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She went back to him and had twins for hin and he told her he wont marry her lol. When we call una airheads una go vex

rosieluv:

beeebi Howfar na

carpmam:
I don't know for u people o but as for me ,I like being in gud with all my ex,they always comes handy if konji come,all u have to do is to pick ur phone,greet them,chit chat with them,and to be emotional during the chat,and then invite her for a hot sex

Werey leleyi

my friend's fiance not only calls his ex. he tells the girl things about him before she hears it. the lady advises him on things to do. she calls him in her presence and he picks and they talk freely without even respecting her . they see on daily basis. she always complain to me that she feels being used. the love she has for the man keep on dying everyday.

keeping in touch with an ex is disrespectful to the new person in your life. simple.

creamylicious:
i delete ex number immediately .... my only problem is they chat me up on whats app.... one still pays me a visit till date

re you married? If no then it's because you're not yet married that's why he pays you a visit..

EJanni:
my friend's fiance not only calls his ex. he tells the girl things about him before she hears it. the lady advises him on things to do. she calls him in her presence and he picks and they talk freely without even respecting her . they see on daily basis. she always complain to me that she feels being used. the love she has for the man keep on dying everyday.

keeping in touch with an ex is disrespectful to the new person in your life. simple.

your friend needs to open up before things fall apart. Anything that scattered before can still be arranged again if your friend is trying to be a good girl and a peaceful one cos she's trying to keep her relationship.
Is your friend not wise enough to give him a special educative advice. Abeg relationship is not do or die, if he's not the person for ur friend, Pls tell ur friend to let him go rather than keeping someone who's hurting her emotionally.

Oh

emmysoftyou:
your friend needs to open up before things fall apart. Anything that scattered before can still be arranged again if your friend is trying to be a good girl and a peaceful one cos she's trying to keep her relationship.
Is your friend not wise enough to give him a special educative advice. Abeg relationship is not do or die, if he's not the person for ur friend, Pls tell ur friend to let him go rather than keeping someone who's hurting her emotionally.

she said she has done that severally and he promised that he will never have anything to do with her. but d girl will still call even at odd times. she said he deletes the girl chat immediately after every chat. my friend is this soft and easy going girls. maybe that's y that he goat is cashing on her weakness.

OP you are on point
When a girl i love end so call relationship because of One Mistake
and i should be friend with her or keep her s which kind of friendship would that be
Ex is Ex or Nothing
Note You only love once and Marry Once.

EJanni:
she said she has done that severally and he promised that he will never have anything to do with her. but d girl will still call even at odd times. she said he deletes the girl chat immediately after every chat. my friend is this soft and easy going girls. maybe that's y that he goat is cashing on her weakness.

this relationship is not an assurance relationship. You as her friend, you have to save her, do everything at your disposal to save your friend if you really care about her. It's obvious her relationship is shaking but due to her calm and soft hearted being she's, that's why she's still with him and the guy is deluding her.
Before my sister got married, I advised Her not to let go all her suitors or boyfriend cos among the three, you must see the serious one and that's why ladies need to have like two or three boyfriend so she can pick the best out of them.

Note : I'm not saying they should commits fornication and all that but when you know it's time a lady need to settle down, she has the right to pick the serious one cos their time is not the samething with men.

Olalan:
Any body keeping close relationship with an ex is simply seeking a gateway to continue the former relationship

Not rily bruv..to say outrightly u cant b friends wit ir ex is kinda not ...We went our seperate ways wit no fuss..she moved to a different town..traveled to were she stayed last month...We caught up..laughed hard n fvcked harder!..

Dnt burn bridges wit pple man!.Life is funny!..

Nothing like we can be friends, if u guys are quitting relationship, let everybody go their separate ways instead of deceiving each other whereas emotions is still there.

HARDDON:
A man can always trace his way back into the forest he has visited before!

He knows the look to give to wet them panties, where to touch, how to touch, what to say to melt to the ice and then, there is the little ish of Jrod missing Vclef most especially if they had hawt cUm1ng sessions! You stand no chance!
They can read your heart's heat just by a little look into your eyes.
Infact, the id1ats see you n4ked no matter the battalion of clothes you come robed in.

Sure, Exs' can really be best of Friends!


The only benefit is this:

They would be more expressive and tell you exactly what they hid from you while the heat was on. short comings etc and you can really have an h2h convo just that they end up with hawt romps!

From the Don himself...

Some guys are mean. www.schoolcrayon.com

Seen. www.schoolcrayon.com

PLS WHICH ONE IS OKAFORS LAW AGAIN?

OboOlora:
Op, delete the jargon u wrote up there and just quote Okafors law!

But ooooo that your own wife na some people ex she be ooooo so if you think you know OKAFOR'S LAW very well other people practice it too.Thats life !

carpmam:
I don't know for u people o but as for me ,I like being in gud with all my ex,they always comes handy if konji come,all u have to do is to pick ur phone,greet them,chit chat with them,and to be emotional during the chat,and then invite her for a hot sex

Hmmm, your first love, especially you happened to be the one who broke her virginity, brother u re a stained that won't be clean off. Some ex are hard to drop off, even in ur grave, u will still receive text messages from her

Some ex are good to keep around, some you need to run far away from them

To think I spent more than 4 hours chatting with the dude yesterday.

But that one dey sha...we both know we have unfinished business.

Crixina:
To think I spent more than 4 hours chatting with the dude yesterday.

But that one dey sha...we both know we have unfinished business.

Kindly explain "unfinished business"?

alexistaiwo:


Kindly explain "unfinished business"?

it's obvious, we both have no business being exes.

Crixina:
it's obvious, we both have no business being exes.

Don't know if it is the cold weather but my comprehension skill is not working at full speed this afternoon.

"we both know that we have no business being exes" can mean two things.

Are you thinking of getting back together or cutting him off entirely?

alexistaiwo:


Don't know if it is the cold weather but my comprehension skill is not working at full speed this afternoon.

"we both know that we have no business being exes" can mean two things.

Are you thinking of getting back together or cutting him off entirely?

Baba, you worry o
I guess we couldn't have spent more than 4 hours chatting cos we want to pretend we are just friends now just like the OP pointed out.

I think it's a ploy to get back.

Crixina:
Baba, you worry o
I guess we couldn't have spent more than 4 hours chatting cos we want to pretend we are just friends now just like the OP pointed out.

I think it's a ploy to get back.

Are you okay with taking him back?

Sorry if I come across as too being too inquisitive.
I talk with my ex every single day and it seems like for every call my hatred for her increase by 10 folds

alexistaiwo:


Are you okay with taking him back?

Sorry if I come across as too being too inquisitive.
I talk with my ex every single day and it seems like for every call my hatred for her increase by 10 folds

Are you serious?
So why talk to her?

PS we are derailing the thread I think

Crixina:
Are you serious?
So why talk to her?

We were together for a long time.
Nowadays I just call her sometimes out of habit.
Calling her is like a reflex action to me.
Told her not to see my calling as trying to woo her back but because "otimora"



PS. Derailing as how, the thread is about exes and we are talking about our ex

alexistaiwo:


We were together for a long time.
Nowadays I just call her sometimes out of habit.
Calling her is like a reflex action to me.
Told her not to see my calling as trying to woo her back but because "otimora"



PS. Derailing as how, the thread is about exes and we are talking about our ex

Check that reflex...force of habit ish, it could just be screaming "there's still something between us and I really don't know how to handle it".

Seeking a friendship of ur ex after breakup is just a way of nacking each other from time to time again ni joor

Crixina:
Check that reflex...force of habit ish, it could just be screaming "there's still something between us and I really don't know how to handle it".

Okay..
I will do exactly as advised.
Thanks and have a nice day.

Life is personal. Once i break up i keep all doors locked n move on. If we meet we greet, if she ask for my help i render the way i render to others. I don't cee need for any friendship

Biglittlelois:
There is no point being in touch with ur ex, not saying u should keep malice but when you both cross path physically, just say hi and move on, dont even have his/her number or whatsapp, seeing that will bring feelings and temptation, ur ex is your ex, let bygone be bygone.

Just hope is coming from d heart because d level of hypocrisy in our country is alarming.