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surebona(m): 6:31pm On Dec 03, 2020
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

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Mood11: 6:34pm On Dec 03, 2020
Oh dear cry

So sorry for your heartbreak.
It's hard to just move on especially if you really loved the person..

Give it time.
Time heals all wounds.

Try to get busy so you will get your mind off thoughts of her.

And you will find happiness again.

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falcon01: 6:50pm On Dec 03, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
well well well look who woke up, urmm you just have to pack those broken heart and make them into something beautiful.

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Twelfthman: 7:11pm On Dec 03, 2020
U go dey alright las las.
Everyone at some point experience different heartbreaking situation. U not the first and won't be the last. Nobody can really help you except you help yourself o.
Goodluck

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thatsleepboy1: 7:24pm On Dec 03, 2020
buy a thick towel, soak it inside hot oil and use it to massage your chest.

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surebona(m): 6:11am On Dec 04, 2020
falcon01:
well well well look who woke up, urmm you just have to pack those broken heart and make them into something beautiful.

How do I start doing that thanks for your response

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surebona(m): 6:12am On Dec 04, 2020
Mood11:
Oh dear cry

So sorry for your heartbreak.
It's hard to just move on especially if you really loved the person..

Give it time.
Time heals all wounds.

And you will find happiness again.

Are you sure, there is happiness elsewhere for me?

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surebona(m): 6:13am On Dec 04, 2020
Twelfthman:
U go dey alright las las.
Everyone at some point experience different heartbreaking situation. U not the first and won't be the last. Nobody can really help you except you help yourself o.
Goodluck

Every waking day seems like it just happened the previous day, that's my fear

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Nazgul: 6:55am On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
Get busy, one of the ways to get over a heartbreak is to engage in other gainful activities that would take your time. Be happy, stay positive, talk to friends and family who mean so much to you and believe me you'll get over it.

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Henryfour(m): 7:01am On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


How do I start doing that thanks for your response
guy wen my own hppended I wanted to die. Cuz I dated her for 6yrs.pay her school fees. Buh since I relocated to Lag, I met Gr8 gals, who are working and I v seen a gal 1000 times betta Dan her. I'm now happy. Get busy n tink of all thinks u hate abt her. I now see her as notin na God I dey greet for making her to leave me

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Effulgent(m): 7:23am On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

just hit the gym, gym the hell out of the heartbreak

you will alright, and focus on improving yourself better

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chinchonglee(m): 7:31am On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
What's the reason for the breakup at first..
From there I'll know how to advice

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Paromarc: 7:32am On Dec 04, 2020
Wahala for who go fall in love

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baralatie(m): 7:36am On Dec 04, 2020
heart break?
how?
I want you to post the pictures of the broking pieces of the heart first

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 8:52am On Dec 04, 2020
good for u,wen we advise y'all simps that there's nothing like true love anymore y'all will tag us redpillers..
nothing like true love anymore, everyone is in a relationship for a beneficial reason, fall in love at ur own peril

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falcon01: 12:56pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


How do I start doing that thanks for your response
hang out with your guys if you have they can cheer you up go places

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BBL3691: 2:28pm On Dec 04, 2020
With time you will definitely get over her unless you willingly commit suicide.
These following points can help you get over her.
1. Morning exercise. Do exercise every morning and the result will surprise you. You will be lifted from worry, anxiety, boredom and unnecessary depression.
2. Try as much as possible to think about her negative lifestyles. Never focus your mind on her positive attitude. Consider the money and time you spent on her as unplanned sacrifice. That way she appears totally replaceable.
3. Socialise. Mingle with new friends, watch game (football), soccer hall can be your second home for the maintime but I don't encourage you to bet ooo except at your discretion.
4. You can survive the world without her. In fact you can survive the world without majority of the so called irreplaceable ones around you. So give yourself time and don't rush to have new girlfriend yet but just be friendly with people that way your social life will improve.
5. Dress handsomely. Good appearance Cannot be over emphasised. Ladies and people generally can't resist good looking guys except your character
6. Hope you have source of income. That way you are independent. Then be sure your heartbreak is just for a moment

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stupidmod2: 2:29pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
be fucking ashawo

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Usorohtheman(m): 2:32pm On Dec 04, 2020
Bros, u need to cry small oooo. Then after that, you lock up. Gold wey don lost for inside ocean don lost. Call your guys, make una go drink. You go cheer up.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 3:32pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
U Can Survive Heartbreak If U Av Dis Mentality Dat Says "The Beautiful Ones Are Not Yet Born"

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surebona(m): 7:10pm On Dec 04, 2020
Truvel:
U Can Survive Heartbreak If U Av Dis Mentality Dat Says "The Beautiful Ones Are Yet To Be Born"

I didn't fall in love with beauty. She was just an understanding type.

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surebona(m): 7:11pm On Dec 04, 2020
Nazgul:

Get busy, one of the ways to get over a heartbreak is to engage in other gainful activities that would take your time. Be happy, stay positive, talk to friends and family who mean so much to you and believe me you'll get over it.

Thanks alot, I even sleep at work. Just to be with those working at night . Because staying at home is making me suicidal

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surebona(m): 7:13pm On Dec 04, 2020
Usorohtheman:
Bros, u need to cry small oooo. Then after that, you lock up. Gold wey don lost for inside ocean don lost. Call your guys, make una go drink. You go cheer up.

That's the point brother. I really don't have friends in Lagos that we are that close. And the few times I drank made the whole thing worse I was force to start bugging her lines....

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surebona(m): 7:15pm On Dec 04, 2020
BBL3691:
With time you will definitely get over her unless you willingly commit suicide.
These following points can help you get over her.
1. Morning exercise. Do exercise every morning and the result will surprise you. You will be lifted from worry, anxiety, boredom and unnecessary depression.
2. Try as much as possible to think about her negative lifestyles. Never focus your mind on her positive attitude. Consider the money and time you spent on her as unplanned sacrifice. That way she appears totally replaceable.
3. Socialise. Mingle with new friends, watch game (football), soccer hall can be your second home for the maintime but I don't encourage you to bet ooo except at your discretion.
4. You can survive the world without her. In fact you can survive the world without majority of the so called irreplaceable ones around you. So give yourself time and don't rush to have new girlfriend yet but just be friendly with people that way your social life will improve.
5. Dress handsomely. Good appearance Cannot be over emphasised. Ladies and people generally can't resist good looking guys except your character
6. Hope you have source of income. That way you are independent. Then be sure your heartbreak is just for a moment

You have been indeed helpful, I am really grateful for this.. I will give it a try. Thanks ones again

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surebona(m): 7:16pm On Dec 04, 2020
SmellySperm:
good for u,wen we advise y'all simps that there's nothing like true love anymore y'all will tag us redpillers..
nothing like true love anymore, everyone is in a relationship for a beneficial reason, fall in love at ur own peril

Don't believe this.

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surebona(m): 7:18pm On Dec 04, 2020
chinchonglee:

What's the reason for the breakup at first..
From there I'll know how to advice

Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

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surebona(m): 7:20pm On Dec 04, 2020
Henryfour:
guy wen my own hppended I wanted to die. Cuz I dated her for 6yrs.pay her school fees. Buh since I relocated to Lag, I met Gr8 gals, who are working and I v seen a gal 1000 times betta Dan her. I'm now happy. Get busy n tink of all thinks u hate abt her. I now see her as notin na God I dey greet for making her to leave me

Thanks alot

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Nazgul: 7:25pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


Thanks alot, I even sleep at work. Just to be with those working at night . Because staying at home is making me suicidal
Suicide what....don't say that again. You want to kill yourself over a woman who has made it crystal clear that it's over between you too. Haba don't say that again.

One of the best way to make your ex regret leaving you is to work hard and attain massive success. She would sit in agony and regret why she left you. So begin your journey to the top, and forget about her. When you get to the top everyone including her would celebrate your success.

Good luck

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


I didn't fall in love with beauty. She was just an understanding type.
If U Understand My Comment, U Will Know I Don't Mean Dat. I Don't Av Dis Mindset Dat She Can't Be Replaced Anyone.
chinchonglee(m): 7:48pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...
Ahh!
So cheating makes you feel guilty?
Ahh!

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SarutobiEky(m): 7:51pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Do you need a gun? A cutlass? Or your friendly neighbourhood sniper? Do quick I won comot. undecided angry

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