NewStats: 3,263,727 , 8,181,172 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 June 2025 at 03:06 PM 4u4j6v

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Very misleading post yet nairaland pushed it to fp.

seanery:
KISS Condom was N100 now N500.

I no fit fuvk my wife again without the fear of getting her pregnant.

I no like withdrawer's Method.

then stop fvcking, must you fvck, abi you live under a rock so huge you've never heard of birth control.

mariovito:
Stick of cigarette from 5Naira to 50Naira

Milo sachet 25Naira to 250Naira

it's 300 here, if you can't take it anymore pls use the exit.

Amarachibaby:
Na WA oo I swear currently having a not so similar situation right now my matter long

Free yourself, I bet na teaching, those ones are worse, and females even suffer more than guys, run away cuz it'll only get worse, we don't have labor laws in this country that protects the rights of employees, your boss basically owns you.

Saw a story on fp about the girl beaten for tendering her resignation and it reminded me of my own first and last time working for a Nigerian employer, three words I use to describe it, modern day slavery.

I was fresh out of school and eager to please and even show my prowess, I didn't wanna sit at home like a cow munching on free food cuz my parents hate laziness alot, so I took myself to one company to find a job, met my boss, he was clearly understaffed and doing alot by himself, so he didn't have time to interview me, based on how he was choked up I decided to lend a hand, ran some registration online and did alot of tasks unsupervised, he was impressed so he hired me without an interview or a recruitment process, I was happy when I started until he started getting abusive weeks later.

First he calls me during ungodly hours, after closing he doesn't have the right to call me right? But he calls when he feels like, and yells why didn't you do this before going home, why didn't you do that, he was paying me 30k, this was 2016, and he makes me stay after closing hours by refusing to show up so we can conclude and I can go home, I close by six, baba won't show up until 7-8 so I work overtime, and when it's time for salary he will owe me, then he will deduct here and there for imagined transgressions, that time you were late 30mins, you made this mistake and I lost so so money, it was exhausting I tell you, but I didn't quit cuz like I said I was eager to please.

Here's the final straw that broke the camels back, he was understaffed, na later I hear why all his staff resigned and ran, he was an abusive pig, when I started I was supposed to be in charge of everything ICT based on I'm a computer sc graduate, he was supposed to get a receptionist and a cashier, he told me he'd hire them shortly that I'm the first of many. He also has students he's teaching IT skills, this man doesn't have a single IT skill, he has no business running an ICT school, but he's charging over 20 students obscene amount of money as school fees and he's not teaching them anything valuable, one time I was teaching web design and he came and yelled that why am I teaching them that, the money they're paying isn't enough for them to learn something that advanced, that am I stupid? In front of the students o,

He first started by begging me to substitute as a teacher, so I started teaching, while running the ICT tasks like networking and everything computer related, I no complain cuz I was happy impacting knowledge and the students adored me, later I start receive payments, becoming the cashier and started attending to customers becoming a receptionist, and he was paying me salary for one position instead of three, after a month I brought the issue up, that's when our problems started, sometimes he will call me after I've gone home that money I collected isn't complete and I stole from him, it's as if the man dey take fentanyl, I'll have to visit him and go through transaction records at night to absolve myself cuz I haven't stolen since I was born, his excuse for not hiring more people is, he hasn't found a suitable person, so I brought my sister to him to employ. Then he started creating a riff between me and my sis.

Sometimes I'll be working and he will sit her down and they'll be discussing me and laughing, my sis thought he's being jovial but no, he's bantering and gossiping his employee, and that is reducing his status but the pig no know, this is despite him owing me backlogs of salary, he refused to pay so I won't run away, I got fed up.

One day I dressed up and came to work, after deep reflection the night before, I pitied my life and felt devalued, so I came to work like nothing happened, then I sat at the lounge chatting and pressing my phone making sure he saw me, I was noisy as hell too, normally he'd yell and I'll scramble like a scared duckling running from a hawk, but as he realize I have had enough and I fit beat am up at that point, he didn't say anything, customers started coming and he was the only one attending to them all, I didn't lift a finger, he couldn't believe it, he was sweating all day, I did that till my closing time and came to his office, look him in the eye and said, I QUIT, brothers and sisters, that was the last time I ever worked for any Nigerian employer, I left the salary for him too, I buckled up and I have been earning online ever since, don't sell yourself to slavery just because you wan survive, the peanuts they pay isn't enough to loose your sanity for.

yusufu16:
The money for tracking is even enough to buy another phone.

Do you still do ui, ux? And when last did you win from designcrowd

post=126986219:

It's shocking!


Do you want us to translate it for you?

Yes please.

As I don't understand igbo nko

Due to the backlash I got on this thread, https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/7863620/sex-childhood-crush-now-confused

And everyone insinuating something is up, I had to thread with caution, turns out she's not pregnant, and I waited for a while before going for a test, I have no STD lol, I did a mini thanksgiving there, I systematically followed her lead and had stylish conversations with her, I can't post them because she might see, she will instantly recognize our chat, but my story is 100% true, she told me many things, about why she rejected me back then, and how the sex was meant to happen, and she asked we do it again, she explicitly insisted on that, then she ghosted me for a while when I asked her if she's pregnant, and she got the clue and got angry for a second, I didn't tell my girlfriend though, she's always busy and never have time for me, I told her we need a break, and she told me to hold that thought, and since then we haven't had the chance to discuss it or agree on anything, I was thinking I'd tell her along the line but the opportunity hasn't presented itself, and I found myself thinking about the sex constantly, it's nothing like what I ever experienced with my girlfriend.

adexgii:
Just buy oral test kit bro and do ur test indoor, only u having ur result

this isn't accurate for newly exposed people o.

adexgii:
Just buy oral test kit bro and do ur test indoor, only u having ur result

is it effective

AImiron:
Cristiano Ronaldo is the perfect example of "What Jealousy Does To A Person"

This man never had a peaceful life because of his unreal jealousy towards Messi. He was always too obsessed with Messi. In past he used to mention MESSI in his interviews. Now he is not relevant anymore so he started commenting on posts related Messi.

2021 : Factos 👀👍
2023 : 😂😂😂😂

They say "Messi destroyed his mental health", nah bro it's not Messi, it's his jealousy which destroyed his peace.

Y’all see why I despise this godforsaken retaaaaaard, I mean who does that, he’s so insecure and jealous that he can’t even hide it anymore. I knew he was in severe pain since Leo won World Cup, na the pain go kill am.

He is a lil biiitch, cos this na bitchy attitude, and na this bassstard and miserable fellow some ppl dey look up to as role model. If any of you act like this in real life, one thing is certain you’ll never go far in life.

Leo doesn’t care about this serial rapist, cry baby, unfortunate soul. Messi always act with respect yet he Dey always misyarn, he should thank his stars that Leo is reserved, if not e no reach. Just like fav and fanbase. Toxicity run in una blood, and the ones on Nairaland here, I’m sure most of y’all are having a shitty life your fav.

He’s so rich, jumping into whenever he scores against imbeciles yet he’s unhappy cos he can never be Leo

Penado has been forgotten, nobody care about him anymore, as a whiny biiitch that he is, he Dey look for attention. Y’all will cry blood.

Penadogs y’all free to cry in my mention as usual.

You'll never go far in life, how far you want Ronaldo to go again? advice coming from a nobody to somebody who is too successful he can afford anything in life, shove your opinion up your arse, be here and be arguing football, no go find work to save your broke a**, cho cho cho cho like machine gun, na only talk you get, cheap talk.

N2B2:


What an awful client and experience.

As someone already pointed out, it's best to avoid jobs from South Asian clients. Many on Upwork are downright wicked and penny-pinching.

Additionally, be on the alert for clients from that region pretending to be from western countries to lure unsuspecting freelancers.

NEVER start a job before a client deposits your pay in escrow. If there was money in escrow, the money would have been disbursed to you if the client ended the contract.

NEVER agree to receive pay outside Upwork.

Lessons learnt, I was desperate for a job that's why I even agreed to this shitty arrangement, life goes on sha.

wealthgrowers:


I feel so sorry for you bro. This bi*ch fu*ked up real bad. I'm not sure the owner of the company (overlead.io) is aware of this.

She is just a bloody whose job is to help recruit freelancers and s for the company.

I also ed the company (overlead.io) through Upwork in August. It was my first and only job on Upwork, and I was paid my September earnings on the 2nd of October, but couldn't access the money on upwork until the 17th of October.

She was suppose to explain every details to you. This bloody fool was just suppose to give simple explanation and no need for the insults she threw at you.

I've attached my September earnings here. I have also attached a message from the slack group by the CEO of the company explaining what might have happened to you.

I have also attached a screenshot of her profile page from the slack group. Her direct email address is there, guys fit use her catch cruise.

Anyway guys, Overlead.io has a program right now, they lend LinkedIn s that you are not using for $10/month and also pay you $4 per month for every referral you bring. The good thing is that you don't need an Upwork contract to get paid now. You can be paid in USDT. In case anyone is interested in more information, send me a WhatsApp message. My number is in my signature.

@StylesX are you on the company's slack group?Send me a WhatsApp message, make we reason together. My number is on my signature.

thanks bro I appreciate your comment, after everything I felt betrayed and sorry for myself, being desperate to get a job on Upwork is the reason why I got involved with her in the first place, I even allowed her to take my 4$ referral bonus for five s I brought to her, she hurled all this words on me just because I requested for payment nearly 50days later after the contract, I have left everything for Upwork, if they decide to favor her in this case life goes on, I'll message you on WhatsApp though, thanks again.

OfficialDJ:
Damn. Rule of thumb - never work with Indians, Pakistanis, Bangladeshis, Filipinos etc
..

Report that piece of SHEÊÊT to upwork asap.

thanks I'll avoid them from now on.

I got into this contract with a client two months back, now she's refusing to pay me, instead resorting to insults and racial slurs, how do I get my money back.

Goodharoun:
Let me sound like a security relationship expert here. But before I do that, I want you to know that betrayal is not healthy in a relationship. It is tormenting and hurtful. Having said that, have even thought that bringing this scenario of yours to platform such as this can be catastrophic and may end your existing relationship with your real girlfriend? For example, I don't know you, you don't know me but we are here, right? Let me tell you, there may be one or two guys who may still have crush on this your girlfriend you have just cheated on with your so-called girl who are on this platform. They could use this confessional advice-seeking piece of yours to take her away from you. I don't know for you, if I like a girl and she is already with someone, I follow him on ALL his social media platforms for any clue to use against him to be able to get that girl. Bros, this may be happening to you. And believe you me, if this happens, you may end up losing the two girls. You said it yourself that something if off about this "your high school girl". If you want to confess, confess. If you want to keep quite and move on with your life, that is up to you.
Honestly speaking bro, do you know why you are in this situation? It is because immorality has become a norm in our society. It is elevated to a position of the air we breath which everybody wants to inhale. Our argument always is, we are human, body no be wood, I want to belong, stuffs like that. The most important thing we seem to forget is that God created all of us as upright human beings and expected us to be moral. You and many of us are in this situation because we deviate from HIS PATH.
MAY GOD FORGIVE US and give you a way out because you sound honest, gentle and genuine.
Yours.

Thanks for this

ojun50:


Since he no answer the age part make I help am, the guy na 39 plus

I'm actually 50+, oya rest

advanceDNA:
Hope u didn't skin dive??


She said she saw u as a weak guy ..... meaning, she came with that same impression.

.. U sure say she no carry belle come fvck u for house, expecting to nail u with it.....as per weak guy that u are naaaa.

The school you attended no try, I wonder what happened to your comprehension.

ekineme:



All this childish imagination for Nairaland likes?
Smh

Lol it's imagination? I have chats to prove it, just keep mute if you have nothing to say sir.

She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.

We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.

So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,

One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had ionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do?

I'm trying to reason with you, even help you pay the money and you insulted me, you're not worth my time sef, if I'm the guy I'll leave the 13k for you, it's chicken change, others are scamming for millions this one is scamming for paltry 13k, shameless, broke, slowpoke.

Joshuadavidodog:
regret what exactly? That I wouldn't teach you,? Sad.

Regret because I'd get the same ebook and forwarded message and you'd still be claiming right like you're doing now, if u want to take halve because you tutored him ehn pay the half na, you refused too, someone who is innocent doesn't behave this way, you're making more people believe what they say about you is true, any small thing you resort to insults, because that's the only thing you know how to do, a product of failed parenting.

Goalty01:
Are we sure if they even real students. Maybe just his alternative Numbers

Honestly, I am glad I didn't pay, I for dey regret now.

He doesn't know what he's about to experience he thinks the world is somewhere you just do something and get away with it, OP sef has experience with stuff like this, he's waiting till Monday, he will definitely refund he just doesn't know it yet.

Goalty01:
This thing shock me. He all sound genuine from the start of the thread.

But look where we are now. And I believe this is not his first time. Maybe others just decided to overlook it.

He has been doing it, coming back with new moniker each time, his modus operandi is always same, first gain people's trust, act like he's not money minded, rake in money from gullible unsuspecting people, rinse and repeat.

All the idiots on his group are afraid of speaking up Incase he removes them too, this guy refused to be scared of him that's why uncle is scamming him.

Goalty01:
I have seen it all. I swear you don't have conscience.

So this was your motivate for deleted the thread. So that you can come out and say what's our evidence.

Lol. Our eyes don clear sha.

Dear OP, I pray u get your money back

I'm happy he won't scam anyone else again, something you saw yourself, you even pointed it out before the op noticed, he's calling it Photoshop.

Joshuadavidodog:


And what's the proof of that? My thread got deleted, my was banned and the next thing was screenshots flying everywhere.

You don't need to be on my side, I have lectured him. I cleared my conscience. I don't control his comprehension.

there's proof, he actually posted it and you called it Photoshop, how can you Photoshop something like that?

Goalty01:
Are you trying to deny this too. We were all following bro.

If you can deny this too. Then I'm done

He will deny it, something we all saw, this guy loves lying like it's life itself, he claimed he's taking his kid to the park meanwhile the idiot doesn't even have a kid, he lies for a living.

Joshuadavidodog:


Why would he? When I offered him half did he accept? He wanted me to waste my time. I woke up to his message asking for a partial refund this morning and I told him he is not getting a dime for all these things he has done.

He hasn't done anything, you scammed him and expect him to be quiet, you're the one causing all this for yourself, because he don rest since you come bring am to nairaland come use your hand incriminate yourself, you brought this upon yourself, when he was begging u on WhatsApp did you listen, you're here forming victim while he's banned and unable to tell people what you did.