NewStats: 3,263,993 , 8,182,192 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 08:19 AM 1m413n

This topic had been bothering me for a long time that I don't feel satisfied with the responses I get offline on it...


I want the scholars on here to please shed more light on this:

Thieves kept bulging into church and mosque buildings to steal electronics and money...after several praying and reporting to the police with no positive results...the pastor concluded on getting a guard...*vigilante corp* to help secure the church at night while each pay for his salary.


Nobody dare enter a shrine to steal without instant repercussions...so I'm confused and need clarification Sirs/Mas.

Train a child in a way he should go...when he grows up he'd never depart from it.


Old age wouldn't be a problem should the man treats his wife well while they were still young.

Kids never forget...no matter how long the ill treatment is... they're only waiting for the right time to pay back for all the abuses.


Many modern men have started learning and adjusting to being there for their wives and kids...not financially alone but all aspects to safeguard their old age.

Be good to your family especially kids cos they are your tomorrow.

Reading through all the comments baffled me as to who the person breaking sincere women hearts are.....


Every commenter above kept painting women badly....how about we women that were used...jilted and dumped despite the sincere love ..sacrifices and commitment....na same women too?


This campaign about women being useless is becoming harsh on Nairaland that the few innocent ones are getting tangled up in the whole mess.... truly some women are bad but this generalization isn't worth it...have you dated or married all the women in the universe to create a yardstick for generalization?


Eniyan lon ko esin loro....esin o ni ika ninu..

abobote:

Exactly like following different men at the same time

I don't know about that....as I've never practiced such lifestyle.


Multi-task in raising kids... taking care of the home and spouse... functioning well in career and working diligently in the church and others.


Women are strong.

I'm proud to be one of them!

Ability to multi-task comfortably.

Hmmmmmmmmmm

jaksmillioniar:

I respect coco a lot she know dat. Even if I senior her a lot with over 6 years but as she marry b4 me born b4 me I give her dat respect. But dat dont mean she will do or say wrong and I will keep quiet my problem with coco is she keep ing wrong keep attacking me and try to bring rubbish oyibo life in nairaland.why gay. U are abroad but want girls to think wit oyibo brain wen it will cause dem pain as naija is diffrent.If a man make a mistake she begin to insult me dey talk dat der is noting wrong with divorce.u got bro and sis as u are growing up u fight somtimes did u now disowned them? why say a woman divorce her hubby if he do bad to her wit little mistake. Did she know dat most children dat Thier parent divorce are in pain so why dat. I try to make her see dat as men do evil so are women too. Is a hippocrates dat will be crying in any blog were a man cheat or beat his wife but when a woman cheat too or kill her hubby coco wont talk but will be silent.if I attack her she will start insults.

I'm still very sure that she's a good person...I've known her for close to a decade on here.


You people should settle whatever disputes amidst amicably as an adult and stop calling yourselves out on here....... thanks

jaksmillioniar:
I Neva hate coco i see her as a friend even if we fight a lot.she mean a lot to me my problem with her is d way she react against men and advise she give against marriage and relationship

The more you see.....

Cococandy is one of the happily married ladies on here...her response to posts are not always bias...she states the truth at all the time..unlike the others.

She's not just a responsible wife and mother but a professional health practitioner which earns her more respect on here.

Kindly subtract her name from the list.

HopeSpencer:
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When I was married, wife stopped sex with me when she became pregnant. After delivery, I waited for many months. Then it became once in a month after serious begging. The only meaning I gave her action was that I was no longer worth someone to have sex with her thinking that I had become a nobody.

I just left the house one day and never returned till today. She's still visiting prophets, calling my family to intervene.

This is the 3rd year I left her.

At first she refused to ask me for money. When subsidy problem arose, she started sending bills of what my only daughter needs to me. I send money to them according to my ability.

God no go shame us.

And you're sounding proud of your actions?

What happened to talking it out and going for counseling or therapy?

Labour can be traumatic on every women if she's not rightly guided... should we all think about the pain of the first child...no woman would want to have sexual intercourse to produce kids again....but thank God for healing the pain.

Moreso, marriage is not all about sexual intercourse only and shouldn't be the yardstick for leaving your family.


I'm sure by now.. she'd have learnt about her mistakes for begging people for intervention.. kindly forgive her and make your marriage work for your kid's sake Sir.

The heart of man is desperately wicked!

Imagine sleeping with a child you could father and still attempted murder on confrontation.

I weep for my dear countrymen.

Audio cash transfer

UselessBuharist:



What’s over madam, what do you mean? I don’t want to be rude please in the name of God what’s over

I was only kidding... there's no need for being rude.... nothing is actually over.


Smiles

UselessBuharist:
Humans can do anything whether able or differently able

Is it over already?

Creativity22:

You think diasporans pick dollars on the streets ?

LoL

Not like that....their dollar has much value whén converted to our naira...maybe that was the reason for the reckless spending.

Smile

This is disheartening!

The heart of human are desperately wicked!
What lesson is she going to teach her female daughters with such vengeance?
What if something bad happened to her on her way to Ghana?

Life no just balance sha!

Lol

The said Ex might be a diasporan who earns in dollars.

I doubt if a legitimate hustler in Nigeria will offer such amount to girlfriends....maybe because of my environment sha.

A wrong person in marriage is a man/woman who sidelined his/her biological kids... irrespective of what the situation may be.

PoliteActivist:


We can tell a fake DP sooner or later. Nairaland is big

Ok

PoliteActivist:


DP or we donbilivit

No probs if you're doubting me then.

What if I a fake dp?
My previous post should give you a hint.


If you still not believe... good luck on your unbelieve Sir.

PoliteActivist:


He's a man. Didn't see where this guy exposed him?

LoL....I don't fake things ...I've been on Nairaland over a decade...I'm a lady ... nothing to expose.

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LoL

I'm a lady...just sighting the obvious.

Nazgul:

Exactly.

This is one of the numerous action most females make in their relationships and end up remaining single.

Some girls might choose not to cook for a man, and he'll marry them and even hire a cook.

You might try it, and your boyfriend would dump you.

I know a girl during my university days, who cohabitated with her boyfriend from year 1 to final year. They're happily married today.

Some girls might try it and end up having series of abortions, STDs and a heartbreak.

The issue here is to understand your man, and make decisions based and what's best for both of you and not because another lady said so.

Never compare your relationship with others.

Spot on 💯

Don't forget to add that... things that worked for you might not work for others.

Following the above might cause more damage on many relationships.

It's easier said than done...we have many forming feminist on Nairaland yet living large offline with their boyfriends and sugar daddies.

Do what you feel is best for you and never live life according to another person's script cos you ain't same person...


My 2cent.

I'm a HSP(Highly Sensitive Person)

It seems weird to my siblings growing up and currently I'm enjoying every bit of it.....I easily know people within few periods of conversing with them... and lots more...it helps me not to get easily disappointed when people truly show their real intent.

Despite the risks in this act people kept doing at at the slightest opportunity.....I kept saying it is poverty and greed that caused all this.

Being poor is the worst thing that can happen to someone after an incurable illness.

"Ona ofun ni ona orun"

Jeon:
Crash landing on you.
Royal gambler..
it's okay not to be okay.
One ordinary day.
Hyde, Jekyll, Me.
She was pretty..
kill me, heal me.
School 2017 ..
Fight my way.

Due to my working routine...I barely have time for leisure...I just finished watching the episode 24 of the royal gambler I ed.


I'm grateful for the referral... I've learnt more on that Kdrama.


I'd surely watch the others no matter how long it seems.

Listening to this young lady's speech pierces my heart.

She's so used to all the sexcapades that she never felt ashamed narrating the shameful ordeal.

The havoc wrong use of internet had wrecked on our society is beyond control....no moral decadence again.

I weep for what our society is growing into.

SMH

UselessBuharist:


Is this coming from you? NOBODY WEY NOT FIT GET SENCE SHA

It's been a while big bro!


Hope you're good sha?

This space is 4 sale.


Order by CIA

Humanity,Peace of mind and sound health supercede money.

Jeon:
Crash landing on you.
Royal gambler..
it's okay not to be okay.
One ordinary day.
Hyde, Jekyll, Me.
She was pretty..
kill me, heal me.
School 2017 ..
Fight my way.

Thanks so much for your swift response Sis
I'd start trying them one after the other.


I wouldn't mind if there are more.

Good evening family!

I'm actually studying a course relating to guidance and counselling in one of the federal universities.... being a Korean movies lover... I'm thinking about going into watching more of their movies that centered on counseling...just like I've watched that of crime... medicine and law in the past.


I don't know if anybody has referrals on the ones I can to help strengthen my knowledge about my field of study.



It might also be an American movie too .....I need your suggestions Sirs/Mas.



Thanks
Cc;
Mindlog and others