NewStats: 3,264,144 , 8,182,757 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 08:46 PM 6m3s2z

Inferiority complex all becos of otu

You are 33
33yrs + 7more = 40yrs

A f**l at forty
Just wait for 7 more yrs to complete it.

Nevertheless let her be, it's obvious that the 2 of you are not on the same page.
For your own good, let her be.

This is just the beginning
If you like walk out a thousand times
It's non of my business

You all wanted him as Senate president

Calabar1stSon:
Don't worry Bro the baby would become assistant security guard.

To take over from where ever you stopped.

The deed has been done
Please try and encourage her and always be by her side.

Her dreams are not cut short maybe they're delayed.
I wish her the best

Another man's food.

But wait oo
How do you feel having sxx with a girl in the dark when there's light. A random one at that
Just asking for a friend

If you look forward to settle down
Then look for a place that would accommodate you and your wife to be.
Even if you don't intend to settle down next year.
You will need to furnish the house too and that will take some time.

Anything you are doing now, look forward to a prospective future that would accommodate you and your future family.
Forgot your comfort now.
I wish you the best

They should mention names

You can always let her back
And come back tomorrow to complain


If you like, no use your head, allow your d** to think for you.
What is my own
Nairaland is always here to receive your complains

My dear
No reason am
Let it go
I know there's hunger in the land and see it as the price you paid for his services.

Don't even end your friendship too but see a way you can limit him from coming to your place becos he believes you'll replace those things.
I hope you have collected your keys

So does she wants you to unseen her unclothedness nii

Go and remove your tros in front of her
Thay way it will be draw

Krisdan:

Lyk make I dash u money 4 dis ur statement

Should I send my details?

She used you as an escaped goat.
She saw your weak point and decided to act on it.
You were only her backup plan


Start afresh
It's a story you will leave to tell for the rest of your life.
Thanks for sharing as well.
I have learnt something here.

They'll sweep it under the carpet

Judiciary is not functioning in Nigeria

Privacy for fornication you mean

Nonsense and ingredients

Nigeria oo

But I'll have to be the Leader.

Forget that thing.

If na yarsh and breast go give you peace of mind, marry her and complain here later.

That's why nairaland was created.

The wedding itself is unnecessary and waste of resources

E don reach your turn, you no get mouth to talk becos na your sister and she dy use am settle you one way or the other.

Perhaps, you feeling comfortable knowing and sl*ping with other people's sister who do the same as yours but for your, you feel ashamed.

Brace up nigga
What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

We all have our shortcomings
But that's is not an excuse for what she did.

I think you are feeling lonely
And if you think you love her, try and tell her your mind and this time define your relationship.
Or
Forget about the past and move on

I know that sister of yours is you.
Well if you have the money rent a place and save yourself the embracement.

Please go with your children no matter what even if you don't have the money for their school fees, they can start at a later time.

The best time to leave is when your husband is not at home. Just leave with the basic items that you'll need at your new place.

I wish you all the best.

Right and correct are synonymous

I'll rather be rightly correct

I thought you are married

Ash*wo dy your eyes.

I know it's not going to be easy but just try and forget about her. Stop looking for her.
Take those kids to your mum, sis or aunty to take care of them for the main time.

Focus on your children and forget about your wife.
Make sure you inform her(wife) about what happened and avoid leave your children under the care of her(wife) mother or relatives.

There are levels to stealing

You are very correct
But in practical, it's easier said than done.
The heart knows where it belongs and most likely would want to probe for further explanation.

Livingstone124:
what about next time the wife will think twice before raising her voice on her husband.

My dear that's the Panadol(tolerance) everyman need for his woman(headache)

You can never change them

This is the best treatment

Next time he will never thinking of raising his hands for the wife.

Misplaced priorities

We're always quick to talk about other.
Thank God you said May you not be found in this situation.

People are really suffering and by all means must survive. If getting married to the old woman will give him money and papers, that's fine.

Perhaps if this same guy had come to you for help with maybe his business proposal, would you have helped?

Just mind your business and leave other people's marriage weather old or young.

Just shut up and start working

An empty container makes the loudest sound

From your prev post, you said you are not emotional attached to your husband
So why then are you upset?
You and your husband are guilty of the same thing, wanting the touch of another

Perhaps you are a definition of confusion