NewStats: 3,265,506 , 8,187,008 topics. Date: Sunday, 15 June 2025 at 12:05 PM 2a31k

dominique:
Everybody is just doing follow follow even if they've never seen the show for a minute. The easiest way to get cheap likes these days is to Efe. Not surprising though, majority of Nigerians love to follow the crowd.

I just voted "Efe"now, not out of follow follow as you say, but out of Empathy especially when I saw his parents pics. Its obvious the boy wants to lift his family out of poverty and that is why I am routing for him. God bless us all.

0b10010011:



I will consider his after Tboss wins


#BossNation #Tboss #BBNIsNotAPovertyAlleviationscheme

Poverty alleviation or not, Efe all the way!!!!! Na poor people need the money not the rich, obviously, Efe needs it.

alexialin:




Aww your words are so kind. I can perceive your not evil.. Lol.. But
By God's grace everything will happen accordingly
Thanks so much for the well wishes
And definitely u will be invited.. Pls can u send me a pm, and I will reply with my Watsapp number or Bbm.
Thanks dear

Hello my friend, how can I reach u? Love to be your prayer partner. Please reply and God will continue to strengthen you amen. Being a Christian at this time isn't an easy journey but with total resolution and faith in God, coupled with a prayer warrior partner like yours, I believe heaven will be my limit.
I looked forward to hearing from you.
God bless you amen.

VolTOxic:


Is this even an option?
Some people can be very stupid.
If I was the judge, I'll lock those ‘neighbors’ up.

My friend I don laugh tire for here , see yeye neighbours wey suppose take care of the children, dem come carry the children come make dem their mama for prison, which kain country we dey so. Nobody dey reason well again

baby124:

Why don't you drop your own advice and get the hell off my mention.

Huhhh!!! Lord have mercy!

baby124:
You better tell her to find a job and start reducing the pocket money at home that makes her feel so comfortable to be spreading leg and collecting sperm. Nonsense. Your kids are old enough for her to work so she can understand the value of money. You know what you can afford. Don't do it.

Please advice with respect biko, she is someone's wife. Because the husband brought his family issue out here doesn't mean we should disrespect the wife.

Beg a sick man to rule a sick country? Hian!!! Politicians are demons themselves!

diva90:


I agree, not everything should be divulged. Everyone has a past, past is past. Let it go!

Don't mind her. She dey do better wife forget say na Nigerian man she dey marry, they wants a woman so pure like Christ but they themselves are as rotten as a rotten egg. The other day, a family refuse to accept a young lady as their daughter in law simply because she had a baby for another man at a tender age. No be say she get Aids or Leprosy, just a child and they have already written her off, this one come dey confess wetin don happen before she meet the man. What has she gained from her confession so far? Praises, condemnation or a troubled husband to be? It is well with her shaaaa!

Your past is your past, this is y I keep telling people, some past should be buried forever. You weren't there @ op when she committed the incest so why the headache and to your good girl wifey wey confess her sins to you, what has she gained?. I just tire for some women wey no understand wetin marriage be. Some yeye men or husband can use this her confession to torment her at every slight provocation. She should focus on confessing and asking God for mercy and forgiveness and not to you. If God didnt condermn her, who are we to judge and conderm her. To your fiancee, help me tell her say, one nairalander dey greet am say" WELHDONE MA"!!!I clap for her, better wife smmmmh.
Just imagine if op na that man wey him wife report to nairaland was it not on Monday sef; she said her husband called her a VAGABOND!!!!!!. Just imagine if the wife had made this kind of confession to that said husband, by now that woman life go don scatter finish with continuous insult in reference to her confession. Women should be wise! It is not everything you will confess to your husbanddy, they are humans like us and can change at any point in time. This is my own stand, any mention is welcome!

2SWT:
lol

Just like my mum she has a lot of drugs in the house

That is mothers for you, always ready, because we don't want to hear that you have the slightest pain in any parts of your body. God bless our mothers.

Sure! I even get small chemist for house #FirstAidkits#

Awwwwwwuuuu!!!!!!! WAR ROOM!! all the wayyyyy

Op Op, no vex u hear. Oya unbehalf of your swerry, that you reported to the house, I say ndoo, Pele, sorry and dooo omo mee. No vex, just see am as one of those things person dey see for marriage. Anytime he is in a good mood, just remind him of the vagabond he called you and I bet you, he will lovingly apologise but if he doesn't, just see it as his person and pray to God to change him, I tell you, God is capable of transforming that aspect of his abusive life to a loving and respectful one.
For your mother in law, no vex too because I know how emotionally painful it could be when you feel your husband is been controlled by his mother or put his mother first before you but just have it at the back of your mind that someday you will be a mother in law too, and I tell you, with this thought, you will never see your mother in law as your rival again. Marriage is beautiful only when you pray more and overlook certain character of your partner. Make i stop here but op, you no be vagabond you hear, na vex him just dey vex. Is your husband an Edo man? Just asking though

Her dry cleaner must be a rich dude.

ngwababe:


Thanks Bro. May God bless you too.
But do you mean chosen church ?
We are attend BMC( Bible Missionary Church)

Ok, I just love her dressing. I am a sister and not bro. Bless you forever.

ngwababe:
That's my Mama. ....

I just like your mums dressing, she is chosen mama. May God bless her with long life and good health amen.

Digital king, i greet you oooo on the arrival of your new baby! Congrats.

Singing in pastor Muokas voice " God of chosen baba, God of chosen baba ooooo" " chosen has taken over, take over, take over, take over" "Chosen are saying you are worthy, chosen are saying you are worthy" Chooosennnnn! Heaven At Last!

Taryur3:

Am sure you have a single brother...we will dash your brother the girl...you hear?

But seriously tarjur3, why are you acting in such manner. nobody knows tomorrow, if you refuse your brother(if truly the guy in question is your brother oooo) from marrying this lady because of her child, how are you sure the single lady you are pushing your brother to marry will be able to bear a child? Abi e get wetin you no dey tell us. Well, let Gods will be done!

pelepeleb:

but that is where the problem will start, contribute make you contribute, you will never be able to plan well and have a better financial future. the two of you will be after his or her own

Not really my friend. Oga doesn't ask all the time but anytime he does ask, he will just say " madam you get anything for your pocket to add for me? Then I will say, like how much sir? Then he will say just borrow me 10000k for there, I go give you back" of course you know the money is gone. So we really don't have problem with it. Sometimes, I will just give him, without him asking and life continues. Thanks all the same.

lonelydora:


I have been running a t with my wife for years now. If you are a Christian you should know that 'two became one'

My brother you are right oooo, but when you know the kind of husband you are married to, then you can choose the best for your marriage, as for me, oga no dey take money play ooooo and I am the generous type that enjoy giving when I have, so you see, financially, our attitude differs in of money. May God help us all amen.

Kenshinmunac:


Please don't feel like blessing, bless me Aunty!

Don't worry you are bless in Jesus name amen

goingape1:
a saint is someone who didn't give in to lustful desire.

Ya fellow single mums comment are up there! You can read them and console yaself

Let me educate you, just open your eyes wide enough to read what am about writing to you now. We all are sinners, no matter how insignificant you think your sins are. the adulterous woman, and what Jesus said to her acc, I don't know what you believe in and what guides your existence here on earth but as for me, the word of God guides my actions here on earth, hence, I will not condemn her simply because she has got a child but would rather counsel her as a mother.
Secondly, by Gods grace I will be 10 years in marriage soonest, and I am by no means a single mum, infact i got married at a similar age to the lady being discuss here hence, whatever i comments here, is base on the fact that, we should learn to accept people the way they are and not make them feel worst than they have already been. That lady, as I am talking to you now, is full of regrets over her actions in the past, so, we shouldn't make her feel worst by rejecting her simply because of her child.
Thirdly and most importantly, I have witnessed how abortion could destroy a womans existence here on earth. I know of a girl, then in my neighbourhood, whose parents has the same mentality as that of op. Anytime their child takes in, they will secretly abort it just to avoid the shame that comes with it. This, they keep doing until the last straw that broke the camels back happened. She took in again as usual and the worst is that, she will never mention the name of the guys impregnating her, as if they are using jars according to people for her. The parents wept bitterly in the open, even flogged her in the street to see if she will confess the owner of the pregnancy, for where? She no still talk, so the parents decided to do as usual, since she doesn't want to mention the person that impregnated her; to cut the story short, today, she has got only one womb with her. The other womb got damaged in the process of abortion, and some of you will even see her in the street and long to have her as your wife but wouldnt know what she has done in the past, simply because there is no child with her. What I am preaching here today is that we shouldn't steal her joy because of her youthful mistake. Yes, we agreed, she has made a mistake but rejecting her as a wife because of Gods gift, which others are spending millions to have, is a no no for me. Forgive any grammatical blunder cited.

goingape1:
so them should have self pity on the girl because she had a child out of wedlock

If your son bring a single mum to marry, you will be the first to reject it.

Let me tell you this! I have never seen a responsible parents who will graciously accept there son to marry a single mum. Quote me wrong.


Stop talking out of self pity and let us talk reality.

There is nothing like self pity here. I am telling you the reality and my stand. All have sin and fallen short of the glory of God; because she had a child before marriage doesn't make her less a better person than those ones that have aborted millions. What every parents should be interested in, is in their sons happiness. If my son is happy and have decided to make her his wife, who am I to say no. I can only advice both of them and s them with my prayers not to conderm her, never.

Taryur3:

Nabteb question

You for answer the question now. Shame no dey catch you na girl you dey fight. That age at which the girl took in should inform your sporadic brain that she was still a teenager and could be easily deceived by guys like you. I no wan follow you talk because you just dey behave like small pikin.

Taryur3:

One single mum sighted and disturbing here....we bleep with care and not under age...at 15.? Nooo....we just don't ant her....child's ove is the first she will considered before thinking of my bro

You see yourself! Are you your brother? Don't you think you are being selfish by not putting your brothers feelings towards this girl into consideration? Infact, talking to u is like wasting my precious time. @ Op, Do whatever makes you happy irrespective of some bad belles that call themselves your brother abi na siblings opinion.

Taryur3:

She only had a child...yes...she did...at age 15...kilode... they swear for her toto ni...we don't drink boredhole in our family

Na you wan drink am? Gboro mii dele RU. You think you are being smart, wait and see how yours will turn out. If to say she do abortion naw, you for don welcome her.

goingape1:
see them!

one cornered brain people
protect again who? the girl did something irresponsible at her youth and you want the op parent to pay for her irresponsible act.

useless women everywhere

See you see saint! Abeg, shift go one corner make I read better people comment.

limitless777:



tosyne baba U too much.
MARRIAGE matter NO BE bread and butter.
make them ask Tonto, Funke Akind, etc

Ok, those people you said they should ask, didn't their parents and give their blessings during their marriage? What happens after all. So it is not about getting married to a single mother but the individual involved. Tonto parents and funke Akindeles parents must have ed their daughters marriage to these men, but today, what is the situation of things with them. Marriage is not about the parents, nor the siblings because if the man say him no dey do again, if the parents and siblings like, make them beg from morning till night, e no go change the man decision, but it is about the couple coming togethers happiness. I don tire to dey type. @ Op may God guide you alright amen

limitless777:
ADVICE when mostly needed IS less heeded.
my brother in Ur best interest and for Ur future's sake, NO try marry dt chic. IF you do: IT WILL ( and very very likely may/might ) be the worst decision U'll make in Ur LIFE.
It looks like it's going to be "Ur DECISION" NOW but when the chips are down and DONE U'll understand that MARRIAGE is beyond a MAN AND a WOMAN "loving?" themselves, living together to bleep till GOD calls them apart.

A WORD is enough for the WISE.

What do you think marriage is? A child's play. Every marriage has got its ups and down, whether you marry a virgin or a single mum, there is bound to be misunderstanding, but what sustains it, is the level of your friendship, openness and your style of relationship prior to your marriage. Who ever told you that marriage is crisis free? Your parents aren't gonna live with you nor dictate to you how you run your home, it's purely between you and your spouse until you invite them into your crisis. I am against your parent asking you not to marry the Lady simply because she has had a child, if they have any other thing against her which is unknown to us, then i give up but if it simply because of this child issue, then they need to put themselves in the shoe of that young ladys parent. Mistakes do happen, and what if this Lady have aborted the pregnancy, pretend to op as if nothing happened, then they got married and wedded; only for complication to set in as a result of the abortion she had, I am sure, it is the same you that am quoting now, that will first rain insults and call her all sorts of names. @ Op, just be sure she is a good lady with a good character and a good heart. Pray over it and allow God do the rest.

Taryur3:

Good luck ko...Jonathan ni...we don't want that bitch...she started bleeping at 15...do you know how many abortions she might have vomited since then till now...you blowing one nonsense advise...face your front and never come here

Mr saint and righteous man, hope you have not bleep any girl since you were born, if not, as you are pointing a finger at this girl, check, the remaining four fingers are pointing back at you. Smhhhhh