are not suffering or there's no high cost of living. angry
Sijo01(f): 5:47pm On Feb 20, 2024
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Tinubu is handling the economy.

Water don garri

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Sijo01(f): 8:34pm On Feb 19, 2024
Only if they had voted credibility as against tribal/religious sentiment

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Sijo01(f): 8:32pm On Feb 19, 2024
Fair enough.
Sijo01(f): 6:09pm On Feb 19, 2024
😲 😲 😲 Kidnapped corpse. Wonder shall never end.

Shittima is handling security 😡

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Sijo01(f): 10:35am On Feb 19, 2024
😁 🤣 🤣 🤣 The wind is blowing.
It will soon ravage like a burning fire 😁 🤣 🤣
Sijo01(f): 1:17pm On Feb 13, 2024
Enskynelson:


I think you may want to remove PGD Public Health from the list because it is not one of programmes in NOUN currently.

Please check your mail.
Sijo01(f): 10:18am On Feb 13, 2024
1k for service well rendered cheesy cheesy
Sijo01(f): 9:34am On Feb 10, 2024
This is torture na. 😔
How does he attend to his person hygiene 😔
Sijo01(f): 7:12pm On Feb 07, 2024
Let the protest spread like wild fire 🔥

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Sijo01(f): 2:33pm On Feb 06, 2024
Nigerians don't need your pet talk before you do neck like ostrich undecided
Sijo01(f): 5:10pm On Feb 05, 2024
Pacesetter123:

Babe nah de way be that.
grin grin grin grin

My dear, that's what I've been doing for years since the so called 'pure water' gave me typhoid.

This their exorbitant price for pure water nor consign me at all.

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Sijo01(f): 5:04pm On Feb 05, 2024
Another the more you look the less you see.

Before fuel was imported because Nigeria has no functional refineries. Now dangote refinery is here, they've changed the music to Nigeria does not have enough crude oil.

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Sijo01(f): 5:01pm On Feb 05, 2024
I have no idea o. Na boil I dey boil my water dey drink o

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Sijo01(f): 9:02am On Feb 04, 2024
Beating well deserved 👏 👏

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Sijo01(f): 10:51am On Feb 03, 2024
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The person behind that handle is a Valwulence somebori
Sijo01(f): 10:46am On Feb 03, 2024
Vischy:
We are teaching Peter Obi a lesson.


Serious lesson o.
He'll hear ween
Sijo01(f): 1:25pm On Feb 02, 2024
How many times will they ban camouflage

Ban without implementing. After this initial gra gra, camouflage will be everywhere again undecided
Sijo01(f): 10:47am On Jan 31, 2024
This guy is now a vagabond since his wife left him. He doesn't have direction any longer. It's now obvious his ex. wife star and grace gave him bearing all these years

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Sijo01(f): 5:21pm On Jan 30, 2024
All except No. 1 😋
Sijo01(f): 11:17am On Jan 30, 2024
cheesy cheesy

Nothing indeed last forever. The untouchable Yahaya is now running from the long hands of the law cheesy

You can only run but you cannot hide. It's one of your aids that will tip EFCC to come pick you up

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Sijo01(f): 11:12am On Jan 30, 2024
tinubu will soon take Nigeria to the first position. cheesy cheesy cheesy

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