NewStats: 3,264,698 , 8,184,433 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 05:37 AM 43465j

Stop lying, you really wanted to rape the girl. How can you touch a fellow worker's shoulder without her consent. U are useless

Let him get good lawyers, this case will sail through. It was supreme court that declared him candidate of APC & AA, so there is no way Hope should be the governor even if APC is declared winner.

Supreme court has robbed itself with this jajanweed judgment

So unfortunate the underage marriages taking place in the East is alarming.....

Regina Daniels Nwoko is a daughter used for money ritual by her own mother. If you know you know

I will never marry a US returnee, divorce dey sweet them like food

How I wish the Sound East and South South and Middle belt announce their own.

Buhari is always against positive progress

Haaaaaa!!!!! This is too much for me




My chest!!!!


The CJN is the most corrupt judge in the world


Governors of Kano, Benue, Sokoto, etc will consult MBAKA.....

gbagyiza:
Your testimony is inspiring and please don't forget to appreciate your inlaws, that's how true parents suppose to behave. Is not about money but when you see future in the life of your daughter n her suitor, don't hesitate to bless their unity.

Thanks bro

lanocfoods:
I hope you've replaced the 1,500 ring?

We are still using it. I will post our marriage pictures later

Goldpeas:
Congratulations to you both

I am also in Kano... Can I send u an email ??

You can send

When he finally get down with you and discovered you are not a virgin, he will hate you with ion.


Telling your boyfriend to get out of your house is not good enough

24kmagic:
First, I'd have to say congratulations.
Secondly, i'd have to say LUCKY YOU!

It happened 2014, that's some six years ago.
The number of reasonable girls have drastically reduced. Cos whether we like it or not, the more the days es by, the more materialistic and slutty our girls become, which also means LESS WIFE MATERIALS .

In say five years time, there will be very, very few girls of marriageable features. Baby mama will be the order of the day.

9ja girls don cast.


Again, I'd assume she grew up in the north, you know us now, we don't do PEPPER THEM here.

But last last, nothing will ever make me pull that stunt. I can't do it.

You try!

Thank you bro

Kendumazy:
Am glad it works out fine for you and you were lucky with your woman who reasoned with you and planned with you which made your story a success story. Not everyone is lucky! The fear of not being lucky with such plan is what is holding most people. You know people who planned this kind of small wedding are mostly not financially capable, so the fear of how they gonna cope with their meagre income is that fear that's holding most people. One party may not have such fear, another party may have the fear hence the two parties will go their separate ways. It just takes the understanding of the two parties and planning as well. May God help us all.

Amen. Thanks. We planned we are not going to have a child until we finish our masters degree if our condition didn't improve, thanks to God that the condition improve....
I was somehow afraid of getting married to a lady from Okrika, River state. Thankgod she turned out to be a great blessing to me

jidamsel43:
Yoruba ladies over to you. Can you accept this kind of wedding?

If your wife to be is understandable , it is possible to achieve this but ladies nowadays do not want to settle for SURULERE ( struggling) again, they prefer OLORUNSOGO (high class).


To convince a lady to accept this in Lagos , you have to be on 75 days marathon fasting .

Lol! SURULERE as a start up with an educated man is not bad. Sometimes OLORUNSOGO from a disguise yahoo boy or a man at the peak of his dreams could turn out to be SURULERE in no distant time.

Oluwa ko rowa lowo, ni oruko jesu.

AwkaetitiBabe:
One can marry with less sef. You both just gotta agree.

Waoh! That will be nice. From which part of Nigeria can someone get a wife at that low expenses?

Owiii:

Oine.....me I'm planning a wedding without reception this year with my fiancee. She has agreed to a wedding without reception after persuasion and reasoning along with me. Such ladies are rare. I know people who went into borrowing because of wedding ceremony. I ire your courage oine

She has to agree........the future is bigger......don't use your future to settle debts

Richy4:
And u are showing us pictures with nice wedding gown and suits..U should have posted the 13k suit to encourage the readers more haba!!!

We did not even use suit. Just plain white material we sewed...

I ed on this platform to tell my story and encourage other Nigerian youths who may have humble background like me, not to give up.

I did one of the craziest wedding in human history. I can’t stop laughing now as God has changed our story

COST OF THE WEDDING IN DETAIL:
Statutory marriage (court wedding) – took place in December, 2015

The court wedding was contracted at the marriage registry of Kano State, opposite Emir Sanusi’s palace, Kano municipal. Here are what I spent:
1) Wedding Certificate fee N8,000
2) Wedding ring N1,500
3) Clothes for the wedding for both of us (including sewing) N13, 600
4) Two crates of multina N5000
5) One carton of Digestive biscuit N600
6) Transport for both of us (kake napep) N200 (to and fro)

Total: N 28,900

No reception

Few invitees and no much celebrations


TRADITIONAL WEDDING:
I spent about 35,000 including clothes.

HOW IT STARTED

I was posted to Kano for my NYSC in 2014 August, Batch B. I fell in love with this beautiful lady and we had similar historical background. Before I completed my NYSC, I got ission to Bayero University for my master degree programme (march, 2015). I didn’t have what it takes for marriage and there was no help from anywhere. I really wanted to dump her and focus on my study but she never let me go.

She told me she want to go for master too, we hurriedly applied for her during the late application period, she was lucky she got ission to study community health. She took me to her parents who are based in Kaduna but are from Okrika in River state. Her parents are educated and gave me good advice and encourage us to get serious with our studies. The father told me to pay N5,000 as bride price and I spent about 30,000 for a very quiet traditional wedding.

In Kano, we live in a single room (self contain) opposite Bayero University gate, going to school together. I started a part time teaching with Al-Furkaan Science Academy with 18,000 salary and also work it for her to be teaching there too for 15,000 salary. The school management did not know that we are couple. Some teachers there were even trying to talk to her….
After our coursework, as if God was waiting for us to complete the coursework, boom!!! I was called by an agro allied company based in kano for interview. I applied online for the job. I got the job and we were both happy!!!

Three months later, my wife got a job with an NGO working in communities in Kano and Jigawa. Not long after, we moved to a two bedroom flat and got a car. We had a baby boy now and building a house in Otukpo, Benue state.

THIS IS MY TESTIMONY……
Start little and God we increase it…
I was so ashamed then and the people laughing at us them are now coming to begg us for money and .

Now my wife is saying we should do a flamboyant, expensive, and gorgeous church wedding and invite all the people we invited during the low-key court and traditional marriage...and invite all friends, foes and all the people laughing at us at that time....