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ariesbull: 5 days ago? which means freshly supplied. Storm shadows from UK Atacms from US if am right. So much for those mediating and keep the good boy poster to the media 3 Likes |
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DeJoeee: Marriage is not the only option of man/woman relationship. There is babymama option, sex mate/bed mate, girlfriend/boyfriend staying together option and many more. People stress themselves too much to something when there are less stressful options. Just like life in general were not everyone will love in a duplex, there are some bungalow, some 3 bedroom flat, some self contain or face you I slap you. Some will use cars, Keke, bike or foot It is also with relationship. Everyone's situation is not cut off for marriage. Find the one that works for you 7 Likes 1 Share |
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SocialJustice: Even if Dem no marry, the women go still dey get belle. Abi what do we say about ladies popping up with pregnancies up and down with any visible man in their life? The hardship still continues albeit by a single ladies taking care of the babies instead of 2 heads. No matter the hardship, sex will not stop, pregnancies will continue popping up leading to having massive single mothers that will even become cheaper to get laid with 2 Likes |
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STRENGTH ISNâT A CHOICE. ITâS THE ONLY OPTION LEFT. They say, What doesnât kill u makes u stronger. But they forget to mention it also makes u colder. More savage. More guarded. Less trusting. Life doesnât build strong men through comfort. It breaks them first. It humbles them. It tests them with betrayal, heartbreak, loss, and silence. You trusted too much? Now u read people twice. You loved too deeply? Now your heart has armor. You were too kind? Now you move with calculation. Because once youâve been used, overlooked, betrayed, and left for dead You stop hoping for rescue. You become the weapon. You realize strength isnât a vibe. Itâs not a trend. Itâs the only thing that keeps you from being stepped on. So let them talk. Let them say youâve changed. Let them call you cold, heartless, different. They werenât there in the trenches with you. They didnât see what it took to rebuild what they destroyed. Because hereâs the brutal truth: The world doesnât care about your pain. It only respects the beast that pain built. So stay cold. Stay calculated. Stay dangerous with purpose. As for me bro, pain taught me silence. Silence taught me strength. n Strength made me wise. Now I walk with depth. Your peace is earned through power. Your healing comes with scars. Master yourself, or suffer with the rest. The pathway to SelfMastery is the way. As copied 5 Likes 1 Share |
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emmaodet: This is the harsh truth a lot of men live with , love often feels conditional. When a man stumbles, the world gets quiet. The calls stop. The fades. That's why so many men suffer in silence, rebuild alone, and keep their wins private. Not out of pride, but because experience taught them that loyalty is rare, and silence reveals everything. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
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Isolation is the price a man pays when he starts to fix his life.
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Nobody checks on men until theyâre successful again. Go broke for a minute. Watch how fast the love turns into silence. This is why men grind in private and trust very few. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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Olachase: Gbaunss!! |
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Gerrard59: Which lane are you actually Gerrard? You always women being financially independent and mostly don't need men again nowadays since their is intimacy gadget and they can finance their own lifestyle. You also not shamming women for sexual liberation because it is their body and they can use it how they feel without men breeding down on them. Then, somehow you are worried the same men shouldn't go the babymama way because kids raised under this condition are mostly social misfit and such men are dead-beat dads. Let me tell you a truth - The moment we accept women sexual liberation aka women can be shameless without been judged, the "dead-beat dad" statement too goes out of the window. There are no more dead beat dads because you can't use a metric for a man while exonerating the woman. There can't be a jailer, if there are no prisoners. The same law that apply to a masquerade apply to a person using hijab because they are both covered. Nature will always find it's balance irrespective of human's sentiment or biasness. Lastly, no reasonable person invests where their interest is not protected. The men of olden days were not just responsible (this is debated anyway), ready to die for their women and fight for the village to protect their women and kids. They did that out of the personal conviction that the women are their properties. It is the same way you will fight to the end the land you buy and someone wants to take it away from you. But when you have properties that can be taken away from you easily without you saying love-vendor, that property becomes a risky investment to do. If investing my sweat on a lady/relationship, sometimes send her to school, put her on monthly payment, take her abroad etc and she can just wake up to say she is not doing again or give me a bastard or just cheating on me without any repercussion, rather am been laughed at to move on, then it is only natural that survival instinct will kick-off relationship-wise. It will never be about what the kids will turn out to be or whatnot, my survival, sweat, investment is on the line and nothing else people say or gaslighting or emotional blackmailing will do. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
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yMcy56: ![]() ![]() Investor BJ |
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Coolcash1: ![]() ![]() ![]() Una too get bad mouth for this group |
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Gerrard59: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Chaii !!! |
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Gerrard59: Increase birth rate? When jobs are drying up? What then are the people going to do? The years ahead will need lesser and lesser people to run the economy/society. It takes more than 40 people to clear a 10 acres farm 50 years ago, it only requires 1 tractor man to do the job today and will require a robot or a man with better technological equipment less than 5 hours to do that job in the next 50 years. So I don't believe we need more humans. Actually we need lesser 1 Like |
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Calebbold: ![]() ![]() Una get bad mouth for this group |
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Becoming the best version of yourself means saying goodbye -to fake friends, -to empty talks, -to comfort zones, -to excuses that held you back. Itâs losing people who only knew the old you. Itâs walking alone while others stay behind. But that loneliness? Itâs the price of growth. And every goodbye clears space for the man youâre meant to become. As copied 2 Likes 3 Shares |
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jintex: Exactly. Everyone can't do biz and those who feel traveling out is the best option for them should explore it. |
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Gerrard59: Nigerians just like sharp sharp that is why we are not really in the forefront business-wise in the world. Most engage in biz out of survival and not ion or flair or the joy to build, employ and grow. Any one who ask what can they do with 20m in nigeria for biz actually have no business doing one in the first place honestly. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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Gerrard59: Most times, it is the good, faithful and religious husbands that surfers this. For sex weaponizing to work, the woman will make sur the husband is a One-man-woman type. Since they are sure he has no option, then they gradually complain and weaponize it. If you take the bait, it will only get worse. They can't try that with a womanizer because they are putting their home, source of income and future at risk. A good sex outside will keep the man out for days which may roll into weeks and months or permanently. Funny enough, it is not even that most of these ladies don't like sex because some are been banged recklessly at work or start sleeping around like rabbits if the man dies. My wife tries that with me once and i treated her fvck up well that up till date, she adjusted. I hate rubbish. You are a stay at home mum.... you have a house cleaner to do the house chores, you only cook breakfast and dinner after which you are always on your fone throughout the day on tiktok or twitter yet if i approach, you will be giving attitude and saying tired and not in the mood for days or week. What are you doing? not working that most hide under, what i give you a month is more than what many lecturers are taking or even govt doctors, so what exactly am i getting? Told her she is becoming too expensive for my liken. I only need to paid a house maid 70k per month and she will do virtually all the jobs at home ...wash my clothes, take care of the kids, take them to school, wash the toilets and mop the floors most of what she is not doing yet forming attitude. She started seeing changes in me and snooping around my fone, then she confronted me that it seems am flirting with ladies and i just told her straight have lost interest in her....Omoh since that time she sit up...Nonsense 5 Likes 3 Shares |
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Gerrard59: Modern day women actually win it a lot and are the prize, at least in the developed world, where the economy provides stable and good jobs. Women have maintained their hypergamy, have economic opportunities and with the hypergamy still insist on getting men higher than they areThese set of women are just a fraction of total women and most of them have priced themselves out of any reasonable marriage even if they wish, though many in this category don't mind staying single. While working and as colleagues, they travel a lot. My female colleagues don go South Korea like twice within six months. Fine, mine would largely be because I am a new immigrant and port issues, but our working-class women in the UK don visit Morocco and Central Europe steadily. Those in Canada and the US don tour South America and Mexico tire. I no dey see men for all this waka. I follow on IG who has toured almost everywhere in Europe and now seeks a "finance or tech bro". They can afford to spend their last kobo, live a reckless life or buy expensive things and live above their incomes because deep deep deep down, they know that the worst case scenario, an unfortunate man will have to put them in his house and sweat to feed and impress them for some few minutes of sex if they lose their job or source of income....Man/relationship/Marriage/Relationship is always the fall back plan. The ones I job hunted with here are touring Europe and the US steadily. Women dey enjoy life steadily, and I have realised that they can do it all by themselves without needing men's presence. But men no fit enjoy themselves without bringing women into the mix. I wrote about something similar before that i worked with a lady earning lesser than me but traveling to egypt and morrocco for vacation. She can because she knows she has safety net but i have to be sure i am properly covered before doing that. I have US and canada long time visa but have been dragging legs going on vacation due to many bills oat hand. To worsen it, the small cheating exploration wey men go do inside marriage, they are against it even after asking their husbands "if sex is food?" Like, they don't mind controlling the sexual intercourse with a timetable. He goes outside, problem. Okay, give it to him inside marriage, mbanu. Some beg and beg (shey we saw a thread on the front page?)It is not uncommon in marriages for women to weaponize sex. I have a friend whose wife weaponizes it to him to the extent he always beg just to have it. He regularly complain about it and swore the max sex he gets in a years is 4...i mean max 4 times a year and it is always very very boring with the woman regularly complaining during the sex.......Early last year they separated when he caught is wife flirting with a mechanic, upon further digging, he got to know the woman is already banging the man sef. After separation, the woman started sleeping around like a rabbit. This is a woman who regularly weaponize sex for her husband feeding and taking care of her...... she is driving car bought by the hubby, the man built a 4 bedroom bungalow and taking care of them in his capacity...mother of 2. Now she looks ugly, lean and washed-up just after 18 months of divorce. I guess those sleeping with her are not giving her the money like her hubby, probably sickness from sleeping with different men..who knows. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
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WritterNg: Hmmmmmmmmm If China is doing that, then they are not wise and not doing themselves any good. So far so good, seems iran and NK are the most reliable partners to Russia. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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WritterNg: This is not good. This is backstabbing. I have my reservation with Hungary, Slovak and Serbia for some time now 1 Like 1 Share |
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