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Things That Reduces Your Chances of Finding a Worthy Husband in Nigeria As A Nigerian Single Lady Born in Nigeria & Living in Nigeria


I won't bore you with much details, so let's go straight to the point.


As a Nigerian girl born in Nigeria and living in Nigeria, if you want to reduce your chances of finding a worthy husband in Nigeria, do the below things:


1.) Body Tattoo: no sane Nigerian guy from a sensible family background would want to take you to his parents with visible body tattoo. Yes we are pretenders, but that's the truth.

So before you put that tattoo as a Nigerian Lady that wishes to marry a worthy Nigerian man, think twice.


Nigerian men will date you, spoil you, flex you with your tattoo but once it's time to settle down, he would that tattoo makes a lady appear wild and not well trained lol



2.) Long eye lashes: I am yet to see a worthy Nigerian guy that love those your long eyelashes, not one. So continue putting them on, nothing so you sis.



3.) Live Alone in the city: yes this sound irrational but that's the truth about Nigerian men. You better find a relative or sibling to stay with if you want to marry fast in Nigeria lol.



4.) Nose Ring and Leg Chains: Nigerian men are hypocrites, so follow them like that if you want them to wife you oh. They will praise you as a girlfriend or mistress but once it's time to marry, they want Virgin Mary and Mary Magdalene as wife

5.) Keep Using The Most Expensive Phone: I know it's your money your business, but if you want them to rush you with marriage proposal in Nigeria, learn to lay low unless you are DJ Cuppy and you know what she has been through



6.) Be a Social Media Freak Always On Facebook, Snapchat, IG, TikTok, etc: my sister you go teh for your Papa house oh lol. Unless you are using the platforms to make money or grow your career and he knows this, if not, hmmm



7.) Your Phone Is Always Ringing Like a Call Center Line Whenever You Are with Him



8.) Have Many Female Friends; Your Oppression Gang lol



9.) Be a Single Mother or Get Pregnant Out of Wedlock: The journey to finding a worthy husband no go easy at all, it's sad but that's how Nigerian men are

Living alone in the city should not be on the list. Replace it with, "Being a single mother". Living alone in the city becomes a questionable decision only if she lives in a separate yard on the same street where her parents live, or her parents lives close to her workplace but she chooses to get an apartment that is far from the workplace.

Using expensive phones is not a sign of bad character unless the girl is jobless and from a poor home.

Getting so many phone calls is not a sign of bad character unless the girl is jobless and all she does on those calls is gossip. How many phone calls one gets doesn't define the person. What defines the person is what the person discusses during those phone calls. Someone that receives just a few phone calls can be more irresponsible than someone that receives numerous phone calls.

immortalcrown:
Living alone in the city should not be on the list. Replace it with, "Being a single mother".

Check the second list lol

Another is having Big Tummy.

If you are 30 and above as a single Lady and have Big Tummy,
LaiLai, you no go ever see Husband marry.

franchasng:
Check the second list lol

You only had, "Continued" as your comment when I made my main comment. You sound as if the second list was here when I made the comment.

Meanwhile, 5 and 7 should also not be on the list. No rational parent will reject son's fiancee because of those three things I have pointed out.

Vinnie2000:
Another is having Big Tummy.

If you are 30 and above as a single Lady and have Big Tummy,
LaiLai, you no go ever see Husband marry.

Unfortunately some are as a result of fibroid which is beyond their control



But honestly, I hate big tummy on a lady, especially the single ones more than any other thing.



Dear ladies please strive to work on your tummy, I know it's not easy but try please, there is nothing sexy about a lady having a big protruding tummy when she isn't pregnant. It even makes you not to have fitting on any clothe

This will definitely come to front page. Very valid points. Staying alone lady and big phones are a turn off

10. Dey find person wey get car

I want to believe that the OP doesn't mean the above.

If your daughter OP was to go abroad for her studies, and she gets an apartment of hers where she lives alone upon graduation....and a worthy man will classify her as wayward......

This also applies if she were to be in Nigeria.

My younger sister lives alone (she moved out at 23), I went with her to cover an event this weekend which is her side hustle. There's no way you can call her irresponsible if you meet her sir. I know how many guys are in my DM asking me to link them to her.

You forgot the most important point.

Breathing oxygen.
My sister, if you breathe oxygen to sustain your existence, cancel all hope of becoming somebody’s wife. The worst part of this situation is if you exhale carbon dioxide. Spinsterhood will remain your destiny.

Some men love their woman smoking, drinking, fixing long nails and lashes, doing bbl, wearing leg chain and nose ring. Infact they encourage their girlfriends to do these things though. Talking from experience.

That single mum shit irritates men for anything beyond fling

1) All that is filled in your social media s is your twerking videos and making sultry selfies in different bedrooms with white bedsheets.

2) Saying you are a virgin yet having a long knife scar in your lower abdomen which you explain it was caused by an accident.

3) Always going out at night with heavy make up and coming back early in the morning with the excuse that your factory work shift happens at night time.

4) Snoring loudly and talking to yourself and at the same time making different facial expressions every time you are asleep.

Peakdesign23:
Some men love their woman smoking, drinking, fixing long nails and lashes, doing bbl, wearing leg chain and nose ring. Infact they encourage their girlfriends to do these things though. Talking from experience.

You just said it, these are for girlfriends. No reasonable Nigerian guy would encourage his wife to be a drunkard or chimney or any of those things you listed

Creamypie:
That single mum shit irritates men for anything beyond fling

Dating one is not a problem bro. They will samer you with lots of love , but don't lose guide

And the most funny thing is that you will have lots of access to that couchhie more than those dating single extremely young women.😂😅😅

franchasng:

I won't bore you with much details, so let's go straight to the point.

1.) Body Tattoo: no sane Nigerian guy from a sensible family background would want to take you to his parents

Straight to the point according to who?

These days, even boys that have no Reg Number (not to even talk of GP) will just come and open thread to impose their boring opinions.

meobizy:
You forgot the most important point.

Breathing oxygen.
My sister, if you breathe oxygen to sustain your existence, cancel all hope of becoming somebody’s wife. The worst part of this situation is if you exhale carbon dioxide. Spinsterhood will remain your destiny.

This one don vex oh. Avoid her. 😂

Peakdesign23:
Some men love their woman smoking, drinking, fixing long nails and lashes, doing bbl, wearing leg chain and nose ring. Infact they encourage their girlfriends to do these things though. Talking from experience.

Encourage their girlfriends? how many do you know encourage their wives to do that?

To me, u con fair

🥱

See as women mount here dey vex. Men aren't allowed to have standards?

Peakdesign23:
Some men love their woman smoking, drinking, fixing long nails and lashes, doing bbl, wearing leg chain and nose ring. Infact they encourage their girlfriends to do these things though. Talking from experience.

Madam those are only for women they're JUST having sex with. They have no intention to marry those women. Na wah o, men dey here dey talk wetin dem want, una wey be women go dey argue. Just shut up and learn for God's sake! And any woman who do most or all of those things you mentioned, is most definitely gonna be a hoe. That's the reason MOST men don't wife them up. They end up being single mothers, or hiding their nature so they can deceive one innocent man into wifing them up.

torqque7:


Them no get sense na..normal ,na why men dey call them fish brain be that..how can you think a man that wants to marry you will push you to look like you are for the streets?common sense hard some of this gender sha.

Dem too stubborn. Learn, Dem nor go hear. Men go dey tell them what other men find attractive and unattractive for a relationship and marriage, dem go dey follow you argue.

Ladies, listen and use your bleeping brains for once! A man who lets you dress and act like a PROSTITUTE In public either doesn't really like you, or he's just a fucking pussy and too scared to tell you.
If it's the first one, he's just using your dumbass for sex and would soon throw you back into the streets when he's done with you.

meobizy:
You forgot the most important point.

Breathing oxygen.
My sister, if you breathe oxygen to sustain your existence, cancel all hope of becoming somebody’s wife. The worst part of this situation is if you exhale carbon dioxide. Spinsterhood will remain your destiny.

Na this sarcasm and Stubbornness to learn, go make you end up as either single mother or lonely old woman for future.
Men dey give una their standards in women, you dey here dey argue.
If you have all of those things the OP mentioned, men would just use you for sex only and throw you away when they find a responsible woman who does/has none of those things.
But will you learn? No!

Esthered:
I want to believe that the OP doesn't mean the above.

If your daughter OP was to go abroad for her studies, and she gets an apartment of hers where she lives alone upon graduation....and a worthy man will classify her as wayward......

This also applies if she were to be in Nigeria.

My younger sister lives alone (she moved out at 23), I went with her to cover an event this weekend which is her side hustle. There's no way you can call her irresponsible if you meet her sir. I know how many guys are in my DM asking me to link them to her.

and na why that your younger sister never still marry yet.

You seem to think you know her so well to vouch a 100% for her

odinson1:


Na this sarcasm and Stubbornness to learn, go make you end up as either single mother or lonely old woman for future.
Men dey give una their standards in women, you dey here dey argue.
If you have all of those things the OP mentioned, men would just use you for sex only and throw you away when they find a responsible woman who does/has none of those things.
But will you learn? No!

they never learn. They should keep it open for us always abeg. No time

Vinnie2000:
Another is having Big Tummy.

If you are 30 and above as a single Lady and have Big Tummy,
LaiLai, you no go ever see Husband marry.

bro, if she has a big tummy, I mean bulging tummy run oo. Here's what it implies

1. She's lazy to workout, she'd rather be out of shape than even try to exercise a little. It's a sign of a lazy woman

2. She eats junks and spends heavily on food. She will drain you financially and most likely she's a glutton

3. Excessive evacuation or she get pikin for village

Talismann:


they never learn. They should keep it open for us always abeg. No time

Aje some women too stubborn. They'd be doing all manner of nonsense, and when men call it out, saying that men looking for relationships don't find those traits in women attractive, they'll say that there are some men who like women like that.
They don't know that those men are just using them for sex

Juoflife1:
Marry a foreigner and leave them to their delusions lol.

Where you wan see foreigner wey go marry you?
Wetin you fit offer that foreigner exactly wey go make am marry you? This woman thinks It is only Nigerian men who have standards
My dear, MOST men, regardless of nationality or religion, have the same standards in women. If you like be stubborn and don't listen when men tell you what they want.

As a man the only thing that would keep me far apart from a lady is her being a single mum, other things can be resolved.

Talismann:


and na why that your younger sister never still marry yet.

You seem to think you know her so well to vouch a 100% for her

At 24, wetin she dey find for man house. Let her enjoy her youth.

If you can't vouch for your sibling, I can vouch for mine to a reasonable extent.

franchasng:
Things That Reduces Your Chances of Finding a Worthy Husband in Nigeria As A Nigerian Single Lady Born in Nigeria & Living in Nigeria


I won't bore you with much details, so let's go straight to the point.


As a Nigerian girl born in Nigeria and living in Nigeria, if you want to reduce your chances of finding a worthy husband in Nigeria, do the below things:

Bro, be careful. Why are you braking all guys code na?? You want all these women to increase their pretense games for men??

These are secrets code we use to filter them and you are here throwing the codes out in the open

Who dey go Lagos from Abuja abeg help a Nigerian

hmmm