NewStats: 3,264,940 , 8,185,157 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 09:35 PM 3a6x6t

She has been taking it since 2022

RoyalBlu:
I'd advise you go get an abdominal scan asap.

That kind of pain that made you want to throw up is a red flag.

I hope you've not been taking emergency pills for a long time?

Come buy one from my company.

MrCork:
Am looking for a luxurious 2 bedroom smart flat in nigeria coz am working on moving back in next 3 month..i need to settle down.

Its about time

ADVICE URGENTLY NEEDED, please!!!

Veenbanks I'm interested, thanks sir.
post=130201854:
How to trade the financial market (synthetic).

I'm interested, thanks MA.

wittywriter:

Learn how to build and sell an online community...you can earn @least $50 monthly with this skill.




Wittyness.

I'm interested sir

benjatoba:
I can teach you how to develop Blazor web apps for free

This is a mid-level vacancy for EXPERIENCED BREAD BAKERS ONLY

Criteria:

Must be an experienced baker of various types of bread
Must be able to communicate clearly in English
Available for resumption on short notice
Must be able to work with minimum supervision
Must be trustworthy and reliable
Experienced Male and Female can apply

Startup Monthly Remuneration: 80,000 monthly + shared staff performance bonus.

Interested Applicant should send application to [email protected]

This vacancy is ONLY FOR EXPERIENCED BREAD BAKERS

Do not apply if you are not available to resume immediately.
Location: Obafemi Owode Local Government. Shared Accomodation Available for bakers willing to stay in staff apartment

Subject of your email should be EXPERIENCED BAKER

Lili97:
Please anyone I need a place to stay for just 3 months,even though i contribute to rent, food and others monthly no problem,I need a roof above me for just a short period of time,am a graduate of criminology and security studies OND, currently in Lagos but no house,I can bake cupcakes and donuts to sale and make money the I move out after a short time abeg, anybody with good heart please help a sister.

This thing go reach front page

Just a level of trust or intimacy between the two of you where she feels comfortable to reveal the inner feelings to you.

Oga, haba... 15 years as a labourer and you didn't learn anything, that's crazy.
Don't blame anybody or any country, it's just that you didn't define what you want.
If you can't learn to be a construction manager, you can learn to be either Plumber, electrician, Mason etc.
It's never too late though.

woojin:
I have been working as a labourer in a construction sites and other places for 15 good years and i have nothing to show. I started working since when i was 15years old now i am 30 without any achievement, i sponsored myself through secondary and university with my hard earned money and to get a job is a herculean task and seems impossible. I am angry and keep blaming myself for my poverty thinking that i am not working hard enough, then just lately it occured to me that no matter how hard i will work i cant work harder than Nigerian economy. Now my blame goes directly to Nigeria. Now i see the reason why people japa. There is girl that i have chatting with, she lives in the UK, she is 18years old, and started working 2years ago in a gas filling station. She now owns a car and go for vacation to another country every year, while me that worked for 15years cannot even afford an android phone. NIGERIA IS TRULY A DESTINY.

I can show you some videos of the doors of a project we are currently working, and also link you up with the supplier. Send me a mail for better conversation.

Martinsmine:
Truth be told.... you have the cash to spend.. I will request you import your doors becuse this days welders aren't giving joy like back days... iron doors don't hold or protect anytin this days.. I will be sincere due to wicked handwork men this days be prepared for poor material usage or better stroll find trusted someone who will always watch out on materials used to build the doors... my humble suggestion

Hmmm

What's the size

Mail sent.

learn2change:
Salary : 105,000 Naira
Nature of Job: Full time , remote position.
Job duties: I am in need of a dedicated technical writer , with years of experience in writing and general application. The ideal candidate will also act as my assistance.

Send resume to : [email protected]

Hmmmm

fidelmarshal199:
Ok

What's your offence?

I'm living in Lagos, i have 400k, pls i need an ideas of what profitable business I can do.
Thanks

Hv sent you a mail 070...6254....4543...

Sprumbaba:
I need someone who can help connect multiple computers together through Workgroup on windows.
We need to connect like 14 system together. This can be done remotely over zoom. You will be paid for the task.

Send me a message at [email protected] and drop your phone number if you can help.

Let's hold them responsible for everything.

In 10 minutes, I must make the money to buy another 10 litres of fuel, from Oshodi to Lekki, #800, then from Lekki to Eleko, bcoz transport fare on the Island is more expensive.

How did you and this lady met, how can you accommodate someone you don't know, you accommodated this lady because of free sex, the foundation of the relationship was built on pity, if you are only accommodating her and just having sex with her, it will be a case of friends with benefits, you won't even notice all those things you mentioned, but you have taken it to a level that only you wants and not in her agenda.
So oga, I'm not saying you should cancel the plans, just calm down and do it a step at a time, having heated argument with her means you are no longer tolerating her and no more existence of peaceful cohabitation and you may beat her one day.
So please apply wisdom.

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the red flags are obvious?

He made a mistake and he has realised it, so he's doing everything to help this lady but the lady is not ready for anything

KarinaSlim:


Move what to Front Page?

Your friend is to blame here.

He went to impregnate girl when he wasn't financially prepared for what was to come.

If everybody is like your friend ehn, this world for no contain us.

Hi everyone, trust you are doing good.
A friend of mine dated a lady 4 years ago when she was in nursing school, the relationship resulted in pregnancy, and they both agreed to keep the baby, ( not as if this guy is financially doing well), during this period of pregnancy the lady's father died, there was more pressure on him that the lady dropped out of school.
She gave birth to the baby at her mother's place in Bayelsa but my friend did send upkeep and my friend's elder sister made sure she gave more than what she or her mother requested.
Seven months after giving birth, my friend pleaded with the lady's mother to allow her to take the baby to Porthacourt for my friend's mother to see the baby, her mother refused but after lots of pleadings, she agreed.
So she came to Lagos after one year and dropped the child with her mother, on getting to Lagos, her aunty accommodated her, after some time she called suddenly that her aunty sent her out of the house, my friend asked her to send her aunty's number but she refused, so my friend discussed with the man that gave him a room to stay ( my friend was working on a site as a labourer, the surveyor on that site took him to his house and gave him a room inside his own house), the man didn't agree but asked him to get an apartment that he will him, he got the apartment and the man paid as promised,
This guy has an Okirika stand (a fairly used cloth stand) that someone is managing for him, so this guy asked this lady to stay there, but this lady will spend both the capital and the profit.
My friend asked her what she wanted, and she said she wanted to learn small chops, so he took her to a place to learn and made the payment, but she left after 3 months with the excuse that her boss was too hostile. So she continued to be staying at the Okirika shop with no care and some kind of nonchalant attitude.
There was a heavy downpour of rain yesterday, the rain beat all the clothes, on getting there, he asked about her whereabouts and he said she had gone to collect her change. This guy is frustrated already because of her careless and irresponsible attitude, he has lost total interest in the whole thing, the lady now has an association with some bad girls, he has warned her about them, but she didn't desist.
He told me he wanted her to go but he wanted custody of the child, meanwhile, he told me there was a day the lady's mother called him that he was enjoying her daughter without doing the necessary things.
So what can he do to have the child stay with his mom because the lady's mother is not ready to release the child?
Mod , pls move to front page

Make sure you have money to grant her wish, because you have given her an open cheque.

Opanka44:
Hi Nairalanders, I would like to know if it's proper and appropriate for a Guy to ask his girlfriend for her choice of Birthday Gift.

My very good friend called me to ask what kind of Gift I would suggest he buys for his girlfriend on her Birthday. He said the girl has been so nice since they started a relationship Two years ago. And she's not the demanding type. She has almost everything she wants and will need since she's the last born of her family. She's 26.
Personally, I don't have a girlfriend and I do not wish to have now, until I'm completely ready.
Your inputs are needed, my people.
Thanks

Let her go... and always forgive yourself for having anything to do with a worthless gal like her.

I never date any before, so I can't say...

Haba, you are the only one that can talk to that woman to remain in the marriage, since you are the reason why the marriage is going bad. But wait...., how did you start that friendship before it gets to that level of intimacy, don't you know she's married, àbí how can a married woman with 4 kids be so attractive to you?
Pls guys learn to always respect the fact that some ladies are married

Chijeep:
It all happened like this...
I(a single man) and a married woman with 4kids who we both work in the same restaurant fell in love with each other, though we never had s3x but we use to have hot romance because I don't think I can bear sleeping with another man's wife.
These hidden relationship have been going on since 2 months now.
Like a joke, she asked me that will I marry her if she's single and I told her that yes because she's a spec both physically and otherwise.
BUT NOW I'M AFRAID OF WHAT'S COOKING NOW BECAUSE THIS SAME WOMAN HAVE TOLD HER HUSBAND THAT SHE WANT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE JUST FEW DAYS AGO AND THIS WEEK SHE HAVE INFORMED HER PARENTS OF HER INTENTION OF GETTING OUT OF THE MARRIAGE THOUGH HER PARENTS ARE NOT IN OF IT.

THOUGH I TRIED CLEARING MY MIND BY ASKING HER WHY WILL SHE LEAVE HER HUSBAND AND HER 4 KIDS AND SHE SAID THAT SHE NEVER LOVED HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE AND IT WAS HER MOM'S IDEA TO ACCEPT THE MAN'S PROPOSAL BECAUSE SHE WAS JUST 19 YEARS OF AGE WHILE THE MAN IS WAY MORE OLDER, AND TO CROWN IT UP, SHE SAID HER HUBBY ISN'T GOOD IN BED THAT HE PRACTICE HIS CHRISTIAN WAYS OF HAVING SEX SO MUCH THAT EVEN THE LITTLE SHE'S ENJOYING IN THE S3X OF A THING THAT SHE'S THE ONE TAKING IT UP ON HIM.

PLEASE HOW DO I GO ABOUT IN THIS KIND OF ISSUE, THOUGH I LOVE THIS WOMAN BUT I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A HAND IN THEIR SEPARATION.

Elders

Fear God ooo

Hmmmm

Hope she's your wife sha?