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Is It Right For My Wifes Cousin To Bring His Girlfriend To Sleep Over? - Family - Nairaland 1m5br
Is It Right For My Wifes Cousin To Bring His Girlfriend To Sleep Over? (1583 Views)
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| javadoctor(m): 7:32pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
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Is it right? I have been married for 3 months plus and I'm not very close with the cousin, please respond.
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| delishpot: 7:39pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
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In the same house or bq of the house?
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| ojun50(m): 7:42pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
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3 month after marriage ke u better talk to yr wife nd hv a finally say. Visitors should come after one year of marriage. Jst give her 3 days if she refuse u can do html on yr mind. |
| UndisputedBosom(m): 7:45pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
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It can mean any other night with you occupyin ur mind with ur wife only.....and stop thinkin outta box 
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| javadoctor(m): 8:08pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
delishpot: In the same house, I hv a guest room nd quite spacious parlor. |
| thorpido(m): 8:14pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
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It's not right.You have just been newly married,can't he give you guys some space?
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| delishpot: 8:19pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
javadoctor: Very wrong. What does your wife say about this? Why does she bring in so eone you are not even close to? Understand if she has a sibling or relative you guys have adopted as one of you. But to bring in a stranger who in turn brings in strange women. Hmn...... to me O, it isn't nice. He should at least respect himself Na. |
| Berbierklaus(f): 8:24pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
javadoctor:What insolence  What is your wife's cousin doing in your house just 3 months after your wedding  Why are Nigerians like this 
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| javadoctor(m): 8:42pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
Berbierklaus: Lol, truth is he has been here once, and maybe thought I would be cool with idea, I'm a quite simple person,but this didn't seem right when my wife confronted me about it. Thanks @ least I know what steps to take |
| Berbierklaus(f): 8:57pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
javadoctor:You have to take that step fast and take control of your "ship" asap. |
| diportivo: 9:52pm On Sep 15, 2016 |
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Ppl talking about the duration of the marriage So if its 10yrs old marriage now,people can be bringing strangers to the house As Saturday go be,na from Friday we dey sabi You wldnt bring the matter here if u were comfy with it....stamp ur foot down and take that decision u wanna take Those wey neva marry wey dey make mouth upandan,when e reach una turn we go see d stunt wey una go pull 
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| lightheart(m): 8:21am On Sep 16, 2016 |
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It's not right. And never will be right. Gosh! How values are fast eroding!! |
| RealJaneDoe: 8:52am On Sep 16, 2016 |
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You guys are newlyweds you need some privacy
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| southernbelle(f): 9:42am On Sep 16, 2016 |
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Imagine that! It's not right, he should respect you, his cousin and your marriage. This handshake has extended beyond the elbow, I am sure your younger brother (if you have one) will think twice before bringing his girlfriend to your house with your wife in it. Some people have no sense of propriety.
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| delishpot: 9:59am On Sep 16, 2016 |
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I just wonder though, if it we're the wife making this complain about her husbands strange cousin living with them...... would people have stood behind her to say it is wrong, kick him out. Or would they have called her many unprintable names and said she was a bad wife, a modern wife and a family breaker? A lady created a post about someone, a stranger living in her home and misbehaving, many NL ers insulted her, called her names and even asked her to serve the young man cos he would not live with them forever. I can see how lopsided peoples judgements are bas d on gender of the person making the complaint 2 Likes |
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