NewStats: 3,264,069 , 8,182,491 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 02:19 PM 4c2i5e

tbanj07:



POC- My siblings don't just barge into the kitchen and take whatever they want in there without asking her (not even me)...after having a talk with her (wife) that she knows the present condition of the house that we are managing....yet her siblings continue doing whatever they want and can get their hands on in the kitchen without permission was why she was scolded...is everyone missing the whole point of this.

I won't come at you using abusive words...don't talk to a man using such words when you don't know what they are going through or how hard he is trying to put food on the table for the family amongst other family needs

Oga please check yourself, your attitude is bad! You are behaving like a woman. Pray to God to bless you and not this attitude you are putting on. Honestly, your wife is trying, I can't cope with someone like you! You are so annoying with this attitude of yours. I'm really sorry if I sounded insultive, but this is the mood your thread puts me in.

tbanj07:
Please I'd like to know if it is wrong of me to scold my wife for allowing her siblings to dish food from the same pot I eat from?

Am I wrong in my own house that food is to be made and dished only by my wife and not anyone else accessing our pot without permission?

Oga na wa ooooo. Are you a man or a woman? Your wife should be the one worrying about this not you. They are your family indirectly and if madam has given them the permission, I see no big deal in it. There is nothing in this world, just live a simple life and forget all these petty protocols. As long as they aren't disrespectful to you or that they dish before you, I see no fuss at all. This world na jeje ooooo. All this things we are carrying on our head thinking the world belongs to us ends in one seconds. We are only living by the mercies of God. Allow them to be free, in as much as your wife isn't complaining, just overlook cos to me,they are too petite an issue for a man of the house to be angry about.

BukkyDan:


Hi... we are both not perfect... believe you me I am not looking for a way out. I just want this to work, how I can make it work.

I couldn't type somethings up there cos I don't want to appear perfect.
thanks all the same.

Y did you resigned in the first place. He is choking you just tell him you need a space biko. This is not how relationship should be. You are met to enjoy a relationship and not the other way round. Just my opinion though!

Lakeside79:
It's confirmed!!

This government is full of idiots

Infact my brother I dey shame for them oooo. See childish talk, kaiiiiiii

deomelllo:



They feel his plight as a law breaker and a common thug, at least, they have something in common.


And you wonder why Nigerians kicked them to the curb lol..

So what happens to omo Agege? Automatic saints right It is well my brother

deomelllo:



Why are they trying to save the man instead of taking advantage of the situation to claim the seat and boost their number and influence in Kogi?

They don't and they are never strategic because they see everything based on hatred and bitterness.

Nope I disagree with you, rather I would say PDP is a human face party with blood and water along with conscience flowing in their vein. They feel the pain of Dino and are only trying to be empathetic towards his plights.

Mutemenot:
Fibroid na moi moi na. Simple cure but very unknown to people

Please kindly share any solution u know aside surgery. I will really be grateful. Thanks

cchiagom:
Eyah, May God protect all our pregnant women and grant them safe delivery.

Amennnnnnnnn

fiizznation:
Please go and buy a new brain

But there is nothing wrong in someone seeking to leave a place legally. You mustn't force someone to live with you especially when they are adults and can make decisions on their own. I have the right to say I don't want to stay at a place any more since I aren't comfortable there. So you guys should let Biafra be. it is not a must to be together and Nigeria is too big for even development to take place. Let BIAFRA be, provided it will be gotten legally. I freedom. For those seeking for Biafra may God Almighty grant you all a free and safe country if it is his will!

buske:


She trained us all, ? She has a good job. She also has business properties. She's is very comfortable!

Then she has no reason to be worried. Just talk to her and hear her own side of the whole issue. She is got no choice but to accept your wife to be at the end of the day. Stay blessed!

Settle your mum first and make her comfortable financially before thinking of marrying. Open a business for her and make sure your other siblings are OK before venturing into marriage because most ladies of this days are demons in human clothing. All they know is my husband my husband forgetting that someone brought their husband up to the stage he currently is. I understand your mums fear, hence, as a first son, make her comfortable financially and watch her bless your union.

owomida1:


I chose my words carefully. Oyedepo as a pastor is different from him as the head of his family. What he does in his house is nobody's biz. He spoke in the church as a pastor, directing his speech to the govt. Can u think of why I said I didn't attack the wrong person?

I can see the pastor has so many dogs howling on NL. Let them keep snarling over nothing.

But you use the word "stupid" which is an insultive word. Next time mind your words. You are a typical APC er. Always twisting the truth and looking for a way out of wrong way out of their mess.

owomida1:


Whose father did I abuse? Is Oyedepo ur father? And show me the line with which I abused him

Hey! m
owomida1:
Stvpid pastor.

We know politics has always been ur business. And some unfortunate people call this man daddy .
You called him" stupid pastor" deny it.

You are trying my sister I raise hand for you honestly. 80k with all these monthly expenses, how do you expect to save coupled with the harsh economy. Just rearrange the whole arrangement with hubby and let him know you are carrying so much expense that you can hardly bear if not, you cannot save one naira except you source for money and start another business. It is well with you and your family.

Proudlyngwa:

I know what lazy is, am surprised you need Google to explain it to you.
Now point out where they were called lazy, I believe you can point.

Must he mention lazy! Can't you comprehend when someone implies something. Biko, I don't like exchanging words with people like you. I am sorry to have mentioned you in the first place

Mogidi:

Sorry boss, I have better things to do than engage in meaningless debate.

Thank you my friend. Don't bother exchanging words with him or her again please. Na over sabi people

Proudlyngwa:

Mr man, I take offence to that, can you kindly argue constructively,
Kindly point to the minute in the video where Nigerian youths were called lazy.

You guys might have gone to school, but am sorry to say you are not educated.

Read widely or are you saying all the people reacting to his comment didn't understand him or frabicated the word against him.

rusher14:


It takes 2 to tango.

The environment is hostile because the people are hostile. This includes the youth.

Nigerians love to extricate themselves from all the ills of their society.

If Nigeria is bad and it is not you giving or receiving bribe, it is not you involved in exam malpractice, it is not you who is involved in Yahoo or prostitution or drug abuse, then tell me who is?

Who made the people to be involved in all these? Isn't it your so called leaders? Including your almighty buhari. Abeg, first it was 5'% openly showing hatred for people he is suppose to governed, now is 60%. Abeg, defend him no more, for Benue situation allow, he is a failure! Not to talk of the tribalism and nepotism in the country now.

SternProphet:


SIP is nothing?.Anchor Borrowers is nothing?. N-Power is nothing?. Paying salary arrears for state Govts is nothing?. Ordinary CBN has three types of entrepreneurship schemes running for youths .
I said it before, Atiku is going tell you that youths are hard working and they will get things for free. Please vote for him. Buhari was addressing himself to Northern youths but 50% of southern youths are the same. I have some in my house

I will vote for atiku anytime any day. Go to Benue and preach this your sermon to them and wait for their reaction!

Sirjamo:
Those of us who want to work are working, but many others don't want to go to school or work at all, that's the gospel truth unless you want to continue to deceive your self.

So why will he generalized it. He said Nigerian youth, did you hear him say *some*?

angelboy01:
I am not lazy I do yahoo yahoo for a living.

chaiiiii Chineke nna!

skarlett:


If it's only Atiku and Buhari, I'll break my PVC in half

Funny you!

skarlett:


I get where you're coming from but there are people better than him that have not even been given the opportunity he was given and best of all, they are younger than him. Just keep your options open and don't allow any social media 'reactions' sway you

Sure you are right but until I see a better option but honestly, if it is only atiku and buhari, I tell you my friend, I will wholeheartedly vote for ATIKU.

skarlett:


He said it to get people like you, don't be too gullible, that's the way Buhari spoke negatively about Jonathan, we know his type

Yes I agree with you, but even at that atiku is 50 times liberal, accommodating, unbiased, educated and welcoming than buhari, hence I rather vote atiku than waste my vote for a man who has destroyed the little unity we were managing as Nigeria prior to his coming.

MistadeRegal:

Nigerians ain't lazy. His son is. And his son isn't 'NIGERIANS'.
I think it's high time we stop this man from going to foreign meetings and destroying our reputation as Nigerians. The first time, he said we are fantastically corrupt, but his son was busy buying and storing ₦56M motorbikes but we are the ones corrupt. The second time, he said our First Lady is meant only for the 'OTHER ROOM' which is a 'NATIONAL DISGRACE' to us as Nigerians. This time now he says we are lazy and wants all things free! Meanwhile, go to Mile 12 Market, go to Alaba Internationa Market, go to everywhere and see the so called lazy Nigerian youths in extreme labour like those in prison wards just to survive a day. Now Mr President, we as Nigerian Youths demand an apology for this.

Serious apology he needs to tender! Habaaa! no nation is perfect, how come he makes us look so rotten in the eyes of the world while other countries protect their own image. He need to stop talking in the international committee abeg!

Goshhhh!!! This is bad. No family is free from one mis understanding or the other, why is the president tarnishing the image of our able Nigerian youth in the international world? To get visa now as a Nigerian youth will now be hell. Honestly, Nigerian youths are hardworking.

ImaIma1:


Like i asked someone...

Would a pregnant woman by a mad woman who is eating something that happens to smell enticing go and meet the mad woman for the food?

If no, that means there is strength deep down somewhere to restrain ourselves.

Pregnancy is really a wonderful period and it affects women differently. But i am saying the cravings are not do or die. My sister craved bushmeat almost all through her 2nd pregnancy...but her husband didnt have the time to drive to lag/ibadan express way to get it for her.

I have told you earlier, everybody cannot be the same! Speak for yourself and those you know. What you can tolerate, I may not be able to withstand it. If you can manage your own cravings, I may not be able to manage mine.

Oh God that gives children, please bless me with two healthy baby boys as twins to hang up my boot with. Please lord, I need this next year lord please, answer me lord in Jesus name amen. You all should please me in saying amen oooooo.

Meanwhile, Congrats akpororo the lovely comedian!

ImaIma1:


I heard of a pregnant woman that begged a total stranger in a bus for puffpuff and another one that was ing by some women cooking for a party and stopped there to ask them.for the food even if she didnt know them. That is extreme.

Hmmmmm, nothing is extreme my friend. At times, you can't just help it. What matters to you then is to satisfy your cravings. Everybody cannot be the same.

rusher1t4:
I know some would like to deny this just to spite the government but it I can't deny power supply is slightly better now.

A long way to go .

Speak for your self my friend cos over here, it is terrible.

OmoAlata1:
He is not autistic. There is nothing in that writeup that screams autism. He has ADHD and needs to be formally diagnosed so he can get on medication.

Well, I am talking from experience. Austism is wide, some kids own might be that of loss of speech, echolalic(meaning repetition of words), being hyperactive, meaning they can injure themselves while playing, they are always on the move, they hardly feels pain etc. While some could be social behaviour. My friend, have you ever seen a severe austistic child? Hmmmmm. Any way, I only offered an advice.

chineduemmao:
therapist 4 dis our 9ja?

Sure, I know of one!