NewStats: 3,263,949 , 8,182,042 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 12:06 AM j3i2q

Smithwilliams826:
All of whona just dey talk is bad. Until u marry o lo sho con mistakenly find out whona go no say e good

no mind dem.

I one time I was with one babe over 10 years ago sha. Na so this babe with her beautiful face and everything come dey act love up things. She wan even mark territory for my head but one day na so the babe come my house looking so tired and I started to wonder why someone who told me she's been at home all day and is just coming straight from her house can be so tired.
I checked her phone and saw that this babe slept with one guy in ojota then she moved to Navy town (Old Ojo road area) to sleep with another before she came back to area to bang another guy. how one person can cover all that distance in one day cos of preek, she must have been well paid so why did she come here complaining of hunger? Na so I check her hand bag, no money. She was just a cheerful giver.
Checking her handbag further, na so I see femtight soap. 😂.
I no vex at all, na so I sleep with peace of mind knowing that I NOW KNOW who I am dealing with and how to draw boundaries.

Its totally wrong to pry into your partners phone for many reasons. Humans misunderstand and often jump into conclusions and what you see there will make you do just that, even when explained and told the truth you will not believe because of what you have seen or read. , almost all humans have skeletons in their closet and not everything hidden is about sex or cheat related.

Your partners job may require him/her to interact and exchange s with clients, some of these clients may just start sending all sorts of messages and you are required to handle them maturely without pushing them away cos your employers need you to maintain the relationship. For example: bankers, marketers, consultants, entertainment industry professionals, managers and workers in bars, clubs, restaurants, law enforcement, recreational environments etc Any of the above mentioned people here have stuff that shouldn't get to their partners eyes or ears or else them go explain tire. Some will never believe after all the explanation.

Confidential/ Secret information may also be reasons why partners should never go through each others phones. If a partner works with DSS, NIA, DIA, EFCC, NPF, or even some sensitive government & private jobs. it should be understood that their phones are off limit. It is ethically wrong for any of them to divulge some classified information to their partners which may also be in their phones, and which may be stumbled upon while searching through your partners phones.

Whether we like it or not there are alot of things partners rather keep to themselves for peace of mind, and they have nothing to do with infidelity. Unless both parties accept to be totally open, partners should recognize each others space and right to privacy.

This matter is a very natural one. Some people say it's a necessary precaution while some say it's foolish.

Do you realise that there is the level of transparency you and your partner will have, it would not be considered 'checking your partner's phone' again. It would be like you are checking your own property.

A lot of commitment, decency and honour have left a lot of us that is why everybody is acting weird nowadays.

If I check my partner's phone and I see some family secrets inside, I should have the decency to protect my spouse by behaving like I did not see anything.

At last, WE ARE THE BEGINNING OF A CHEATING GENERATION. That's why a lot of bad is slowly turning to look good.

This is very tricky. I don't check but that doesn't mean I won't if I need to. If you are giving me reasons to I will definitely check.

continue checking the phone, what you are looking for in the phone you will see. And when you see it you will cry, after crying you will return to your father's house.

Jokay07:

It's better you find it now and cry now than to find it later and cry later which might be too late

U said it all... I checked my spouse's fone n went into premature labour days later... But am glad I checked Den... Later wudda been too late. I know my priorities now... I am wiser now...
I have healed n moved on... Later wudda been too late n I wudda been d looser

You don’t need it, your feelings will be too hurt with the discovery

900warriorz:
What crazy app?

Dialpad:
You don’t need it, your feelings will be too hurt with the discovery

What If I really need to know whatsup so I can find peace?

Please, what app is it?

Whether we like it or not, the person that wants to check will not rest until he/she checks the phone..lolz

But it's an act of immaturity! it never ends well

Naya25:
Checking your partner' phone while in a relationship or marriage is not advisable at all... Cos as you check/dig, you are going to dig up dirt in the end ..

To avoid having high BP, avoid checking your girlfriend or boyfriend' phone .. if you are fond of doing it, you go wound o....

it’s very good. Any time I’m looking for a reason to break up I snoop.