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Relationship: Help, My Hubby Comes Too Quickly by Nobody: 8:43am On Jul 08, 2015
After only five years of marriage, my husband seems not to be interested in sex— at least with me! We didn’t have sex before we married for religious reasons, but since we’ve been together, he’s avoided getting intimate.

I always have to make the first move or dress up to tempt him. The few times we do have sex, it is over so quickly in about a minute and I end up unsatisfied. Please help!

Jumoke, by e-mailcartoon-mother

Dear Jumoke,

I can hear your disappoint-ment! You must be feeling a lot of frustration right now. You’ve waited until marriage to have sex and now your husband doesn’t appear to be up to the task. It would be easy to blame yourself, but this almost certainly says more about your husband.

If sex is very quick, then he may be suffering from premature ejaculation. This is a condition where a man ejaculates within a minute or so of getting an erection; sometimes so quickly that penetration isn’t possible.

It is estimated that 40 percent of men suffer premature ejaculation at some point. Sometimes it is temporary, but for others it is a lifelong condition— causing a lot of frustration to both partners.

Sexual problems can be difficult to cope with and for some, it is easier to avoid sex than face up to the truth. Your husband may be avoiding intimacy because he doesn’t want to let you down again and feel the disappointment of not being all he knows you’d like him to be.

The good news is there are treatments for premature ejaculation and new medications on the horizon. All you need to do is persuade your husband to get help from his doctor. Find a relaxed time to tell him how you’re feeling and suggest you see the doctor with him if it helps.

Let's contribute our own advice to help her..
Re: Relationship: Help, My Hubby Comes Too Quickly by Nobody: 8:45am On Jul 08, 2015
hehehehehehe
Young03(m): 8:45am On Jul 08, 2015
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Bugatie(m): 8:46am On Jul 08, 2015
He comes too quickly, haba, just run him aboniki.

@topic, it's difficult to believe that a man who rarely gets the urge to make love will cum so quickly, I can say his non interest in having sex might have to do with his lack of confidence, knowing he is just a one minute man.
BANGERLEE1(m): 8:47am On Jul 08, 2015
If he comes fast fast u to go fast fast... Abi no be spelling be ur problem u go learn when pple come in now!
Re: Relationship: Help, My Hubby Comes Too Quickly by Nobody: 8:48am On Jul 08, 2015
[size=18pt]TRY STAY ONTOP, IT WUD MAKE HIM Come SLOWLY[/size]
piicity(m): 8:49am On Jul 08, 2015
Piicity Post=35617134:
wetin be this,if he comes everyday,no be say he love you
naijaboiy: 8:50am On Jul 08, 2015
When they say have a little knowledge of yourselves sexually,,you'll say NO.

Now see the wahala on ground. undecided
falconey(m): 8:53am On Jul 08, 2015
naijaboiy:
When they say have a little knowledge of yourselves sexually,,you'll say NO.

Now see the wahala on ground. undecided

detective are you advocating pre-marital sex?
naijaboiy: 8:54am On Jul 08, 2015
falconey:


detective are you advocating pre-marital sex?
Yes. I'm an advocate of it. cool
falconey(m): 8:58am On Jul 08, 2015
naijaboiy:

Yes. I'm an advocate of it. cool

in that case, you must be walking around with CDs.
naijaboiy: 9:03am On Jul 08, 2015
falconey:


in that case, you must be walking around with CDs.
it doesn't mean I'm a sex machine. grin
Re: Relationship: Help, My Hubby Comes Too Quickly by Nobody: 10:52am On Jul 08, 2015
Tell him to try SANSU natural oil. Rub it around the cap 20mins b4, testimony comes nxt.




Note: no side effect. 100% natural
Celery(m): 8:59pm On Mar 27, 2016
figo05:
Tell him to try SANSU natural oil. Rub it around the cap 20mins b4, testimony comes nxt.




Note: no side effect. 100% natural
How do I get sansu oil to buy in Nigeria
firstking01(m): 9:12pm On Mar 27, 2016
Asin he comes home too quick or what, i dnt gerrit:-/
Re: Relationship: Help, My Hubby Comes Too Quickly by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 27, 2016
Celery:
How do I get sansu oil to buy in Nigeria
Scarce... try some chemist. where in Nigeria r u?

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