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IamPlato:
Saying Something Without Being Able To Back it Up. Just Because You Are Looking For Fame...



Olodo Girls Just Full Internet These Days.

the annoying part is that it's on Nairaland frontpage not even that she said something she can't backup

Some people will be calling them self feminist when they don't excibit it.you call something a theory yet you can't tell how you arrived at that fact.abey don't spoil feminism me. Act like a man, think like a man,hustle like a man and make a independent judgement with out influence. That it what is call feminine.

Mk93:

from my experience girls who are emotional are more likely to confront you, some even attack you or scatter your house when you hurt them

People express their emotions differently.
Some in silence, some cry, some scatter, while some shrug it off.

I've explained the crying part to You, I don't know what else you'd want to argue with.

I rather cry than bottle it up, I get relieved off my grudges when I let the steam out by crying. It heals me faster than anything.
Some decides to go hayway by engaging in the destructive part. This can be rooted through deep silent and thought, that's why people who do not talk always are meant to be feared more. Cos, once the thought comes, they don't even think twice before doing whatever came to their minds.
Wish I have strength to write epistles.

ikbnice:
I am still thinking of the reason why a man will start crying publicly on a day like that. That's 'unmanly'

So many things can move a man to tears
Mostly things of great joy

When a man is pained he hardly cry because nature has given them the ability to withstand it rather he resorts to drinking and womanising

Please what qualifies this dumb ass to be a feminist? She'z so senseless

Saao:
I did it during my wedding six years ago, it was only my bestman and my wife that notice me. A song the DJ played made me to think deep knowing fully well that my both parents were death, and I'm the only one, I saw a wider gap. Assuming they were alive, assuming I have biological brother and sister and what I ed through, all those thoughts came to limelight when the songs went on. YOU can never can tell what goes on in people's mind as they shed those tears, personally I m a very strong man still I shed tears

You are a brave man

The truth must be told ,at a point either you like it or not emotions will overcome you
The moments may differ from one person to other
Men are not wood
Blood runs down our veins
We can keep pretending things are cool when they are not
To those coming online and saying all sorts
"You can only deceive others but not yourself

Totogokillme:
tohyorsih2,see what I was telling you

Na her wahala be that. Me i like am

QueenSekxy:

People express their emotions differently.
Some in silence, some cry, some scatter, while some shrug it off.

I've explained the crying part to You, I don't know what else you'd want to argue with.

I rather cry than bottle it up, I get relieved off my grudges when I let the steam out by crying. It heals me faster than anything.
Some decides to go hayway by engaging in the destructive part. This can be rooted through deep silent and thought, that's why people who do not talk always are meant to be feared more. Cos, once the thought comes, they don't even think twice before doing whatever came to their minds.
Wish I have strength to write epistles.

Ok let us end it here.
I am speaking from experience though. There could be some odd one out but from my observation they resort to violence when hurt

Someone like me will cry on my wedding day because I'll wish my mum is alive to be part of my big day.

ODUNEWUWURA:
Some people will be calling them self feminist when they don't excibit it.you call something a theory yet you can't tell how you arrived at that fact.abey don't spoil feminism me. Act like a man, think like a man,hustle like a man and make a independent judgement with out influence. That it what is call feminine.

Which act like a man? Real men are always a step ahead of we have to play games

koyyes:
As much as I love males expressing themselves, I have to agree on this.

Most emotionally driven males are very wicked and act like psychos.

Just be happy you are getting married to the woman of your dreams. Don't be bringing out water from your eyes. Its creepy.

What the hell?

Some Crying Chicken Dudes will be in Sifia pains merly reading this kind of comments ..But the posthas some mysterious truth in it tho

The things that can make me cry as a man
Losing someone so dear to my heart
My favorite football team losing very important match
My sister getting married especially far away
Las Las i don't no the other ones
But if it's on my wedding day no no na the woman suppose be the one crying not me

Saao:
I did it during my wedding six years ago, it was only my bestman and my wife that notice me. A song the DJ played made me to think deep knowing fully well that my both parents were death, and I'm the only one, I saw a wider gap. Assuming they were alive, assuming I have biological brother and sister and what I ed through, all those thoughts came to limelight when the songs went on. YOU can never can tell what goes on in people's mind as they shed those tears, personally I m a very strong man still I shed tears

Shading tears and crying are far two different thing

Most people cry during wedding out of emotional outbursts not necessarily about the beautiful wife or the wedding..

Why shading of tears could just be cause by a point of realisation that you actually came from nothing and you are here.
Like a sign of victory and gratitude.

Ekpeitut:
It's a rubbish trend one otondo started because he ed all the suffering and shege the bride showed him before she agreed to marry his weak ass. Or he probably took a massive loan for the marriage.

Me cry fire when I'll be lost in thoughts with all the things I'll be doing to my wife that night . In fact I'll be smiling and grinning like a Christmas goat

Your monicker though

FlyingTOMATOE:
Real Men don't cry.
They shed tears

Real men shed blood not tears.

Lol. I have a feeling she is right. Some research can be done on the matter.

3rdeyeNigeria:


Shading tears and crying are far two different thing

Most people cry during wedding out of emotional outbursts not necessarily about the beautiful wife or the wedding..

Why shading of tears could just be cause by a point of realisation that you actually came from nothing and you are here.
Like a sign of victory and gratitude.

Lol. Dudes just be revamping English dictionaries in a matter of seconds that took several decades for the dunces to write Abi? Wedone sir.

Mumu

Urukpe:


Real men shed blood not tears.

I like this...true grit.

ikbnice:
I am still thinking of the reason why a man will start crying publicly on a day like that. That's 'unmanly'

when you imagine the beatings and slaps that will be unveiled in future... you can’t but cry �

QueenSekxy:

People express their emotions differently.
Some in silence, some cry, some scatter, while some shrug it off.

I've explained the crying part to You, I don't know what else you'd want to argue with.

I rather cry than bottle it up, I get relieved off my grudges when I let the steam out by crying. It heals me faster than anything.
Some decides to go hayway by engaging in the destructive part. This can be rooted through deep silent and thought, that's why people who do not talk always are meant to be feared more. Cos, once the thought comes, they don't even think twice before doing whatever came to their minds.
Wish I have strength to write epistles.

It appears that you subscribe to hasty generalisation in making your points. It may be limiting to you, if not hazardous.

Statements you make, like 'people who do not talk always are meant to be feared more...' and 'people ruin their lives by their own stupidity...' demonstrate a limited view on things if not a mild lack of empathy ( and that's stating it kindly)

Some of the greatest minds and most outstanding individuals that the world has seen were introverts; naturally quiet people.

Then turn on the news, if you will, to see people's lives being ruined and even lost on a daily basis, not of their own accord at all or 'stupidity'.

If you were a dude, I'd be more blunt with you. Or can I?

Well some reasons y men wept during wedding.one:"nawa o,so I don leave womanizing behind "
2:"so dis day has finally come,I am now somebody's husband;like play like play,dat small me don come chaiiii dis is it",....dats d reason I know of....if unknow of any,add urs

sowilli:
when you imagine the beatings and slaps that will be unveiled in future... you can’t but cry �

loooool

Me that I yam busy looking at the money people are spraying me to be sure that I will recover the money I spent on the wedding. When will I have chance to cry?

iammo:



This is why fulani people flog all suitors so as to weed out crying idiiotic Groom from marrying their daughters.

Yeye kind of men that their wives screws ontop in Amazonia position and they moan like a goat under a woman

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Men don't moan, oga

Biglittlelois:
How does crying means he's a psycho? Mumu everywhere.

Men do cry, of course. But it'll be weird for a man to cry at his wedding. That would be really weird.

I don't believe such, she should be sued for using that picture. A man can become emotional and drop some tears on wedding day, no big deal.

I agree completely.

Tessyama1:
Controversial Nigerian feminist, Ozzy Etomi has revealed her theory about men who cry at their weddings.

According to her, she believes wholeheartedly that they have tendencies to be psychos.

"I have a theory about men who cry at their weddings.

There's nothing intellectual about the theory. I just think they have the tendency to be psychos. Don't ask me why, I don't know, but I believe it wholeheartedly." She wrote.

http://www.amagitesblog.com/2019/05/men-who-cry-at-their-weddings-have-psycho-tendencies-nigerian-lady.html

QueenSekxy:

This is one of the reasons some of you die in deep pains, lonely life full of misery and frustration. What's there in expressing feelings? Even animals shed tears when they loose their beloved ones or stuff like that. Is not shedding tears your definition of manliness? You African men with some stupid ideologies and awful massage of wanton egos.

You really need to be tested by rubbing some ghana pepper in your eyes.

I love you for this

Tessyama1:
Controversial Nigerian feminist, Ozzy Etomi has revealed her theory about men who cry at their weddings.

According to her, she believes wholeheartedly that they have tendencies to be psychos.

"I have a theory about men who cry at their weddings.

There's nothing intellectual about the theory. I just think they have the tendency to be psychos. Don't ask me why, I don't know, but I believe it wholeheartedly." She wrote.

http://www.amagitesblog.com/2019/05/men-who-cry-at-their-weddings-have-psycho-tendencies-nigerian-lady.html

I have a theory about people who make obtuse posts on SM.

There’s nothing intellectual about the theory. I just think they have a tendency to be effing idi*ts. Don’t ask me why, I don’t know but I believe it wholeheartedly.

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He cries because he re the stress he went through to have his bride next to him. He re how frustrating it feels, having that one woman, who will make his world tick and meaningful. He cries because he has finally found his soul mate. He's simply a comionate man Not a psycho.
To some people marrying whom u truly love and want to be with is not easy to find. It's a herculean task.