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Bleep husbands......

Ladies it's better to be single than married,, Nigerian husbands are narcissists

franchasng:
Things That Reduces Your Chances of Finding a Worthy Husband in Nigeria As A Nigerian Single Lady Born in Nigeria & Living in Nigeria


I won't bore you with much details, so let's go straight to the point.


As a Nigerian girl born in Nigeria and living in Nigeria, if you want to reduce your chances of finding a worthy husband in Nigeria, do the below things:


1.) Body Tattoo: no sane Nigerian guy from a sensible family background would want to take you to his parents with visible body tattoo. Yes we are pretenders, but that's the truth.

So before you put that tattoo as a Nigerian Lady that wishes to marry a worthy Nigerian man, think twice.


Nigerian men will date you, spoil you, flex you with your tattoo but once it's time to settle down, he would that tattoo makes a lady appear wild and not well trained lol



2.) Long eye lashes: I am yet to see a worthy Nigerian guy that love those your long eyelashes, not one. So continue putting them on, nothing so you sis.



3.) Live Alone in the city: yes this sound irrational but that's the truth about Nigerian men. You better find a relative or sibling to stay with if you want to marry fast in Nigeria lol.



4.) Nose Ring and Leg Chains: Nigerian men are hypocrites, so follow them like that if you want them to wife you oh. They will praise you as a girlfriend or mistress but once it's time to marry, they want Virgin Mary and Mary Magdalene as wife

Single adult giving marital advise

misplaced priority

Vinnie2000:
Another is having Big Tummy.

If you are 30 and above as a single Lady and have Big Tummy,
LaiLai, you no go ever see Husband marry.

franchasng:
Things That Reduces Your Chances of Finding a Worthy Husband in Nigeria As A Nigerian Single Lady Born in Nigeria & Living in Nigeria


I won't bore you with much details, so let's go straight to the point.


As a Nigerian girl born in Nigeria and living in Nigeria, if you want to reduce your chances of finding a worthy husband in Nigeria, do the below things:


1.) Body Tattoo: no sane Nigerian guy from a sensible family background would want to take you to his parents with visible body tattoo. Yes we are pretenders, but that's the truth.

So before you put that tattoo as a Nigerian Lady that wishes to marry a worthy Nigerian man, think twice.


Nigerian men will date you, spoil you, flex you with your tattoo but once it's time to settle down, he would that tattoo makes a lady appear wild and not well trained lol



2.) Long eye lashes: I am yet to see a worthy Nigerian guy that love those your long eyelashes, not one. So continue putting them on, nothing so you sis.



3.) Live Alone in the city: yes this sound irrational but that's the truth about Nigerian men. You better find a relative or sibling to stay with if you want to marry fast in Nigeria lol.



4.) Nose Ring and Leg Chains: Nigerian men are hypocrites, so follow them like that if you want them to wife you oh. They will praise you as a girlfriend or mistress but once it's time to marry, they want Virgin Mary and Mary Magdalene as wife

You've said it all. I used to hate ladies with double ear pearcing too, in my undergraduate days.

UnknownQueen:
Bleep husbands......

Ladies it's better to be single than married,, Nigerian husbands are narcissists

I pray they listen to you.

Na small boys go teach them pepper.

Talismann:


bro, if she has a big tummy, I mean bulging tummy run oo. Here's what it implies

1. She's lazy to workout, she'd rather be out of shape than even try to exercise a little. It's a sign of a lazy woman

2. She eats junks and spends heavily on food. She will drain you financially and most likely she's a glutton

3. Excessive evacuation or she get pikin for village

She will not want to workout and watch what she eats, she will continue eating and getting out of shape then one day she will start crying that she is loosing her confidence. Then she will start running after all those Instagram vendors selling slimming concoctions and waist slimmers that after wearing prevents them from breathing

Lol

immortalcrown:
Living alone in the city should not be on the list. Replace it with, "Being a single mother".

A career lady with a good job can live alone in the city, there's nothing wrong with it

Ladies just be yourself, what will be will be...........We have people that lacked these things and still ended up divorced or worse DEAD! Nigerian ladies, all that matters is that you're financially buoyant, I'm not talking about one or two million but enough money to ward off any bullshit from a man.

Life favors those who play by their own rules.......DON'T DULL!

Esthered:
I want to believe that the OP doesn't mean the above.

If your daughter OP was to go abroad for her studies, and she gets an apartment of hers where she lives alone upon graduation....and a worthy man will classify her as wayward......

This also applies if she were to be in Nigeria.

My younger sister lives alone (she moved out at 23), I went with her to cover an event this weekend which is her side hustle. There's no way you can call her irresponsible if you meet her sir. I know how many guys are in my DM asking me to link them to her.

There are always exceptions to the rule.

Y'all should marry each other and let us be, honestly, because what is this

Vinnie2000:
Another is having Big Tummy.

If you are 30 and above as a single Lady and have Big Tummy,
LaiLai, you no go ever see Husband marry.

Osondi owendi- one man’s poison is another man’s meat aka one man’s treasure is another man’s trash 🗑️

Lol

meobizy:
You forgot the most important point.

Breathing oxygen.
My sister, if you breathe oxygen to sustain your existence, cancel all hope of becoming somebody’s wife. The worst part of this situation is if you exhale carbon dioxide. Spinsterhood will remain your destiny.

Not true at all.
I know a medical doctor who loves his wife smoking when they go out ..he said it trips him (whatever that means) when his wife is matching him bottle for bottle , cigarettes for cigarettes...is it not on nairaland here we saw a couple doing smoking competition on their wedding reception day Different strokes for different folks...

Kobicove:


You just said it, these are for girlfriends. No reasonable Nigerian guy would encourage his wife to be a drunkard or chimney or any of those things you listed

If you are above 30, forget it. You no got find reasonable man marry. Your time has ed. Your shakara don put you for bag seat.🤣

Peakdesign23:
Some men love their woman smoking, drinking, fixing long nails and lashes, doing bbl, wearing leg chain and nose ring. Infact they encourage their girlfriends to do these things though. Talking from experience.

did your P man encourage your M WOMAN to do all those stuff?

Those are for hook. Up and girlfriend material

No reasonable man with his common sense would encourage his woman to be wearing those stuff

meobizy:
You forgot the most important point.

Breathing oxygen.
My sister, if you breathe oxygen to sustain your existence, cancel all hope of becoming somebody’s wife. The worst part of this situation is if you exhale carbon dioxide. Spinsterhood will remain your destiny.

na dem

H

If you know the kind of men this ladies are moulding in their brains that will come and marry them, you will pity them. A lady that has nothing to offer, will be moulding something that is not realistic, that is why majority of them becomes hook-up ladies for white men in island

Creamypie:
That single mum shit irritates men for anything beyond fling

And who cares?
Delusional naija men think they are price made in heaven all women must strive to attain.

Even d broke and wayward once included

The silence hope killer for ladies looking for husbands is moody look or looking frown or sad at all times. Men want someone who will keep them happy but you are there looking like female fighter with long face always. Omoh e don be for you o.

Marry a foreigner and leave them to their delusions lol.

UnknownQueen:
Bleep husbands......

Ladies it's better to be single than married,, Nigerian husbands are narcissists

UnknownQueen:
Bleep husbands......

Ladies it's better to be single than married,, Nigerian husbands are narcissists

You will end up being a single lonely old woman. Which is very dangerous for us

Am searching for a girl with nose ring as a side babe.

xty50:
Y'all should marry each other and let us be, honestly, because what is this

They are helping you out you better take the simple advice or you will end up being lonely single old woman. Old age matters a lot

lightwind:


You will end up being a single lonely old woman. Which is very dangerous for us

Lonely - I love being lonely.....as a single.
I'll enjoy my loneliness till old age, don't pity me ..Pity yourself....

nnamdi640:
If you know the kind of men this ladies are moulding in their brains that will come and marry them, you will pity them. A lady that has nothing to offer, will be moulding something that is not realistic, that is why majority of them becomes hook-up ladies for white men in island

Especially Igbo women. More especially Imo state women.

UnknownQueen:

Lonely - I love being lonely.....as a single.
I'll enjoy my loneliness till old age, don't pity me ..Pity yourself....

becoming a very lonely old woman in the future is very dangerous for you as a woman. Take advice now.


Take your PRIDE away and come to me, let's build now. I am a Keke driver, living in one room in Warri Delta state here. Come to me now, i have seen your heart spiritual way.

franchasng:
Things That Reduces Your Chances of Finding a Worthy Husband in Nigeria As A Nigerian Single Lady Born in Nigeria & Living in Nigeria


I won't bore you with much details, so let's go straight to the point.


As a Nigerian girl born in Nigeria and living in Nigeria, if you want to reduce your chances of finding a worthy husband in Nigeria, do the below things:


1.) Body Tattoo: no sane Nigerian guy from a sensible family background would want to take you to his parents with visible body tattoo. Yes we are pretenders, but that's the truth.

So before you put that tattoo as a Nigerian Lady that wishes to marry a worthy Nigerian man, think twice.


Nigerian men will date you, spoil you, flex you with your tattoo but once it's time to settle down, he would that tattoo makes a lady appear wild and not well trained lol



2.) Long eye lashes: I am yet to see a worthy Nigerian guy that love those your long eyelashes, not one. So continue putting them on, nothing so you sis.



3.) Live Alone in the city: yes this sound irrational but that's the truth about Nigerian men. You better find a relative or sibling to stay with if you want to marry fast in Nigeria lol.



4.) Nose Ring and Leg Chains: Nigerian men are hypocrites, so follow them like that if you want them to wife you oh. They will praise you as a girlfriend or mistress but once it's time to marry, they want Virgin Mary and Mary Magdalene as wife

yinmu

Don't let minimal exposure deceive you. Enter island n Ikoyi registry to o see people with those attributes and more getting married on Saturdays

lightwind:
becoming a very lonely old woman in the future is very dangerous for you as a woman. Take advice now.


Take your PRIDE away and come to me, let's build now. I am a Keke driver, living in one room in Warri Delta state here. Come to me now, i have seen your heart spiritual way.

Very dangerous ke, .
Don't worry about me lightwind, na 6ft go end all of us last last, I don't mind drinking sniper if the pain is too much for me to bear.....
I've seen people with children suffer pain in old age, they weren't lonely but left alone in their sickness...so what difference did it make.

Esthered:


At 24, wetin she dey find for man house. Let her enjoy her youth.

If you can't vouch for your sibling, I can vouch for mine to a reasonable extent.

listen and be wise, 24 is a perfect age to get married. Ask around. 20 to 24 is the perfect range. Be informed.

Now while I am not implying your sister na OS, you need to understand that a young, unmarried lady living alone (in Nigeria) is bad optics and sends a wrong message to potential suitors regardless how you choose to sugarcoat it.


There's a reason females look for female roommates if they can't help but get their own space.

Many years back we stayed in a compound with an unmarried, young pretty lady (22y) who was on her own. Omo we no know say she be landlord side chick and the landlord wasn't even staying in the compound with his tenants.


Na landlord wife come one early morning come expose her and na church girl. No be small wahala that day.

Be guided.

Esthered:
I want to believe that the OP doesn't mean the above.

If your daughter OP was to go abroad for her studies, and she gets an apartment of hers where she lives alone upon graduation....and a worthy man will classify her as wayward......

This also applies if she were to be in Nigeria.

My younger sister lives alone (she moved out at 23), I went with her to cover an event this weekend which is her side hustle. There's no way you can call her irresponsible if you meet her sir. I know how many guys are in my DM asking me to link them to her.

I agree. Staying alone should not be a problem if she can't help it and it's a better option but then having 300 Spartans in ur DM seeking a linkup with ur sis doesn't mean they want to wife her. They might just be all thirsty