Shugafree(m): 9:52am On Jun 02 |
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Shugafree(m): 12:24am On Jun 02 |
Definitely a MISS.
The color combo ain't bad at all but the clothes no fit am.
Again, black belt with blue shoes is definitely a NO NO.
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Shugafree(m): 12:56pm On May 30 |
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Shugafree(m): 12:27pm On May 30 |
Philosopher1979:
There are bad eggs among us men that have spoiled everything. Girls have lived with me for months before without me touching them.
Some of us men ate simoly stupid.
Sorry. But men like this make it difficult for decent men to date ladies
Homie, from my understanding, that person u quoted is no more.
Let her rest .... about an ghost u dey
find?
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Shugafree(m): 11:31am On May 30 |
HugeElephant:
7. Would You Want to Know When You Were Going to Die?
This question might be a little morbid for some; people don’t often want to talk about dying.
How they react to the question already tells you about their personality.
If they’re shocked, it might mean they aren’t prepared for it and still figuring things out.
If they aren’t, it might mean they’ve proactively planned their life and are motivated to keep moving forward.
8. If Someone Stole Bread to Feed Their Family, Would You Consider Them A Bad Person?
The classic Robin Hood question; do the ends justify the means?
There is no objectively right or wrong answer, only different perspectives. Asking this question will reveal to you the person’s moral stance.
A study suggested that how one views topics of morality, justice, and fairness has an impact on their psychology.
This will then tell you more about who this person is, whether they’re strict or relaxed, for instance.
Nice old thread.......
also coming from a f....
How come only 2 peeps on it?
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Shugafree(m): 11:32pm On May 22 |
[quote author=muykem post=135469255]No need for election in 2027 again.
HaHaHaHa, this really cracked me up.
No b lie my brother
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Shugafree(m): 10:50pm On Apr 28 |
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Shugafree(m): 10:44pm On Apr 28 |
[quote author=JESHAL007 post=135153318][/quote]
Nice write up.
However, your use of quid pro quo in point 9 is not correct.
I am refering to caveAdulum's write up on Day 74 redpill 2021.
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Shugafree(m): 10:20pm On Apr 28 |
Pls, where did Akpabio and his crew sit.. Amongst the dignitaries?
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Shugafree(m): 1:08pm On Apr 27 |
Pukkalolo:
There are thousands of resources on game out there. But here's a quick crash course on game.
I will make this pretty straightforward by telling you the first important truth that you need to know about game.
Here it is:
Attraction is predetermined.
Which means, within 15 minutes of interacting with you, sometimes even before you say a word…a woman has already decided: “Would I drop my panties with this guy… or not?”
Let that sink in.
When you show romantic or sexual interest, she will give you a signal:
Green light. Red light. Or Yellow light.
And how you respond determines everything.
Green Light = She’s Into You
She’s curious. She wants to spend time with you. No shakara. No games. No “I’m busy.” She's excited about being with you.
Red Light = She’s Not Into You
She’s not interested. Maybe it’s the timing. Maybe it’s your energy. Maybe you’re just not her type. Don’t waste time here.
Trying to persuade a woman who’s rejecting you is the fastest way to lose your self-respect.
Most of the time, she’s not rejecting you, she’s rejecting the moment. Don’t take it personal. Take it like a man, and move on with your life.
Yellow Light = The Test Zone
When a woman is giving you yellow light, she hasn’t said yes. She hasn’t said no. She’s evaluating.
Women who give yellow lights fall into either of these two categories:
1. She likes you, but she needs emotional safety.
Or
2. She doesn’t respect you, and testing to see how much power she can have over you and exploit you.
Girls that give yellow light are the girls that mostly give out what the redpill called, “Shit test”
I hate the term “shit test” for several reasons(but that's a topic for another day)
Anyways,
There are two popular types of shit test, and how you respond them determines a lots.
Shit Test Type 1: “I’m Superior To You”
This is when she tries to put you below her to see if you’ll start trying to prove yourself.
She throw Lines like:
“I only date tall guys.”
“I’m a spec.”
“You’re too short.”
“You're too old”
And so on…
This is where the weak crumble.
Nice Guy Reaction:
The nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: “I only date tall guys”
Mr Nice guy: “It's not about being short or tall. What's more important is that I can take care of you.”
He accepted her superiority. And wants her to accept him. Test failed.
RedPill-Junkie Reaction
If that shit test is thrown at a redpill-junkie guy, he would take the bait and want to show that's is an alpha guy…
For example:
Girl: “You are short ”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, but I have something taller down there.”
Despite the bravado response, he still fails because he entertains her shallow shit test. This shows he indirectly cares about her opinion Test failed.
High-Value Man Response
A high value guy doesn’t even entertain the shit test.
For example:
Girl: “You are short”
High value guy: “By the way, this Saturday or Sunday will be a good time for us to hangout.”
He demonstrates high value by ignoring the test and concentrate on moving the conversation forward like a boss. He conveys that he 100% doesn't give a shit about her opinion about his appearance or personality. She respect him more.
Shit Test Type 2: “I am not some cheap slut or easy lay”
This is when she says things like:
“I know you’re a player.”
“I only sleep with a guy I am in a relationship with.”
“Is this how you talk to all girls?”
“I don’t know you like that.”
“Let’s take things slow.”
And so on…
With this type of shit test, she's not trying to act superior over you. She's not giving attitude. She's just scared of looking cheap or being used.
Nice Guy Response
Again, the nice guy easily fails this shit test because he immediately started trying to prove himself.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Nice guy: “No no, I'm not like that. I really like you… you are special to me.”
Test Failed… He’s trying to win approval.
Redpill-Junkie Response
He would want to show how alpha he his…
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
Redpill-junkie guy: “Yeah, I’m a player. I play for Chelsea.”
She might laugh…but that doesn't make her become more interested. Why?
But she was expressing a fear: fear of being used or fear of being see as a target object for sex
That response didn't neutralize the fear. It only worsen the fear and make her distrust him more…
High-Value Man Response
A high value guy will acknowledge her fear, but in a detached way.
Girl: "I know you’re a player... all you want is sex”
High value guy: “You don't judge a book by its cover… but if you don't trust me enough, feel free to end this conversation.”
If you noticed, he didn't try to prove himself like the nice guy. And didn't play the tough alpha like the redpill-junkie.
He simply acknowledges her fear but also gives her space to walk away if she can’t vibe.
This is what women crave. This makes him more appealing and she trusts him more. This balance is crucial—too much alpha wannabe will make her defensive, while
too much niceness will kill the attraction.
In summary
Game is simple.
* Show up.
* Indicate romantic interest.
* Watch the signal (green, red, yellow).
Respond accordingly.
* Lead or leave.
You either lead the interaction with masculine clarity—or you lose yourself in feminine emotional games.
I hope this was helpful
Game 101.
Elaborated for Freshers
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Shugafree(m): 4:00pm On Apr 10 |
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Shugafree(m): 1:31pm On Mar 27 |
In my days when I was much younger, we had this elderly igbo man, (not being tribalistic)
who will seize our ball and cut it to pieces any time we children (teenagers) kicked the ball over the fence into his compound .
He usually stayed alone without much or any visitation . and this happened in Lagos..... .
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Shugafree(m): 5:30pm On Mar 18 |
Nice article
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Shugafree(m): 11:52pm On Mar 07 |
I SPIT ON THY GRAVE.
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Shugafree(m): 7:42pm On Mar 07 |
U forgot. Mhiz .........
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Shugafree(m): 4:34pm On Mar 01 |
[quote author=FloraRobert post=134352151]Hahaha. Laugh wan kpai me. Well, our men are not complaining. We love being Igbo, even in my one million generation I will still be onye Igbo.💪🫶❤️🩹🌹💋
So cos of this thread, u had to go change yr dp.
Your is just days old sef
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Shugafree(m): 3:00pm On Mar 01 |
[quote author=b3llo post=134349808]Wonders shall never end. MADAM AKPABIO, please sue Joy Nunieh former NDDC Chairperson. She accused your . of sexual harassment too.
And even gave him a HOT SLAP according to her testimony..
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Shugafree(m): 11:20am On Feb 07 |
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Shugafree(m): 9:13am On Jan 28 |
Government magic !!
I don't think many amongst the poorest of the poor according to them will have those requirements (BVN, NIN) and as such.....
Your guessing is as good as mine
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Shugafree(m): 1:49pm On Jan 27 |
WoundedLamb:
Actually, I'm not profiling Nigerians. My parents are from there and, therefore, I've got relatives there. I personally hate it when white people try to profile blacks. The reason is exactly what you've stated, people are very different. Nigeria is huge and apparently, everyone can't be a gossip like the OP. But then again, you'd also agree with me there's such thing as societal norms. Where I live, people hardly even know who stays next door, what he or she does or what they're up to. Provided you aren't disturbing the neighborhood, you might as well have three heads, no one cares. But in Nigeria, people are generally expected to be acquainted with others around them. People even discuss politics or football with strangers in public places. And honestly, that's beautiful. But then, it easily gets overstretched and the downside of this is that one's life becomes a topic of discussion for others and many people believe it's their right to call you out when you are doing something they consider wrong by their own standards. This causes a lot of a tension and at the end of the day, the whole camaraderie becomes superficial cause everyone has something against everyone. I don't know really but the lifestyle could be very intrusive for someone who isn't used to it.
Nice response. I'm impressed !!
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Shugafree(m): 2:16am On Jan 23 |
Kingcalls:
The day I decided to breK up with my gf...I bought her a perfume , disc man , a pair of sneaker... chocolates and a mini cake and also took her to a fast food for her to enjoy a meal b4 breaking up with her...after I told her dint want the relationship again...she just accepted and left with the gifts...my guys that were sitted on another table were waiting thinking that she will leave the gifts out of heartbreak...but them shock as they saw her leave with the gifts
Interesting thread............
But I think this dude right here takes the AWARD.
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Shugafree(m): 1:50pm On Jan 17 |
[quote author=Starz825 post=133747145]Opportunity to learn a skill in 2020 Few months before COVID...
That skill for don turn me to boss now...
Wetin be the skill?
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Shugafree(m): 11:17am On Jan 15 |
[quote author=Everyday247 post=133725119]It's only possible through the following ways.
1. If you haven't logged into your WhatsApp for some time, and some one had access to your SIM card. They could without your knowledge.
2. They managed to get hold of your phone while it was unlocked and the WhatsApp app was still open. They could link their device as companion device.
If so,then what's the remedy?
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Shugafree(m): 11:31pm On Jan 12 |
[quote author=recklesslove post=133680880]More then 95% of the time that people say they consult and were told their mother is witch this is What is going on.
When your mother is angry with you, cos of your character or the way u treat her or just for any reason at all, that anger or sorrow she feels innocently when she thinks of you creates a force field, that force field now stands against you in the realms of the spirit cos she is your mother n has authority over as someone who carried you in her womb.
If u feel your mum isn't happy with you , et her n beg her , if u need to take people to beg her pls do. Appease her, make sure anytime she thinks of you that she has a smile on her face n see how your life makes a turn around. .
Change the narrative. Your mum isn't a witch.
You are a FUL !
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Shugafree(m): 9:15am On Jan 10 |
[quote author=MadamVanessa post=133652866] 
As someone who had single handedly did my dad's burial, looking at the stainless plaited casket, the hearse, the casket Carrier and the Isiagu material they're putting , bro puts so much money in the funeral but it's not upto the amount mentioned here.
I would love to know the price of the casket sha, small casket made of wood is so costly now talk more of this one. People can spend sha.
Aunty, this ur written English is abysmal
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Shugafree(m): 9:12am On Jan 10 |
MadamVanessa:

As someone who had single handedly did my dad's burial, looking at the stainless plaited casket, the hearse, the casket Carrier and the Isiagu material they're putting , bro puts so much money in the funeral but it's not upto the amount mentioned here.
Aunty, ur written English is abysmal.
I would love to know the price of the casket sha, small casket made of wood is so costly now talk more of this one. People can spend sha.
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Shugafree(m): 4:04pm On Jan 07 |
Hi
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Shugafree(m): 11:26am On Dec 31, 2024 |
[quote author=MadamVanessa post=133509794] 
He made such an incredible choice. Akwa Ibom women are the best for any man. I can hit my chest proudly and recommend them to any sensible man. Congratulations to them.
Wrong.
A lot of Akwa ibom women are not submissive.
They are also not loyal
E.T.C
I know cos I have close ties with that region and have lived there.
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Shugafree(m): 6:05pm On Dec 24, 2024 |
NEVER ! Not even in my 5th coming.
It is good I found this topic so I could possibly get advice from elders.
A man who told me to my face that he doesn't want to see me with money (I was 29 @ the time ).
A man who rejected my gift to him while on me knees requesting for his blessings as I was instructed by a prophet.
A man who stopped my education for no just cause.
A man who goes around tarnishing my image to family .
A man who left Nigerian to the US and has been residing there for the past 20 years without taking any member of his family except his sister.
This is just a tip of the Iceberg.
In fact, I curse that day those drops of his semen entered my mum to form me
Pls don't tell me what I already know
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Shugafree(m): 10:09pm On Nov 27, 2024 |
RedpillAdviser:
There's no way a man can engage in constant sex and be productive. No way! Great men/scientists in history either abstained from women completely or for a long time. Ditto for women, however, the feminine psyche has a larger predisposition towards children and family, unlike men who just use sex as a way of relaxation from work.
Any culture that celebrates nudity and promiscuity is less rational and productive.
They don't do well.
But Ameeica is veey productive
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Shugafree(m): 5:50pm On Nov 26, 2024 |
Merry100:
Yes, I am. Mature women are in a better position to answer questions about women.
Ok, thank u ma'am. I really appreciate
Pls how should my apology go ?
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