NewStats: 3,263,699 , 8,181,077 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 11:53 AM 492m5j

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Yorubastardz:
Money will only buy you Fake love
When it comes to fake love. A woman is the ultimate champion.
They can fake love to 3 different men. And convince each of them that she is their one and only love.

Real LOVE is called Agape love..
Agape love is the one money cannot buy
This type of love is rare in marriages and only exist amongst siblings or parents to children.

98% of marriages are built on fake love

You're wrong. Money will buy you the real deal. Ladies are elements of emotions, and that emotions are best triggered when incentives are involved.

My test was on this lady I've been asking out In forever. Never gave her money or so as I don't believe in wastage. Decided early this year to try out things from a different notion with her. I've been on her matter for like 2yrs plus though on and off.


I started by sending messages once in a while are just sending her lunch as she was in her finals. I had 4 different eateries because of her and this started making her look at my direction and even checking up once in a while. Her birthday was February and I decided to use that to my advantage though dude had a bf. They both finished uni same time. Called up aunty on her special day and asked her what are plans are for the day, she said nothing and that was all I needed. Drove down to her school and told her to let's go on a dinner. Something aunty would have refused before, she obliged and I took her to this fancy restaurant and I treated her nice afterwards we went to a minimart where I got her few stuffs for her birthday. To cut the long story short, aunty as been head over heels with me, sexual gratification back to back, Na she dey even disturb me with call this days.




Money might not buy you love directly, but it's a catalyst to been heard and loved.

You are 100 percent correct. I've tested it and it's proven. Money will buy you love anytime anyway any moment

Is the dealer high on some cheap unprescribed medication? 08 bawo

DLifeless1:



When you want to lie, lie with dignity, postinor is packaged as only 2 not 10, and you can't take it anyhow or it will mess up your menstrual cycle.

Stop saying nonsense.

You're the one who should ask questions.

Dtruthspeaker:


The office was not cursed rather what is cursed is the people, who made the mistake of rejecting God's Rule to choose the rule of their fellow man. The same fellow very wicked, greedy, selfish and power mærd man that we know.

And read it, according to the pronouncements there, is the ruled (the people) who will suffer if they did as other nations had done. And not the ruler. That is why till tomorrow the ruled (people) will keep crying for God to purnish the rulers.

So that which you call curse rather affects people than the king.

And even with this, God chose a good person to be their king. (If you read well you would see that Saul did not even want to be a king and he tried dodging it.

And no ev3ill thing happened to him or the people while he was righteous. So no, he was not appointed for doom.

But we see it was he who doomed himself by falling for the enticements and lusts which power brings.

The Way of God is Clear and He has drawn it out for us to see, if we truly want to see it.

Ok then. Even David who wrote Psalm 139 said he can't understand the way of God as the knowledge is far above him.


Have a great week. I'm done with this.

Dtruthspeaker:


Is it not after he had messed up the one that made God cast him away that the evil spirit entered him?

Saul was the FIRST, and God has a thing for the First. So Saul had everything which David would never have but he blew it up just like Esau did.

https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/8281391/god-thing-first-there-always#133098226

Bros........ Before Saul became king, there was a curse on his office. They refused Samuels corrupt sons and God felt they refused him (another way of God) they asked for a king like every nation and God gave them a king that fulfilled there desires (tall dark hefty and from a renowned family). The office was cursed by God even before Saul assumed the post. And God picked and singled him just for his glory on David to be fulfilled. The question should be why David. David was the least of his clan, not even looking powerful or so and he was an outcast among is brothers.



Saul was just selected for doom. I will stop by saying this, if I contend with man God might step in, what if I contend with God who will step in? The children of Isreal contend with God and Saul was just the sacrificial ram just for God to purnish them for there misdemeanour. Read through the book of 1sam chapter 9 and you will understand Saul was just playing a role he was destined to. Just like God hardened Pharaoh's heart just to destroy him for is glory to radiate and he made a man mute in John 9 since the day the man was born just for also is glory to be enhanced.



The way of God is not our way and is dimensions are just too versatile. A consuming fire yet a loving saviour.

Dtruthspeaker:


Wrong.

If you knew the art of Justice and wisdom you would why David had a different outcome from Saul.

Especially you all agree that Saul failed but you fail to see that God did not really punish him. Unlike David.

Clearly, there is a lot to be learned

Go back to the etymology of the office Saul was appointed, David enjoyed while Saul was just a sacrificial lamb.


Even the bible recorded and a evil spirit from God entered inside Saul........ Saul wasn't himself, he was just playing a role and fulfilling DESTINY.

gohf:
Did David keep the commandments more than Saul?

What commandments did Saul break?

David a man after God's heart because he was broken hearted and merciful.

Do you know how many times David broke the laws of Moses?

The write-up doesn't add up. Major sin Saul committed was disobedience. Apart, Saul was fulfilling the destiny of destruction already on the office he took up. I feel God is just God and is ways are not ours. He has folks he love and those he abhor. David fornicated, murdered, committed adultery and did every unthinkable thing.


David story is why I don't judge. Some folks are just engraced. No matter what they do grace will still come through for them while some won't do quarter before they fall into the abyss. The Hitlers and society outcast might just be whom God loves and want. The reason behind the grace on David, no man can know.

adioolayi:
Baba Atiku is seriously in a very bad political state...

He can't be VP again, even if he decides to a southerner in 2027..

He is equally old to wait till 2031 for the Northern slot that would have been more easier for him..

Baba is frustrated and terribly in a very bad politically disadvantage state

You played the penalty to throw in again. Real situation at hand you didn't address. Why am I even suprised at a supposed Tinubu fanatic. Y'all argue with emotions ntin constructive about y'all.

I supposed the dude will be tagged Igbo or obidient like lots of nairalanders does once you speak against their personal lord and saviour.

Why you go loose guard that much? Haven't you true friends? I'm not married but Na my close friends they always take one for the friendship and I do too when it comes to them. Find yourself some good friends that can cover your ass and can absorb the blame next time.

Firebox123:
if you can give them money 💰

That's true, doesn't make it the truth.





Perhaps I should say it's a perspective.

This issue of child marriage in the north is tricky and at the same time complicated.

Permit me to say this, northerners marriage last as they don't marry for love but marry for WHO CAN TAKE CARE OF ME BEST. that's the truth about an average northern lady.


Most of this girls married out to older men obviously won't refuse it as they don't have any plan for the future or themselves than sell jeda, gist with peers and offcourse discuss even things you don't imagine they know. And offcourse wait for Ango. I'm half northern half Yoruba and I stayed most of my life there till 2018. Before y'all castigate the man etc, know the fact that it's more of a culture over there for the talakawas and it won't stop any yearsssss soon.

Nigerian police will work if they are motivated to.


My statement is short but broad. The motivation can be in different folds.

Juliearth:





We are truly in hard times. Sir, if you can squeeze out a budget of 1 million and buy all the dry ingredients in bulk. Thus, monthly, you would spend less than 50k on perishables.

You could buy Rice in bags, meats in bulk (half cow, full goat, etc)
Bulk shopping for 6 months saves cost.


Need I also say that a scale of preference needs to be drafted out and implemented. If I had a family, we would go minimal on cereals because those are actually poisonous to our bodies. That can be replaced with healthier alternatives.

You're very correct in the bulk buying. But a man with 4 kids and a wife might think twice before coughing out the money for bulk buying, that's even if he can put such punt together without been tempted to touch. I do bulk buying and i stay in Ibadan. With even less than a million I stock up the house even with drinks and other edibles. I just have learnt to stay off lounges and money syphoning places.

slimstanakacns:
To me, the significance lies not in how much money I spend, but in the joy and fulfilment we derive from it. I strive diligently to ensure that my family finds happiness and contentment in whatever I can provide each day, no matter the amount. It’s important to me that we cherish the experiences and moments together, creating memories that overshadow any financial concerns.

You missed the road, you went from answering the question to licking your wounds. The question was how much do you spend not what motivates your spending.


Nigerians haba

yemmit90:
We are so selfish and ignorant in this part of the world. What is so bad in staying with someone aged parents that laboured endlessly to raise us? So, he can move to them when he was struggling but not when he is financially stable? That is the extent of our shallow thinking, and you keep wondering if it worth it to suffer to raise children these days.

An average European, Chinese or American live with their parents but here in Africa, we detest and don't have empathy toward one another. Why would anyone leave his aged parents when he/she is in position to stay with them. Loneliness at old age is out of this world, and it is a great privilege to have one of your children family around.

That is why every man should try to make money. The rich take up another wife that will give them young children who will keep the house running at old age.

You're on point. A friend of mine in Texas told me he relocated to California to be with is aged parents. Dude had a good job in Texas though. In this part of the world, I think there is this idea that you're grown when you leave your parents for no just reason. The major folks who practise this act are internet fraudsters and those I call wannabes. I have lots of friends doing well who still stays in the family home and even married there as long as no friction between partner and parents.


Fun fact, parents need us more when they're grown than when they're agile.

SultanOfPuna:
I have lived alone in apartment from 2019 to 2023
Due to financial struggles i relocated to my parents house 2023 since then i'm still with them

Now its 2 years and i have gotten financially stable and solid.
I want to leave but my parents are old and they want me to be around them at this stage of their life.


My parents are really old
My siblings are all married except me. My siblings are in different states far away from my parents.
I'm the only one closer to them

I'm the one taking care of the house and making sure things are in order.
But deep down i want to leave the house and go create my own family.

If i leave them and move out i fear that things will be out of order and disorganised due to old age.
Unfortunately no younger sibling to help look after them.

What should i do?

If you are making your money around or within the area, I don't see any reason why you should leave. The only thing is to try and build a demacation to avoid ladies palava. I really don't know where this idea of leaving home just to prove grown starts from though. A friend stayed with his parents and married there until he built is own house at 38 or so. Dude and is wife were both doctors. I can site more example. The only reason I believe a man should move out is for job sourcing or if the home won't contain them maybe shared kitchen etc.


Try and stay by your folks, now is the time they need you most.


I also stayed with my mum till 29 when I had to start my business in another state. Now, my mum stays more with me and I'm planning converting her house in the other state to 3 unit of 2 bedroom flat for more income . Once married, my plan is to build a 2bedroom inside the same compound to avoid friction between my wife and precious jewel.

Ijapa...... The car will climb any hill any day and any time. Used to be my dream car.

ibinaboonline:
Very good point. 👍I take back my word. The CrossCabriolet is the world's first convertible SUV, but not the only one.

I'm glad we still have descent Nigerians who ain't dogmatic on opinions.

It's obvious why the ex gf left.


He dodged a stray bullet.

Location and post more pictures.

durentboi:
I've been called good-looking, average and ugly.
I just want to know which it is and be at peace with myself.

Please don't sympathize with me, I just want the truth.

Harsh comments are welcome as well.

Thanks

You will look back at this Shenenigan few years from now and and shake your head in pity....


I thought the female gender are the ones that crave public validation, e be like table don shift.

Range rover Evoque does have convertible.

There are no bad cars, just bad handlers.


I drive an Honda, and I've used other brands. My mum used a babyboy 1999 back then when I was a teenager and I always see the way the car messes us up with the leg issue. This almost poisoned my mind. My first car was not even Honda, but I will tell you, I have used 2007, 2012 and presently 2014 accord and not once I have regretted the idea.

Funnily, my 2014 uses CVT gear and lots of so called expert advised me against it. Not for once have I been stranded with any of my Hondas. In Short, no bad cars, just bad s and handlers. First thing you do before buying a car is to read about the cons and probable issues then plan accordingly if your chest carry am.

helinues:
Some months ago car is what you want to be gloating about. Except this is an advert

Go back to politics, we read between the lines and digest here before rushing to comment.

Ruke1991:

Go ahead, what cannot kill a man makes a man
Get rich quick or die trying
No pain, no glory
Tough times never last but tough people do
Life is a risk
Man can only die once
Cowards die many times before their time

Don't be a coward, borrow that loan. Greatness is inborn. You could be the next Elon musk who debt nearly ruined but ended up becoming the world richest. The grave is full of unused talents. Man must not die without using their talent. Go on and blow

I can't decipher if this is sarcasm.



You earn my respect either ways.

This muric man........... He lost credibility already

More like NIGERIANS, I'm still here o, once Tinubu leaves power, I will continue my shenanigans.


I haven't even heard muric in a while sef. They used to be vocal even when the economy was better though.