NewStats: 3,264,088 , 8,182,559 topics. Date: Monday, 09 June 2025 at 03:55 PM 2h3j4k

BlessedFellow:


I think it took up to a month before she began to show him some green light. She switched off her phone for a couple of days at some point because she was not "interested".

A month nd my is getting to 9months nd d guy refuse to give up.

Congrat to ur frnd so wen r we coming to chop ur own wedding cake nd white rice wit stew.

zicoraads:

You are a single mum, right? My question is, does the same 'rules' apply in asking a single mum out like it does with other ladies? When a guy asks you out, what are the things you look out for to even start considering his proposal?

yes i am.. uhmm well its almost basically the same thing except for the fact that the guy has to put d kid in d picture n be ready to accept us (my baby n I) Its like hes gonna b askin d two of us out lol..I

I won't date a guy who isnt comfy wt me or us (him n me) spending time togeda wt my kid. Truth to b told, id love to date a guy who got more interst in my kid more dan he does for me. Me thinks dats the major thing am gon look out for before d other normal qualities every other ladies look out like looks, xter, religion etc.. I dnt mind overlookin his flaws lol bt im sure a guy who loves my kid much wldnt treat me bad. My kid is like my life, he comes first n anythn happns to him den im dead lol.. well u might think im exaggerating bt you wld understand this wen u get a kid of ur own

optional1:



1. U official dat means u not friendly, u strict, u behaviour lyk a boss too much, u dont give her space to talk nd ask questions. U wat her to obey all u say. My idea sha

2. Is there any need of telling her u wat a free sex relationship? Well u can tell her u wat a free sex relationship after u might av win her over. If after telling her she got angry nd left no she is not ready for u but if after telling her she still stay no dat she is for u nd she is ready to do anytin to make u happy. My idea sha

3. If u r too innocent for her then break up wit her cos one way or d other she wil b cheating on u. Cos she wat a bad guy nd not a good guy, u will only b her bank manager till she finally dump u herself. My idea nd opinion sha.

the number is very true we don't play am more of an introvert.ur points are very valid i appreciate it thanks.

cherryice:
yes i am.. uhmm well its almost basically the same thing except for the fact that the guy has to put d kid in d picture n be ready to accept us (my baby n I) Its like hes gonna b askin d two of us out lol..I

I won't date a guy who isnt comfy wt me or us (him n me) spending time togeda wt my kid. Truth to b told, id love to date a guy who got more interst in my kid more dan he does for me. Me thinks dats the major thing am gon look out for before d other normal qualities every other ladies look out like looks, xter, religion etc.. I dnt mind overlookin his flaws lol bt im sure a guy who loves my kid much wldnt treat me bad. My kid is like my life, he comes first n anythn happns to him den im dead lol.. well u might think im exaggerating bt you wld understand this wen u get a kid of ur own

Awww that's so sweet cherry.

cherryice:
I dnt think its right for her to b jealous of d fact dat u get things for ur mum and how r u so sure shes nt really pissed at d fact that u act like mummy's boy. Maybe u do, dats asides d gettin of stuffs for her. Sm gals dont like it when their man is always callin mum at every slightest dscussion (mummy's boy ish. Nd I wldnt like dat either..

well to answer ur question, Iol I hv never dated a guy whose got dat kinnna close attachments to his mum, bt I think if I happn to date one, I wldnt like it either. Its ok to get ur mum stuffs, bt mentionin her first in everythn, so not cool. We as ur girls too want u to sometimes make us first n dats not bad

Sorry, you mean a man should sometimes relegate his mum and place his gf first? hmmm

I'm not a mummy boy but personally that's the last thing I would do. Can't even place a supposed wife ahead of my mum, a wife that came from nowhere and not knowing how my mum suffered to bring me up not to talk of a mere gf that might even be cheating on me.
Over my dead body!

BlessedFellow:


I think it took up to a month before she began to show him some green light. She switched off her phone for a couple of days at some point because she was not "interested".

Your friend is going to have trust issues with his wife....he will always be scared someone can take her from him the same way........and it's highly possible she was still sleeping with her ex.......right till before the wedding

optional1:



A month nd my is getting to 9months nd d guy refuse to give up.

Congrat to ur frnd so wen r we coming to chop ur own wedding cake nd white rice wit stew.

Maybe the guy don see "vision" say na you be him "special one" na im make am still dey around.

I still dey gather the money. Hopefully, at some point next year.

Rexhenrex:
the number is very true we don't play am more of an introvert.ur points are very valid i appreciate it thanks.

At ur service sir.

Laveda:


Awww that's so sweet cherry.

thanks swerry

@ivyy I asked a followed up question to the first you answered, why was it ignored? Don't tell me it took you off balance. lol

cherryice:
thanks swerry

You're welcome..

I love the level you place him when I have mine I'd treat him better.

BlessedFellow:


Some guys believe there are no single girls. They will tell you any girls in high school upwards has at least an "assistant bf". They believe in "displacement" by their persistence.

guys like that needs to be flogged


Hope u aint part of dem

Stephandeswardt:



Your friend is going to have trust issues with his wife....he will always be scared someone can take her from him the same way........and it's highly possible she was still sleeping with her ex.......right till before the wedding

She's a good girl. They were both married as virgins.

KINGinVALHALA3:

Sorry, you mean a man should sometimes relegate his mum and place his gf first? hmmm

I'm not a mummy boy but personally that's the last thing I would do. Can't even place a supposed wife ahead of my mum, a wife that came from nowhere and not knowing how my mum suffered to bring me up not to talk of a mere gf that might even be cheating on me.
Over my dead body!

who said anyone shd do relegate his mum n place his gf first? Cos I never said dat... That you taking care of ur gfs need doesnt mean u hate mum nor does takin care of mumsy needs mean u dont care for ur gf/wife..all im saying is both parties needs to be loved n cared for. U can decide to place ur mum first but still dont allow ur girl lack d love n care u ought to gv her. Thats all im sayin..

my own is that, the constant bringin mumsy issue up all in d time in a rrelationship is not too cool. Thats when I said d girl is allowed to b pissed if that happns. Hope u get my point

cherryice:
yes i am.. uhmm well its almost basically the same thing except for the fact that the guy has to put d kid in d picture n be ready to accept us (my baby n I) Its like hes gonna b askin d two of us out lol..I

I won't date a guy who isnt comfy wt me or us (him n me) spending time togeda wt my kid. Truth to b told, id love to date a guy who got more interst in my kid more dan he does for me. Me thinks dats the major thing am gon look out for before d other normal qualities every other ladies look out like looks, xter, religion etc.. I dnt mind overlookin his flaws lol bt im sure a guy who loves my kid much wldnt treat me bad. My kid is like my life, he comes first n anythn happns to him den im dead lol.. well u might think im exaggerating bt you wld understand this wen u get a kid of ur own

awww! Nw u gna make me cry

cherryice:
who said anyone shd do relegate his mum n place his gf first? Cos I never said dat... That you taking care of ur gfs need doesnt mean u hate mum nor does takin care of mumsy needs mean u dont care for ur gf/wife..all im saying is both parties needs to be loved n cared for. U can decide to place ur mum first but still dont allow ur girl lack d love n care u ought to gv her. Thats all im sayin..

my own is that, the constant bringin mumsy issue up all in d time in a rrelationship is not too cool. Thats when I said d girl is allowed to b pissed if that happns. Hope u get my point

have heard u. . . . .jealousy gal

Laveda:

You're welcome..

I love the level you place him when I have mine I'd treat him better.

Lol its nt rocket science bae. Im telling u dat immediately you hear d cry of ur child durin d birth there's a whole new feeling.. u feel like theres a whole new you

thanks dearie.. hey we stl hv our deal huh, ur first beautiful daughter n my son huh?

pbs4real:
have heard u. . . . .jealousy gal

I was tryna explain to d other guy who quoted me. Not u

cherryice:
yes i am.. uhmm well its almost basically the same thing except for the fact that the guy has to put d kid in d picture n be ready to accept us (my baby n I) Its like hes gonna b askin d two of us out lol..I

I won't date a guy who isnt comfy wt me or us (him n me) spending time togeda wt my kid. Truth to b told, id love to date a guy who got more interst in my kid more dan he does for me. Me thinks dats the major thing am gon look out for before d other normal qualities every other ladies look out like looks, xter, religion etc.. I dnt mind overlookin his flaws lol bt im sure a guy who loves my kid much wldnt treat me bad. My kid is like my life, he comes first n anythn happns to him den im dead lol.. well u might think im exaggerating bt you wld understand this wen u get a kid of ur own

Awww

cherryice:
yes i am.. uhmm well its almost basically the same thing except for the fact that the guy has to put d kid in d picture n be ready to accept us (my baby n I) Its like hes gonna b askin d two of us out lol..I

I won't date a guy who isnt comfy wt me or us (him n me) spending time togeda wt my kid. Truth to b told, id love to date a guy who got more interst in my kid more dan he does for me. Me thinks dats the major thing am gon look out for before d other normal qualities every other ladies look out like looks, xter, religion etc.. I dnt mind overlookin his flaws lol bt im sure a guy who loves my kid much wldnt treat me bad. My kid is like my life, he comes first n anythn happns to him den im dead lol.. well u might think im exaggerating bt you wld understand this wen u get a kid of ur own

shey i tell u say i dey cum china? Get ready!

How do you ladies cope with more than one boyfriend?

iykekelvins:
Awww

cherryice:
I was tryna explain to d other guy who quoted me. Not u

i knw,i act quote u cos i ask u that questn first, anyways hope ur boy aint stubborn?

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yes there won't be any war....... in Yoruba land its the wives family that spend more money, the husband only spends money on maybe cow, or if he feels like he'll contribute

pbs4real:
shey i tell u say i dey cum china? Get ready!

Lol

cherryice:
Lol its nt rocket science bae. Im telling u dat immediately you hear d cry of ur child durin d birth there's a whole new feeling.. u feel like theres a whole new you

thanks dearie.. hey we stl hv our deal huh, ur first beautiful daughter n my son huh?

Can't wait

Deal hun I just hope your son won't be much older then.

[quote author=sosa993 post=46262787][/quote]this one nah awuf nah.

pbs4real:
lemme tel u one little secret, i NEVER take NO for an answer. I dnt give up until my Last bullet. . .

Lol when u try for ages no body go tell u

BlessedFellow:


Maybe the guy don see "vision" say na you be him "special one" na im make am still dey around.

I still dey gather the money. Hopefully, at some point next year.

Lol VISION 2020 I guess.




By nxt year hopefully tomatoes wil b cheap so plenty of stew on top of d rice.

All d best!

mzhorlah:
guys like that needs to be flogged


Hope u aint part of dem

Haha! Not at all. I have never done such before. Once a girl tells me no because she has a bf even if she's forming hard to get, I go just close the file. No time to waste.

Laveda:


Can't wait

Deal hun I just hope your son won't be much older then.

hehehe he'd b 6 ds year

Atleast 10yrs difference wont b much na that is if u get married in 4yrs time n gv birth dat same year which I know wont evn b upto 4yrs abi?

pbs4real:
this one nah awuf nah.

don't get u