NewStats: 3,264,748 , 8,184,601 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 09:38 AM h203j

ThatCEO:
Good job.

E remain the other one called Instablog.

you mumu dem if you really believe those hungry looking boys could be gistlover.

Gender wey no get shame one married, dey find cheat partner, another one dey ask can I? Want to share what is already shared. Tueh!

Silentgroper:

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work 3-4 jobs all day all week 1st ..


only then can we exchange words ..


if you're not doing that, you're just wasting my time..


😋😋😋

tchwww wasting my time indeed, so this one is viewing the world from his tiny lense? Where you see 3-4jobs a week for Nigeria?

Ane women in such countries already do it so this talk na rubbish. Una just too lazy

UncleKoboko:
The main problem is the women.
Men are indeed very simple. All a man wants is loyalty and respect - respect covers a lot of other things...
I ALWAYS SAY IT THAT THE SUCCESS OF MARRIAGE DEPENDS MOSTLY ON THE WOMEN.
THE MOMENT A WOMAN WANTS OUT OF THE MARRIAGE, THERE'S NEARLY NOTHING THE HUSBAND CAN DO ...

Past lives and records is the major factor that can decide the success and future of a marriage.

The biggest mistake a man can make in his life is to marry the wrong girl.
Who is a wrong girl?

A wrong girl is any girl with low moral values. Religion, race etc doesn't matter and doesn't determine if a girl is of good moral or not.

A girl with numerous BODYCOUNT, numerous EXs, numerous breakups can never ever make a good wife.
The more BODYCOUNT, the more a girl loses her ability to form bond with her partner.

There's an adage that says that the size of a snake to a girl doesn't matter if she has not seen a snake before, she'll still be terrified by it.

No girl is born with a manual on how she should be sexed or pleased in bed.
IT'S ONLY WHEN THEY'VE HAD NUMEROUS EXPERIENCES THAT THEY START COMPARING....

She'll compare you with that guy with big dìck
That married man that used to lavish money on her
That Randy guy that can sex her for 2 hours
That guy that usually apologies to her even when she's the one at fault. Etc

THERE WILL BE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO PLEASE HER, SHE CAN ONLY PRETEND THAT SHE'S SATISFIED.

NEVER MARRY A WHORÉ AND ANY GIRL WITH MORE THAN 2 BODYCOUNT IS A WHORÉ.

men with this type of mentality are and will always remain the problem in any relationship.

And that's alot of men.

EnglishUsa:
It is not easy journey more especially to the christians, women are the 95 percent course of divorce in Nigeria. Women are very stubborn people to control, where you asked them not go that is where they will go and what you asked them not to do that is exactly what they will do. Some people that are married will always burst that their wife can never sleep outside and they trust them to heaven but, I wished God will open their eyes to see what their righteous wife is doing behind their backs they will marvel. Any man that trust his wife is the most stupid person on earth... If you Quote me go to a busy hotel you may get a little knowledge of what I am saying...your wife is not mes around is only because she is very ugly. Married woman is very easy to catch if you know the scope, they don't reject advances if you know the scope... Men are poligamous in nature but they don't pretend like women does. A woman can swear with amdionha, Bible, Ogun and Shirin that she have not had any affairs with another man since you got married to her... If not for children and sexual satisfactions these people are not good for anything .

They will enter your house with only pant and they will claim ownership of everything and start telling you what to do and what not to do, as if they are the brain behind your wealth and your good living before you got married to them. This people will confused you until you spend your last card without nothing to show for it and then they will turn and tell you that you are the course of your problem

ehehn! Why will you want to control another adult? And you don't realise you are the problem

online4business:
Low self esteem people don't have a pair again.

You woman go question me for my money e go shock you.

If I no wan give you money you call me stingy I go tell you straight up:come make we Bleep I go give you money.

You can't bring anything to the table yet want to determine how I spend my money. Dey play.

This is mostly happening in Nigeria I nova see any entitled girls here in Uganda.

why not "come and work wash my clothes I'll give you money" or clean my house or something? Why ask for sex in return for money?

You see now that it is men who monetize sex not really women? It is what men demand for money that made women request to give it in exchange for money.

The real weak men are people like you with extreme fragile ego.

Your lowself esteeme is sooo bad that even what another man does in his house bothers you,

Weak men think bringing other people down makes them feel better but nothing will make you feel better until you work on your poor esteeme issue.

Natbrowny:


So she can go thru chats too and see information about people mayb my family member. Mayb a friend going thru a rough patch and she sees info like that and booom she sees that same friend and she already know all his challenges in life he shared privately with me.
With them having loose mouths, thats if she hasnt ed it to her gangs.
So she can see messages between my parents and i and the info it contained. All in the name of transparency.

Make una dey calm down abeg.

ha why una dey marry people wey una no fit love? It's sad sha.

Natbrowny:
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone.

Remove this nonsense from the list.

Its MY smartphone not OUR Smartfone.
U for say because i love my wife, make i dey use same toothbrush with her. My fone is my businessn whether i get secrets or not, she get her own too.

but your cheap prick is not private o, your wife can look at it

Silentgroper:
so this is what you call work??


men that work 3 jobs, everyday all day all weekdays and weekend.. getting stressed mentally and physically ..


if not for masculinity, men would gladly switch roles with you lazy fvcks...

werey said if not for masculinity..lemao. get your lazy ass up and do chores, real men do it everyday, they provide,protect, and the homes by doing chores and even cooking, while this sisi (lazy ass) nigga dey here they claim masculine. DFKM

Women work and still come home to do all those things that your dumb ass claim you are too masculine to do? Masculine my foot.
When masculinity men raise hand you go still raise hand lemao

CANTICLES:


There is nothing wrong with your question, it's sound. Fact remains people need to see some value in you to stick with you... I think if a man sees some value in that woman despite the health challenges, hE would stay. Likewise if a woman saw some value in her man despite his broke state, she would stay

you are the only one who has responded sensibly and I completely agree.

But all those coming at me with nonsense quote as if I dey fear dem, I will reply all of them with the quote they deserve 😤

Ashawoman82:
are u ok? Is being disabled the same as being broke?...u no get brain o, u think being broke is permanent for a guy that has sense?

yes. You are disable if you are broke. And there is no guarantee you will ever be rich till you die so any woman staying is taking a risk.

I like how all of you are not even lying, as long as you stand nothing to gain from a woman you wouldn't be there, but why expect women to love you in advance or in hope that your future will be bright when we know it might never be?

Both gender should know what they are expecting and what they are giving in return. No gender has right to guilt trip another gender.

kyber:
So this girl I met recently have been staying in my street for over a year now but I haven’t approached her cause I felt she was too young.
So recently I did and she has been giving me tough time in the sense that she doesn’t come over when ever she promise.

So I saw her tonight entering into one corner and I followed her only to find out she went with a guy and into his apartment,that was an eye opener for me. I realized she is just a little hoe.
So i went back home and waited for her to so I can have my own share of the cake ..so I told her I liked her and want her to be my girlfriend but she said she has a boyfriend. I told her I didn’t care then she said she will think about it. Lol for a girl that has a boyfriend wants to think about another guys proposal well that confirmed everything.

So while taking to the girl I could perceive cum from her mouth, buh I touched her she didn’t feel like who sweat while having sex .
Maybe she is a virgin and only give the guy head.

Well my question is now how do I carry out my plans on making sure she accepts me?

Do you think she’s a virgin ?

Should I date her and have my own share of the cake irrespective of her boyfriend ?

Do you think she can break up with her guy for me?

Moreover I fine the guy

you mean have your own space in hell. You think you are doing the girl? Lemaooo kwatinu

Yugoslavia247:


I cannot answer a rehab patient.
Of what use is it to her mental health?
No nah.

Please 🙏🙏 go and seek medical therapy.

you are just dumb jareh!
You don't know me so there is no way you care about my mental health you only want to dodge the questions and shut me up but you don see say you too small. You and your entire generation no well

Billionaire2:


Sis, there is more to women’s contributions to family, the society and humanity as a whole than bedroom performance…
Be calming down …. Don’t hurt yourself…. It’s a beautiful Sunday morning..

if you dont benefit anything from a woman can you stay? Make una no dey try dey dodge the real question,

No sex, no child, no chores, no money based on sudden health issues, will you stick to her?

Me I just want us to be telling ourselves the truth not everytime attacking one gender

Yugoslavia247:


You still cannot comprehend that I used yahoo boy figuratively.

Please seek help.
You are running over mentally.
No man or woman can bear you.
If you don't you might stab someone.

answer nah!! I'm here for your tears

Brokeness:


You have hot temper o

no nah! Why all the mentions yet no one can answer?

Can you stick to a woman from whome you benefit nothing? I mean even sex she can't give you talkless of a child, and she cant do chores either for health reasons that may last her life time?

Yugoslavia247:


Please seek quick medical intervention.
You have gone through alot in the hands of that yahoo boy. Now you need to find someone else.
By yahoo boy I mean you are the mugu or maga.

you are just one of the terrible boys I am talking about. You think girls who date yahoo boys will talk like me you better grow some sense... you are angry I asked a question that hit the right cord. Deal with it

I love your tears. Answer the question or , can you stick to a woman from whome you benefit nothing?

Yugoslavia247:


You have marital or childhood issues.

Please seek therapy.
No man or woman can bear you.

Please seek therapy.
You are going through alot

shut up. Have you treated your own self?

All of you know you'd never be able to stay with a woman if she's not of any value to you but you always want to shut women up with your useless demand for being loved for no reason.

All the mentions yet the first thing there is a question you still couldn't answer.

Yugoslavia247:


Stop deviating the topic.

shut up or answer, that's not deviating

Brokeness:


Why do you say men are not capable of loving genuinely?

because I asked a question that men know in their heart they can't answer positively, so they'll rather dodge it or lie.

even you didn't answer the question.

Men will you stick to your woman if she suddenly loses a leg and both eyes and cant function in the house and bedroom anymore?

its how this gender that is not capable of loving anyone genuinely are always quick to demand being loved.

only 2% of men are good and this 2% dont make noise o, its the terrible ones that will always come out to talk nonsense about women and relationship

Mastersure:
My thoughts on #AchrafHakimi...

Achraf is trending for hiding his money under his mother's name to frustrate his wife's efforts to claim 50% of their estate.

Here are the facts:

1. Hiba Abouk, wife of Achraf Hakimi is a professional Spanish actress. She is not broke and definitely not a gold digger as many of you claim. She has her own money hence she never cared about Achraf sending all his money to his mother while she uses hers to run the home. In fact, in 2020, sportsmob called Hiba one of the RICHEST Spanish actresses.

2. Hiba is one of the most intelligent actresses in Spain. She speaks Spanish, Arabic, French, English and Italian fluently. How many international languages do you speak?

3. Hiba Abouk is older than her husband Achraf by 12 years... Yes, 12 good years. She contributed in the background to his rise. Achraf was only 19 when they met. Hiba is 36 years old now while Achraf is 24 years old. Achraf is a 24 year old mummy's boy - no real man should ever take lessons from such a young mummy's boy.

4. Achraf is not my hero. He is not the kind of man I would allow to marry my daughter. I see Reno has made him a hero, declaring him as wise as Solomon because he gave his money to his mother and not his wife.
Let me tell you something about Reno - his marriage with his first wife failed for a reason. He is currently married to an Ethiopian wife and believe me, he won't try what he did to his Nigerian wife with this Ethiopian wife.
Nigerian women are the most abused wives in the world. Trust me. That's why when our brothers take them overseas and their eyes open, they rebel. I'll talk about this some other time but let me warn you about motivational speakers like Reno - before you buy their ideology, ask questions about their marriage. If their so called wisdom was truly wise, why did it not save their home?
Any man who gives his mother all his money to hide it from his wife is not man enough and definitely not smart. Did you follow Bill Gates divorce? That's a smart divorce - they settled everything amicably and only went to court to sign the official paperwork.

5. There's a rape case against Achraf right now. Rape is a serious crime. You don't know what else his wife knows. We all recently condemned the #DalaiLama for asking a boy to suck his tongue. Why are you now making a hero out of a 24 year old mummy's boy whose rape case is now before a court?

Conclusion:

Only a boy would give his money to his mother in order to hide it from his wife. And this also exposes the maturity of Reno. Stop taking relationship advice from boys. Achraf and the likes of Reno are men who give their mother money to hide from their wives.

For me, I raise men who are REAL MEN.... we don't give our mothers money to keep away from our partners. We give our spouses right to our wealth and if they ever ask for divorce, we give them a reasonable Portion of the wealth we built together, say goodbye and continue to be friends for the sake of the kids. That's how real men role.

My name is Charles Awuzie and Achraf is not my hero.

Most men have refused to grow up and most mothers are so greedy and sad in their marriage that they deliberately refuse to tell their sons the truth.

Mothers know it is not their right to their son's properties if he has a wife but greed will not let them tell him, as long has he wants to be stupid they let him be.

It's funny because Hakimi's mum will cry blood and water if her husband did same to her but is happy when her son did it for her.

Now I don't pity the wife because by the story she may actually be a gold digger but I pity the boy because I believe the devil has won over his life.

Do not marry and especially do not have a child by a woman you cannot give properties to for the sake of your children, NOBODY in your family will take care of your children better than their mother, so it's stupid to will properties to your parent or siblings because (while you all are worried about divorce you forget there is such a thing as death and it can come anytime) they will use dat money for their own children first

So your sweat ends being used to take care of another man's children instead of your own because you are filled with hate for the mother of your children, now your own children will surffer. Make it make sense


And how come men aren't concerned he didn't put his properties in his father's name? They are just happy because it's an opportunity to spite a wife whereas every wife eventually becomes a mother

Wait oo... how is it the ones who have nothing to their names thay are crying the most on my mention? ..lemao
Rich men no cry about gold digger like poor men I pity woman wey fall for una tears.

Na different type them dey see.

The worse are the ones who have useless sons. They'll just be doing anyhow because their son is too useless to call dem to order

Because alot of you are bitter.
1. What's your business with what another man chose to do with his money? Why not go and make your own and dash your choice of people?
2. Can you open leg for him? You open your mouth waaaa and say the man give women money as if it is free.... he is not generous he is trying to get something in return.
3. Why did his so called friend not avoid him If he doesn't like his ways?

Una problem dey una body

HellVictorinho6:



If I am useless to you .....a girl or woman, you're also useless to me.



This is not a matter of blaming.

You also deserve to be abandoned.

who be dis one? Wetin concern me and you?

Be like say na mad people plenty for dis thread.

Dtruthspeaker:


Just say you had no valid thing to counter daughter of Satan.

you are clearly satan itself. Get behind me.
You calling someone older than your mother a bitch only God know what you call your mother. As dem no train you well

Dtruthspeaker:


Is it that you do not know what soulely solely means or you are a Satan's advocate come to keep stupid men in the blindness and lies evil eve had created since the beginning which you demons have been carrying up and protecting?

I know it is the latter, you are just a devil advocate trying to defend the lies from being broken up and The Truth Revealed

Everyone knows that solely means one person and the one person who kills the whole world is the first one person who disobeyed God. And that person was female Adam.

And every normal man can see that the only reason why Adam listened to his wife is because of love and sex else he would not have listened to her to disobey God.

And we know the amount of manipulative pressure that that bitch would desperately bring since she knew she would be dying alone.

To note that male Adam finally named her Eve only after he saw that she had destroyed him. To see that Eve even sounds like a coded way of telling us that female Adam is Evil.

you dull ooo... so you don't know what solely means? I did not make a mistake stop spelling rubbish and attaching long dumb post to it

Dem plenty. By God's grace their suffering just start.

Dtruthspeaker:


God does not need to tell the woman directly just as He did not tell Isreal directly, yet they got The Law and we see that she knew about it, so you are talking rubbish!

you are exactly the type of man I am talking about.

I'm yet to see where you accept that Adam is solely responsible for his actions because he knew it was wrong and still ate it. Regardless of who gave him. You blame a woman for why a man could not obey orders? I'm sorry but you are not well.

Using the word bitch for a woman thousands of years older than your parents just because of an online conversation shows you are really not well.

Imagine you claiming it was the woman Helping man


Men's problem has always been not taking responsibility �..

Man was WARNED NOT TO EAT the fruit and he defaulted. That is the problem, the problem is not who gave him to eat.
But instead of man to take responsibility for defaulting, he blamed God and blamed the woman, never himself who refused to yield to instructions.

Till date men still playing the blame game