NewStats: 3,264,677 , 8,184,394 topics. Date: Thursday, 12 June 2025 at 12:07 AM 6y4w29

silverstar007:
Tried my shot on eDating on IG via a relationship platform. I was desperate to settle down. Few minutes into listing the ad, numerous ladies called me. I guess stating my profession wasn't a good omen as it attracted many ladies who mainly fell for my profession. Even ladies outside Nigeria called and chatted me up.

I followed up with two.... One, a banker, accidentally live behind my street. We met and gisted for long and was looking forward to seeing her again. Another, I thought I would have a fling with right from our freaky chat seem serious and I went for her. Pretty cute babe. She dribbled me several times. We scheduled meeting, but I guess she was scared. We eventually met in person. I loved what and all I saw. Face, booz, behind, and civil servant work due to plenty time on her table. She was totally independent lady. I once slept at her place to catch up with an early flight. No sex!!! I noticed differences between which I saw as early red flag from my toxic relationship experience. She gave me reasons to worry. She was cool with me. But my spirit wasn't settled. I had my worries, but I kept the struggle until the final straw the broke the camel back. I ended the relationship with uttering a word. Just kept my distance until I was healed. I had fell for her!!!

My mistakes.
Be real with anyone. Put your foot on ground. People pretend especially ladies to get into marriage. I ran! Once beaten. Don't blame me. I have had my fair share of toxic relationship, so I can smell foul from distance.

Don't be carried away by beauty, money, profession. Any of these things can fade off any time. Let God take charge!

Put God first before any criteria you have set. God knows what is best for us. What god gives is best for us. What we want may possibly kill us.

Stop playing games. Stop chopping from one lady to another.

Focus on building a brighter and better future. Wedding ceremonies is a not a necessity. Coronavirus has made this obvious to anyone who has ears and eyes.

Beyonce said it's over rated na...just few people are okay..make it cute.& catchy

That will be very weird.

Charlezs:

Nothing like that bro. I'm not that kinda person. Yeah I know real is hard to come by. Should I just go into a relationship with her just because she loves me ?? Are you considering my own happiness or just feeling pity for the girl ?

Baba you no consider all this things before you carry this innocent girl out for this LOVE HOLE

BRK JUST NOT TO WASTE HER TIME AND TO KEEP YOUR HAPPINESS INTACT.... Let her know the truth...omo she no go die!!! With time she'll get over it....but just make sure you don't love her so that someday you don't come back looking for her

SirMichael1:
Really, how do you guys meet people, have sex with them and then suddenly get tired? I swear I still don't understand how this relationship thing works with sex. Isn't it better to stay without sex while enjoying the fondness of each other? Must people have sex? Sex has ruined so many good things that would otherwise have turned into exceptional relationships and lifelong partnerships. If sex destroys, better to stay off it abeg.

See this nice girl you just messed with.

Bro I can't answer the question of abstaining from sex in a relationship cause I think it's about what works for you.
We're still in a relationship, so as avoid "messing" with her cause she haven't done any thing bad

damosky12:


Bros, hardly anyway of backing out of this that won't hurt her. It all depends on her kind of person and her intentions.

I suggest you HONESTLY give the relationship some thought and some time. Then, if it isn't working, you can honestly open up.

He's just a player..
Na hin way...
Let him be

lordally:


Baba you no consider all this things before you carry this innocent girl out for this LOVE HOLE

BRK JUST NOT TO WASTE HER TIME AND TO KEEP YOUR HAPPINESS INTACT.... Let her know the truth...omo she no go die!!! With time she'll get over it....but just make sure you don't love her so that someday you don't come back looking for her

Thanks bro... I will handle it the best way

lordally:


Baba lefulefu make I PM you abeg meeeeeeen

wetin happen?
if u come run comot for naija who will now look after ur babe wey u come abandon

Yes I have and it was lovely till she died..

Olude193:


They are still some good girls there o...

good girls on tinder?
make i no talk

I never date any girl for social media but I don bleep many of them girls . So many girls are on social media just to sell their body . Most of them are hoez .I can't date any girl on social media .

lefulefu:
wetin happen?
if u come run comot for naija who will now look after ur babe wey u come abandon

Kai lefulefu you don make me die with laf for here!!! I never even talk anything you Don gimme Gbas Gbos.....baba make I PM you abeg...I gahts give my papa good life

Prettychild:
I have never done it before but I gave it a try mid of this year. I met him on this forum. Me wey dey form tough girl, I just fell yakata for him! Was scared on our first meeting but I found out he was a likable person. He didn't have anything like the guys I normally hang out with but I loved his resilience and thought that we would build our own empire. It didn't last because I noticed that he only needed me to cure boredom and never wanted to know me better. We broke up.

Sorry

lefulefu:
abi nah..dem go dey dig up past files dey form dectective shylock
just enjoy ur union in peace

i been no wan comment bfor but this ur Line Got me

lefulefu:
good girls on tinder?
make i no talk

Just a minute percentage...

No be all eggs bad

Charlezs:

Bro I can't answer the question of abstaining from sex in a relationship cause I think it's about what works for you.
We're still in a relationship, so as avoid "messing" with her cause she haven't done any thing bad

So what you're doing is managing her? And clearly, sex doesn't work for you.
Just tell the poor girl off. She indeed gave her heart to the wrong fellow.

lordally:


Kai lefulefu you don make me die with laf for here!!! I never even talk anything you Don gimme Gbas Gbos.....baba make I PM you abeg...I gahts give my papa good life

my friend dont abandon ur babe
u wan run comot for naija leave ur chick all alone in naija
there are wolves all around
better protect ur chic

AfroKnight:


Yes. Let’s say I‘ve dated a couple or so. Nice girls.

Dated one online and broke up with her before we even met in person. Tall fine chick. We’re still friends on Facebook even though I met her on 2go.

I met one of my worst nightmares on the same 2go. That app nearly turned me into something else. I spent time on that app trying to reach Ultimate.

Met a couple others on NL and twitter.

Online dating is exciting when you have time. Not when you’re thinking of bills and deadlines.

Haha my and my friend back then were doing 1st to reach ultimate, we no dey even log off, we will sleep with the app open and data on ...ah 2go days....sex room and anime were my fav spot lmao..I don old chai

Charlezs:

Thanks bro... I will handle it the best way

No lele my nigger!!! I dey talk like this because I was dating a loving girl who been won use Nagging keeh me!!! So I met my current babe who was doing the chyking but I been no send am...I was always shouting at her...but she never gave up on me upon say she know say I get babe oo...na until my papa spoke sense into my head saying "OGA YOU NO GO FOLLOW WHO GO GIVE YOU PEACE OF MIND ...YOU COME DEY FOLLOW BABE WEY NO EVEN SEND YOU!!!" Bros that's how I now have my present babe attention and it's been happiness for over 3yrs and 6 months now.

Awesome

Zzor:
Thanks,yes I had a good day

I met my bf on nairaland tho...nd m so happy � i.met him.. He's just the best

lefulefu:
my friend dont abandon ur babe
u wan run comot for naija leave ur chick all alone in naija
there are wolves all around
better protect ur chic

I go send thunder make e strike you ooo!!! Hahaaha wetin be your problem!!! Lwkmd so na only you like better life!!!... I don PM u jawe on WhatsApp

lordally:


I go send thunder make e strike you ooo!!! Hahaaha wetin be your problem!!! Lwkmd so na only you like better life!!!... I don PM u jawe on WhatsApp

ok

Yes,met this lady on facebook. Thought she was in Nigeria cos she told me so and used Nigerian line for her whatsapp. She later told me shes in oman and we kept the friendship. She has never met me in person and has sent me money over 2 times. And will be telling you right now she is returning from oman this weekend and staying with me. Never believed Nigerian women can send money to someone they never met. E shock me.

fati2001:

candy is there for you.

Candy is good, yeah!... But can't replace your place in my heart. Only can fill the space, I'm not in a haste, no need for race I'll wait.

Offpoint:

Candy is good, yeah!... But can't replace your place in my heart. Only can fill the space, I'm not in a haste, no need for race I'll wait.

lol, you too late.

Offpoint:

Candy is good, yeah!... But can't replace your place in my heart. Only can fill the space, I'm not in a haste, no need for race I'll wait.

lol, you too late. sorry

lordally:


No lele my nigger!!! I dey talk like this because I was dating a loving girl who been won use Nagging keeh me!!! So I met my current babe who was doing the chyking but I been no send am...I was always shouting at her...but she never gave up on me upon say she know say I get babe oo...na until my papa spoke sense into my head saying "OGA YOU NO GO FOLLOW WHO GO GIVE YOU PEACE OF MIND ...YOU COME DEY FOLLOW BABE WEY NO EVEN SEND YOU!!!" Bros that's how I now have my present babe attention and it's been happiness for over 3yrs and 6 months now.

Wow... 3 years plus ? What is keeping you from marrying her ? Abeg do fast make we come chop rice

fati2001:
lol, you too late. sorry

Why am I always late, Lord why?

SirMichael1:
So what you're doing is managing her? And clearly, sex doesn't work for you.
Just tell the poor girl off. She indeed gave her heart to the wrong fellow.

I think you're right

XwhY:


Sorry

Thanks. It's one of those things.

SmellySperm:
if not for her mouth odor,i would have dated

guy why you dey like dis