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Talking about food in dates, who declared that dates must happen at fast-food or grillers? No one!, if as a man you're not spontaneous enough to pick a non-food related venue for the date that's on you!

If a girl wants to pay for her own meal guess what she'd be doing? EATING IT ALONE!... Not having some guy giving interviews over lunch.
Sure some girls might take a date as a possible meal ticket, but if you can't bring up sharing of the bills before the date then you shouldn't complain, if you did the asking out.. I never get critical or judgmental about dates etiquette but this section of nairaland never hides it's gross misogyny.

BigSarah:

Talking about food in dates, who declared that dates must happen at fast-food or grillers? No one!, if as a man you're not spontaneous enough to pick a non-food related venue for the date that's on you!

If a girl wants to pay for her own meal guess what she'd be doing? EATING IT ALONE!... Not having some guy giving interviews over lunch.
Sure some girls might take a date as a possible meal ticket, but if you can't bring up sharing of the bills before the date then you shouldn't complain, if you did the asking out.. I never get critical or judgmental about dates etiquette but this section of nairaland never hides it's gross misogyny.

>@ Bolded

Pick 15 girls and tell them you guys are sharing the Bill before the date

You will hardly see 1 girl agreeing to this

I don't like the gender wars but the truth must be spoken. Its only girls that bring their friends to a date so that their gluttonous appetite can be satisfied

2dice01:
>@ Bolded

Pick 15 girls and tell them you guys are sharing the Bill before the date

You will hardly see 1 girl agreeing to this

Is it someone that you are going to pay her transport fare for coming that will pay her own bills? . I don't have any problem paying for a date but for their friends

Tell a Nigerian girl, let's split the bill before the date, just won't work. She would flee, hate you, even call you not man enough

Zzor:
if a man dare ask me to share the bills,i will frustrate him till he gets the picture of what I'm up to and leave,you can't pay bills and you are asking for a date.Let me be the one to offer to share the bills and not him demanding that.Its a red flag for me if a man demands we share the bills on a date

This is exactly what I was talking about

if you can't bring up sharing of the bills before the date then you shouldn't complain, if you did the asking out...

This is true. But splitting the bill should be the norm, not an outlier. This way no one feels hard done by if things don't work out.

BigSarah:



If a girl wants to pay for her own meal guess what she'd be doing? EATING IT ALONE!... Not having some guy giving interviews over lunch.

This type of statements are part of the reason the guys here are the way they are. If, like you're suggesting, I am paying for your time, then obviously I should expect you to make it worth my while.

says someone who thinks Erica deserves BBN grande prize for being fvcked multiple times by pigwayya.


fish brain.

mtcheew

if a man dare ask me to share the bills,i will frustrate him till he gets the picture of what I'm up to and leave,you can't pay bills and you are asking for a date.Let me be the one to offer to share the bills and not him demanding that.Its a red flag for me if a man demands we share the bills on a date

research has proven women only go on dates because of food,tell a naija girl that you guys wont hang out where food is sold and she will cancel any appointment with you.

Zzor:
if a man dare ask me to share the bills,i will frustrate him till he gets the picture of what I'm up to and leave,you can't pay bills and you are asking for a date.Let me be the one to offer to share the bills and not him demanding that.Its a red flag for me if a man demands we share the bills on a date

Finnese001:

ehen?

Zzor:
ehen?

Did I say anything

Op Leave them let contiue fooling themselves, nigeria girls matter go give them heart attack very soon.

BigSarah:

Talking about food in dates, who declared that dates must happen at fast-food or grillers? No one!, if as a man you're not spontaneous enough to pick a non-food related venue for the date that's on you!

If a girl wants to pay for her own meal guess what she'd be doing? EATING IT ALONE!... Not having some guy giving interviews over lunch.
Sure some girls might take a date as a possible meal ticket, but if you can't bring up sharing of the bills before the date then you shouldn't complain, if you did the asking out.. I never get critical or judgmental about dates etiquette but this section of nairaland never hides it's gross misogyny.

Well said you are really a BIG sarah

Zzor:
if a man dare ask me to share the bills,i will frustrate him till he gets the picture of what I'm up to and leave,you can't pay bills and you are asking for a date.Let me be the one to offer to share the bills and not him demanding that.Its a red flag for me if a man demands we share the bills on a date

Yeah we know, that's if someone will ever ask a fat pig like you out.

Zzor:
if a man dare ask me to share the bills,i will frustrate him till he gets the picture of what I'm up to and leave,you can't pay bills and you are asking for a date.Let me be the one to offer to share the bills and not him demanding that.Its a red flag for me if a man demands we share the bills on a date

By their speaking we shall know them.

Farm tool na farm tool no two ways about that.

virginprincess:
Op Leave them let contiue fooling themselves, nigeria girls matter go give them heart attack very soon.

Heart attack for Simps na....awon vagina people

BigSarah:

Talking about food in dates, who declared that dates must happen at fast-food or grillers? No one!, if as a man you're not spontaneous enough to pick a non-food related venue for the date that's on you!

If a girl wants to pay for her own meal guess what she'd be doing? EATING IT ALONE!... Not having some guy giving interviews over lunch.
Sure some girls might take a date as a possible meal ticket, but if you can't bring up sharing of the bills before the date then you shouldn't complain, if you did the asking out.. I never get critical or judgmental about dates etiquette but this section of nairaland never hides it's gross misogyny.

I disagree.

mosdii:



By their speaking we shall know them.

Farm tool na farm tool no two ways about that.

blackie mind yourself ooo don't be unfortunate

mosdii:


Heart attack for Simps na....awon vagina people

No, i mean nairaland men insulting women.... awon penis people.

Zzor:
blackie mind yourself ooo don't be unfortunate

Who be blackie awon bleached skin abi Caro white skin.... you are the one that will be unfortunate.

Nigeria girl at her boyfriend house with her three friends :::::: wow this is your boyfriend's house?
girlfriend :::yes

Her friend's ::::: tell him we are Hungary

American girl at her boyfriend's house with her other friends :::' omg is that your boyfriend wow is so cute

virginprincess:
No, i mean nairaland men insulting women.... awon penis people.

truth abi insult?
vagina people x farm tools

mosdii:



Who be blackie awon bleached skin abi Caro white skin.... you are the one that will be unfortunate.

obviously you have issues with your eyes,you can't differentiate between a bleached skin and a natural fair complexion(do you know if I'm mixed race or have the traits ?),you look matured but a baby in reality,like I advised earlier,dont be unfortunate.byeee Mr blackie,be proud of your Complexion kos you took the blackie word for an insult

It's no secret that vagina people are gluttons and leeches. Y'all can sugarcoat it all you want.

2dice01:
>@ Bolded

Pick 15 girls and tell them you guys are sharing the Bill before the date

You will hardly see 1 girl agreeing to this

It depends on the kind of ladies you roll with....

mosdii:



truth abi insult?
vagina people x farm tools

I typed what was on my mind you can't change that fact.

Zzor:
obviously you have issues with your eyes,you can't differentiate between a bleached skin and a natural fair complexion(do you know if I'm mixed race or have the traits ?),you look matured but a baby in reality,like I advised earlier,dont be unfortunate.byeee Mr blackie,be proud of your Complexion kos you took the blackie word for an insult

Mixed ko coke and fanta ni.

Pasisei (ijaw) keep your advise to your self, for your information, I'm neither mature nor a baby.

Don't refer me as Mr blackie again because I'm not as black as you see.

mosdii:



Mixed ko coke and fanta ni.

Pasisei (ijaw) keep your advise to your self, for your information, I'm neither mature nor a baby.

Don't refer me as Mr blackie again because I'm not as black as you see.

Nno menia(ijaw), then stop looking for trouble all over Nairaland as I was on my own when you started displaying your childish behavior.frefre si.Mr blackie what are you gonna do as I've repeat it now.

:By their language we shall know them.farmerer useful na farmer useful no two things about that.blackie thinking yourself ooo don't be shame

Zzor:
Nno menia(ijaw), then stop looking for trouble all over Nairaland as I was on my own when you started displaying your childish behavior.frefre si.Mr blackie what are you gonna do as I've repeat it now.

Anang abi ibibio girl, I don't look for trouble and I have never looked for anyone's trouble before and I will never do.
I can't do anything but don't ascribe that name to me again.
Take your granny behavior somewhere else.

We have a long way to go