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bastardson:it did already and even came down to 448, I don't see it coming down again. |
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Bro… relax. You're acting like you showed her your bank app and she morphed into Thanos. 1. Not Every Woman is a Villain in a Netflix Drama Not every woman is sitting there, rubbing her hands together like, “Once I see that last zero… he’s finished.” Some just want to know if you can split dinner or afford to fix that one squeaky door in your apartment. 2. Financial Disclosure Isn't a Horror Film You’re acting like telling her your balance is like summoning a demon. It’s not an exorcism, it’s adulting. If you're dating someone seriously, finances will come up. Eventually, she’s gonna notice that your “savings plan” is just a jar labeled “DO NOT TOUCH (unless emergency snacks).” 3. Plot Twist: A Lot of Women Are Balling 2025 called—they said many women are earning their own bags and don’t need yours. In fact, some of them are looking at your balance like: “You know what? We’ll build… together.” Or worse: “Sir, please leave the table. We don’t split bills under $10.” 4. You Might Just Have Trust Issues, Not Riches If your has $1,287.43 and you're guarding it like it’s Fort Knox, maybe it's not women you don’t trust—it’s math. Let’s not act like every woman’s a gold digger when there’s not enough gold to dig. 5. Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe If you're always checking if someone’s after your wallet, you might miss someone who was after your heart. Try attracting people who vibe with your energy—not just your income bracket. Because guess what? If she’s a real one, she’ll roll with you whether you’re ballin’… or budgeting. In conclusion Tell her your balance if you want. If she runs—she did you a favor. If she stays—you might’ve just found your MVP. Either way, the right one isn’t looking for the end of your … she’s looking to build with you. Now go fix your online banking . Not because of her—because you probably forgot it again. Hezzyluv: 19 Likes 3 Shares |
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Real Masculinity Builds, It Doesn’t Dominate. Marriage isn’t a battle of power or survival. It’s a partnership. And while men do make mistakes in marriage — the real errors are often rooted in outdated thinking, pride, or fear. Let’s unpack this: 1. “A woman must love, a man must provide.” False binary. Love and provision go both ways in a modern marriage. A woman can contribute. A man should show affection. Reducing relationships to transactions is why a lot of marriages feel like business contracts instead of emotional homes. A man who only provides but doesn’t emotionally connect becomes a stranger in his own house. And no — it’s not her job to chase you after marriage. If you stop pursuing your wife emotionally, someone else eventually might. 2. “You must always look like a god.” Yes, personal hygiene and appearance matter — for both partners. But a healthy marriage allows space for comfort and vulnerability. Looking good shouldn't be about fear of being left; it should be about self-respect and mutual attraction. If she’s only with you because of your beard oil and boxers, the problem is deeper than your look. 3. “You are the lord. Let her have a say, but have your way.” Bro. That’s not strength — that’s domination disguised as leadership. Real leadership listens. Real men build with their wives, not over them. Being decisive is good — being dismissive isn’t. 4. “She’s not a mind-reader.” True. Communication matters. But it’s not just telling her what you want. Try asking her what she needs, too. Love isn’t just about managing expectations — it’s about understanding and growing together. 5. “Women love conflict.” No. They love connection. What looks like “random conflict” is often unmet needs or emotional disconnection. Avoidance kills intimacy. Mature couples face tough conversations together. If you treat conflict as drama instead of dialogue, you’re missing the deeper issue. 6. “Prepare for the rainy day; never let your wife be the breadwinner.” Prepare? YES. Fear her success? NO. If your masculinity collapses when your wife earns more, the issue is insecurity, not identity. Strong men celebrate their partner’s wins. Marriage is not a competition — it’s coverage. Some seasons you’ll earn more. Other seasons, she might. That’s life. 7. “She’s not your best friend.” Why not? If you can’t laugh, vent, dream, or be your full self with your wife — who are you even married to? Friendship is the foundation of lasting love. You don’t lose your masculinity by being emotionally close — you lose it by being emotionally unavailable. ✨ FINAL WORD: Real men lead, but they don’t lord. They provide, but they also protect emotionally. They pursue wisdom, not ego. And they build with their wives, not just expect to be served by them. We need less alpha performance, and more emotional maturity in marriages today. You don’t lose your role by listening — you strengthen it. allthingsgood: 82 Likes 8 Shares |
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Interesting take, but let’s unpack this a bit. Yes, Altcoin Total Market Cap is at a crossroad — sitting around $904B with visible channels both upward and downward. But here’s where we should pump the brakes before making emotionally-driven assumptions: 1️⃣ “We have more upside than down” — maybe, but not guaranteed. The fact that the upside target is higher ($1.4T) than the downside ($584B) doesn’t mean the market has to go there next. That's like saying because the sky is high, rain must fall upward. Markets follow momentum, liquidity, macro conditions, and sentiment — not symmetry or numeric coincidence (“everything ends in 4”). 2️⃣ Leaning toward downside (584B) may be more probable short-term. Macro headwinds (e.g., Fed policy, global liquidity crunch) Weak altcoin dominance amid Bitcoin consolidation Lack of new retail inflows These all suggest correction or consolidation could come before continuation. The market may test lower before launching higher — it has done that repeatedly in past cycles. 3️⃣ Patience is important — but so is data, discipline, and flexibility. Being patient is great, but being biased toward a particular number without price action confirming it can be risky. Instead of picking a “favorite” direction, it’s smarter to let the chart show the way and react with strategy, not hope. Final Word: Yes, there’s long-term upside in crypto. But near-term moves don’t care about neat numbers or hopeful narratives. Protect capital, use levels, watch volume, and always be open to both outcomes. Because this game? It’s not just patience — it’s preparation. iLegendd: |
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Let’s be fair. Yes, the house stands out, and calling it “the last man standing” isn’t far off — because it’s actually still standing in a place where others couldn’t. Now, about the work being "shoddy" — here’s another angle: - Sand filling is not inherently bad. What matters is compaction, soil quality, and whether it was properly reinforced. You saw red mud? Could be, but it also depends on the purpose of the fill layer and how it was layered — you can’t conclude on appearance alone. - Drainage size and depth need to match the local hydrology — true. But sometimes, what looks small might still be engineered based on calculations we don’t see. Not every effective drainage looks like a canal. Shallow drains can work if they're backed by proper slope and runoff control. - And yes, we can always ask for better standards, but let’s not assume it’s “nonsense” just because it's not what we expected. Maybe it’s not perfect — but it’s also not nothing. Sometimes progress looks imperfect, especially in erosion-prone areas where the terrain fights back. But saying "they just fed erosion" is a reach — it's still a step toward resisting it. Instead of just dragging, how about we push for third-party inspection, transparency, or a phase two that addresses the visible concerns? Critique is welcome. But constructive critique? That’s how we build better. EponObi: 2 Likes 1 Share |
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Poverty and Wealth Can Absolutely Be Hidden — Depending on Intent and Environment. Let’s break it down. 1️⃣ Poverty Can Be Hidden — And Often Is. You said, “No matter how smart a man is, he can’t hide poverty.” But many do — out of pride, dignity, or fear of judgment. Clean but broke: There are people going through hell, but they clean up well, stay composed, wear decent second-hand clothes, use fragrances, and smile through pain. They suppress signs of lack because they don’t want to be pitied or written off. Borrowed image: Some live in borrowed outfits, borrow phones or cars just to show face, or rely on “packaging” to stay relevant in social or corporate circles. Digital disguise: Especially now, a person can look "okay" online — motivational posts, happy selfies — but offline they are living from hand to mouth. Trust me, some of the most financially struggling people are masters of composure. 2️⃣ Wealth Can Be Hidden — Successfully and Intentionally. You said, “Wealth will show eventually.” Sometimes yes, but not always. Some people are truly invisible millionaires — and they prefer it that way. Low-key investors: Many landlords, stock traders, crypto holders, or retirees live quiet, minimal lives. They wear plain clothes, drive basic cars, and don’t care to impress — yet they have assets worth millions. Deliberate humility: Some faith-based or disciplined people avoid flaunting wealth as a principle, not out of fear. Minimalist wealth: In today’s world, being flashy is no longer the only currency of status. A quiet man with investments in tech, real estate, or agriculture may look “ordinary” but be sitting on real power. Wealth isn't just visible in watches and cars. Sometimes it’s hidden in silence, freedom, and control. 💡 The Bottom Line: You can hide poverty. You can hide wealth. What usually gives people away isn’t the money — it’s their ego, pride, or pressure from society. The need to show or the fear of being seen is what truly uncovers people — not their bank s. So yes, poverty tries to show, and wealth tries to shine — But with enough self-awareness, intentionality, and wisdom — both can be concealed. Factcheck0001: 2 Likes 1 Share |
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You’re coming from a place of real experience, and that deserves respect. But let’s go into this with both truth and clarity, not just heat. Yes — what you did was noble, powerful, and life-changing. You gave opportunity where many wouldn’t. That’s true leadership, and it reflects real heart. No argument there. But here’s the strong counterpoint: Giving should be celebrated — not expected. The phrase “Nobody owes you anything” isn’t a license to be cold or selfish. It's a call for people to stop waiting for handouts and start moving with self-drive, so that when help comes, they build with it — not depend on it forever. You gave those young men something powerful: opportunity. But they chose to run with it. You didn’t owe them that — you chose to sow into them. And because they had the right mindset, they made it work. So the message isn’t “never help anyone.” The message is: don’t wait for the world to rescue you — be ready when grace shows up. Because let’s be honest: Some people get chances and waste them. Some wait their whole life expecting someone else to lift them. And some, like your boys, take the blessing and multiply it. So no — people shouldn’t walk around expecting to be rescued. But yes — the world needs more people like you, who still choose to give a chance. So both truths can live together: Nobody owes you anything. But greatness shows when someone gives, even when they don’t have to. You’re the exception. You’re the rare kind of man who gives without noise. But the message still stands: If no one comes to save you — save yourself. And if you do find someone who offers a hand — honor it like gold. That’s how we move forward. Balanced. Real. And not fake. Tradepunter2: 1 Like |
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![]() 🛑 Nobody Owes You Anything 🛑 That job? That ? That opportunity? It’s not guaranteed. And that’s okay. Because once you stop waiting for the world to hand you something, you start building it yourself. 💪 Be the one who shows up. 💡 Learn the skills. 🔥 Create your own momentum. Entitlement holds you back. Ownership sets you free. : You're not behind. You're not stuck. You're just getting started — and it’s all in YOUR hands. #SelfMotivation #Discipline #MindsetShift #TakeCharge #NobodyOwesYouAnything 7 Likes |
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I understand where you're coming from, but let's be careful not to generalize. First, being single or married doesn't change the facts on ground — and the reality is that people are adjusting their lifestyles to survive. Not every family is spending ₦500k a month, even if they eat decently and live responsibly. Here's the breakdown: Yes, food is expensive, and costs have gone up drastically — no argument there. But many families, especially those earning irregular incomes or on salaries below ₦300k, find ways to manage within ₦150k–₦250k for feeding and essentials, without living lavishly. That doesn't mean they’re not eating well — it just means they plan, buy in bulk, cook smart, and cut out extras. Also, not everyone is spending as money "comes in" recklessly. A lot of families budget tightly, yet still don’t have anything left at the end of the month — not because of poor planning, but because income simply can’t keep up with inflation. Bottom line: It’s not about being single or married. It’s about living within your means, understanding how to stretch your income, and acknowledging that even responsible families are struggling — not because of poor choices, but because Nigeria is hard right now. Let’s focus more on sharing practical solutions and empathy, not assumptions. shankara7: 1 Like |
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🔻 1. Food Prices Have Skyrocketed A bag of rice that used to be ₦25k is now ₦70k–₦80k+ in some areas. Palm oil, garri, yam, tomatoes, and even basic condiments like Maggi, onions, and pepper have doubled or tripled in price. With ₦150k, once you buy 1 bag of rice, oil, and soup ingredients for a month, you're already deep into your budget. 🔻 2. Not Every Family Can Switch to Electric Cooking NEPA is unreliable in many areas, and prepaid units are expensive. Electric cookers need stable supply; most people still rely heavily on gas or firewood. 🔻 3. It's Not Always About "Overfeeding" Growing children eat more frequently. Sometimes, feeding well is mistaken for wasting. There's a difference between balanced meals and excess, but cutting too much can also impact nutrition. 🔻 4. Market Prices Are Often the Same Regardless of Who Shops The assumption that “housewives inflate prices” for pocket money isn't always fair. In many markets, especially in urban areas, prices are generally fixed, and the difference is often negligible. Men who visit the same markets are also met with those same inflated prices due to scarcity or transportation cost. 🔻 5. Lifestyle Adjustments Are Already Happening Many families already avoid fast food, branded items, and luxury spending — and still find it hard to cope. Bread from open markets is now ₦900–₦1,200 in many places; even the cheapest items are no longer “cheap.” ✅ In Summary: ₦150k used to be enough, but not in today’s Nigeria. Even with planning, bulk buying, and cutting out "extras," food insecurity is rising because of the bigger economic picture — not just poor financial discipline. Everyone’s reality is different, and while smart budgeting helps, we also need to acknowledge that the economy has made basic survival a struggle for many. blacksam01: |
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You're definitely not alone, and your experience reflects what many Nigerian families are currently going through. Spending ₦200,000 monthly on feeding for a family of 4 is, sadly, becoming common — even modest — given the current inflation, naira devaluation, and rising food prices across the country. 💬 Are Others Spending More or Less? Here’s a general breakdown based on recent from different households: Small families (2–3 people) are spending ₦120k–₦180k/month. Medium families (4–5 people) like yours are often in the ₦180k–₦300k/month range. Some larger or higher-income households report spending up to ₦400k+ monthly, especially if they buy brands, cook frequently, or include baby food, snacks, etc. So your spending isn’t out of range, but it's clearly straining many families’ budgets. 🛒 Why ₦150k Feels Like It’s Not Buying Anything: Prices of rice, garri, oil, yams, tomatoes, pepper, onions, and even eggs and bread have doubled or tripled in under a year. Transportation costs have pushed up market prices due to fuel subsidy removal. Import bans and FX scarcity are affecting items like pasta, flour, seasoning, etc. 🔄 Is There a Way Around It? Here are some realistic tips families are using to cope: 1. Buy in Bulk with Friends or Neighbors forces with 1–2 other families to buy bags of rice, beans, oil, garri, etc. at wholesale markets (e.g., Mile 12, Oyingbo, Wuse Market). Shared bulk purchases reduce per-unit cost. 2. Cook in Batches and Freeze Make large portions of soups and stews, freeze them, and use them across weeks. This reduces gas use, food waste, and constant trips to the market. 3. Focus on Filling, Cheaper Staples Use swallows (like semo, amala, garri) with lighter soups to stretch meals. Add more beans, corn, and okra to the meal plan — they’re nutrient-dense and filling. 4. Meal Plan Weekly It may sound basic, but planning meals weekly helps you stick to a budget and avoid impulse buys. 5. Buy from Local Farms or Markets Early Morning market runs or local farm connections (e.g., for tomatoes or plantain) can help beat city markups. 6. Reduce Soft Drinks, Snacks, and Fast Food These drain money quickly. Making zobo, kunu, or fruit drinks at home can save thousands. Wakatumbit: 3 Likes |
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I did a remote job for a Canadian client. He brought a messed up job and expected me to perform magic on it At the end, we blocked each other. All for a pay of ₦100,000 per month Challenges of working with clients or employers(Nigerians in diaspora) remotely, especially when there's a significant cultural or geographical gap. Let's break it down: 1 Like |
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You mind sharing your strategy and which state is this?
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If you intend to drive it by yourself it is not a bad business but if you want to give it to somebody then you are on your own. I think in transport business you buy ticket(s) from unoin everyday, settle police and tout. Funkybabee: |
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