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emmpire: she was showing where she had a caesarian operation |
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e no kuku de hard me to cry
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lol
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ShyCypher: no classy Chics on Nairaland? wow this is a new one |
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Hotel u make gain before loss |
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MissRaine69: a lot of sense |
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skarlett: I totally get your point, no matter how useless someone is, he\ she can be used as an example 2 Likes |
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Benita27: that's why I said marriage is not an escape from poverty |
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Ewlery:thanks |
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sunshineG: the one lying down got married at 18 |
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pocohantas: the pity game is getting stale |
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skarlett: we learn from other people's mistakes 1 Like |
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lefulefu: loool 1 Like |
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lefulefu: she's had two caesarian operation |
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Martin0: thanks |
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Benita27: fear in this term doesn't mean actual fear, it means the way kids just rush into it 1 Like |
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I fear who talk say marriage no de fear am.. (Isabella) I have written severally about marriage, how it is an institution and not a home of restitution, marriage is a graduate school where if we choose we can decide to go for Masters and PhDs, it is a process of learning, what I'm I trying to say? Marriage is a continuous study where we learn everyday and also have patience with our teachers, in this case our spouses I have seen so many people ( women especially) jump and rush into marriage due to pressure, money, envy, spite, or she just wants to be a MRS. It is worse when you see an 18 year old lady fantasizing about marriage, using Amara Kanu as an example, she is amongst the 1% early marriage will work for, she has sense, patience, charisma and a good tolerant husband. I was with four ladies yesterday who had something in common, they'd gotten married too soon, too early and two of them have been chased out of their homes while the other two hate their husbands with ion, one of them is the breadwinner so she says her husband had no say in their home. The lady lying down was sent out or her husband's house after he got rich, she gave birth to two boys before she was sent packing, before she was sent packing the husband impregnated a woman older than she was and brought her home, this older woman has kids who she in turn brought to her new husband's house lol. The other lady has just one girl, while the one screaming she hates men has four kids, she says she hasn't enjoyed sex for one day that the husband only has sex with her to impregnate her. The other lady says she doesn't respect her husband anymore so she does with him as she pleases. They were all trying to convince me how men are scum and shouldn't be handled with soft hands, in my heart I wept, my father wasn't scum to my mother, my brother isn't scum to his girlfriend, no man has ever treated me like scum, how do I convince these Women that they have a share in the blame too? I sat there consoling these ladies crying, look at me in my 20's consoling women old enough to birth me. Marriage isn't a do or die affair, I have heard mockery statements about how Ibo women don't marry early because they like to hustle and make money, but these early marriage traits are rampant amongst Ibo women, it is a thing of pride to see their daughters get married early and also give birth early, this doesn't mean only Ibo women are guilty, far from it, it has become a general issue; it might have worked for our ancestors but we live in different times now. One day my mother said to me " Ifeoma 30 is the right age for a woman to get married" in my heart I said what's she talking about now, but today I can see it, most ladies aren't mentally matured enough to look after themselves not to talk of getting married. My heart aches when I see children from broken homes, I was a product of one before my parents got back together and then my dad died, I do not wish single parenthood on any child, except death was the case. These women haven't seen their kids for long because their husbands won't allow it, they can't go to court because they aren't educated, they were chased out like common thieves and other women brought in. Education and skills acquisition remains the best legacy, always have a backup\breakup plan because no one knows tomorrow. Marriage isn't a source or income, be financially free and independent. See where these women live, they don't have a dime to their names and no skills to themselves. I hope someone learns from this, I tried to convince them not all men are scum but their minds are made up, I fear for the husband of that lady who hates men I hope he amends his ways so we won't read a gory story about a wife murdering her husband. Watch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WFESpEUv2Q http://www.talk2bella.com/2017/08/i-hate-men-says-this-lady-who-got.html?m=1 Isabella Ibeji. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
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mostblackroad:nope |
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NwaAmaikpe: Alter Ego Featuring NwaAmaikpe 2 Likes |
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nice outfit the floor tho |
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senseless killings RIP to those affected I am confused. first news said about 150 people died, another 50, another 11 now 8 real source pls 34 Likes 3 Shares |
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![]() besides age is nothing but numbers, you should have used something like 22, education isn't of utmost importance as long as u can spell, read and write. Part time studies should be the way for u now, learn a trade, acquire a skill and see God do wonders in your life 2 Likes |
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if true this is really sad anyway it's called serving your fatherland for a reason, I know no amount of subtle coercion will make me stay in borno |
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When u stare evil in the face, it Stares right back at ya, flashy life, flashy tastes leads to things like these, I tell women it's not about the money but where the money comes from and why's he spending it anyhow. people like this young man suffer from acute low self esteem, they pretend to be someone they're not in other to get women of higher status fall in love with them, women who fall in love with men like these have big eyes (Ojukokoro) he tells u all these flashy stories spend a few thousands and then the borrowing starts before u realised it's a scam dem don chop u maga. Anyway I don't see any scam here, she borrowed him money thinking she was investing, hoping for a good return in the guise of marrying someone of affluence connected to the governor but since we are law abiding citizens, he did scam them, under the guise of marriage and impersonating someone he's not, he should be sued and prosecuted. 20 Likes 1 Share |
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![]() don't mind them, they're just jealous, they wish to have what you have, besides the only person's opinion who should matter is your mum's to an extent tho 9 Likes |
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NwaAmaikpe:lol let it rain 5 Likes |
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Hasty decisions based on profiling without proper investigations if his family can sue for compensation fine this is so sad 7 Likes |
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![]() some women and vain beauty, she was scared of having a scar on her leg, making that young man spend more than a million footing medical bills because she decided to go traditional and self medicate, I got no qualms with traditional treatments as I have engaged in such several times but there are times we know visiting a medical doctor is the only option. Kudos to this young man for standing by her all thru his types are very rare 15 Likes |
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this is a good write up probably one of your best, but sometimes na from plat quarrel de start, when you begin to indulge and compromise your ethics and principles you begin to lose yourself, I'm not saying don't forgive, but the person whom you have been forgiving or want to forgive is he/she worth it?
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bamisepeters: he many times do u forgive a cheat? 1 Like |
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