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Chloekim:
I'm proud of them. I'm proud to be a witness of Jehovah like the couples.

Abeg, what is the steps to marry a Jehovan witness lady?

I heard that you don't approach the intended partner by yourself just like Deeper life.

Abeg confirm for me. I dey eye one JW lady for my area.

Simple and straight to the point...

You must not break the bank because you want to have a wedding

NextGovernor:
Non be by clothes. Na by understanding and living happily after marriage.

If na by clothes and extravangant marriage take dey last.
Where is Totoh and Churchill marriage today?
Where is Franklin Ubi marriage today?
I can keep counting hundreds of A-listed marriage ceremonies that crash in less than 5years.

TONTO not totoh, haba na

Kendroid:


Ezatily.....I once dated a girl that kept on talking about her white wedding, describing the kinda gown she wonna wear and how the gown will expose disandat until the very day we broke, in fact whenever i need her to smile, i talk about how lavish her wedding will be...

The tin kinda turns her ON

The funny part, ask her what would be her contributions in the elaborate wedding, absolutely nothing.

noskcid:
Some people sha
A young woman putting on a white dress for her wedding shows that she's untouched, a virgin, clean and unadulterated.
Not the olosho in disguise oo
A virgin girl is to put on a white dress for her wedding because white represents something that's not defiled yet.

true talk but when is time for u to marry offer cream color or orange to ur bride because u know about her abortions and exes and the escapades on Facebook...

If she agrees your negotiating prowess will be needed in yemen and Syria �����

UbanmeUdie:




Africans have no mind of their own. Inferiority complex is still a plague amongst us with no vaccine nor cure for it yet.

For an African, white wedding is only a display of foolishness. The most important part of a wedding is parental consent and acceptance of bride price.

I think many Nigerian youth should do a little research on the history of weddings as obtainable in different parts of the world.

The subtle use of 'church wedding' instead of white wedding is what has affected the brains of Africans.

There is no such thing as church wedding!
Someone should please point it out from the bible. I think this is where we need Daddy freeze.

What is obtainable from Isaac and Rebekah, Jacob and Rachel is simply a traditional wedding. The wedding at Cana in John 3 where Jesus was a guest was a traditional wedding.

Now, I am not against exchange of marital vows in church and prophetic blessings for the marriage, however how we go about it is wrong!

We end up conducting two different wedding ceremonies for a couple.

I think the christian faith has got it all wrong as far as weddings is concerned in Africa. Because what we are suffering now is simply a conflict between the church and our tradition. Let everyone getting married invite their pastor to the tradition wedding to pray and lead them in exchange of marital vows after bride price has been paid or do so on Sunday in church during thanksgiving for the wedding.


The suit and the wedding gown is totally the white man's tradition and wedding ritual.

The couple above had it simple and worthy of an applause!

To buttress your point, the only forms of marriage recognized in the Bible are Traditional marriage (as you gave examples) and Court marriage.. That was why people like Deborah, Gideon and even Samson were able to bless unions. They were Judges.

NextGovernor:
Non be by clothes. Na by understanding and living happily after marriage.

If na by clothes and extravangant marriage take dey last.
Where is Totoh and Churchill marriage today?
Where is Franklin Ubi marriage today?
I can keep counting hundreds of A-listed marriage ceremonies that crash in less than 5years.

The greatest wedding ever witnessed in this our generation was Diana and Charles. What happened to the marriage.

Nonsense world.

I love their simplicity
May Jah bless the union.

kelechisblog:
Their church be jehova's witness nah (ama jehova).
Na their style

I'm a Jehovah's witness and it's not 'our style as you said.

Jehovah's witnesses elders would tell you before you get married to do so according to your pocket

Family of the bride would even be told to be extremely moderate in their demand for bride price and bride wealth

They tell you to life begins after the wedding not before or during the wedding

You may even face judicial if you incur debt after wedding and people start dragging you for your indebtedness

So, basically in JW, if you have money, large wedding and if you dont, have small wedding

ANd congregation would be told not to get offended if they are not invited, it simply means the couple is managing according to their finances and we all respect that.

Oyindidi:
The pulpit though

Lmao I actually didn't notice until I read your post.

Lols.

Tor

phoenix23401:
Im no witness, but i must say i am impressed with thier style... Personally they are the best christian denomination, they are a true representation of what Christianity should be, meekness and simplicity

Bros na true you talk, e be like say jehovah witnesses are the true christians o. Those guys understand the scriptures, but our pastors will be like they are not christians, so we shouldnt listen to them. If we all read our bible, those guys are 97% percent most of the times

designVATExcel:


Lmao I actually didn't notice until I read your post.

Lols.

very funny

ajebuter:


I'm a Jehovah's witness and it's not 'our style as you said.

Jehovah's witnesses elders would tell you before you get married to do so according to your pocket

Family of the bride would even be told to be extremely moderate in their demand for bride price and bride wealth

They tell you to life begins after the wedding not before or during the wedding

You may even face judicial if you incur debt after wedding and people start dragging you for your indebtedness

So, basically in JW, if you have money, large wedding and if you dont, have small wedding

ANd congregation would be told not to get annoyed if you are not invited, it simply means they are managing their finances

Ajebutter, how does a Non-JW get a JW lady for genuine reasons by following una due process.?
What are the due processes?
Because I sure say that lady no go ever gree if I no follow due process.

Afritop:
JEHOVAH WITNESSES. DOING WEDDINGS AS IF THEY ARE DEFENDING FINAL YEAR PROJECTS

Yes, marriage is a serious matter. Far more serious than final year project.

you can't blame them. that's what they could afford.

Some Abuja runs babe nor go like this one ooh

cstr1000:

Ajebutter, how does a Non-JW get a JW lady for genuine reasons by following una due process.?
What are the due processes?
Because I sure say that lady no go ever gree if I no follow due process.

See this agbaya!

She is right.I Christianity. White weeding gown signified purity and is suppose to be worn by virgin brides.but non virgin brides goes for coloured.that's the law

Happy marriage life to them but I no won ear later say I stabbed him cuz he cheated me by doing small wedding when he promised me a carnival like wedding o

With my level of education, personality and beauty, i cant go for this,

A presidential wedding is my taste. I cant marry a man that cant give me one million monthly for upkeep.

This a pure Ipob style of wedding. Hungry man wedding.

Elnino4ladies:
I love their simplicity

May Jah bless the union.

Yes may JEHOVAH bless the union. They have brought praise to his name.

ajebuter:


See this agbaya!

Why na?

This is not good o.

gretblue:

The funny part, ask her what would be her contributions in the elaborate wedding, absolutely nothing.

Lols, she hardly even talk about the provisions...

All she knows is where she would do her wedding, the kinda wedding dress to wear, and blah blah blah...we sef go just sidon dey look...

mtss Nairaland should be rename to AmeboLand.
So what do u what us to do!

Spanner4:



A fat lie

People like that you simply ignore them. He even commented off topic.

Spanner4:



A fat lie

People like that; you simply ignore them. He even commented off topic.

Kendroid:


Lols, she hardly even talk about the provisions...

All she knows is where she would do her wedding, the kinda wedding dress to wear, and blah blah blah...we sef go just sidon dey look...

You have simply made a good decision.

Investnow2017:

Yes may JEHOVAH bless the union. They have brought praise to his name.

Exactly bro.

Simple

The guy for just wear boxers and polo too to complete the equation.

This must be Jehovah witness wedding, they dont believe in so many things