NewStats: 3,265,428 , 8,186,718 topics. Date: Saturday, 14 June 2025 at 10:12 PM 72g4r

zum19:


I feel you. If u make good money, then u may need to pay for a co-working space, u have in yaba & lekki, so you can get out of the house once in a while. Or pick a day to go to a nice restaurant for lunch like jevinik. Or get a girlfriend that would be visiting u. In short the temptations to hookup is usually great, if u are on Badoo, becos of loneliness u will just be spending money on f***king runs babes anyhow, seriously.
Travelling wud be nice, go to a state u've Neva been, book a hotel & work from there...as long as the money is there u can't be lonely. U can create or buy fun. Think ing of suicide should only be when u have 1k in ur and ur rent is about to expire......

Once you think there’s a problem, there will always be a problem. It’s all in your head. All the sadness and loneliness. Everything.

Surprised OP can’t even come up with a simple task of enjoying himself especially since he said he has cash. There are like a zillion fun places to go from time to time. You can even find public places to do your work instead of always staying at home.

Dunno why people just say careless words like suicide over nothing.

nigerdoncast:
We were in a relationship for 6months before she left. She left IMO State for Lagos to live with her younger sister doing her I.T, because she was convinced by her to come over that there is a lot of opportunities in Lagos where she can work and earn money.

Fortunately, she got a sales rep job in a Supermarket Stores before she started complaining about the job being stressful and intend to resign. I told her not to resign that it's not that easy in Lagos seeing a job until she was seriously sick and called for attention. Immediately, I took a bike to the supermarket and took her to a pharmacy close to my street before taking her to the hospital the next day.

Although, she refused to go hospital with me, because of their faith. I meant they don't go to Church, but beleive on their faith (FAITH TERBANACLE CHURCH). Make pesi mama no die for my hand she followed me to our family doctor and was properly treated. I told her is time I need to know her family even if it is her younger sister, but refused that she doesn't want her to be bringing guys to the house because they both contributed for the house rent.

Moreover, she never mind spending the whole week in my house, because I make her feel at home. Things started getting worst because she couldn't find another job after she risgned. I took care of her in of feeding and some other things before she later decide she want to go back to IMO STATE that she is missing her mum. I told her things will be fine as soon as I am promoted in my working place then we can plan for our marriage if she is ready to marry me, because I was placed under contract.

Unfortunately, she insists to travel and I gave her the freedom, then said she is going to miss me. We had serious sex as if tomorrow is ending, but told me to release inside. That's only thing that can bind us and make her to me. I had to think well and asked her what if you are pregnant? she said fine, but you will be sex sterved during pregnancy I asked? She said there are ladies that are pregnant and husband are not with them. Of a truth, I didn't release inside, I don't know what she had in mind. Paid her T.fare along with extra cash to hold body early march this year.

Furthermore, she got to IMO STATE and love continues through communication brfore there was sudden changing of attitude. She bearly pick my calls. I told her to tell her mum about me and said she does not know how to convince her that she doesn't want her to know that she went to Lagos and was going with a guy. I had to call her again and treat her that I give her 2weeks to tell her mum about me. Called after 2weeks only for her to tell me she hasn't tell her anything about me. When are you coming back to me I asked? She said she doesn't know. One day she called to send her money for T.fare that she wants to find a way to come back. I sent it, but she never come back and was giving excuses.

Ultimately, I told her I am moving on and urge to move on too and she replied by saying no problem how is work? I end the call and never called since then.

Again, I call her yesterday to say hello to her and was shocked she is seriously in pain now. What happened I asked? she said she had been itted for an appendix operation. I couldn't hear her clearly as she really talked like someone in a serious pain. Operation was done successfully, but the bill is the issue. I told her how about your family? are they aware about it? she said no that only one of her cousin. What about your mum is she aware? she said no that I know about their faith that they don't go to hospital. I told her this your health and forget about faith. Inform your family what you are going through now. How much is bill to balance I asked? she said 160k. Oh! my God.

Please advice me, because she call me not too long if I can borrow her 10k. I told her you have left me na and you said I should borrow you 10k. But my feeling tells me she had gone for abortion not appendix operation. In fact, she told me she is regretting before the call ended. What Could she be Regretting for?

Appendix operation is surely not N10,000

Be ready for anything for the boys fanfare

Trendy247:
This is what my burner does.. Hope I'm safe

Lol mate you are a troll

Nothing to contribute here then.

Delighted to see that NIgerian men are finally exposed to the truth about life and nature. Nature doesn’t have your best interest. Make sure you live a life that you are free to achieve your goals. A woman CAN NEVER Love you. She only loves what you do for her and how you make her feel.

Where is the Gofundme link? And hopefully this is legit.

Thoughts with the family x

iTearHerToto:
And I'm saying this for the last time... These hoes are not meant to be taken serious but shagged ruthlessly, ravaged and dumped in a trash can

I am afraid of your moniker

ubcandid:


The truth is most guys are not true G's. You let them know their babe is a LovePeddler or give them clues they still lie wet. That Jimmie who put you through was a nigger who got your back. I have been in similar position before, banged the hell outta the bitch and found her to be a deeper LovePeddler that expected, stylishly hinted my hommie only for the bitch to spill our content out and my dumb hommie reconciled with her and put me out. I don't back tell for any hommie again, I so my mind my business these days. I guess you fell out with that hommie. Go make with him bro he got your back.

Bros before h oes..... We still talk lol

lilwetdick:


since you wanna banter, lets banter

first and foremost, i will like to thank you so much that out of the 40 mentions i got, almost 15 were from you, seems like you are obsessed with my moniker and really want an arguement.

lets go straight to the banter, you have introduced yourself as the guy who grew up in the uk but i will like to know where did you grew up in the uk, in council flats in peckham south london or where? are you a student? or what?

you know nowadays people come with different english accent to deceive us back home but the british know who is who through the accent, who grew up middle class or poor.

but anyway, i still stand with my facts mgtow and so called alpha males here in nigeria are broke, live with their parent, many are students, cant get women, dont work, earn low salaries, self-service all day, dont socialise and then blame women for all their misfortune, from what i have learnt from stocism, complaining and blaming are not good virtues of a man.

Ha you are a real deal with your theory. I wouldn’t want to pull you away from it cause I wouldn’t like if someone did the same to me so enjoy.

Still advise MGTOW group and the rest to continue to practice what makes them happy and keeps money in your pocket. Don’t follow the crowd. Be different. Most women will pull you away from your goals.

They will just wait in the finish line for the Big Boys.

Martinez39:
Hahahahahaha

Can I the banter? MGTOW boys and Alpha Male are living rent free in Lilwetdick Head.

It’s a farce tbh.

Haha.

Ilamina:
They remove their hands off the table
They sit straight with their back sometime resting on the chair back

. rarely on their phone

So much discipline, I like it

So much organization

Who has noticed this before?

We might like it but it's boring, imagine not being on your phone for one hour

You are smart.

Ahhhh... Simisola.

I don’t blame her sha. Long distance obviously to blame. But she always told me via Skype that she was clean and honest and me the mumu was busy snubbing hot women in my college.

Traveled back home one December . My friend told me he knows someone that shags my babe steady.

Met them together at the Lekki private beach kissing and all. Walked up to them, handshake, I introduce myself as a friend. Mehn the girl wan die for sit. She was just smiling and all. Apparently shocked I would do that. I left the place afterwards. Later found out that my friend that exposed her also bleeped her while we were dating.

Since then it’s mostly friends with benefits.

lefulefu:
not all cars oo.if u dey ride volkswagen bettle or jalopy no nigerian girl go look ur way.naija girls always go crazy for murano,SUVs and especially benz.when u enter a neighbourhood honking ur benz girls will be giving u seductive glances.aparr from benz ur car must also get ac then na button dem go dey use pull up and pull down the side glasses manual then yur car must also be neat for d girl to trip for u.i know some guys wey dey borrow their papa or paddy car just to chop a girl.d format still pays.for now sha benz is the new rave and most yahoo boys dese days go for benz.

I see. That’s good. I guess it shows the mentality of Some Nigerian girls then lol.

csmart050:
once they see your ride, dem go b like, " will you marry me" lol

I have been smart about it mate.

Whenever I am in the country, I use Uber. I dunno the craze for guys with cars in Nigeria by “Some Nigerian ladies”

It’s like another day in the office abroad. You can split the bill monthly and pay.

No big deal. Nobody will look at you if you are 18 and drive a car here.

Chaiii.

MJBOLT:

there is actually just type HD,MOVIES,POINT,.COM (remove the commas when you want to type it) in your original post.WARNING - you will get a 24 hours ban from anti spam bot but your topic will be deleted

Smart

iLegendd:
It's everywhere, but to make it easier for you, you can purchase it on our site here https://shop.wetclef.com/shop/femalesextapes/

You can use your credit card, bank transfer, or PayPal.

I have Paypal. I will do when I get home. Bless.

Apparently no way to delete a topic on Nairaland.

If I ended up winding up the Nigerian ladies on here sorry about that. It’s all banter.

iLegendd:
Nice post. My advice is: when you see a problem, proffer a solution. That is the shortcut to wealth.


I noticed some Nigerian men are nervous around the girls they like and they find it difficult to hold a conversation. Instead of me to attack Nigerian men, I provided a solution in form of a book and the name is FemaleSextápes.


I don't think you attacked women, but you rubbed their lack of communication skills on their faces. Not bad, but providing a solution is way better.

Oh I am sorry about that then.

On your book, would be nice to read. Where can I buy from?

Boyslick:
Soo you just got the friggin memo? Btw if you did grow up in the UK, e mean say sense elude you totally & na so you go take die. Peace

Awwww...We will all die one day na. Aside all the banter, i will never wish death on anyone.

I wish you long life and prosperity and a lot of wealth.

kurupt1:
Op don't take it hard on Nigerian women.They are actually very selfish and never date for love but for what they can gain.Ask any man in this country

Lol I am not taking anything hard. I am not even in Nigeria at the moment.

Whatever I wrote above is my honest opinion of Most Nigerian women and I stand by it

Cc Lilwetdick

virgoquin:
Mtcheeew the same old and stale discussion...

Una no dey tire,every time Nigerian girls this that nawao.

Please leave us with our boring way of chatting and go for your heart desire nobody is holding your K legs.

But I don’t have K Legs

Let me start by saying I am not here to bash NIgerian ladies so hopefully Lilwetdick won’t call me broke and poor

See women are universal. Same old selfishness, competing with other women, shit test for men and manipulation. That’s how women are. That’s basic. It’s in their nature.

But there is also a big contrast with women abroad vs Nigeria.

Grew up in the UK so atleast I have a better analysis of this and that will be my “Abroad”.

Most NIgerian women just don’t know how to keep a conversation going. It’s always a one sided affair with the man doing most of the talking and brainstorming and all you get is “Lol”. Tragic and I have lost count of how many NIgerian girls I have blocked on my Facebook. I guess it has to do with many NIgerian girls being proud. Not sure but I think that’s it.

They are also a pretending bunch. Most are s*x freaks but will always pretend even to their boyfriends like they don’t like it in contrast to girls abroad who are more open-minded. They don’t have that time to be hiding anything.

Then of course the money issue. NIgerian girls are really a funny lots with money. They always want money. When my friends introduce me to any NIgerian girl, I can see it in her eyes and conversations that they want me to give them money. Sometimes I don’t understand the madness.

Finally, if you are in the MGTOW group, Alpha male and all those things, please continue.

If it gives you good health and a stable mind do it. Men should have the freedom to do what they want. You are men ffs. Don’t bend to women manipulation. If you can keep it going just to piss of Lilwetdick, I would be proper glad.

Thanks. It’s my first topic here lol.

Lilwetdick is moaning again on this thread

Martinez39:
The person behind that moniker(Lilwet.dick) reasons like a woman and argues like a woman. I have heard several discussions with that moniker and she is too disappointing. She thinks she can hide forever behind a male moniker. If only lilwetd.ick knew how much her trash talk doesn't change a sh1t or mean a sh1t, she would reevaluate her ego and mission.

Exactly. Dunno if “She” feels She is winding anyone up.

I am expecting Lilwetdick to quote this and say “Broke and Poor”

stblessing:
ah ah ,120k is something na, this people are greedy fa

For 12 years Aunty come closer let me give you a knock on the head.

ImaIma1:
Alpha... beta...omega... everyone has something to offer. There will always be "betas" that are more successful than alphas and vice versa.

Go to the mortuary and differentiate between alpha, better, omega corpses or maybe the tombstone would read Alpha Michael...

Everyone is going to die. Nothing wrong in being an Alpha before you die.

Martinez39:
Don't mind that woman(Lilwet.dick). Anyone who has chosen ignorance and ego should be left to rot in their ignorance. Ubunja probably stroke a cord in him and it has left him so bitter that all he sees is ubunja and all he desires is to rubbish and trample upon ub.unja in his posts and arguments. What trick has he not tried to get a response from the great ubunja? He has called ubunja broke; called him a thug; called him a loser; called him a poor miserable migrant who tolls in South Africa for peanuts etc. all these were not in any way relevant to the discussions and didn't work on ubunja. These tricks are what the foolish ones, who could have discuss and stick to fact, use to get at their opponents and "buttress" their points. Ub.unja never stooped so low. The earlier he realises that ub.unja is not on his level and would never stoop so low to be on his level the better for him.

He desperately wants to trample and "destroy" ub.unja in an exchange and through his posts. Why is he chasing ubunja? Because women want to conquer men that are above them, either financially, intellectually or emotionally. These real men are whom they see as challenging and a mess of their ego. Notice that when you are having a discussion with Lilwet.dick and you are deconstructing his arguments and calling him out on his stupidity and inconsistencies, he starts calling you a broke man and a man who is weak offline but masquerades as an alpha on NL. Any group he doesn’t like is broke and frustrated. The use of ad hominem when one could have just faced the argument, by focusing on facts, is a sign of a low intellectual level. Ad hominem is not an argument and they don't validate one's argument.

One thing is sure, not everyone will reason and embrace the truth. So when someone is tenaciously holding on to ignorance and stupidity, let them be. If people are still shaming alphas despite the repeated clarifications made, let them be. If people are still shaming and misrepresenting the MGTOW movement despite the information on the Internet and the repeated corrections, let them be. It's not a new thing when people downgrade, shame and misrepresent redpilled men/MGTOW, in fact, we are expecting such given that most of our species are not intellectually honest and bright in arguments.

The person behind that moniker is a woman.

If otherwise, then the person is a pathetic excuse of a man.

lilwetdick:


it anger me because so called alphas are losers living in shithole, they are not more than pussy worshippers but then again you and your gang claim you are alphas and MGTOW

all those western alpha preachers you follow and read their stuff to write here, do you think, they live in shit hole situation, or do you think, they dont have their lives in order

It angers you that they are broke, poor and frustrated

This woman is frustrated again.

ubunja:
let the pain continue

Next week 6 more writeups to upset the losers

Hahaha

lefulefu:
hm alpha males with all their cowboy confidence and women hating them but still crushing at them while beta males being used as a footstool by women and suffering terribly from low self esteem.as for me i am neither an alpha nor beta male but an omega male and we omega males love women who are blessed at the back.

I am a normal male but I am in for men following any trend they want. I have no qualms with Alpha Male, MGTOW and all the other stuffs. Men should do what they love and want.

I wonder why females like Lilwetdick are always butthurt about these movements.

ubunja:

Lmfao

Sense of humor on point.

Yeah Lmao never seen a female so pained about what men do.