NewStats: 3,264,289 , 8,183,229 topics. Date: Tuesday, 10 June 2025 at 01:00 PM 20344h

she just took her fees for the dating (married man indeed, who dash you wife?) there is nothing free in freetowm, forget the money.

@ poster

oh girl, i know how you feel, being in love with someone who may not stay, it hurts real bad, love is a beautiful thing.

Sistawoman, you are absolutely right, i adore children, please dont ever hurt your child for him. I also beleive everything is possible with God. Pray if you beilev and God will touch his heart. Its no use fighting a man, i have learnt that over time. Dont judge him too hard because he has a right to his own choices. Pray about it because the heart of man is in the hand of Jehovah and like a brook of waters he turneth it to wherever he wishes.

if however at the end he refuses, let him go please, Children are the heritage of the Lord and they are like arrows in your hand. Dont hurt that angel growing inside of you, girl i cant wait to have my own kids because they are so angelic.

you were once a kid!

I cant stand women whoo have to depend on a man to survive in life, its just plain disgraceful.

She had to survive? Oh my oh my! Survive on what? Some people dont want to face tough times at all

There are several women out there surviving but not by double dating, i have seen tough times especialy financialy but i have never survived on men. They got hands, i have got hands, they got legs, i got legs, they can work , i can work, they can make it, i can make it.

Tell your lazy bones girlfriend to get a job and do something clean instead of spreading her legs around just to eat bread and ewa agoyin! What

so what if she is cheating hmm? what is the probability that your friend is not cheating too? Let people cheat all they like, its what they like.

Its none of your bizness man!

@ lexiwhite

this freedom thing sef, you know am glad i can laugh over this issue now even tho it was tearing me apart then. His language too was always "well am a free guy' but just as lexi did i turned the table around. I had to attend a party and i called one of my buddies to come attend with me and guess what happened?

My guy that had said he was not coming got to my place before my freind came, he just could not take it. He wanted to see his supposed rival . We all ended up goin together because my man could not take it o. i asked him why he finally showed up

He said " do you think am a mugu, u want me to sit down while another man takes my woman. man, i could not stop laughing.

He used to claim he could not be bothered but na lie, if you love a person, you will get jealous.

Man, you are just plain promiscous, jumping from girl to girl, pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaase,

@ post

Honestly, i dont know

@ post

if you can handle the scandal it might likely create, then go ahead. Then again like some1 said, its not easy to confess such a thing and ask for forgiveness, it takes a lot of humility. On the average if she is a good girl, give the relationship more time and get to know if it was a mistake or she is just plain promiscous, believe if she is she will do it again and you will know.

please forget the issue of marriage for now and just continue dating.

wetin lost for their hand wey dem wan come look for for my house. Please i dont want anybody to come and scatter my union with their jealousy. i dont need any of them around whether male of female. today na she talks to me this way, tomorow is she talks to her husband anyhow, she dosent cook well, she did this and that.


Abeg make dem scram and get their own life.

i have never bothered any of my brothers wives, we get along so well because we rarely see each other. one of them even stays so close to us and he and the wife has been begging us to come visit but trust my mom and siblings, we are too busy with our lives to poke our nose in their biz.

Most of those who say na my brother's house are the unambitous NFA in town.

for instance, i work and go to school and rarely have time for any other thing, when do i have time to do gbeborun abeg, make everybody face his/her life and let couples enjoy their union.

orisirisi person lo wa.

Familiarity, its familiarity that breeds contempt. Knowing he/she is now supposedly yours makes one take each other for granted.

yeah, something is fishy

ibkaye is right, what are their reasons?

I dont know if it should be called luck but if you date a messed up person whether male or female, the person can mess up your life. Eni to ba ba aja rin, a je igbe. If you waka with dog you go chop shit. shekina

I dont waste my precious time and beauty sleep I got a job that demands you stay alert all the times else you go je gbese so i dont do it. Midnite call ko midnite meeting ni

thank you o tpiah. At first i thought i was over reacting but it just dosent show respect for me at all, love and respect should go hand in hand. Anyways me i no dey take nonsense sha.

Girl, the guy simply used you to have a baby. Wont be surprised if it was all planed with the wifey knowing about it,if not why is she not raising dust? How come he wants to adopt the child? Girl you need to wise up.

Jealousy is a normal thing though it should not be excessive because excessive jealousy is a sign of possesiveness and insecurity.

Mates also should be able to respect their spouses whether married or not and draw the line when dealing with the opposite sex. 

80% of my friends are guys but when dating and in a serios relationship, i ask them for some space because i dont have to give my man headache.

I had an issue with my man over him picking different ladies in the car on our way to work as a way of helping, you know, its either titi or bola or nkechi and they are always related to one of his friends one way or the other. I was a bit jealous because you can never let your guard down when dealing with too many women around your man. I asked for some space on it and told him he had to do something about it.

it caused a lot of fracas between us and we almost broke up because i was ready to let go not because he cheats but i know that the heart of man is very deep. The enemy never comes as an enemy, they come disguised as friends and when they strike,  hmm. My man is very good looking and i know what is looks does to women, believe me.

I asked for some space from my friends out of respect for him, i think he should too.

So i really drew the line and we settled it and we are good now. Jealousy is part of our make as humans so we should be wise for our own sakes and the sake of our mates.

If he is a decent guy why not?

@ kalmebad

Tnks dearie, we need to hold the lessons from the experiences we've had bad as it may be. Life has no guarantees but we can decide to be happy and stay swwet.

@ obnoxious

Like i said you seem a very bitter person, you need serious help. This is not my first break up. In the last break up, he did the breaking up but today we are still on speaking . We still get along well so its not about who did the break up its about the reason for the break up.

I wish you everything you wish me because if you point one finger at somebody know that the other four are pointing at you.

OBNOXIOUS:

Classic example of a very evil and wicked girl that takes pride in breaking up with Men and bragging about it and end up shedding crocodile tears to arouse sympathy for her malicious and extremely callous attitude and way of life!

Its chicks like this that gives me the confidence to be more evil towards women, break their hearts without remorse, be extremely emotionless towards them and beat them in the process because they are nothing but scum and disgusting irritants.

Later some die hard feminists will come out to start encouraging Men to be more loving and caring towards their ladies meanwhile these vile serpents are causing havoc and destroying the very emotional fibre of a man who professes his love towards them.

To all the Men who think they can fall in love and live happily ever after, please take a look at people like spartan and her ilk and start planning your escape route. For one minute, put yourself in spartan's ex boyfriend shoes and imagine how he is feeling and realise you are next with your own chick except you destroy her life first.

Relationship is a war, survival is the only option for the man and emotional pain should be the only option for the woman!

I am really happy i read your break up tales. It only gives me more courage to know why i shouldnt feel emotionally attached to any woman and why i must continue to be extremely devilish in the way i treat them!

Mr obnoxious i can see you realy need help. I think i am taking this break up better than you are taking your break up.

You seem very bitter and cannot forgive who ever broke your heart, you need to move on be sweet. You dont need to take your pain out on me man. What you have written has not added anything you. Has it relievd you of the pain you feel inside of you.

something worth notin is the fact that what led to your break up is not what led to mine. They are different circumstances i beleive.

The writer should not be made to suffer for his/her mother's mistake. He did not as k tobe born. Some women are just not just worth the kids they have. Anybody can give brith but not everyone can be a mother.

i just broke up with him this mrng and i feel devasted.

He is yet to accept the break up though and if he does i wonder if he will feel hurt but does it realy matter, i really dont want to go on with him. 

I think this might be a religious issue or may be she is freaking frigid. You could both get counselling from a Pastor that knows the bible well because you are not supposed to defraud each other. 3 time a week is not too much at all.

It hurts no doubt to loose someone suddenly but man, i think you are taking this just too far. What?

i said most not all.

@ poster

you are the most pathetic guy i have ever come across in my entire life. you are not in love rather you are naive and not smart at all. Sorry if this sounds insulting. Do you have to wait till you get infected with HIV/AIDS before you know you were dating a DOG, love-vendor, LovePeddler, HOOTCHIE Whatever?

You got a text saying "she had been f, kd front , back and center yet you forgave her ehn, mr nice guy?


You confirmed she had an abortion for another guy wihtin just how many years of dating and you still took her back?

What is your problem man? LOVE AIN'T THAT BLIND

Do you even have any dignity or pride as a man? Man you are so annoying, What kind of advice do you need? What you need is prayers man, i will be praying for you, this is so too sad.

Hi tonella

All you need to attach is your secondayr school certificate and a scratch car that will be used to confirm online with waec. if you however have like an OND or any kind of diploma certificate, attach it so you can get exemption on TOEFL. it will inrease your chances. I used my secondary school cert and an OND cert and i was given exemption on TOEFL.

THE BEST

I have observed one or two male/female gays and i noticed that its thing of the subconscious. In their mind they believe they are actually the opposite sex i.e a man thinks he is a woman and a woman thinks she is a man that is why some act it out so obviously. Have you ever noticed some folks that look like like male/female  at the same time. If you dress them up as a male they look good and if you dress them up as a female they still look good. Most of such pple have gay tendencies, some even turn out to be bi-sexual.

I have also heard  that some mothers during pregnancy desire a particular sex so much that even if they dont get that particular sex, the child tend to have most of the features they want any way.

A lot of factors contribute to this, some children became gay because they were abused as kids and the turn out to hate the sex that abused them so they take to same sex.

Which ever way i beleive its a disorder and needs to be corrected because from the beginning it was Adam and eve and not Adam and Steve or eve and eve or steve and steve. Its is higly sodomic and that was why  God destroyed Sodom and Gomorah whether people choose to beleive it or not.

I am not judging anybody but i believe that anyone who seeks help on it can get it for with God nothin shall be impossible.

May God help this generation.

Sex before the wedding day is not advicable but i dont think its a do or die affair.