NewStats: 3,263,780 , 8,181,386 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 09:37 PM 214y23

Charlieabc:
That's for babies. Have been with my babe for 3years, I have never suspected her for anything. I didn't know her but anytime I have a thing to do on her phone, she willingly unlock for me. I won't allow things that are not to kill

You should be worried if she starts protecting the phone...so far na she dey unlock willingly, you are good

BOBAN2710:



Weak man talk

What is her privacy in coding phone for you?

This one don eat puss" full

What exactly do you want to see in her phone?
Insecurity go kee some of una

What are you looking for? Nah pot of soup?

It is a wrong question whether checking your partner's phone is good or bad? It should be "Is it wise or foolish?" It is completely foolish. Period!

We carry other people's secrets on our phones. Discussions with our families, which include siblings and parents. What about the counsellors and psychiatrists? Should they expose their phones so their partners can have access to secrets? Or Dangote or Adenuga should open their phones to their partners so that they can see transactions that they are unable to explain, and some funds may not even be theirs, and their spouses see them and begin demanding new irrelevant things if they are not working or making such large profits.

Discharge your partner if you notice he or she checks your phone every now and then during the courtship. It indicates that there is no trust in the marriage. But it doesn't means our partners shouldn't use our phones at all. If one's partners are always too aggressive or fearful when their phone is picked up, leave the relationship immediately. They must be able to gently explain why they cannot share certain information. You don't expect me to show you all my WhatsApp chat. Never. I won't show you my conversations and secrets with my siblings. Never. I won't show you my conversations with people I counsel. No way. People trust me to talk to me, and I must not share such conversations with my partner. If you cannot understand this, there is no trust between us, and that is the end of the relationship.

Some even installs monitoring device on their partners' phone. As in....for real? Ypu think it is wise, but it shows such person isn't. The wise thing is to leave such the moment you discover there is no trust.

The issue now is that partners revenge when counsellors don't show them conversations with their clients. Partners are manipulative. Many pastors spouses want to read discussions with church . And then, when the person puts s on their device, they also lock theirs and even go further not opening up in issues concerning only both of them. That's where real wahala starts. I have seen this pattern.

I have no solution other than that I have seen couples who don't disagree over these issues. And after discussing with them, I realised that choosing the right partner is the KEY. And from my investigation, I realised that only those who have very deep relationship with God and hear from Him have such excellent relationship. I'm not talking abut those who run from prophets to pastors to imams, but those who seek God on their own ans get directions. Not those who go get directions from other people because they cannot receive direct answers from God. Not those who go to meet others and then dream. That is not God talking to you. Anyway, this issue is deeper than what most people think.

If you partner is too possessive, that's a wrong signal. If you live abroad especially in the US and your partner is monitoring everything, that's a wrong signal. Even those ladies should know that anyone who pushes them to start monitoring their phones isn't meant for them. But the truth is that angels should not be monitored too. For what? If there is no trust, there is no relationship.

No wonder the rate of divorce is extremely high.

dibunotion:
Anything wey your eyes see, you take

i dey tell you, like i go just go use my hands find trouble for my peace of mind...

its better i keep assuming its happening than for me to see or witnes it...

and if its happening, the actions will definiely reveal it some day, nothing bad can hide forever

the only reason why anyone should go all out to look for evidence in my own opinion is that if the person wants to end such relationship and marriage

I asked my wife to hand me her phone with , she said, she can't give me.

What do you think I can do next?

Olamimb:
I asked my wife to hand me her phone with , she said, she can't give me.

What do you think I can do next?

Two of you are single

Why did you say so?
She was saying she doesn't know my too

Honestly, I'm confused. What kind of wife is this

Bad

Olamimb:
I asked my wife to hand me her phone with , she said, she can't give me.

What do you think I can do next?

She is hiding something. This does not mean she is cheating, may be there is something she does not want you to know

CHEATING WOMEN ALWAYS CHECK THEIR MENS PHONE THE MOST

People are talking of trust. Trust is one luxury guys cannot afford o. Unless you want to raise other men's kids in your house.

, about 30% of all kids and 35% of firstborn kids belong to some dude outside.

Guess what? Trusted wives do it the most. They know the hubby will never suspect.


At least, a cheating guy can't deceive his wife to raise a child from another woman.

A woman can simply walk away if hubby cheats.

If you have been raising bastards, you find out and kick her out, she still gains. The kids are still has and you helped her raise them.

So before you marry and at childbearing phase, check her. Raise no bastards.

Naya25:
Checking your partner' phone while in a relationship or marriage is not advisable at all... Cos as you check/dig, you are going to dig up dirt in the end ..

To avoid having high BP, avoid checking your girlfriend or boyfriend' phone .. if you are fond of doing it, you go wound o....

If you like don't check...you will never find out that the Uncle they are calling for you is actually their Sugar Daddy and not related to any of her family

It is good and OK.

I don't my phone but I know she always check bank alerts to know when to ask for more money

Tradepunter2:
Very bad.... Me and my wife use each other's phones..... Nothing to hide. Even at that I don't go through her phone and I don't really care if she goes through mine when she uses it

That's the way it should be. But this generation and unfaithfulness are like Siamese twins. If you suspect your spouse (girlfriend or boyfriend no be spouse oO) to be hiding something from you, that's important. In that case I see nothing wrong in checking her/his phone. But when a marriage relationship got to that stage, then something is seriously wrong with the individuals involved.

Nazgul:
If you can give him your body but lock your phone, you're clearly hiding something. Cos the logical question should be has your body become more private than your phone?

Same goes to guys as well. You shouldn't have any problem granting access to someone you freely and comfortably give your body to.

For me I cannot date any girl who tells me her phone is her privacy, you can't be lying naked on my bed and be talking about privacy. There's definitely something in that phone you don't want me to see.

I value my phone my unclothedness bra

wunmi590:


It is very bad, that's a childish act...

I buy new phone for my wife anytime I feel she needs née phone, bit that doesn't give me the audacity, just because I bought it for her or because I'm the husband to have non permission access to her phone...

I don't even take her phone, my kids of 4years and 1year plus always rush to give her the phone, anytime is ringing...

I trust my wife and she trust me too, that doesn't mean I don't have to her phone, but I don't need to open her phone behind her....

ur marriage will likely last.no near der.the day u go see a d day ur marriage go end.u must see.

optimistfeel:
To live long in this world... Avoid checking your partner phone👂👂👂 even anybody phone. Shun Unnecessary headache.

yes.whats the worst thing a partner can do,cheat.if it makes dem happy they should go ahead Nthg borders me.partner wey I no kuku disvirgin.nthh Dey all this Thgs

splendournoni:
The more you know life is simple and you will die one day, all these type of questions will not pop up...

I use the same with my wife and she knows all my s and ..

me too.ntng dey all this Thgs my brother.If na Toto u wan Dey guard Shey Jnr pope still know who Dey chat em wife now?if i see my wife with man now sef e fit no bother me o.i don give up on life and stuffs well well

Nazgul:
If you can give him your body but lock your phone, you're clearly hiding something. Cos the logical question should be has your body become more private than your phone?

Same goes to guys as well. You shouldn't have any problem granting access to someone you freely and comfortably give your body to.

For me I cannot date any girl who tells me her phone is her privacy, you can't be lying naked on my bed and be talking about privacy. There's definitely something in that phone you don't want me to see.

People have other reasons why they lock their phones....its not always about cheating... if could be a friends secret that the friend doesn't want anyone else to know , it could be a member of family... it could be a top secret or classified documents from ur office .... only a psychopath or an insecure person that will wanna be checking his partners phone ...

You may not get a heart attack from DNA result in future.

Check oooooooo

Well, to me is not bad if your partner has access to your phone that shows that you are a loyal and a faithful person to be.


Why packing more than one partners

Cheating or King Solomon....something is got to kill a man and definitely not 1 woman though.

Just saying...I no get time for drama, u do anyhow, I show u the door.

vincenteger:
It's bad oo

What exactly are we hiding
This generation and cheating

You have right to check your partners phone most expecially if you the one taking care of their responsibilities. If not no need let them be

It's not a healthy thing to do sha 😔

malaria:

You should be worried if she starts protecting the phone...so far na she dey unlock willingly, you are good

Ofcourse. Like I used to say, there are clear signs when a lady is cheating or about to. It's not a hidden thing.

ufotunang:
.do you also allow her to check and use your own phone

Ofcourse. She even use my phone more often to the extent she get used to the . But because I rarely use hers, I most time confused her

Naya25:
Cos as you check/dig, you are going to dig up dirt in the end ..

And this is clever?
I mean, you know there is dirt but you rather not find out?

For me I don't have the time to check for all that rubbish cos I can easily ghostmode the partner even when she has done nothing wrong not to talk of when I have a tiny feeling that something doesn't add up. I no need to check phone.

All of whona just dey talk is bad. Until u marry o lo sho con mistakenly find out whona go no say e good

Iweakbro:
It's very terrible. Naso she go discover say I have two baby mamas, some other girls(especially one at our workplace).

There is nothing she doesn't call me. A manipulator, devil, wicked person, demon, efulefu, etc.

I gave you the phone to play Royal Match, you should have done just that.

Omo.. I weak bro.

Legend 😂