NewStats: 3,265,185 , 8,185,939 topics. Date: Friday, 13 June 2025 at 07:19 PM 693l4e

I just hope that we don't slide into war with all these troubles in the east.....

A certain people carry around the rumors that a president is ensuring that there's a problem in their parties to make them decamp to APC....

How can you spread something that doesn't make sense to any reasonable human?

Juliearth:






You failed to understand my point of view. That lady didn't say she was going to physically assault the op. She said that to trigger a reaction which she got. Sometimes,people makes claims that are farfetched and they don't intend to see through with all in a quest to arrive at the truth or even gaslight.

People often do what they carry in their mind.

People ask questions for clarification and simply because they want to know. She asked to clear her intentions....and it's not farfetched from what she intend to do.

Point is, you don't expect the op to agree to walking away from a toxic girlfriend just to please her intentions in the future.

The white bear


Can't just make a simple post and rest.....
Must I type a lengthy post to make a point?
@SEUN this development is really going to reduce people to reading without contributing

Juliearth:








Your ŵoman baited you and you fell for it. Or maybe not exactly falling, but you pet out your disposition to the situation.


Let's just say her level of emotional intelligence sures yours.

Do you hit your dad or does your mum hit your dad?

Do you hit your male superior at work if you find yourself disagreeing with them or when they make you unhappy?

If you don't hit people around, why your man that loves you the only human that you feel you should hit and wants him to walk away?

Because you love him way too much? Or he's a piece of trash? Or he doesn't deserve any form of respect?

Bonjovi13:
You have probably lost her going by her reaction.
Never ever it that you can hit a woman for whatever reason even if she hits you first.

Your position should be that upon provocation you would diffuse the situation or walk away. That shows that you have self control which is a trait any woman would prefer because they know that they can get out of line one day and they would need you to be the bigger man to diffuse the situation or walk away.

The way you said you would retaliate against a woman who hit you, made you seem like someone who would not hesitate to assault a woman physically if she ever gets out of line by hitting you. She will never feel safe with you. Hence her withdrawal.

I suggest you apologise and change your
position. Assure her that you now understand how your words may have come across.

Tell her that you will make sure that you will never make her mad to the extent that she will hit you and that God forbid if that happens, you will with love and maturity diffuse the situation or walk away.

I should diffuse a situation that untrained lady couldn't control herself by slapping me?

If that's how her mum slaps her father.....then I can't wife such a woman.

Even more, let her go and be slapping her father and brothers at home.

A lady that respects a man and loves her man will never raise her hands when she's angry.

Let's even accept the norms about women nagging but why trying to fix an abusive woman as a norm?

If you don't want a wife beater, don't be a husband hitter.

You people justify women and worship them so much that men barely have the guts to speak up for wrongs.

What such of manipulation is this?

I should walk away from a woman that raise her hands to slap me? When I didn't slap her first?

Enduring her verbally abusing me and calling me stupid talking down on me.....then hitting me?

Omo, clear road abeg

[quote author=Double0h7 post=135711888]

If you guys make up after this and she tests her hypothesis, don't forget to slap the saliva out of her mouth. Everybody should keep their hands to themselves. [/books.

My nigga😊😊

Atasko:
If you can hit her back then, we have similar principle then . I don't know why she feel it's wrong to hit back.

You're letting her to gaslight you into feeling guilty and it seems she's succeeding.

You have every right to fight back in the same energy.

She said "it's not okay for a woman to hit a man " but feels more concerned about you hitting back.

This should tell you one thing that you will likely have this issues in the future if you proceed to marrying her.

She just want a guy that's gullible and easily manipulated.

If you've got balls.... don't change them for boobs.

We pray for better days and God will see us through...

Hmmmm...

Isreal isn't playing at all....

enemyofprogress:
lack of vitamin A

Oh.....ok....

What's the cause of this?

Futuristica:


She doesn't cook or cannot and not willing to learn as she was burning food daily.some lies here and there,invested huge monies repeatedly and lost them in ponzy schemes against my advice,she never apologises,talks to me anyhow etc

I used to lreach against divorce but about 4yrs ago, I started seeing reasons why a man should leave a marriage he's not being respected.

But toubguys keeps complaining about the killings in the state......isn't the state of emergency going to reduce these crimes?

Welcome sir

I stand with Akwa ibom people and God's Godswill Akpabio to tell the people of Akwa ibom state that their APC is the best party and a seemingly party to align with.

Nobody will forces with Atiku who betrays people over his selfish ambition.

Lol....

The best president Nigeria has ever had.....

Asiwaju Jagaban.....

This is a welcome development......

Will put our NIN into use as it's basically not useful..... except for banking and registration purposes....

May God help us in this country.....

Congratulations to them....

Lol

The worse combo so far....

Atiku never this nonsense 😊😊

Amaechi that is hungry?😊😊
Elrufai that said he doesn't want anything?🤣🤣🤣🤣

anonimi:


............is El Rufai during PDP istration.

Why do you force people to key into your opinion?

Elrufai did well and it was only in the welfare of the FCTA staff. He performed averagely in the development of FCT...

Overall, Wike is doing double of what elrufai did.

Stop trying to paint Wike bad..... whether the minister is running FCT outside TSA or not....you should let him do his job.

If you're not okay with it..... relocate to the east! Where you will be able to sleep every monday.

Harrynight:



If Nigeria choose not to borrow like US and the Nig Government lives within it reach and revenue generated without borrowing will the country collapse?

How long do you think the internal generated funds can take Nigeria?

Will you be fine if the government atop subsidizing everything to be able to focus the money generated on development and public finance reforms?

Will.you be fine with tax increase?

Even US is borrowing with all their development and good economy.....

Tinubu explained that the external borrowing plan forms part of the 2025–2026 rolling borrowing programme and is aimed at ing key sectors: infrastructure, agriculture, healthcare, education, water resources, security, and public finance reforms.

It's very simple...... the money is for infrastructural development and public finance reforms..
But people who hates the government will make it seems like Tinubu is loaning the money from their bank ....

Road that was just getting started recently?

They should allow the work to keep going.

Haters of thr government will go any miles to bring about confusion

Lere is a genius

Ok

Lol




Confusionists....