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SirShymexx: 12:10pm On May 03, 2016
Aigbofa:


Lol, more like a gown. Good observation.

Lol.

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SirShymexx: 12:08pm On May 03, 2016
CSTR2:
Kanye on skirt would be funny, I agree.
Trump my man is killing his own campaign. Talking about Hilary playing the '' woman card". Who does that?
He is going to win Indiana and claim the GOP ticket, but I feel Hilary is still the one to beat.

Lmao @ Kanye. That's the only guy that can be normal but act like he has mental breakdown and he'll get a . The only guy who can wear skirt, blouse, high heels, and a dress - and he'll get a . At least he got it from certain naij kings lol.

This US election is like a choice between the devil and medusa. But Trump will always be a better choice. If you were take away his rabid rhetoric/posturing, which is basically a business strategy to appeal to a certain demographic who happen to be the majority in America - his manifesto isn't that different from Bernie's, tbh. He's anti-establishment, unlike an Hilary Clinton who's pro-banksters, pro-plutocrats, pro-establishment, pro-war, and pro everything wrong in today's world. I hope the GOP allow the guy take what rightfully belongs to him, so he can whoop Hilary's miserable arse at the polls.

Trump is a businessman and as soon as he win the GOP ticket on the backs of rednecks and tea party nutters, he'll tone it down. He has already started appealing to AAs and apparently his joker would be a female Hispanic as his running mate. Now, that would be interesting.

Anyway, most of the yanks I converse with online are pro Obi-Wan, but now that he's out of the race, most of them would rather vote Trump than vote Hilary. As for the enlightened AAs I converse with - they see the both of as demons and they'd rather not vote than vote either of them. Hilary is calamity on a global scale waiting to happen.
SirShymexx: 10:04am On May 03, 2016
Appleyard:

Tell them! Those who believe and dine in Amerkan propaganda are bound to die in it over and over again. The world most diabolic and deceptive nation claimed to have killed the world most wanted criminal, but amazingly decided to dump his body into the sea, or whatever, And the only thing the families and overall people of the victims of 9/11 could get on the alledged perpetrator, are a gallery of a fake Bin Ladin.
Amerika has proved that you can time-travelled back in time, wake somebody up from the dead, and make a Machevalli out of him in the future. And you can bet your last dime on it; many would swallow the pill, just as it is now. That's how zombiefication works - making comon sense uncomon to the average but deluded mind, while branding the credibility of the logical and critical thinker as Conspiracy Theorist.

What a world!

Lool.

Yanks just love fairy tales. I don't know how you can kill a man who died of natural causes six years after his death. They just love fooling themselves.

They also sent the same grossly overrated SEALs to Somalia and they got chased out of town by Al Shabaab. Too much Hollywood tripe - just loud for nothing.

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SirShymexx: 10:00am On May 03, 2016
SirVintageCock:
Which one is Obeah again embarassed

Obeah = Jamaican god. Just messing about.
SirShymexx: 9:58am On May 03, 2016
CSTR2:
That is a sacred regalia. A man who is not In doubt of his masculinity.
Long time. I See you have been running rampage here In my absence. Lol.

Loool. I was just messing about. But, er, don't act up when you see Kanye West wearing skirts lol.

So, are the Trump train now?

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SirShymexx: 9:35am On May 03, 2016
But why is the Obeah of Onitsha wearing a skirt tho? What part of the game is that?

Sukkot, you never lied about these people lol.

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SirShymexx: 11:54pm On May 02, 2016
Cap28

You need to allow it and stop defending cum buckets. Defend good/virtuous/strong women and call cum buckets by their names. Even 2pac said there are biitches and there are women. And that was a guy who adored women, and wrote so many poems/songs to celebrate them - yet a biitch who sucked his dyck set him up for rape and he was convicted for conspiracy, while the guys who raped the biitch were let to go scot-free. That's what biitches do.

Anyway, I wish ya guy Mike Tyson was boxing in this era - his arse would've been knocked out by Anthony Joshua and pounded yam power. Big fan of Mike Tyson but you can't be claiming that the guy's a saint, while trying to call the rest all kinds of names. Gotta stay consistent, bruddah.

-=====================================

@sukkot

Skepta just dropped visuals for a track off his highly anticipated "Konnichiwa" album (crazy grime beat). I want to know what you think. Will check ya comment tomorrow.

Skepta - Man (Gang)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOhxPhqzMwg


I got day 1s/
Then I got new 1s/
No fake 1s/
Trust no 1

Man get money with the gang/
Man get girls with the gang/
Man eat food with the gang/
Man talk slangs so the feds can't work out what I just said to a man.


Out.
SirShymexx: 9:36pm On May 02, 2016
cap28:


How much does it cost to launch an unknown singers career in Nigeria. I would hazard a guess that it wouldnt be very much and am willing to bet that he borrowed money to do so and recouped it when her career took off. So really all he did was take a risk on an investment which later yielded dividends not much of a loss for him. Have you heard her side of story ? He booked shows for her and never ed for the money she was paid, while she was miscarrying his child in Jamaica he was banging another woman in Nigeria and never returned any of her calls despite the fact that she sent graphic pictures of herself bleeding . Are those the actions of a caring man. Its funny how you call her a cum bucket but worship the ground that amber rose walks on a woman who was banging nick cannon while married to wiz khalifa and who kanye west said he had to have 30 showers after being with. A woman who says its ok for women to have one night stsnds and has lost count of the numbrr of men shes had sex with. A woman who opens up her coochie and butt cheeks on social media for men to leer at, all in the name of being a bad bit.ch . A woman whose made a living out of fckg rich rappers despite having zero talent at least tiwa can sing. Or is it one rulle for naija babes and another for americans/westerners?

What dividends did it yield for him when he never signed her to any contractual obligations? If she were to be under a contract for what he invested in her, would she have sacked him the way she did? No, that's impossible - she would've had to buy herself out of the contract. Business is business and you've to respect that. He's a fool for not making sure his paperwork's alright. When you take a risk on an investment and it starts yielding dividends, especially when the investment is co.ck-blocking other potential investments - you've a sense of entitlement on that investment. Paperwork is all you need.

When have I ever worshipped Amber Rose? I think she's good looking and she has an amazing body...but Amber Rose is the last person I'll ever worship. She's a sket. But didn't Savage also get around while she was married? So how's she different from slut-walking Amber Rose? Pot and kettle.

Anyway, what talent does 39-year Tiwa Savage have? Ol'girl was 26 years old when she was kicked out of X-factor in 2003. And was likely in her 30s, with her dream of being a successful artist almost over, before the guy decided to invest everything he had in her. Someone like that ought to be grateful to the guy for the rest of her life and kiss the floor he walks on. Without him, she would most likely be a 39-year old aspiring artist right now.

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SirShymexx: 7:17pm On May 02, 2016
cap28:
Shymmex , fckboy was depressed because the gravy train had been brought to an abrupt halt after he was fired. He had no visible means of income without her and was wondering how he ws gonna fund his expensive lifestyle and drug habit. Like I said if you're serious about committing suicide u dont ring round ur friends and announce it first. Hasn't he heard of rat poison? Tiwa doesnt strike me as a hoe. Hoes don't fck with broke muthfckas I think she really loved the loser.
fashanu is a fraudster who made his money frm match fixing, insurance fraud and charity fraud thats why he is persona non grata in the UK and thats why hes in Nigeria the headquarters of scammers and fraudsters like himself. By the way he's got 4 known kids who he has never raised or ed ask his baby mamas. Mike tyson is no angel but was a self made man who never leeched off women infact he lavished money and expensive gifts on almost every woman he slept with including prostitutes.

You're not using logic here and you're starting to sound like an emotional woman. You claimed he has no visible source of income, but how was he able to discover Savage who was a failed X-factor contestant, paid for her video, and help her kick-start her music career in Nigeria? So, nah, he was depressed cos he invested his all into a talent he believed in and ended up marrying, only to be let down by the person.

I believe you've never had suicidal thoughts in ya life. Suicidal thought isn't always premeditated - it's a spontaneous thing that happens based on ya mental state. And cos he's depressed and he also added alcohol to this problem, hence his mind was everywhere and I believe that was why he ended up driving around, till he came to the conclusion that he's better off killing himself. So argument about ringing people, location, and his way out - are null and void. I rate you more than a lot of the clowns on this forum and I expect you to apply logic to whatever you post.

You mean the same John Fashanu who was one of the highest paid black footballers in the EPL during his career and the same one who had a brother who was the first black player ever to be signed to a million pounds contract in the EPL isn't self-made? The same one who hosted many series of Gladiators and was paid six figures? Fash the bash has always been super-rich since he signed his first professional contract. Yes, he was involved in match-fixing and probably got involved in fraud, when he started mingling with naij guys, after moving to London and playing for Millwall and Wimbledon. But how does that negate the fact that he's self-made? Also, how's he a persona non grata in the UK, when he has always been known as a bad boy and prince charming that ladies flock around? I bet you forgot that he was the leader of the notorious Wimbledon FC "Crazy Gang" and he was chosen to present Gladiators due to his bad boy image, no? The same "persona non grata in the UK" also almost won "I'm a celebrity, get me out of here" with public votes and every time he's in the UK these days, he's always on Sky or BBC talking about sports and Nigeria. What type of "persona non grata in the UK" gets that type of love? C'mon he won the FA cup for Wimbledon and he's still a hero with the club's fan base...ladies still love him...and he's still one of the most loved black footballers ever in the UK. Fash the bash is a legend.

Now compare the both of them with a Mike Tyson who was convicted of rape. A woman ab. A serial womaniser. A sex maniac. A guy who was best friends with a well known killer and friends with a lot of utter violent people. Etc. Who's worse? grin

Anyway, how come you've nothing to say about the two miserable women these guys were involved with? They're both cum buckets and public dogs, who used their spouses to get to the next level in life. Yet you can call these men all kinds of names. Why?
SirShymexx: 6:43pm On May 02, 2016
ollah1:


This is an intellectual thread and not one to flame religious war. Use your head

CC
scully95
ValerianSteel
missy89
appleyard
shymm3x

Posting a comment on this thread is a waste of time.

I don't know how you can kill a man who died in 2005, in 2011. Yanks just love hearing what they sound like while selling a big dream to the world. You killed him, yet you never released any pictures of his corpse, especially a man who was the most wanted in the world. Hysterical.

Benazir Bhutto, the former Pakistani PM, told the world before she was assassinated in 2007. They just kept the story out there to prolong the war.

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SirShymexx: 5:38pm On May 02, 2016
cap28:


shymmex have u ever heard of someone taking their friends along with them when they want to commit suicide . How come his friends just hsppenned to be ing by az he was about to jump off lekki bridge? Listen, fvkboy is a giggollo and romance scammer who preys on women with low self esteem I knw his story . Hes owing a lot of child in london and the US.

I don't think you followed the story from the beginning. He didn't invite his friends - they saw it on Instagram and he probably ranged them when he was drunk. Have you ever been drunk before?

I think the whole insta outburst was cos he tried to find solace in alcohol while being depressed and ended up exacerbating his condition. Alcohol is a very strong "drug" and when you're mentally unstable/depressed - that's the first thing GPs would tell you to stay away from. That's how strong alcohol is and if you have been around people like that in the past, you would know.

You think the guy is a gigolo but what about the wife that's a cum bucket and everyone toilet for bussing a nut? They cancelled each other out there.

Anyway, you said the same about John Fashanu, despite the fact that he has only one daughter and he's self-made. Fash the bash has always been super-rich and apart from making millions from footie - he's a hustler with silver tongue and he was getting six figures when he was hosting Gladiators. How come you always say the same thing about every guy having a problem with his wife?

But on the flip side, Mike Tyson who was best friends with Hommo, a notorious Brooklyn killer and the same guy who took the contract to kill rapper 50cent and shot him nine times. A convicted rapist. An ab. A sexmaniac. A serial womaniser. Etc. is a saint to you? Why? Looool

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SirShymexx: 4:48pm On May 02, 2016
IamAtribalist:



cool grin grin grin grin Now I know why my first impression of him was manGINA manGINA manGINA. Thanks for the heads up. grin grin grin cool

Looool.

Cap28 isn't a mangina - he's mostly lucky that he has a beautiful/loyal/strong black woman and female children in his life. If he were to be one of these naij men getting kicked out of their homes in the middle of the night by miserable women on the streets of London - I'm sure he'll be writing epistles about women like he does when he's talking about race loool.
SirShymexx: 4:44pm On May 02, 2016
cap28:
stfu shymmex would u let any of your sister's date this fckboy loser who lives off women. I knw someone who knws one of his baby mamas.

Lol.

I don't get involved in my sisters' love lives, apart from telling them from time to time when we're having banter that they shouldn't bring a nerd, weakling, and/or some overly religious guy near me. And if I can't relate to whoever they get hitched with - I won't go to their houses that often lol.

Anyway, how's he a fvck boy? Everything he was accused of apart from sniffing coke and lies about being jobless/lazy is a norm out here.

Weed: almost every guy out here smokes weed either socially or regularly.

Womaniser: you and I know this a norm to most guys. Debating if it's right or wrong is a different thing entirely.

What else? He's just stupid for investing his all in the chic, without paperwork to recoup the money he invested.

Anyway, are you still on Mike Tyson's nuts and do you still believe the super-gangster guy from the tough streets of Brownsville, Brooklyn, is a saint? Loool.
SirShymexx: 4:14pm On May 02, 2016
How can a guy impregnate a 50-year old woman that has gone past menopause?

Folks need to leave this guy alone, for fvck sake. This is the dumbest story ever.
SirShymexx: 4:11pm On May 02, 2016
IamAtribalist:


cool Mumu. I live in the West. I see it here everyday too. Millions of African American families destroyed because black women prefer to have sex with thugs and drug dealers. These women then raise these kids without a father (because he is either dead or in prison) and the kids grow up to be hyenas and savages. And the hyenas grow up to be hoes like their worthless mothers. And the savages become thugs like their irresponsible useless fathers. All this happening in a society that is one of the most gynocentric in the world. In fact in America it is the men that are running away from marriage because they know that the marriage laws are designed to favor the woman over the man. So your hypothesis is flat wrong. And I don't even believe in marriage so you are definitely barking up the wrong tree. cool

Lol.

Cap28 can be a white knight and a biitch when it comes to women - but he is a decent guy.

The funniest thing is that: he'll call this guy all kinds of names the same way he hates Mayweather. But bring up Mike Tyson who was convicted for rape and was allegedly an ab according to Robin Givens - and he'll defend him with everything. Now compare a Mike Tyson to this guy - who's worse?

Cap28 is just a hypocrite. Don't pay him any mind when he's talking about women. But when he's talking about international politics and race - he's a decent guy and quite knowledgeable as well lol.

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SirShymexx: 2:08pm On May 02, 2016
SleekAboki:

He should man up and accept all blames so he can move on and away from showbiz. A very quite life like a stoic living in harmony with nature while enjoying the lessons and patience of farm life. It would make him a better human. fake life has done lots of damages to his body mind and soul. Wole Soyinka understands the values of such lifestyles. Tiwa should continue the fake life chasing the next hits and endorsements while entertaining vain humans with her unclothedness.

Lmao @ fake life. The career span of most artists is always short. Especially for someone in her late 30s with no real talent and no timeless music that's real art. Almost all these naij artists just make noise without showing any creativity. Who knows, the guy probably dodged a bullet with this madness and disappointment sometimes can be a blessing. And not everyone is built for the spotlight that comes with fame.

Anyway, if the cocaine claim is true...then the guy needs to clean that up. Coke is rich people's drug and only white people who aren't rich can mess with it and maintain their normal lifestyle since it is their drug of choice and most of them do it. Coke is a helluva drug. If Scott Storch could sniff tens of millions of dollars worth of cocaine within a few years and go from being arguably the richest producer - to being homeless - that's one drug any sensible human being must run from.

He got his Jay Z's "Lost one" from a Savage. Time to re-up and stay up.

I'm out.
SirShymexx: 12:50pm On May 02, 2016
adudu208:

Bro, you have said it all.
The Mike Tyson scenario is a perfect scenario to buttress the point.
Some people come into your life pretending to be in love, making you go all out to give them an opportunity to succeed even at great discomfort to yourself.
Later, same people mess you up when the chips are down.
Why do parents have a feeling of entitlement after training you through school?
It is not out of place to expect some form of gratification for your effort especially when you make serious sacrifices to make someone else dream come through.
It might be possible but I am yet to meet a man who wants to just sit back and let the wife feed him.
He might not be earning as much as her but he sure won't be sitting his behind at home waiting for wifey to give him cash.

Face of an angel and heart of medusa...the ultimately superficial/pretentious gender. Hence every time I meet a chic, in as much as I initiate convo to make it lively, I listen attentively and take notes. Once the chic starts saying certain things that screams red flag and I see a pattern - I know what she's about. Even that is 50/50 cos you don't know when 3rd parties are going to get involved and the person would change cos women love talking about their relationships with everyone and seeking advice everywhere.

I don't even see the guy as lazy. He just got complacent cos his investing that happens to be his wife is now a cash cow and he believed it is time to start harvesting without knowing that there's no shared dream and not getting his paperwork right. Money is evil lol. The guy is a hustler that got hustled by a much more powerful gender and he'll be alright once he finds himself again.

Let me even drop something that I learnt from 2pac growing up. I used to wonder why a brash guy like that who represented that perfect bad boy image spent most of his time alluding to how powerful women are in his poems, music, and interviews. Yes, he was raised by a strong woman and tons of strong aunts. And even at every stage of his life, there was a woman there. But there are loads of people like that and they aren't really overly on it like 2pac. It was later that I found out that his mum taught him a lot about women and as he grew older, he kept studying women, hence he was able to have this massive cult following amongst them and that was what propelled him to greatness.
SirShymexx: 12:24pm On May 02, 2016
SleekAboki:

You are right. From that video of Tiwa, it showed she's done with Tunji and severed any attempt to ever reconcile the two. Both can only be used as lessons for everyone.

Lol.

That's what you call irreconcilable differences and even if they ever get back together, it's never going to be the same and they'll keep fighting. Although, I'm sure when the smoke clears, they're going to get back to Fvcking each other from time to time.

I won't even advise them to get back together. The guy just needs to start from the scratch and use this as a learning process and an inspiration for something bigger. He has to take responsibility for handling a lot of things poorly. Heck, if I were him - I'll just take the blame for everything and move on with my life. And maintain a cordial relationship with her cos of the baby. We all take losses from time to time. Michael Jordan's "Failure" commercial paints a picture that will make Mona Lisa look like fake art.
SirShymexx: 11:18am On May 02, 2016
Missy89:

President Barack Obama hailed the lifting of the "dark tyranny" over Libya after the new government confirmed Muammar Gaddafi had been killed, issuing a warning to other dictators in the Middle East – and particularly Syria – that they could be next.

Although Obama did not name Syrian president Bashar al-Assad, it was he Obama had in mind when he said the rule of the iron fist in the Middle East is inevitably coming to an end. Those leaders that try to deny the push for democracy will not succeed, he predicted.


- Guardian

Err, I was going to ignore ya post cos I know you always have nothing cerebral to contribute apart from being a troll that thrives on linear propaganda and twisting facts. But I'll just do it to set the records straight and keep it moving.

Even from the link you posted (which was more like an official speech anyone would give but his body language when he was giving that speech showed an indifferent man compared to Hilary Clinton who said, "we came, we saw, and died" joyfully with smiles all over her face) - there's an excerpt there that alluded to Obama being cautious about pronouncing him dead (that's different from how he announced the death of Osama Bin Laden, isn't it?). And another excerpt from the same article said he confined himself to a carefully chosen formula: "we can definitely say Gaddafi's regime has come to an end."
Link here: http://www.theguardian.com/world/2011/oct/20/obama-hails-death-gaddafi

So why didn't you post the link, rather than copy the excerpt you want to use for a next propaganda crap?

Gen Robert Gates on Clinton's influence on Obama's decision in Libya

Excerpt from Source:

"I think her influence was pivotal in persuading the president to broaden the goal in Libya beyond just saving the people in Benghazi from Gaddafi's forces and essentially focusing on regime change. The President told me that it was was one of the closest decisions he'd ever made, sort of 51-49, and I'm not sure he would have made that decision if Secretary Clinton hadn't ed it".
https://uk.news.yahoo.com/robert-gates-on-the-iran-deal-clintons-libya-155031438.html

Gen. Robert Gates had reservations about the intervention and he spoke openly against it, though he was the secretary of defence (I hope you won't come back with another propaganda to disprove it).

And why was the assassination of the US diplomat in Benghazi blamed on Hilary Clinton? Also, why has Obama been blaming David Cameron and Sarkozy for Libya without taking responsibility for anything?

Listen, for the umpteenth time: stop quoting my posts for propaganda. Do ya job in the foreign section and leave me out of it. I can't knock ya hustle but leave me out of it. By forcing issues - you'll end up pissing me off one of these days. Anyway, I won't reply ya next post.
SirShymexx: 8:50am On May 02, 2016
SleekAboki:

Have had my experiences and got fascinated to undertake a personal research to understand what it feels like to be a woman. The results when compared with observable realities was mind blowing and gave me my epiphany.

Women in the strict sense of it possesses the power to make or mar a man. from the naive church girl to hijaab wearing Muslim sister or the hustlers. They all have it by default. Men need to wakeup up cos the veil of religion and traditions once used to keep women in check from exercising such powers no longer holds. It's a woman's world as of today and no man can win it against a woman once she so decides to move on you.

I have nothing but love and respect for the woman and understand that it takes a lot for a man to handle them. A man without principles will be tossed and made mess by women. Once your creed in principles is top notch like a Taliban, women will love, fear and respect you even though you drink garri. Some men would've still maintained command and control over Tiwa regardless of how big a star she turns out. Tunji failed in this regard cos he lacked the needed principles.

Word. Truer words have never been said. A lot of people underestimate how powerful women are and the fact that it's a woman's world. Mother Earth is a woman and she birthed continents and countries, hence we qualify nations/continents with "she" when being poetic. Even the fact that the average man's weakness is a woman adds credence to that. Also, when a man deemed strong and powerful gets destroyed, look closely and you'll see a woman. Samson had Delilah. Adam had Eve. And even Gaddafi had Hilary Clinton cos without Hilary Clinton, Obama wouldn't have ed UK and to topple Gaddafi - he would have listened to Gen. Robert Gates. Hence Hilary Clinton celebrated the victory alone after Gaddafi was killed...Obama was indifferent about it.

Conversely, for a man to be deemed strong and powerful - he needs a woman as well. That's how powerful they're on both sides. Men just have that huge vacuous egos and self-aggrandisement - till women get them where they want them and snatch their balls.

Also, based on the dynamics of today's world, I don't even think being principled can keep a woman in check. Those who believe in principles only always get carried away till they meet their Waterloo. Even the guy didn't see this coming cos he met the chic when she was insecure and had low self-esteem and perhaps got carried away cos he felt he's in control and it will always be like that with the cash cow he invested everything in. Personally, I believe the holy grail is either the woman loves you unconditionally or she's just the cultured/virtuous/loyal type that doesn't mind whatever space/structure you put her in. And once you're with a woman like that - don't abuse it or rock the boat cos once you do and third parties get involved, it's over.
SirShymexx: 7:58am On May 02, 2016
Mike Posner - I took a pill in Ibiza (beautiful tune).
SirShymexx: 7:55am On May 02, 2016
GIYAZZ:
OK boss. You can check out the lyrics here tho: https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/3079204/giyaz-good-life-lyrics

I'd like to see your review on that too.

Alright, bruddah. Soon come.

Also, who makes ya beats?
SirShymexx: 7:30am On May 02, 2016
GIYAZZ:
I roger that, sir. See the link here: https://nairaland.macsoftware.info/3074485/nairaland-veteran-rapper-giyaz-drops

And please, if you the song, try comment what you think on the thread right there. I'd like to see your review on it. Thanks boss

Decent still.

I like ya flow and style. It's like a mix between Kanye West during his "College Dropout" album and Phil Ade (he's a naij rapper in the US from Wale's crew), with the classic 80s/90s New York's boom bap feel to it.

I think the only problem is that ya words aren't really clear and I can't rate the lyrics but ya rhyming pattern/style is decent. Just keep grinding and recording - the more you do, the more you'll improve creatively.

I'll review it later when I get out of bed. Using my phone ATM. Keep it up, tho.

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SirShymexx: 6:40am On May 02, 2016
SleekAboki:

He fell in love with a hustler. He put all his eggs and staked his manhood and business into a marriage with Machiavellian Tiwa. He saw Tiwa as an end in itself while Tiwa saw and used him as a means to an end. Contract marriage would have saved them this mess. Hope unmarried males are learning.

I've been reading ya comments on this issue since yesterday when I saw one of ya comments and you're one of the few who can read between the lines and you understand what's going on. I'm sure it is either you have been with loads of women, was raised around a lot of women, and/or observe the experiences of those around you. Your comments are so on point.

Even before proper details started coming out - as soon I saw the news about the suicide attempt by the guy and his rant, I knew he got hustled by the chic and most likely lost everything. It happens everyday and once you see a pattern - you don't need to be a psychic or rocket scientist to know what's going on. A lot people don't know how utter cunning women can be and getting into messy war with women is something you can't win, especially in the court of public opinion. So ya holy grail is to always use ya brain and not ya heart when dealing with them.

The ball was in the guy's court when he discovered her and they started dating. Once you start mixing business with love and you know it's going to affect ya business cos no one would want to sign with a management company where the owner only cares about one artist who also happens to his lover - he should handled the business side of things and paperwork. He doesn't even need a lawyer for that...just a template from the internet is enough. And every time it expires, you renew it. If he had done that - he won't be as messed up as he's today. An investment is an investment and ya paperwork has to be right at all times.

Even if he isn't business savvy, he should've listened to Notorious B.I.G's 10 crack commandments, especially rule 3 and 7:

Rule 3: never trust nobody.

Rule 7: keep ya family and business completely separated.

Anyway, the more I read this story - the more I see a pattern with how Robin Givens and her mum used Mike Tyson and hustled the guy, while she was fvcking Brad Pitt under his nose. And her interview is reminiscent of how Robin Givens also destroyed Tyson in her interview with Barbara Walters. Though there are a few nuances here and there.

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SirShymexx: 10:56pm On May 01, 2016
GIYAZZ:
SirShymexx, you don hear my latest track? Some real hip hop. E enter frontpage sef.

Word?

I didn't see it, bruddah.

I beg you send me the link.

If that's ya dream, keep chasing it and don't let anyone hold you down. It's never too late. Jay Z didn't blow up till he was 30 (a proper late bloomer) and folks told Kanye West he should stick to producing beats. But today, both of them are two of the most successful/influential artists alive.

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SirShymexx: 10:34pm On May 01, 2016
Skepta - Man (Gang)

**Gang, gang, gang...let's lurk...all ah dat all ah dat**


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sOhxPhqzMwg

Konnichiwa

I got day 1s/
Then I got new 1s/
No fake 1s/
Trust no 1

Man get money with the gang/
Man get girls with the gang/
Man eat food with the gang/
Man talk slangs and the feds can't tell what I just said to a man.
SirShymexx: 8:49pm On May 01, 2016
olapluto:
MOST ladies who carried the issue on their head like Jumoke bread are singles, divorced or soon to be divorced. They are the ones who do not fully understand the meaning of MARRIAGE. Most of them I see on my fb wall, I know their history. Some from broken homes, some got married only after they got pregnant for the guy and had to force his hands into marriage.

For all 45 minutes of Tiwa video, all I see is typical family issues. Issues that are normal in marriage. Most happily married couples deal with such issues weekly. It starts to die down after few years of living together. Reporting the issues to outsiders is always one sided. E.g Tiwa said she 'never cheated on her husband'. She did not say she never slept with Don Jazzy or Sid. Perhaps it all happened before marriage and Tunji gets flash backs.

As for spending on the man, it is a shame that she can say that out. If the man were to list his spendings on her or her issues, I am sure he will have plenty to say too. In my home, my wife can buy me a tro of 200USD and broadcast to the world, while no one is there when I pay average of 800USD everytime she fills her online shopping baskets. If Tiwa asks for money for diapers from her husband, shes only doing it to spite him. Every family has their modus operandi. My wife will NEVER ask me for such because we have both made provisions and I deal with other things. When we go food shopping, we both understand she will pay fully while I handle school fees.

In my opinion, the marriage is too fresh to crash like that. Impatience, and social media killed the marriage. Every married man has had a day when he wished he never touched his wife with a long stick. On other days, you just sit and marvel at the gift God has given you. However, when family and Instagram start to get recognition in the marriage, then things get out of hand. I had to stop my wife from ing family pictures on facebook. Family matters stay indoors.

Tiwa's shoddy attempt to tell her side of the story is poor. Married couples can easily relate to where their problem is coming from. Singles and single mothers can also quickly pounce on Tiwa's story to convince themselves on why marriage is not important. The only victim in all these is the child. Imagine one day when he's 10 years old and he sees this video on Youtube. He is going to be deprived of a decent upbringing due to parents who were keen to satisfy social media before satisfying poor Jamal.
For all the 'edible catering' and cheating stories, one thing was for sure, it would wane. Our mothers went through worse things and ended up being boss ladies in their homes. Men are strong headed but weak minded. We know our wives and know who we are playing with.

Overall, I pray that both of them can come together, leave family issues out of public eye. God be with them. Amin

Lastly, if you are one of those who is encouraging them to wash more dirty linen outside, stay away from them. God doesnt like those who break homes.

Greater words have never been put together and you’re a wise man, with great wealth of experience, Sir. It’s typical for women to always make noise when they spend a penny on a man, but have amnesia about the thousands of pounds the same man expended on them. That’s just the sense of entitlement that comes with the territory as a man. The biggest mistake the guy made was his inability to separate business from love. When he was investing in the chic and her career – he ought to have signed her to a management deal. Your paperwork has to be alright at all times in business. Investment and paperwork are inseparable. And in business, once you’ve ya paperwork intact, you can never lose. He’s a terrible businessman - he did everything with his heart and not his brain. You can’t do that in this cold world. If he had done that, he would’ve recouped his money, with profits. He just got scammed, used, and dumped by a desperate woman.

As for all the girls/ladies/women running around and attacking the guy based on a scripted video – we all know how women are and the overwhelming majority of them won’t reject the guy in the next few months when he gets his shyte together. We heard more than this during Chris Brown vs. Rihanna fiasco, but over 90% of Chris Brown’s fan base is still made of females and I’m sure majority of them cussed him out when he was having issues with Rihanna. Robin Givens said worse than this about Mike Tyson (apart from the fact that Mike Tyson had his own notoriety as a convicted felon and a rapist) in her interview with Barbara Walters. But did that stop Mike Tyson from finding a next woman to shelter him and cater to him when he was at rock bottom? Mike Tyson is still running around today as a celebrity but we don’t know where Robin Givens is. Ike and Tina Turner are another classic example but that didn’t stop bevy of women from getting with Ike after Tina.

Folks just need to let this issue die – a life is at risk here.

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Cc: sukkot. I’m back, my nyggah. You saw what Aldridge and Kawhi did to OKC yesterday? They ran ‘em outta the building lol. And I thought you said Golden State is a team of bums and role players, but the same “team of bums and role players” won two playoff games without Steph Curry lol.

Another Big L for you big bredrin. I think ya new handle should be 5XL. grin
SirShymexx: 8:52pm On Apr 30, 2016
scully95:

You want to tell me Tiwa did not know before she ran into it right ? Ok let assume she does not know.

To get to the bottom of it all, you need to look into what went on in LA. When tiwa was a no one and was fcking every man's dick way up.

I guess T balogun must have loved the fckings and so put his everything with the hope of making the best from her.

But see how things turned out... First of all sacking T balogun is more or less like removing the connecting rope between the two or the relationship which is based on mutual business in the first place.

If she did not remove his only life wire, I bet he wont go around begging for money. 45m here..

Accoding to Tiwa, I am even sure those that dropped that kind of money must be servicing her cos she's the loose girl and there is element of truth in everyting T Balogun said about her..

I know this family very well. Teebillz's father is a big boy to the call was formally running all the computer prices in Computer villiage before he diversified to real estate.


T Balogun is a spoilt child and the type that would never beg Tiwa. Things fell apart for him. Rewind to LA,Teebillz is a big boy to the call that has Office in LA. Do you know what it means to have an office down town LA and decided to sell everything because of one girl and the girl now decided to remove his only life wire ?

The issue she said about diverting money could be resolved. Why kill he cat for removing just the eyes from the big fish ?
Someone mostly pushed her to do that..Those people will push her to her fall finally.

Thanks for shedding more light on this issue. By looking at the guy and the information I’ve been able to gather on the internet – it’s obvious the guys isn’t a scrounger. I believe the mistake he made was to invest his all into something he felt would be a potential cash cow and a catalyst to propel him, and his management company to the next level. This is why it’s always self-destructive to trust and invest your all in people, regardless of the relationship you have with them. Why didn’t he sign her to a normal deal? At least he’d still be getting close to 30-40% of whatever she makes? He fell in love and lost his senses. It’s business and there’s no friendship in business. You need a level of selfishness/self-centeredness in this world to be successful. And the reason why he’s erratic is cos he has lost everything.

Anyone would get depressed when someone you invested all your money, sweat, and time in gets to the level you finally expect to start reaping but the person starts holding your hand. In business, it’s colossal loss. I guess the fear of having to start all over again from the scratch is what made him develop the mental breakdown. Then you’ve the MIL moving in with them to ridicule and mentally torture the guy. It’s sad, really.

Obviously, because she’s the “superstar” at the moment, he’ll be the scrounger and leech. However, people won’t look back at when she was a failed artist and failed X-factor contestant – before she was discovered by the guy. And the same guy invested everything he had in her and moved to naij cos he believed in her. But now that she’s made it – he’s now a weed head, coke head, philanderer, broke bum living off his wife, debtor etc. Why didn’t she say all these when the guy was working his socks off and spending his money to make her career blossom? Apparently, he also sold his car to pay for her first video.

Hopefully, the wise guys reading the guy’s story won’t get carried away by the theatrics and learn from the guy’s experience. It’s always self-destructive to invest your all in people, regardless of the relationship you have with them. The world is about survival of the fittest and when money is involved, people do change. There’s no shared dream and it has to always be about you at all times. I wish the guy nothing but the best and I hope he gets the help he needs, though I know he definitely has his own imperfections. He just lost one and losing is part of life. It’s now time for sober reflections but it’s not the end of the world.

Anyway, I'm out. Thanks for the educative thread about Yoruba tradition, Sir - rich tradition. wink

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SirShymexx: 12:40am On Apr 30, 2016
Avalon316:


Don't get sirshymmex angry. He will annihilate you like he did to a certain.she is on every thread he visits.

You guys just love the guy but you just don't know how to tell him.

I wasn't going to do this before and I'll show some restrain. But the screenshot I'm going to post would paint a picture. Bear in mind that I don't post to the chic. Never followed her and have never sent her a PM. After this PM conversation - she was on permanent ignore button. And you can check her post history to see the number of times she has quoted me without reply. grin I won't post the other emails.

Just do the maths - I'm out. I don't need to talk too much. She can rant all she wants and make up stories. grin

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SirShymexx: 12:26am On Apr 30, 2016
sukkot:
bruv the guy is a regular dude. not sure why you think he is denzel washington or something lol. if you ask me i will tell you she is the one who could do better in that she looks like someone who needs to be with an older man in his late forties or early fifties. while teebillz needs to be with a girl in her early twenties. she looks like his mother .

Not saying he's Denzel albeit if Denzel wasn't famous, he'd be a regular guy as well. But height does matter a lot and he's decent and better looking than most naij guys running around. I'd even say he's better looking than almost all naij artists (no homo). So why settle for an ugly chic who's a sket and has a terrible attitude? If you want an ugly chic - go for the one who's complete in other aspects. He can always do better than the chic and he needs to stay away from the spotlight cos he isn't mentally strong for the glitz and glamour...he isn't built for that lifestyle.

Anyway, I have expended too much time on this story. I think I need a week hiatus from NL looool. It's bank holiday weekend I need to smoke some Thai and enjoy the NBA playoffs. Weekend is the only time I get to mess with zoot loool. And a nyggah is off to the spa for the weekend with my new flame.

Life is short my nyggah, enjoy it while you can and ride the wheels till they fall off loool. Good looking women with humongous batty are a blessing from the most high. Gotta love mama Africa for these women, I tell ya lool. See you when I see you, my nyggah.

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SirShymexx: 11:57pm On Apr 29, 2016
sukkot:
when you see do better do you mean aesthetically ? are you talking about the physical or attitude ?

All ah dat all ah dat.

I don't know why guys limit themselves, especially the ones who have things that can get them great women.

Guys willing to get married these days are scarce. But there are loads of chics looking/begging/praying to get hitched. You just have to find the one that you're compatible with, can't relate to, and will complement you without much stress. I hope he finds peace from within and get well soon.

His anthem now should be: I'm going going/back back/to Cali Cali ... And to "live and die in LA".
SirShymexx: 11:39pm On Apr 29, 2016
sukkot:
the guy can do better than a woman who has her own lekki house and her own lucrative career ? really ? how much better ? lolzzz dude you trippin. the guy has reached the peak. its downhill from here. yeah he may get a girl who looks slightly better but she will tax him for money for weave and recharge card and shawarma and chapman etc etc lolzzzz. its downhill from here baby. he has reached the peak of the mountain and seen what it looks like. time to return to the valley of babes hustling niggas for weave money tongue grin

Looool. You're tripping, my nyggah.

I did a background check on the guy and he isn't a broke guy. He actually used to own a record/management company in LA and he was the one who discovered and signed the chic. I believe he was also the one who discovered/signed that nyggah Sauce Kid.

When you do the maths, it seems the guy actually gave up his own career to put her in a space that will allow her career blossom. He might not be as rich as her now (I doubt these naij artists are rich, anyway) but he isn't a broke nyggah like most people think he's.

He just needs to go back to LA. Take time off the spotlight, and rebuild himself again. Taking losses is part of life and when there's life, there is hope. He can always do better than the chic and still find companionship in a better woman. Nas got his shyte together after two crazy women. And Mike Tyson was able to get his shyte together after all he went through with Robin Givens. So the guy can bounce back. You just can't put ya career on hold for anyone - that was his biggest mistake.

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