NewStats: 3,264,647 , 8,184,325 topics. Date: Wednesday, 11 June 2025 at 08:36 PM 6r5b72

Theevilone:
Fine if it will clear my debt with access bank

lol access bank is Nigeria’s biggest bank by asset and customer base. They are not going anywhere.

How much you Dey owe?

tshtsh:

Haha that's what one Prof I know use to say. Today he is retired on a less than $500 a month pension and struggling. Just thank God for what you have and leave this pride talk. People change their location for different reasons and has nothing to do with broke or not being broke.
My friend Yusuf left NNPC to go work at Lloyd's s in Scotland. Later he moved to Saudi to work as an engineer in Aramco. He has paid up his mortgage in UK and is making good cash. By your standard Yusuf was broke and not doing well in Nigeria.

You are wasting your time making a point or two to lazy Nigerianist going through shege in that country, managing 5mb midnight sub to surf Nairaland.

These same set of people are so mentally and physically lazy and won’t contribute anything to society but are the first to use Android phones made by the whites.

All they do is f u c k and bring children they can’t take care of and the whole cycle repeats.

“He say you can knock your neighbor’s door to beg for maggi” imagine the thought of a Nigerian man in 2023? Imagine?

I put it to you that these same people are always disturbing people abroad for money. Always begging and complaining about how things are rough in Naija

The guy Offpoint1 even said poor people are the ones traveling. That made me laugh considering the bulk load of money you need to leave Naija. Lmao.

Little21:
Let them know! They are just wasting their lives and nothing else. But they are happy living that way whoever says otherwise, they are gonna pour out their frustration to him/her.

They are broken, they are insane, they weren't raised by good parents, they engage in stuffs that won't let them think like a human but like an animal. Even worse than an animal.

No words can change their fu*ked up mentality. Just let them live however they like, their elderly version will be the one too tell how their life turned out, to be so messed up.
No kids, no achievements, no wife,cuz no one will wanna live with an animal. Abeg just let them be.

To them they are enjoying their life to the fullest right now. After all this, what await them is, disease that's what they will tend too till 💀.

No kids? Are you drunk?

Aren’t they the same Randy men sleeping around and giving birth to kids they can’t take care of in this second poverty capital of the world called Nigeria.

And on the ironic, Nigerian women are quick to open legs to anyone that has money and can sweet talk them so that no wife talk is utter nonsense too.

Jada continues to throw will smith under the bus in every interview

E noe pay to be simp at all

Samantha124:
For me is trusting digital banking too much... Africa claims to be ready for the digital life, but the system doesn't seem to agree.

Digital banking as you mean online banks?

I know someone that got a lot of money stuck in one of these popular banks with the letter O as its staring letter.

Always good to deal with commercial banks despite their charges.

In the end you need them for proof of funds and bank statements incase you want to travel and etc

victooman:
you are a bigger fool? is it my responsibility to take care of children of my father children? when l have my own kids they wont through this pressure? l wont bring kids that will come to this world to fend for themselves l rather not marry than take such a route,, if u like go and harbour children u can't fend ur children will call u this name either directly or indirectly..
Did u know what it means to literally carry yourself through University and after managing to graduate the little u are making u literally use all of them to Carter for unending demand..
if u have not been in people shoes just keep quiet u fool

You better ignore some of all these people. They have made mistakes and in the same trap.

Just make sure you plan your life before you bring anybody into this world especially Nigeria.

VERY IMPORTANT !

Chaii nobody understand what you are going through.

It’s so sad that the little funds you are suppose to be using to build your life is going on other things

While there are some fathers that have kid(s) they can take care of and have established themselves that they see any token from their children as just mere gifts.

Other set of fathers just give birth irresponsibly without any plan and heap all life problems on first born.

Side note: Please before you have your own kid if you want, make sure you are financially capable. You are a man and on your own. Nobody cares about your struggles as a man.

Exodus15v11:
Unecessary comment. 🙄

Didn't you read where he said he has an almost one-year old who crawls around? So the wife should've left the one-year old outside or in another room alone just to kill the snake with the OP? Or all three of them should've killed it together? Besides, he called his tenant to assist in killing it, meaning he was not by himself.

You see your brain is wired in a way that when you see simple observation you immediately go into defensive mode. I wonder how you sleep at night.

Again read what I wrote slowly this time so it can make a path in your brain.

From what happened in this matter…

MEN ARE THE PRIZE. MEN ARE THE ONES TO FACE PROBLEMS WHEN IT SHOWS UP. MEN ARE ALSO THE PROVIDERS.

I hope you get it this time around?

Kobojunkiee:
You no see all those druggies wey full all those poverty-stricken parts of even your community for where you live? Drug problems no know class abeg!

This red man or woman “wayward” doesn’t necessarily mean “drugs” calm the hell down

I was only saying the spoilt rich kids can afford to have that facked up life and their parents can mitigate the crisis with the money.

But kids from struggling family don’t even have that life line so it’s futile to be useless. All hands on deck to succeed.

Men are really the price.

Your wife ran out and left you in the war zone with Mr Longman..

You are still the provider too.

I am learning everyday.

Omo i think it’s kids with rich parents that can afford to be wayward cause your family can handle your excesses

But when you from a struggling family especially in this Nigeria and then you keep on acting wayward omo you are doing yourself ooo

Taigaban:
This may be the last child she will ever have. I don't know why this feminine gender are so heartless. 3weeks ago it was reported that a girl put to birth and after through the baby down from girls hostel upstairs building. Thank God she was apprehended.

Stop all these una assumptions

She will still give birth. God almighty could still forgive her. And she could have a happy family and be rich.

That’s what gets me kind of upset cause I can’t question God. He is very merciful but I wish he can punish people like this without any option of forgivness

pansophist:
All this one-sided stories. I would have loved to hear from your brother.

You seems entitled, that someone owe you because you're blood relatives. That's a perfect recipe to failure. You'll have to paddle your own ship, and be grateful for little help.

This is facts who knows if he has bad behavior we don’t know about.

A elder brother can not just leave you stranded unless something is happening

Nasri100:


Send your bank to my email

Look well before you send anybody money to anybody on this forum have been scammed before!

We have seen cases of people writing fake topics like this for sympathy be careful!

If you notice in the end phase of the video the person recording is probably relating well with the pastor cause they come from the same place in BENIN

Wait so the seller was asking you to explain your reason for buying his goods and you kept explaining yourself for something you are paying for with your hard earned money?

I blame you. You kept explaining that’s why he had the guts to be chatting you Jack s h I t.

Someone you would have blocked immediately.

I trust myself.

Happy Emirates are resuming flights into Nigeria.

Their business class setting is the best in the world.

Victoxy:
The likes of IconicR and jeon and a host of others, why do you guys spend lots of days on a site acting like women when you should be looking for something to do. Do you guys get paid?. It looks weird or could they be bots?

When you observe well the men you talking about are doing something with their lives and just using Nairaland to unwind from a stressful day while you are stuck somewhere in hell hole Nigeria desperate for a way to break the poverty handcuff the government is orchestrating for its citizens.

Very funny when someone from the second poverty capital of the world with high level of unemployment be talkin about getting a job and paid

My friend you better sit this one out.

izonborn098:
When u see the comment of a fellow adult it is very clear...
That is how life work...
I know what i ed through for saving a relation's life, since then i mind my business... I now help from a far distance when i know u have difficulty u can't solve urself..

Love that line “help from a far distance”.

This is to avoid entitlement and regrets.

People always looking for a villain in their story and there’s this popular quote that you do 99% good and 1% wrong and they will always dwell on that wrong.

Again, “just help from a far distance”. Well written.

izonborn098:
Sorry to ask...
Are u single?
Do u have problems?
Do you have bills and kids worrying u everyday?
When u get to one stage in life u will understand that involving urself in things that don't concern u is immaturity..
It's very hard to convince people and fight for what is seems wrong' why? Because the nation love corruption and being ruled by corrupt leaders...
Don't involve urself in things that doesn't concern u and even if u want to involve in any know that it will backfire many at times..

It always backfires. It’s a sign of immaturity and yeah I used to be like the OP in the past and it set me back

I copied from the whites how to mind my own damn business and focus 100% on my life.

Honestly man some people are already wired to hurt and suffering and pain in the brain and you really can’t help anyone.

Just mind your own business and build your life. When someone comes to you for help, if you can do if you can’t just say NO.

Nigeria

I see so many guys in first page vouching for their girlfriends and all that.

If only they know. If only they know some of them are sharing their partner with exes, random rich guy she met at the mall, pastors and all that.

Personally I can never vouch for anything related to gender F and ofcourse I will never pay for sex.

I do have a whole lot of female friends that are ready to get intimate with me. The problem is I don’t really have that time for a sexual connection at the moment.

I agree with OP when you say time is money and getting a girlfriend for sex is one of the most stupid things you can do.

Even some girls will be angry if they read some of the nonsense some niggas are saying in front page that you are in a relationship because you get cheaper s*x.

Finally I will never judge anyone for deciding to pay to get s*x to save their time.

Didn’t watch the full video.

I hope there is no useless debit card linked to that ?

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Can you imagine he should prioritize another human being that can leave him in a flash over himself? Do you even have a brain?

You Dey mad oooo

Cc Router123

Don’t sign up for something that will make you die at 50 due to burden

This is why we got so many out of school kids and single mothers cause many men have refuse to cope with the demands of marriage. They don’t even care, some men don’t give a damn.

Worse if you are trapped in Nigeria, a country consistently working against its citizens.

Advice I will give you is to understand what you want and then plan.

If you aren’t from a rich home or don’t earn a lot of money monthly, and you buy into the idea of marriage, settle down with a woman that is also doing a lot with her life. Educated, working or running a business or something that is earning her income. She must also buy into your vision of running a family and be ready to contribute. A lot of women are also footing the bills in their family incase you don’t know.

Then when it comes to wards, give birth to what you know your pocket can carry cause this eventually becomes a special trap for many men. If you cant handle the responsibilities don’t do it unless you want to live a life of begging people for help and giving your children out there.

you are mostly alone in this life, your family will only value and respect you based on what you can offer, no unconditional love anywhere asides from your parents so plan yourself well.

Be WARNED!

Skyview01:
If i catch you inflating fees, i cut you off. They know me in my family. I am not your ATM.

How it should be. Me I intend to build my life in a way that I can help many many people.

Being the last born of 2, I still want to help my elder one and even parents.

But the moment I smell any entitlement in your demeanor, even if you in my family, I cut you off straight or give you a shock reminder that I owe you Nothing.

I love how humans always behave when they know they can’t manipulate you for jack shit.

The only person that can display entitlement mentality to me is my unborn child. Even my wife will have to work and contribute.

5 kids as a Nigerian? A country with no plan for the young and unborn?

Some Nigerians though

Humans like to explore both men and women.

Marriage is a sort of a forced union many people buy into. Its just a certificate.

Humans will still be Humans.

Sigh i think i am done with this thread. Justified. Bye guys.

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Go ask that question of the many orphans raised in orphanages, provided with all necessary to build their mental capacity, health, and future, by complete strangers. Many, if not all of them abandoned in poverty by the supposedly loving parents you speak of.

So this is a stat from the same Government of Nigeria. Chaii

Cc Lext2014 et Hardon1

https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/7776659/43-nigerian-children-actively-engaged

Nasri100:


Lmfafo na to beg people to buy more Garri for his family

I just wonder if this thing he is saying is reality. The children will just be cursing him everyday low key and the wife could be sleeping around so she can buy real food for her children when he has gone out to drink Dry Gin with his idle friends.

Lexy2014 Please o i dont hate you but dont regurgitate poverty abeg.

Lexy2014 Is forever my nigga

Oneday we will meet and hangout.