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Ndi Marriage is a scam
Marriage doesn't benefit men

See them...
They are still getting married .
Who is deceiving who?

Ndi ara

mariahAngel:


Is that what Christian men told you?

Nairaland men say so..on a regular

SoNature:


We are waiting for Frank Edwards!

I don't know why that guy is still single at his age.

Congratulations to Dunsin; I even thought he was married with kids.

On same platform where they brag that men don't benefit anything from getting married...lol

Paulpaulpaul:
He lost his wife, mother of two in 2019. Getting engaged and planning to get married again is not a bad thing. If he had made it open, there might be backlashes because of our double standards in this generation.

Adedoyin, REST ON.

Ndi Men have nothing to benefit from marriage.

One would expect them to remain single without getting entangled with women again after losing the first wife...but NO! They can't.
Clowns

joyousever:

Guy, I just love your style 💯

Babe,rather.

I don't have strength for competition

I have never liked competition

I am not doing badly at all

But I prefer to do everything at my own pace and time

duro4chang:
Dear Ex Classmates!

Some of us didn't further education after secondary school.
Some of us furthered to University.
Some of us got married, yes, some of us are not married.
Some of us are still strüggling with life.
Some of us are settled.
Some of us are still finding it dïfficult to eat two meals in a day.
Some of us have traveled abroad.
Some of us went back to the village.
Some of us have seen hëll and still facing hëll.
Some are also deàd. Don't forget, and some of us, the last time we sat in a class room was the last day we wrote or secondary school last exam paper.

In short, life is not good to everyone.
Whenever you call or run into your old classmate, please, let them or the conversation be simple.
That we are still alive, it's the thing to celebrate.
Stop making others feel lèss of a value because you're married, engaged or have multiple degrees.
Life is full of ups and downs. Life can turn around.
You can stretch your hand and be a blessing to your fellow classmates, instead of möcking them simply because you're in a better position.
Life is not prèdictable, be humble.❤️🍷

ℕ𝕠𝕥𝕖: ℝ𝕖𝕞𝕖𝕞𝕓𝕖𝕣 𝕨𝕖 𝕣𝕚𝕤𝕖 𝕓𝕪 𝕝𝕚𝕗𝕥𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕤

This disturbs those who pay attention to their classmates.
As for me,the moment secondary school ended,classmates ended.
After university,I towed same path.

I don't belong to any social media group comprising of my classmates at any level neither do I attend any of their events/functions.

I dey my dey..
Doing my things at my own pace and the pace my destiny allows me.

victorbass1234:
The women actresses never need help. Only the Males. I think I need to know the God these women are serving. Lmao

Women,generally,have better health seeking habits.

On the average,most patients who frequent hospitals in Nigeria are women and children under 5

Nyanabo:
You no go see women de sick like this. Something is wrong

Women have better health seeking habits.
It's that simple

Another one.

Otilor

Lol...foolish doctor.

Serves him right
I hope other doctors learn their lessons.

Police are cursed people

Is this not the same woman that Nigerian men have been using as a yardstick to insult women?

Everytime..Richest woman in Nigeria still married,still cooks,pounds yam for her husband..Bla Bla bla..

Na wa oh.
Inside life!

Nonsense vanity.
Ikwerre and fool.ish obsession with burials

BeautifulSolace:
I've been dating my boyfriend since 2021, and he's a good person whom I trust because he doesn't hide anything from me. Last year, he traveled to Lagos, creating a long-distance relationship. Despite not having evidence of cheating and maintaining strong communication, I often worry that all men can't stay without sex.

Should I be worried?"

You are funny.
Even if your boyfriend lives in the same town,village ,even house with you,when he is ready to have se.x with other women,he will.

3 years is a long time.
You should see this as an opportunity to have other options.
Use your tongue to count your teeth.

High blood pressure and young people...
This is sad

AbujaCitiBlog:

This man is a very big fool! What of if na woman touch am! She is already licking and sucking puccies and having hers licked! No be Abuja she dey? Home of Lesbians in Nigeria. I pity the foolish man. Stop wasting money on women una no go hear. FOOL!

If Abuja is the home of lesbians,what is Port Harcourt?
In PH,even housewives are licking each other.
They have groups and flaunt their activities with no shame.

See their member.

Men have nothing to benefit from being married
Men are doing women huge favour for marrying them
Divorce has no effect on men..They can marry 2 wives same day.
7 women are running after 1 man





But the reality is different.
Lmao

lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?

My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

How should I handle it?

Sorry to say but your sister is a fo.ol

The guy will not marry her even if he is rich

As for your 100K,give it to your sister to invest in her business and end that useless relationship

I even thought she is up to 30.
The way young girls lament over this marriage thing sef.

Let it be that Deyemi is the biological father of the baby
.. because Obinrin? Hmmmmmmmm

billionman:


Increasing salaries won't keep anyone back. Japa, especially for professionals, is not just because of the money. It is beyond that.

The increase in salary will even facilitate the japa.

Nothing special.
I am not surprising him with anything neither is he.
My business is to go to work,return home and continue living

successmatters:


And more BP cases to handle

You must be kidding,right?
Alcohol is risk factor for developing hypertension.
Less alcohol...less hypertensive patients
Those who are already hypertensive will have better control

EreluRoz:
Very stupid man, I watched the video and I'm like is she under any obligation to marry him or was there any written agreement that was signed?

Men like this do not take care of their parents but will be out there doing stupid things, I don't pity such kind of men.

Instead of him to chop his breakfast peacefully and quietly he's making a scene out of it

Because they are not having sex with their parents,many men would rather spend and invest on strange women than take care of their parents.
Sex controls their brains...That's why

Impecca:
Poor Curriculum vitae.

Politics did more for her than competence

Congratulations on your rich Curriculum vitae.

Where has it taken you to?

TUBLEZ:
70% of women are actually bi sexual, u will be surprised 😮

And if not for societal pressure and expectations,there are more lesbians than straight or even bisexual women

Yo lo ba men and noise.
Mi oshe mo indeed.

So glad I left Nigeria when I did.

He believed what he read on nairaland concerning women.

Sorry oh.

Reality and social media are different worlds

Peterrio:
I need your sincere advise guys.

So someone offered to help my fiancée get a job and also help her relocate abroad. He's one of her sponsors in school, he's a married man, a doctor too and they live in United States.

I have plans of wedding my fiancée before she leaves Nigeria so it will be easier to her in the US

Now the issue is, if l get married to her before then, the man might lose interest in helping her.

Right now i am confused, i will appreciate any good advise on how to handle this situation.

I really want her to get that job and relocate and i want to her as well.

I thought you guys brag that you don't have anything to benefit from getting married.

Gold digger ..
You want to relocate to US through a woman..
Same gender that advises men should not bring their wives to them overseas

Insider job

matify83:
E no easy o!

With a mother like this, do we expect him to listen to one babe yarning dust tomorrow?

Let him make money first..he will find it very difficult to spend 10k on this his mother but will easily squander hundreds of thousands to millions on ladies he is sleeping with
No be man again?

Most women do not disclose their status to their partners...
Reason is clear
For fear of being kicked out or abandoned.

While men don't mind disclosing their status cos the women will stay...they will even stay and contract it from the man.