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Women might claim independence outside, but they always surrender in the bedroom. For women, a man that's able to dominate them sexually can be likened to a man who is a great warrior. Both possess strength women always fall in love with.

There's no way a man can engage in constant sex and be productive. No way! Great men/scientists in history either abstained from women completely or for a long time. Ditto for women, however, the feminine psyche has a larger predisposition towards children and family, unlike men who just use sex as a way of relaxation from work.

Any culture that celebrates nudity and promiscuity is less rational and productive. They don't do well.

Women please men not the other way around but bluepill conditions men to please women


They are not in love but slaves without authority, respect and dignity

Guys love to KISS AND TELL because fvcking women are like conquering a warrior (see this from an evolutionary perspective as a result of the costly nature of a woman's egg).
On the other hand, women hate KISS AND TELL because it signifies that they are fallen warriors. It means they are cheap. It means their value has reduced. It means a drop in suitors rate.

RedpillAdviser:
Any culture that celebrates nudity and promiscuity is less rational and productive. They don't do well.

In the West, the sexual revolution started in the late 1960's. Three generations (~40 years each) from then would put us in the 2070s.

Are we on the way to collapse?

The evidence points to "yes."

You cannot have both sexual freedom and progress.

Unwin: "Any human society is free to choose either to display great energy or to enjoy sexual freedom; the evidence is that it cannot do both for more than one generation."

Sexual freedom unleashes all sorts of demons on a society.

Couple it with modern medicine, which basically baptizes sexual debauchery with antibiotics and abortion, and you have an acceleration of collapse.

RedpillAdviser:
There's no way a man can engage in constant sex and be productive. No way! Great men/scientists in history either abstained from women completely or for a long time. Ditto for women, however, the feminine psyche has a larger predisposition towards children and family, unlike men who just use sex as a way of relaxation from work.

Any culture that celebrates nudity and promiscuity is less rational and productive.



They don't do well.

But Ameeica is veey productive

RedpillAdviser:
There's no way a man can engage in constant sex and be productive. No way!

Can you elucidate on what you mean by "constant sex"? How frequent would it have to be happening to be regarded as "constant sex"?

Shugafree:



But Ameeica is veey productive

Baba America became prosperous in the 20th century, that's was when they developed to world power based on monogamy, productivity and rationality, very functional and stable Christian society with little or no divorce until the 1970's with the sexual revolution and feminism, now they are in economic decline as majority of production and exportation are done in China, America just has dollar Hegemony based on the ability to retain global supremacy as majority of world trade is done in dollars, they even have the highest national debt.

Alpha fvcks has always being the game. True redpillers know that it's wrong paying for sex or convincing any woman with his money. Broke d!ck or rich d!ck, inasmuch a man is not at the mercy of any pvssy and will
not pay or convince with a dime, sorry, he's alpha! That's attraction because everything revolves round the alpha.

men's peak is thankfully delayed as they go through the trials of life. They gain much-needed insights and wisdom on female nature and life. By the time the men hit their 30s and life starts going their way, men have a useful understanding and appreciation of women and the game and are better positioned to make better use of their own prime sexual market value.

When women hit their prime between 17 and 25ish, they're hot and everything but most don't even capitalize on it cause even though physically they're everything men want and desire, the girls at that age are clueless about the game. They have the assets but without the wisdom to benefit the most from the assets. Hence most end up just squandering the gold on good-for-nothing jerks and by the time the women hit their 30s they've nothing to show for it - just phones and clothes. And once gone, the peak never returns.

Streak47:
Truth is coming out. I wonder what foreign Redpillers would write when they give them a dose of 9ja babes...them go so shout tire.

this is a fact bro. Once you go foreign,to date 9ja girls go be big problem.

JESHAL007:
Pûssy is nothing to women and they know it's a big deal for a high number of men. So, they use it to advantage by dishing it out in place of cash and pretend to men like it is something serious

I've seen some foolish men here advocate that women that they are in relationship with, shouldn't be asked for money. Women often act entitled and get bored when men have to do all without allowing her bring something of interest to the table. Women, are more serious with relationships when they commit resources. Not the other way round.

You are on point.

Men are treating the pussy like it something serious and valuable, And like you said, women are taking advantage of that.

I went to buy a shoe last week that I was intending to wear to a wedding this weekend. I saw the fancy sharp shoe. The seller told me the price of the shoe is #35K. What did I did? I price it lower. I told him I’ll buy for it for #12K.

The seller tried to game me by telling me how the shoe is high quality and sort after, and how it doesn't damage easily, and how there are only two available currently because many guys are looking for this types of shoe.

I counter him by telling me, how I have used similar shoe in the past, and how fancy-looking shoes like this don't last when it's used regularly. And I told him that these kinds of shoes are very much available everywhere. I said, “there are many vendors selling this exact shoe online. And there's nothing special about it.”

After few more back and forth. I bought the shoe for just #14k.

When I came the next day to make enquiry about another item in that store. The Man told me that few minutes after I left, another guy came to price that same shoe(the last one left) and bought it. He said it bought it #29k.

The same quality shoe. I bought it at lower price(#14k, but the other guy bought it at higher price(#29k).

It wasn't that I was broke while the other guy was rich. Far from it. I actually had the money to buy it for that exact 35k if I wanted to. Money wasn't my problem.

The root cause was, the guy treated the shoe like it's worth more value, so he got it at higher price.

But I devalue the shoe and treated the shoe like it worth less value, so I got it at a lower price.

As a Man, if you want enjoy sexual relationships with women, the main thing to do with a woman is to devalue her pussy both in your mind and the girl's mind.

This is because the only power a woman has against you is her pussy. So if you make her feel like her pussy is worth less value to you, you will make her feel vulnerable and insecure in your presence, and the only way to win your validation is to now give you the pussy.

But if you give her the impression her sexual companionship is worth something of value to you, that would only give her more power over you to take advantage of you.

The same pussy I'm smashing for little money and effort. Other guys are spending huge money and putting so much efforts in order to smash that same pussy(most times thet still don't even get the pussy)

The difference is that I devalue the pussy and make it seem worthless. While the other guys put the pussy on pedestal and treat it like it's a trophy to win

Pukkalolo:



You are on point.

Men are treating the pussy like it something serious and valuable, And like you said, women are taking advantage of that.

I went to buy a shoe last week that I was intending to wear to a wedding this weekend. I saw the fancy sharp shoe. The seller told me the price of the shoe is #35K. What did I did? I price it lower. I told him I’ll buy for it for #12K.

The seller tried to game me by telling me how the shoe is high quality and sort after, and how it doesn't damage easily, and how there are only two available currently because many guys are looking for this types of shoe.

I counter him by telling me, how I have used similar shoe in the past, and how fancy-looking shoes like this don't last when it's used regularly. And I told him that these kinds of shoes are very much available everywhere. I said, “there are many vendors selling this exact shoe online. And there's nothing special about it.”

After few more back and forth. I bought the shoe for just #14k.

When I came the next day to make enquiry about another item in that store. The Man told me that few minutes after I left, another guy came to price that same shoe(the last one left) and bought it. He said it bought it #29k.

The same quality shoe. I bought it at lower price(#14k, but the other guy bought it at higher price(#29k).

It wasn't that I was broke while the other guy was rich. Far from it. I actually had the money to buy it for that exact 30k if I wanted to. Money wasn't my problem.

The root cause was, the guy treated the shoe like it's worth more value, so he got it at higher price.

But I devalue the shoe and treated the shoe like it worth less value, so I got it at a lower price.

As a Man, if you want enjoy sexual relationships with women, the main thing to do with a woman is to devalue her pussy both in your mind and the girl's mind.

This is because the only power a woman has against you is her pussy. So if you make her feel like her pussy is worth less value to you, you will make her feel vulnerable and insecure in your presence, and the only way to win your validation is to now give you the pussy.

But if you give her the impression her sexual companionship is worth something of value to you, that would only give her more power over you to take advantage of you.

The same pussy I'm smashing for little money and effort. Other guys are spending huge money and putting so much efforts in order to smash that same pussy(most times thet still don't even get the pussy)

The difference is that I devalue the pussy and make it seem worthless. While the other guys put the pussy on pedestal and treat it like it's a trophy to win

Solid POV, man.

RedpillAdviser:
There's no way a man can engage in constant sex and be productive. No way! Great men/scientists in history either abstained from women completely or for a long time. Ditto for women, however, the feminine psyche has a larger predisposition towards children and family, unlike men who just use sex as a way of relaxation from work.

Any culture that celebrates nudity and promiscuity is less rational and productive. They don't do well.

Truth.

RedpillAdviser:
There's no way a man can engage in constant sex and be productive. No way! Great men/scientists in history either abstained from women completely or for a long time. Ditto for women, however, the feminine psyche has a larger predisposition towards children and family, unlike men who just use sex as a way of relaxation from work.

Any culture that celebrates nudity and promiscuity is less rational and productive. They don't do well.

I beg to disagree on this, do not let us view things from ome side of the lens only. There were ferocious warriors back then that loved partying, fornicating and drinking and they were great and we still mention them till today. Even this writer Charles Bukowski was a drunk, even Edgar Allan Poe

YU might decide to abstain and ur life might still remain stagnant

What I am trying to say is that almost everything in life is a two way street stuff, moderation is just the key to almost everything tho.

Streak47:
Truth is coming out. I wonder what foreign Redpillers would write when they give them a dose of 9ja babes...them go so shout tire.

I don't understand.
The problem with most nugeriannmen may ne they do not understand game. You meet a girl today and un less than a week you are giving her 50000 naira.
Of course, the average girl will relate with you based on money. We men must stop that money us the only way to win a girl ideology. It leads to exploitation.
I think it's the exposure we have. I'm not saying nigerian girls are not to blame but maybe most men in Nigeria cannot think beyond money when trying to woo a girl. Girls too may have decided to exploit the situation

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The problem with most nugerian men may be they do not understand game. You meet a girl today and in less than a week you are giving her 50000 naira.
Of course, the average girl will relate with you based on money. We men must stop that money us the only way to win a girl ideology. It leads to exploitation.
I think it's the exposure we have. I'm not saying nigerian girls are not to blame but maybe most men in Nigeria cannot think beyond money when trying to woo a girl. Girls too may have decided to exploit the situation

Philosopher1979:
I don't understand.
The problem with most nugeriannmen may ne they do not understand game. You meet a girl today and un less than a week you are giving her 50000 naira.
Of course, the average girl will relate with you based on money. We men must stop that money us the only way to win a girl ideology. It leads to exploitation.
I think it's the exposure we have. I'm not saying nigerian girls are not to blame but maybe most men in Nigeria cannot think beyond money when trying to woo a girl. Girls too may have decided to exploit the situation

About 2months ago,a Nigerian man who lived in Togo narrated how humble Togolese ladies are but how Nigerian men have begun to corrupt them by just offering them money immediately they meet them
Nigerian men's mindset when it comes to romantic relationships with women is completely fvcked!
I don talk about this giving women money tire.They never listen.There simply ain't no saving them

Just ed Glycolysis, Ubunja and CAPSLOCKED. Mehn, I really miss the early days of this thread. Shout-out to Martinez39s, luminouz, Ikillbrokehoes, ashewoboy, caveadullam, skepticus, pansophist, etc. It's still a mystery as to why Ubunja decided to go dark. Wishing them good luck wherever they are.

koldrun:
Just ed Glycolysis, Ubunja and CAPSLOCKED. Mehn, I really miss the early days of this thread. Shout-out to Martinez39s, luminouz, Ikillbrokehoes, ashewoboy, caveadullam, skepticus, pansophist, etc. It's still a mystery as to why Ubunja decided to go dark. Wishing them good luck wherever they are.

I dey here baba ..thanks for the mention.

mablie:

About 2months ago,a Nigerian man who lived in Togo narrated how humble Togolese ladies are but how Nigerian men have begun to corrupt them by just offering them money immediately they meet them
Nigerian men's mindset when it comes to romantic relationships with women is completely fvcked!
I don talk about this giving women money tire.They never listen.There simply ain't no saving them

I read that story and was not surprised. It's so bizarre that Nigerian men are always putting money first before game. They did that in SA and Kenya. Funny thing is they will hate you and call you broke when they see you don't do that, still pull ladies and try to advise them. I have seen how jealousy made simps to basically poison a dude just because he gets the best girls around despite not paying

Remove money from most Naija men pockets, ask them to toast a chimpanzee and you will see they will not be able to. Infact they prefer to walk naked with some money tucked into their assholes and be more confident about approaching ladies than without money at all and fully clothed.

I have never been a tribalist but this subset of men seem more common in the East. Once again, not a tribalist, just my observation. There are such simps everywhere in the country though.

JESHAL007:



Baba America became prosperous in the 20th century, that's was when they developed to world power based on monogamy, productivity and rationality, very functional and stable Christian society with little or no divorce until the 1970's with the sexual revolution and feminism, now they are in economic decline as majority of production and exportation are done in China, America just has dollar Hegemony based on the ability to retain global supremacy as majority of world trade is done in dollars, they even have the highest national debt.

Bro, Bluepill ideas have always existed in America before the 1970s and I would like to argue that the impact of the things you mentioned i.e. monogamy, productivity, and "new-testament forgiveness" Christianity fueled bluepill ideas even much more than feminism ever did. They were the tool and still the tool used to nip the concepts in the bud. You can watch American films of the 60s and see that some of these themes have already started creeping in. I watch old films a lot.

Africa maybe before colonialism would be a better example of a country where redpill ideas existed with a functional society and this is on the premise of polygamy, quality of work over "productivity", and African religion.

Monogamy is the tool used for men to give up their sexual strategy(polygamy) in a bid to rather also curtail the woman's sexual strategy(hypergamy), but unfortunately, it does the exact opposite(because one has to give in). This whole productivity is what made white-collar jobs and mental jobs more prioritized and lucrative in the hierarchy today rather than the physical jobs that focus more on quality of work. And I can assure you that it's far easier to be bluepilled when on a very mental job than the physical or less mental. And I can go on and on with other examples...

For me, there is no direct proportionality between a nation's success and its resident's sexuality. If at all there is, I believe it would be positive. Using Sigmund Freud's logic that - All energy is sexual.
Or maybe on a lighter note, Equatorial Guinea's minimum wage of $211 per month which is 5 times Nigeria's own lol.

lymelyte:
this is a fact bro. Once you go foreign,to date 9ja girls go be big problem.

When you say foreign? What do you mean exactly?

Naija babes are not that bad tbh. It's just the economy and the Nigerian situation that makes most of them more survival-oriented. Which is even a good thing for any RP-aware person.

The only girls I prefer a little bit more than Nigerian girls are girls from other African countries and it's just on the premise that they are more sexually open-minded even though many are still survival-oriented but not as much.

But anything aside Africa bro, there is nothing we are facing here that those foreign RP guys have not faced in triple. First, you may think the economy of some countries which is good makes some of their babes less survival-oriented - a good thing, but it is even much worse and fuels hypergamy quicker.

In Nigeria, you may have just game, no money, and a pot belly, but with your good game, you can still build genuine desire and spin plates rapidly while working on your remaining deficits. Aside from the competition being higher, these guys have loads of laws and cultures that aid rubbish.

So bro, let's be grateful for Nigerian babes. They are beautiful, one of the cleanest in the world tbh, and smart too.

Even for the runs girls: the average Western runs girl has a p8mp, is trafficked, is probably a drug addict, has done all forms of perverse acts, is less educated, with a large body count all at a high cost. And still richer than most of her clients especially with OnlyFans.

However, the average Nigerian runs girl is independent, willingly running the show on her own , probably has or getting a Bachelor's or Master's degree, could even cook for you and make your house neater, and even could be more religious than you, may even be a virgin in other areas apart from the center, and depending on your game, you may get all of that for free or even for less than 20-30 dollars.

Let's be grateful, bro.

lymelyte:
this is a fact bro. Once you go foreign,to date 9ja girls go be big problem.

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See begging. Once the guy flirted, the only thing she could think of is billing. It is now almost criminal for you to invite them over without you shilling some coins directly or indirectly. Their format, if they observe you're just an average guy in the money echelon (middle class to lower), you don't want to shill some coins, they act uninterested in coming over, always postponing, finding excuses to come over, guilt you in the process, throw religious cards & more..they'd be very ok though for you to both go on eatery dates.

Also note: if you do happen to shill some coins here and there it doesn't still means those lots will still come over. For a fact, they're likely not to come over. They aren't conscientious & would most likely take you for a fool. So if you want to go the shilling route better also apply some cunning cause even when you shill doesn't still means they would respect the contract.

If you have control over your libido and you are looking for an ideal partner just respect yourself and move to the next girl that may not take a romantic relationship as a transaction. Lucky if you find one in this clime.

If you aren't in a close proximity, like very close neighbors, office spaces, institutions, next door girl; to pull a 'Balthapades' on those lots will be difficult and time wasting task if you are an average guy chatting them off via social media without having to shill some coins here and there cause they'd scarcely oblige to come over.

The best time for you to pull a 'Balthapades' on these lots is in the Universities or Tertiary institutions, I tell you with just a small one room apartment you can go as far as banging a 1000 of them in a session with out shilling a coin, just have your physiques, be bold & daring, dress neat, have a bed and nice space, a couple of food as well. Why so easy? cause you all are in close PROXIMITY. Funny enough during my time in the institution, I was too busy with survival & engineering work load!

luminouz:


I dey here baba ..thanks for the mention.

No p Bro

Philosopher1979:
I don't understand.
The problem with most nugeriannmen may ne they do not understand game. You meet a girl today and un less than a week you are giving her 50000 naira.
Of course, the average girl will relate with you based on money. We men must stop that money us the only way to win a girl ideology. It leads to exploitation.
I think it's the exposure we have. I'm not saying nigerian girls are not to blame but maybe most men in Nigeria cannot think beyond money when trying to woo a girl. Girls too may have decided to exploit the situation

You are absolutely right. Alot of re-orientation need to be done so that men can start acting right.
N:B, no one is saying you shouldnt take your girl out or splurge for yourselves . All I am saying is she should earn it..

pansophist:
A woman you'll pay her bride price, provide for, protect, lead, and sacrifice for, acts like she's doing you a favour, and you accepted it?

The fact that she has the guts to threaten you with breakup everytime is a redline that once it has been crossed, should attract severe consequences.

Foolish women play a game of being intentionally difficult, because they think the onus is on you to keep tolerating, chasing and proving yourself , even if a man did that to the extent that his dignity is preserved.

But a wise woman understands that the real game being played is to make herself worthy enough for you to take her as your responsibility, and coordinate herself in such a way that makes such responsibility bearable for you not to leave.

A wise woman builds her home, a foolish one destroys it . Proverb 14.1

koldrun:
Just ed Glycòlysis, Ubùnja and CAPSLÒCKED. Mehn, I really miss the early days of this thread. Shout-out to Martiñez39s, luminòuz, Ikillbrokehòes, ashewobòy, càveadullam, skèpticus, pansòphist, etc. It's still a mystery as to why Ubuñja decided to go dark. Wishing them good luck wherever they are.

Wow! Long time, bro. Where have you been? Indeed, the earlier days of this thread will always be missed by those who were there. Those days preceding the invasion and subversive attempts by pathetic and childish nuisances.

As for Ubunja, he has gone like many others. As I have said before, everyone won't be here forever. Even CaveAdullam rarely drops posts again. BLOODYSPERM, nerostealth01, hedgefunds, saviolamemphix, SOZINN etc. are really missed.

📍

Martinez39s:
Wow! Long time, bro. Where have you been? Indeed, the earlier days of this thread will always be missed by those who were there. Those days preceding the invasion and subversive attempts by pathetic and childish nuisances.

As for Ubunja, he has gone like many others. As I have said before, everyone won't be here forever. Even CaveAdullam rarely drops posts again. BLOODYSPERM, nerostealth01, hedgefunds, saviolamemphix, SOZINN etc. are really missed.

I've just been hustling bro. Undoubtedly , the thread was much more fun then. So true, everyone won't be here forever. Take care man.