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Virtuousdiva: 8:42pm On Jun 27, 2016
mumnadine:
traveling october as well paid in USD

Please check your email..Sent you a pm.
Virtuousdiva: 5:51pm On Jun 27, 2016
mumnadine:
Why is nobody talking about british airways are dey bad for preg mamas?coz am using dem oo

Abeg nothing do them ooo.I use them most of the time for vacations as well as my two birth trips..I guess people are just not talking about them because they are quite pricey at the moment..But abeg,if the money is there,stick to BA ooo

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Virtuousdiva: 1:24am On Jun 25, 2016
ebonychic18:
Thinking. ..... maybe I'm wired way too differently or I think too much. I always flinch when I see total strangers asking for roommates, travel mates, shopping mates etc on a faceless forum. Dropping personal emails, phone numbers shocked . Just airing my thoughts. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed my first ever in NYC, I didn't know anyone. I was excited. I made new and some lasting friends there. I explored the city. It was fun for me. I think we should be a Lil bit careful. Or....maybe I'm weird

Your comment made me smile because wetin we dey see for the hand of hormonal mums sometimes no be here. I am all for hooking up with someone who is travelling same time as me ooo but please and please be careful with accomodation sharing.I no go fit talk all but some people have had experiences with kleptomaniac mums, mums who come with nothing and leech on others,abi those wey go borrow diaper till they leave america,even a mum who went round an extended stay asking for 50-100 dollars loan under the guise of blocked card to pay back when her hubby came and took from more than 10people and after BC came out,she left the city without anyone knowing.Please when you are in a communal setting,be on your guard always and also be financially prepared when planning for this American journey. Not all belle that glitters is gold.

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Virtuousdiva: 3:19am On Jun 24, 2016
RILV:
Pls has anyone gone Tru Dallas fort Worth poe with big Tommy? I will b due by Nov and will travel in Sept. Does any have info of hos in Wylie or close to? I have a B1B2 visa and will love to have my baby over there. LA assist I am new here.

Welcome. Try and read through even this part 4.Its not much..I dropped a transcript of my dallas Poe experience when someone asked as well..

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Virtuousdiva: 6:12am On Jun 10, 2016
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Virtuousdiva: 5:23pm On Jun 07, 2016
Gloriousmum:
After waiting for 1 hour 30 minster
Vo lady came in
Vo: docs appointment
Wify: gave her
VO: Is this all the money you are to pay (about 9Kplus)
Wiffy: pediatrician and all not included
Vo : ok
Came back after 30mins
Vo: why did you decide to come give birth in the US
Wiffy:good health care and issues from her previous birth experience
Vo:but your daughter looks beautiful. What's your experience
Wify: bla bla bla
Vo: but that company hospital is good from our records
Wify: shocked. How you take know
Vo: from colleagues that has travelled The review is good
Wify: well sha that's my story
Vo: when is your due date and who are you staying with
Wiffy: gave her the info
Went in to call the doc and the host and came back
Vo: the doc has confirmed your appointment but your host is not picking
Vo: listen to Your interview conversation (so them dey record the interview) when you decided you want to come give birth what did you do
DH: made enquires from friends. Was told giving birth in the US is not a crime. Wrote a letter of intend to the embassy
Vo: letter of change of intend is much these days with some peeps editing their friends own and bring it to us. Can you log on to your mail so as to see the corresponding
DH:logged on and showed evidence

At a time Vo collected both Vo and Wiffy phones to check all their whatsapp messages
Vo: collected the money and counted it
Vo: seems you are a Christian. Have a lot of Christian group in your whatsapp. Wify skilled. Which all nigerians are trutful. You guys didn't contradict yourselves. Stamp them in till December

Thank God for a successful journey and POE. You are blessed indeed..This CBP people are really showing us that truly some nigerians can"fall hand".Which one is begging not to enter for secondary inspection again especially when you have nothing to hide...As for the seeing of change of intent mail direct from device,i think that is a very smart idea.To think that people don't want to send their own letter to the embassy but have the time to edit from others is just a hot mess.Abeg Nairalanders keep the truth flag flying and may all liars and backyard who want to block other people's chances be weeded out like chaff.

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Virtuousdiva: 6:50am On May 26, 2016
desoul:
please house, have any body used dallas forth worth (DFW) international airport as point of entry..how was it?
.pls share your experienc7e

Dallas Forth Worth...One POE that still gladdens my heart...I booked a flight via British Airways to Elpaso and choose the option of waiting for 4hrs to connect to elpaso in case they decide to take me in for secondary questioning and ended up spending only 20mins answering questions,waiting for my bag and just sat through the whole 3hrs plus waiting for my flight..

Me:Good afternoon
Vo:Good afternoon,so why are you in dallas today
Me:Childbirth Sir
VO:Really Step back let me take a look at you
Me: i did oo and he saw belle(i wore top,jean and sneakers) so i wonder how him no see.Asked me how far gone.i said 35weeks and 4days as BA permits 36 to fly and i was indeed 35 and 4days
VO:Do you have a doctor's correspondence,i said yes,he asked for it,checked it
VO:Do you have other kids?
Me:I said Yes i do,they are back in Nigeria while showing him their zero balance,he just glances through and gives me back.
VO:Do you have your landing card with you?
Me:I said Yes,gives it to him and he turns the back to check the foodstuff i listed and returns it to me(i took everything takeable excluding yams,oil and seeds).
VO:Do you have money to declare...i didnt cos i went with 8k cash and cards.If you have cash to declare, they will just direct you to someone that will count it.
VO:Okay maam,enjoy your stay in elpaso and to pay your bills as you did for the others and get your receipts.
Me:Thank you Sir.Have a nice day.
He then directed me to where i picked my box from Agriculture..Before i got there,they had already screened mine so i just took my box,gave them my landing card and went to wait for my flight to elpaso....
I forgot to add..This trip was made early last year.

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Virtuousdiva: 10:31am On Apr 29, 2016
ekpotek:
Hi all,
Any idea of affordable accommodation in Brooklyn NY for extended stay at least 3 months for birthing purpose. We intend to use New York Methodist hospital, Brooklyn. Thanks

Ekpotek,please can you help me with information on your hospital Trying to see if i can change location this time around..I will really appreciate it
Virtuousdiva: 5:11pm On Mar 09, 2015
Thank God for safe delivery and for following my instincts irrespective of assorted critics grin.Doctoreperati ooo,Eastside women's clinic,Del Sol Medical Centre,Drs and Nurses all treated me well and I know that all the people who have used them will testify.I am going back to my motherly duties.If you know you will be coming to Elpaso between ending of March and mid April,send me a pm if you are interested in kitchen utensils so you don't buy any.

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Virtuousdiva: 6:47pm On Feb 15, 2015
All the Doctores critics don show again.We dey Elpaso dey bond ooo,they born,collect all our docs in 3-4weeks go house.Make una well done.Thats why so many El Paso bound people have refused to come back and give POE story or any other thing of that sort and resort to pm's.Dont judge when you don't know anything about a place.Face your own destination.So many people don't criticize MIHS,WHMC,Northside and the likes but when it comes to using Del Sol Medical Centre through Doctoresperati,claws will come out.If you have gotten there letter before,they will advice you on preferable POE's to use if you want.There are so many mamas who used Houston,Chicago and Atlanta POE here with Doctores letter and have gotten here successfully.So if you are not lucky, maybe the letter of responsibility no favour you.Just to add something else,if you come to El Paso,you will know that you don't even need to help them market Doctores.people from China dey come here,Togo,Congo,Kenya,Latinos,Naija and so many more.They are not lacking customers.

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Virtuousdiva: 8:00am On Feb 15, 2015
isysleek:
Hello evryone,congrats to all new mums and dads.
To the lady turned back,so sorry abt ur experience. It is well.
Pls for those who have used doctores para ti hospital, pls at POE, did u say u were using doctores para ti? Or you used a different hospital letter at POE?

Isysleek..i will only speak based on dallas POE hoping that any other POE might do same.if you get to the POE,apart from some normal questions the CBP guy or lady might ask you,you will be asked where you are going to,what for and your documents to show that you have made proper arrangements.So all you need do is show them your letter of medical responsibility sent by Doctoresperati and a copy of the bill they mailed to you and other jara burden of proof you have.I hope I was able to answer your question?
Virtuousdiva: 6:51am On Feb 02, 2015
Oga Baauh.Your matter dey 2pages of this thread now.I believe it's time to take a breather.I won't be surprised,15pages from now,someone else will take "free insurance or Medicaid" as them dey call am and say he or she was never aware of stuff like this.It seems some people wait until they make mistake then they will run to Nairaland..Start from page 1 oooo and avoid a case that will make you deny your spouse undecided

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Virtuousdiva: 10:06pm On Jan 20, 2015
Shawbabe:


that letter of intent thing is over-rated. As long as she has traveled before on the visa, shoe doesn't need to send anything. I didn't send any letter becoz I already had speech and answer planned to give them if they give me wahala lol. But God was in control all through.

@ kairi and lalavita, thanks!

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Shawbabe congratulations on your successful entry.Your own case is different.Biko don't say the letter of intent is over rated ooo.I am talking as someone that had a relative sent back because of no letter of intent.Whether the CBP guys woke up on the wrong side of their beds that day,nobody knew but they just bundled her back because of that simple letter meanwhile everything was intct.I will say you shouldn't generalize.The people at the embassy that reply that letter too are not ignorant of what they are doing.Cheers.Going back to my packing

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Virtuousdiva: 10:03pm On Jan 20, 2015
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that letter of intent thing is over-rated. As long as she has traveled before on the visa, shoe doesn't need to send anything. I didn't send any letter becoz I already had speech and answer planned to give them if they give me wahala lol. But God was in control all through.


Show babe congratulations on your successful entry.Your own case is different.Biko don't say the letter of intent is over rated ooo.I am talking as someone that had a relative sent back because of no letter of intent.Whether the CBP guys woke up on the wrong side of their beds that day,nobody knew but they just bundled her back because of that simple letter meanwhile everything was intct.I will say you shouldn't generalize.The people at the embassy that reply that letter too are not ignorant of what they are doing.Cheers.Going back to my packing kiss

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Virtuousdiva: 9:00pm On Jan 17, 2015
k711:


I'm also going to El paso cos I'm having twins and they have already given me my bill. My problem is how to connect elpaso without first stopping at Houston cos of the horrible stories. Any ideas anyone?

The only reason you will have Houston as POE while connecting to ELP is if you are flying delta.British airways and Emirates(just the two I'm sure of) have POE as Dallas.
Virtuousdiva: 10:05pm On Jan 16, 2015
lilyfranklin:
This forum is one of the best info forums I must it. I struggled with my self whether to go for visa or not as I was visibly showing but I did in d end and I got it (with the rest of my family). I have sent a mail to the Abuja embassy concerning my change of travel plans as we told them holiday at the interview, hopeful to get a +ve reply. Will be travelling on the 10th of Feb to El paso, I'm struggling with the best route to follow, pls can someone advise me on that putting my condition (will be 35 weeks then) in mind.

Thanks

Out of curiousity,did you travel after getting the visa for holiday or you just want to change travel plans after telling them you are going on holiday.If it's the latter,I think its a case of misusing the change of intent stuff..Just saying.

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Virtuousdiva: 11:22am On Jan 16, 2015
favouredB:


Thanks @ Virtuousdiva. Nice points. However from all the response I have read concerning letter of change of intent, i don't think it's necessary to write it if you had used your visa for the purpose for which it was granted. B1/B2 visa includes medical assistance. If you got the visa for vacation and used it for vacation, you can also use it for birthing purposes later,without writing the embassy. Problem comes when you get the visa for vacation and don't use it at all for that purpose but instead turn around to use it for birthing. In that case it would appear you deceived the VO during your interview and so to clear that impression you need to write the letter of change of intent.

You are spot on as well.

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Virtuousdiva: 11:45pm On Jan 15, 2015
Expectant mamas and daddies to be in the house. We thank God for all the stories and experiences shared here.There are some things i will like to shed light on;
1) Please do not underestimate the power of compression socks ooo. It works big time.The last thing you want to experience when you travel is complications that will arise as a result of deep vein thrombosis caused by swollen feet as a result of immobility. I know someone who has experienced it while going to give birth and it ended up being so serious. Wear the compression socks on long flights and as much as you can, try and be move around on the plane.

2) For those just ing the thread, you have no idea how blessed you are to meet this page up to 300 and something fully packed with information. i have never seen such a generous bunch of info sharers like the people on nairaland and all i can say is please do not start from the last page,take time and read from the beginning. If reading is too much of an issue, start from page 100. You will not regret it.

3) Also one basic thing that continues to be a focal point here is truthfulness. if you are going for your visa and pregnant, prepare well(pack your BURDEN OF PROOF)tell them you are pregnant and God willing you will be given a visa. If you are pregnant after your visa or have gone on vacation before, send a letter and get the standard reply. Let us not complicate issues for ourselves and then begin to blame the people at POE when the gist given to us here is one sided.
PEACE AND LOVE TO YOU ALL.

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Virtuousdiva: 11:07pm On Jan 12, 2015
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Justwise come and weed oooo.
Virtuousdiva: 10:42pm On Jan 11, 2015
RitRit:
Hello, did u get a response to this Ur enquiry?.Gone thru d thread. Didn't find any. I thot I had my mind made up on ElPaso but I am now worried seeing this. Do they really refuse entry if u have doctores parati letter? @justwise I hope I haven't broken any rules with my question again. undecided
Thank you. A friend mentioned doctores parati to me and that informed my choice of Texas. I have actually ed them but I need first hand info from anyone who has used them recently. I think I read somewhere on this thread that their appointment letters are always in doubt at the POE. Can someone pls clarify this for me. I would really appreciate


There are so many people who have used them and talked about them on the thread.Just try and read backwards.Secondly,it has never been mentioned that their letter of medical responsibility is rejected at POE.It is when using in to apply for visa that some VO's have doubts and this just started recently as some people who secured visas earlier used it.I hope its clear now.

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Virtuousdiva: 12:14pm On Jan 04, 2015
[quote . Feel free to pm me if interested so we can work out an arrangement as to where I'd leave them for you just in case ure arriving after I leave. Cheers all[/quote]

Damsell, Please check your pm
Virtuousdiva: 8:50am On Dec 30, 2014
favouredB:
Pls anyone with required info can PM me.
1. Doctors that can respond to me before Friday without any requirements
2. Must I pay for accommodation or is booking enough to present at POE?
Quick response will be highly appreciated.
Thanks.

Check your pm.
Virtuousdiva: 8:19pm On Dec 16, 2014
pattyreal:


Hi virtousdiva so where did u settle 4 finally?

pattyreal, How are you doing?I am heading towards ELP by God's grace.
Virtuousdiva: 5:32pm On Dec 16, 2014
Tvegas:


@Virtuosdiva......Haven't read from you in a while. when are you travelling?. Do you hear from Merrymom,she has been away for a while.

I dey oooo.I haven't gone yet,January things.Haven't heard from Merrymom yet too Make sure say you perfect your pepper soup skills for madam while you dey there oooo.
Virtuousdiva: 5:24pm On Dec 16, 2014
Shawbabe:


Lol when I dey tell una say BA is the worst airline flying to naija, una no wan hear. The days of BA being the best, has long gone. It's like they send their worst planes and hostesses to Nigeria. It's terrible!

BA has been good to me oooo over the years.I am surprised by all these stories...They are very good with upgrading people as well.That being said, if the money dey,kuku fly business or first class oooo ;Dcos every airlines economy class has their own comma.
Virtuousdiva: 9:23pm On Dec 13, 2014
Lorlahbee:
Lmao... God help us all...Amen

Lorlahbee please check your pm.
Virtuousdiva: 11:50pm On Dec 12, 2014
Hahahahahaha....All these assorted hormones raging here both fake and real.Please ooooo,make una travel times do come make una go born abeg. Leave these thread for newbies tongue...rs,people don open eye oooo.Go and rest.

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Virtuousdiva: 6:50pm On Dec 03, 2014
kizluv:

LMAO! !! You ain't lying at small leg room, but I am a tiny person so I no get wahala for that one grin . I fly BA so them UK people would stamp my UK visa jare. Using 1 stone to kill 2 birds. The condition of their flights to/from Nigerian is like night and day compared to say to/from US. God dai sha..

Lol@tiny person....Your own better now.Truth be told, I no sure say person wey dey first class or business go get these complains ooowinkAirline reviews are just like that of hotels.The same place you stayed and had comfort might give someone else discomfort.Make we manage all these airlines as we see am oooo. we are only in the air for some hours as they say kiss

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Virtuousdiva: 8:47pm On Nov 27, 2014
Ezemistic:
Does anyone know about UNITED AIRLINE? Is it better than BA, pls advice, I just used google to search, and i saw travelstart.com, so i m currently searching for flight with it. Pls advice, i really need to book the flight tonite.....
THANKS

Ezemistic....not to sound biased but I don't know about United airlines being better than BA.So far as you are going to El Paso,It will be fine if you use BA.We are many using BA going to EL Paso.Some with Dallas As POE while some Chicago.The best thing also will be to book BA through their website directly if you make up your mind on BA.
Virtuousdiva: 10:38am On Nov 25, 2014
lindapurple:

Hi mumdearest I would be going to El Paso in January also.

Lindapurple and mumdearest.... Will be going in january as well.. To send pm, just click on send email to my name and i'l reply you asap.
Virtuousdiva: 2:25pm On Nov 19, 2014
@Seshmemon.....Thank God for you and May your story remain positive..On the other hand,just a reminder,all of us with basketball sized belle grin that will be traveling now and in the nearest future,please gracefully rock the bump and tell them at POE that you are here for childbirth oooo not vacation,not medical treatment,not visit abeg.Just talked to someone today who is making a trip at 33 weeks and she says she won't tell them she came for childbirth that she read it from a site called nairaland.I almost ed out cos since I started reading this thread,the only key advice that has been common is BE TRUTHFUL..Just pointing this out in case there's someone else reading this thread who feels that it's okay to lie..Please it's not, the hours it took you to get to US and imagine if you were sent back for lying.

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