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 Dpsychologist: 4:29pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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A good answer will be superstars, CEOs, actors, artists, doctors, politicians, eccentric millionaires/bullionaires, etc . #SaturdayMusings 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:29pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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First, let me ask you who the really confident guys in our society are; the ones with an attitude larger than life? #SaturdayMusings 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:28pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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She really doesn’t want to hook up with some low self-esteem loser. So, what exactly are the non-verbal cues that women look for? #SaturdayMusings 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:26pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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A woman will do the exact same to you… tenfold. Their process of screening by looks and body language is a self-defense mechanism. #SaturdayMusings 1 Like |
| Dpsychologist: 4:24pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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In of seduction, we need to learn to read what females are feeling on a deeper level. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:23pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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We can find a wealth of information about people by their body language. #SaturdayMusings
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| Dpsychologist: 4:23pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Watch people’s smiles. Some are happy and genuine, others are fake and nervous. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:22pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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A person who walks tall and relaxed, with his chest out and head high is happy and comfortable. #SaturdayMusings 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:21pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Somebody who is hunched over with her feet together is subconsciously trying to not be noticed. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:20pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Look at somebody who rapidly moves his foot up and down and won’t look people in the eyes. He is insecure and expressing nervous energy. #SaturdayMusings 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:19pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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You can see when somebody is sad, happy, excited, honest, or angry -- even when they are trying not to reveal their emotions. #SaturdayMusings 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:19pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Start watching people closely as you go about your daily life. At work, in school, in the store, on the street, even at a party; just sit back and observe what people are doing with their bodies and guess what they are feeling. #SaturdayMusings 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:18pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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As I mentioned, facial expressions, voice intonation, speed of speech, how you walk, the way you carry yourself through the world, making eye , how fast you move, and even our breathing communicate attributes to the people around you. #SaturdayMusings 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:17pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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The Art of Body Language and Non-Verbal Cues So how do we subcommunicate the right things? Through proper use of body language and non-verbal cues. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:15pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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The nonverbal communication must be congruent to what’s being said…it’s really hard to fake girls out on anything. A few girls once told me that they can even recognize how good a guy is in bed just by the way he walks. Subcommunications matter. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:14pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Whatever this guy says to a hot girl, even if it is funny, cocky, interesting, she is not going to believe it because she can see his legs are shaking, his hands are wet and he doesn’t know how to dress. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:13pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Of course if a guy like that approaches her, she is going to brush him off because she doesn’t need to talk with him; she already knows everything about him. It’s really not hard to recognize an insecure geek around. #SaturdayMusings 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:13pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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After a few years of experience they know when they see a guy dressed poorly with weak body language that he is probably a geek with a boring, predictable life and is not so good in bed. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Dpsychologist: 4:12pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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They learn it culturally from other women and from talking to people and being social for years. Guys start to hit on them at thirteen and try to pick them up, sell them stupid stories, ask for dates, and sneak inside their panties. When they go out, they talk with 5-10 guys per day. Each guy is a different story. With time, they start recognizing patterns and are able to make predictions. #SaturdayMusings 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Dpsychologist: 4:11pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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They can tell everything about you just by the way you walk, talk and the way you are dressed. I personally don’t think its some secret gift they have, its just part of their experience. #SaturdayMusings 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Dpsychologist: 4:10pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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For some men, it’s like a secret code they can’t understand so they end up thinking women are mysterious and unfathomable. Girls are masters at reading body language. #SaturdayMusings 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Dpsychologist: 4:09pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Women rely mostly on subcommunication in their interactions. The majority of their communications to one another are nonverbal. #SaturdayMusings 1 Like |
| Dpsychologist: 4:08pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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For example, a guy says that he’s confident and calm while his legs and hands are shaking. The verbal layer says, “I am confident and calm.” The nonverbal layer says, “I am insecure and afraid.” Which are you going to believe, the verbal or nonverbal message? Non-verbal cues always dominate. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes |
| Dpsychologist: 4:07pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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When the two layers don’t send same message, we say person is not “congruent” which means the person is in some way lying. #SaturdayMusings 1 Like |
| Dpsychologist: 4:06pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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What we say is very important, but the non-verbal layer is more important because people will make a decision on whether they trust what a person is saying by watching their nonverbal communication. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:05pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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So, we really have two layers of communication: VERBAL(overt) and NON-VERBAL (covert)that we must manage. #SaturdayMusings 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:04pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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8% of that communication is done with words. The rest is subcommunication; nonverbal signals such as the speed, pitch and tonality of voice, subtle body language cues, eye , the way you walk, the way you move, the way you dress. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:03pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Most people don’t understand how to communicate effectively and control what they’re subcommunicating to others. If you want to be successful with women, and with people in general, you must understand how people communicate. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:02pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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We have to not only pay attention to what we communicate, but just as importantly, how we communicate it. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Dpsychologist: 4:01pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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In seduction, its not only about what you are saying but also about what you are not saying. #SaturdayMusings 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Dpsychologist: 4:00pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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There are 5 physical senses widely known : Touch , taste, hearing, smell and vision. However , there is another sense more powerful, which I shall call The 6th sense. This 6th sense is our intuition detected via subcommunication. #SaturdayMusings 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Dpsychologist: 3:58pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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