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Due to the way things are currently going for me financially. I told my gal dat its better we end this relationship bcuz right now i'm not taking care of her d way she want.. She can't be wit me then i will be killing my self that she might be cheating on me bcuz of d lifestyle dat i'm not giving her .. I told her she desrve sum1 better and i really want her to b happy , i told her dat i knw she's seeing lot of things outside and she might be saying to her self how long she can endure with me .. So i'm just staying real to her did i made any mistake saying this to her?

so ur gf can't assist you financially?

What was her reply?

Stealthassasin:
Due to the way things are currently going for me financially. I told my gal dat its better we end this relationship bcuz right now i'm not taking care of her d way she want.. She can't be wit me then i will be killing my self that she might be cheating on me bcuz of d lifestyle dat i'm not giving her .. I told her she desrve sum1 better and i really want her to b happy , i told her dat i knw she's seeing lot of things outside and she might be saying to her self how long she can endure with me .. So i'm just staying real to her did i made any mistake saying this to her?

All these you mentioned above is not supposed to be ur responsibility cuz ur Dating her. you caused it all man

tyup:


All these you mentioned above is not supposed to be ur responsibility cuz ur Dating her. you caused it all man

she doesn't put anything on the table are family doesn't even give her want she wants , i'm her only source of income

You did the right thing, if she is a materialist. No time for cry ooo

Organsmuggler:
so ur gf can't assist you financially?

no she can't she doesn't havd a job yet, she's still a student and she will be rounding up very soon

Henrywalker:
What was her reply?

i told her to think about what i said and she said that there's nothing to think about she said we are done. I felt sumhow relief

Stealthassasin:
no she can't she doesn't havd a job yet, she's still a student and she will be rounding up very soon

she'll stay if she truly love u, sorry bro i know it must be hard for u to tell her that

i told her to think about what i said ..

I was surprised by her response ,

she said that there's nothing to think about she said we are done. I felt sumhow relief

Stealthassasin:
i told her to think about what i said ..

I was surprised by her response ,

she said that there's nothing to think about she said we are done. I felt sumhow relive

She never loved u in d first place.

Stealthassasin:
i told her to think about what i said and she said that there's nothing to think about she said we are done. I felt sumhow relive

That's good. Knowing what you want and going for it, requires self control.
Next time think, and be careful before falling for any girl!

She told you 'we are done',and you felt relieved??but some guys sabi SIMP for africa.Shows you that you were dating yourself and a liability.She didn't even feel remorseful.If you like when you make money,go and date a broke girl again.Since no babe would like to date you if you are broke,likewise never date a broke girl when u've made the mulla.

gfon:
She told you 'we are done',and you felt relieved??but some guys sabi SIMP for africa.Shows you that you were dating yourself and a liability.She didn't even feel remorseful.If you like when you make money,go and date a broke girl again.Since no babe would like to date you if you are broke,likewise never date a broke girl when u've made the mulla.

i mean i felt relief

gfon:
She told you 'we are done',and you felt relieved??but some guys sabi SIMP for africa.Shows you that you were dating yourself and a liability.She didn't even feel remorseful.If you like when you make money,go and date a broke girl again.Since no babe would like to date you if you are broke,likewise never date a broke girl when u've made the mulla.

Stealthassasin:
i mean i felt relief

that cause you sef don tire for the relationship

Mmm….

I understand you well on this because I know exactly how it feels. That's why I do open up from the start to any lady who fall in love with my appearance/looks. I just simply explain myself that I can't really take care of you for now as I am still struggling.

Some of them try not to seem materialistic and say, "No problem, I'm not after your money. I love you." Only for me to either find out they've gotten pregnant for another guy or sleeping with other guys.

I just save my heart the stress by not touching them at all because I believe in soul tie. Some come to blame me that they fell for other guys because I refused to touch them… I'll just say, "I understand."

I understand managing myself than believing in a love that doesn't truly exist.
If love truly exists, one day I know I'll find one, if it doesn't find me.

So bro, since she didn't even think twice before giving you a reply, but ended it immediately, let her go.
One day, if you don't find love, love will find you.
Save yourself the stress.

Thanks.

Kayberg:
Mmm….

I understand you well on this because I know exactly how it feels. That's why I do open up from the start to any lady who fall in love with my appearance/looks. I just simply explain myself that I can't really take care of you for now as I am still struggling.

Some of them try not to seem materialistic and say, "No problem, I'm not after your money. I love you." Only for me to either find out they've gotten pregnant for another guy or sleeping with other guys.

I just save my heart the stress by not touching them at all because I believe in soul tie. Some come to blame me that they fell for other guys because I refused to touch them… I'll just say, "I understand."

I understand managing myself than believing in a love that doesn't truly exist.
If love truly exists, one day I know I'll find one, if it doesn't find me.

So bro, since she didn't even think twice before giving you a reply, but ended it immediately, let her go.
One day, if you don't find love, love will find you.
Save yourself the stress.

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Stealthassasin:
she doesn't put anything on the table are family doesn't even give her want she wants , i'm her only source of income

You are her only source of income? Just look at this guy.

things aint going well with you and you are even explaining all these to her asif you owe her anything...
bea wey u go jus blank n go hustle harder, na she go take leg Waka when she get the signal...
u talking asif u already wife her, bea wey go dump u for d next richer nigee when she finds one

u have a good heart! but with females having a good heart is irrelevant. for her saying we are done don't believe DAT statement its just to show confidence in your presence if at all she truly loved you. just keep hustling and have a steady source of income. she might decide to stay but please and please if she does decide to stay don't take rubbish from her still respect her but stand your ground. don't make it look like she is doing u a favour by changing her mind and staying. if e better for u e better for am too.

Stealthassasin:
Thanks.

You're welcome bro.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Nitwits...All Of Them

Not all of them.
Just not that easy to find the good ones because they just stay silent expecting you to approach them first.

A good decision you've made OP. Hustle hard and try to make money, forget women cos most of them have absolutely nothing to offer.

Organsmuggler:
so ur gf can't assist you financially?

she is a giveme giveme not a giver

Thats why when i wan start dating u,pls dont bug me with shitz. I got no real friends and i rely on no one. So if u a jobless fuctard bich keep bugging me about money in disguise as love, bich,all im gon do is to blown u and give u stipends bich. Never date a broke lady, a student or a greedy bich. Just blow them and move ahead,anytime dick getz hard. Wan k,release and sleep. Simple

Stealthassasin:
she doesn't put anything on the table are family doesn't even give her want she wants , i'm her only source of income

You're her only source of income.

Nvgga fvcking listen to yourself.


Weak af, Effeminate and low value that's how you sound. You've put her on a pedestal already.

Your prime will come and it's a long period, you'll reign supreme but you need change your mentality.

She's suppose to enter your kingdom not you ass licking.

Just focus on yourself.