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My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice (8880 Views)
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Yupng: 9:25pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
Dear Stella, Trust you had a good night rest. Straight to my point. Last week i found out that my ex (first love) is currently made partner with my husband. I found out when he invited DH and myself for a private dinner. Imagine my shock when i saw him. He was in attendance with his wife and strangely we had close resemblance. My ex was a man who didn't like make up or attachment. He loved light skinned (natural) ladies and this wife is exactly that. She was quite receptive all through the meal.i asked to use the restroom and while washing up when my Ex showed up asking if i was fine. I shrugged as i recalled he broke up with me back in uni. I gave a weak smile and was walking back to the living room when he grabbed me from behind, kissed me by the neck ( my weakest point), i still tried to quietly walk away when he pinned me to the wall and kissed me ionately. I still tried restraining myself but before i could break off him, he already had his hand inside my business! I was jolted back to reality when i heard DH scream my name. This was so embarrassing, he stormed out of their house while i ran after him. All through in the car, he kept so quiet i wished i knew what he was thinking. We got to our house and he went straight to the guest room. I was so ashamed of myself i felt to go intensify my pleading. He refused to even turn or respond. I became unsure and so scared. So i thought to leave him till he calmed down. At the door he threw a question at me ' did you consent to that'? ... I stood there ashamed while trying to find words. I knelt down to plead and the last thing i expected came flying at me! DH hit me for the first time ever and i could feel blood in my mouth! He dragged me by the hair and forced me severally. He called me a LovePeddler as he was thrusting like a wild beast. DH had always been so ionate i could swear he could never hurt a fly. When he was done, he spilled his cum all over my face and hair while calling me a 'filthy LovePeddler' continuously. I began to feel intense pain and cramps in my abdomen. I curled up in tears and all shaken. He left the room and i just slept there on the tiled cold floor till daybreak. I summoned some strength and i realised i had urinated on myself. My maid walked into the guest room and found me. She helped clean me up and put me in bed. The following day was a Sunday and DH ministered in the absence of the pastor in charge. I was too ashamed to even look him in the eye on the pulpit. He did an alter call and to the gaze of all i stepped out to rededicate my life. After service, you could imagine my surprise as he ignored me and i had to drive home by myself while he stayed back at the church. I thought to make it up and picked up lunch for him as his Sundays are usually busy. I drove back to church and his secretary said he was in a meeting. I waited and decided to sit in the car when i saw DH step out of building with a lady who giggled and acted like they were lovers. I stormed out of the car so she could see me as she stepped into her car. I followed DH back into his office asking about the lady and he told me clearly that is his mistress. This is 4 months later and the many nights he did not come home to sleep and the late night calls. I had cut ties with my ex from the very night it happened and i never gave room for further . DH has only friends in the church and i am scared of confiding in anyone to help me plead as washing our laundry publicly can ruin both our lives. Please, i know i messed up but how do i resolve all these. I love him very much.I need help. Culled from : www.yup.ng |
Re: My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:26pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
This story was baked, fried, boiled, steamed and then roasted.. What a cooked story!! 34 Likes |
Yupng: 9:29pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
It is actually a real life story. QueenBelle: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:31pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
Yupng:pinshurs or video or evidence ing this story else... 6 Likes |
itchie: 9:39pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
Which advice you dey find again? A cheat that has been caught cannot be uncaught ![]() 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Adasun(m): 9:41pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
hw would da lady hear my advice na? It's so precious and i can't spil it any hw |
overdrive(m): 9:50pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
Yupng:try to acknowledge sdk blog for the story.inugo 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:51pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
sounds like those joro stories
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daben1(m): 9:54pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
your husband is a very gentle man... the only only reason I go call you the next day(definitely you're not coming to my house) Na to ask if Na your parents house dem go pack your loads come give you abi your ex house,.. then I delete your number forever, life is that simple!
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Re: My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 10:08pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
itchie:She can not be uncaught brotherly. ![]() As far as I'm concerned, she gave the consent because if not, a resounding slap on the face of the ex or a hit at his scrotum would've made him back off. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Betakeshi: 10:38pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
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Re: My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 10:58pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
QueenBelle: ![]() You said it all 1 Like |
humbleafolabi20(m): 11:05pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
I don`t even want to read the content of your crazy story the headline alone is enough for me to tell you Say my Sister na God go punish u oooo.... e sweet u sotay your husband caught you.... did they caught you abi he didn`t caught you?. Infact plenty slap fall on you... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Yupng: 11:09pm On Nov 02, 2018 |
Make una take am easy na.. Haba. ![]() |
davostar: 12:42am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Nice Baked Story. You're a good writer
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Re: My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 1:48am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Yupng: Okay we get it, you're not the author. So you believe it really happened? smh 2 Likes |
falcon01: 2:10am On Nov 03, 2018 |
QueenBelle:and it's still not tasty 1 Like |
openmine(m): 2:34am On Nov 03, 2018 |
This is very strong Its just that once a person is caught cheating,it will be assumed by the other partner that such acts have been going on constantly! Nothing kills a soul faster than seeing a hubby or Wifey making out with someone else esp when the love and trust for that person was very strong! Am also quite sure that if she wasn't caught by the hubby that day,she would have had several acts like that with her ex! For me,the best thing for her to do is to plead for forgiveness and hope he forgives her! Thats because no amount of family influence will make him forget that experience...and thats if she is hoping for that option! The hubby may forgive her but in reality,it will be hard to forget that scene! It will keep playing in his head like a broken record! 1 Like |
Ishilove: 4:58am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Tales by moonlight. Hints and Hearts stories keep coming back to life in various disguises. True Tales Publications. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 6:28am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Mtcheewww, women just like give you hatred Saying they love you. You love me you're cheating on me okay... ![]() |
Re: My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 6:56am On Nov 03, 2018 |
You should have told him u never consented to d assault. She should have kept quiet through it all.
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Johnchizoba(m): 7:45am On Nov 03, 2018 |
itchie: Lol. That is hash 1 Like |
Johnchizoba(m): 7:48am On Nov 03, 2018 |
daben1: Hahahahahahahahaha. No be so. E no go dey easy like that. |
Mankosi: 7:57am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Fairly tales by moonlight.
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daben1(m): 8:00am On Nov 03, 2018 |
Johnchizoba:bros, e go Dey easy like that o, except the house na "her own" |
RUGGEDWEAVER(m): 8:04am On Nov 03, 2018 |
itchie: |
Re: My Husband Caught Me Being Fingered By My Ex, Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 11:34am On Nov 03, 2018 |
This story ehn ![]() |
ericsimons18: 12:08pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
Ok .. there is really nothing to do. If he wants to talk about it .. hes probably gonna forgive but if hes not. Then you have to get on your knees give him a BJ and beg for forgiveness like your life depends on it. make sure he gets bj for at a month.
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Yupng: 2:14pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
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Morbeta11(m): 2:59pm On Nov 03, 2018 |
This is super storyyyy alalalaaalaaaalaa!!!
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