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RedEboe:

5. If she's already wearing another man's engagement ring then your chances are brighter: Yes, this is a very controversial point but Nigerian ladies that are already engaged tend to be very vulnerable, relationship wise; they tend to feel as though being on the edge of a cliff and waiting for a 'reasonable voice' to tell them "DON'T JUMP". You can end up being that 'reasonable voice' when you fall in love with a Nigerian lady that is already engaged to another man. Hey, she hasn't said "I do" yet, hence all is fair in love and war. If you really love her, take advantage of her vulnerable state of being engaged and sell yourself as a better product. SHE WILL LISTEN and there's a 49% chance that she'd say "Yes" to you. 49% is NOT a bad probability ratio at all considering the circumstances.

Comments and insults are Welcome.

LOL!!!

This one na one chance you enter . .

She will only string you along as 'Plan B' . . . She will be marrying you if PLAN A dissapoints her . .

No one understands the concept of 'a bird in hand . . .' like a Nigerian lady!.

If it works all ma offsprings will use it ah swear. can't wait for 10yrs (that's when I'll be getting married)

abbey621:
Young men listen up, there's only one sure way to have women swarming over you and that is to have plenty of money, with money comes great confidence and with great confidence comes leadership. Ever wonder why geeks like Bill gates, Zuckerberg and others are able to marry gorgeous chicks, it's simple: Money, Money , Money!!!!! Money will get you the girl, now keeping her is another story

They married smart women, not bimbos, who were with them before they made lots of money.

Cool. True.

Ooh........ My beautiful naija babes

RedEboe:
1. Are you a fine boy? Forget all you've heard, the truth is NIGERIAN GIRLS LOVE HANDSOME MEN. Though many do end up with not-too-handsome dudes, and it's not their fault. A lot of good-looking Nigerian men rely more on their looks and invest little in character and other qualities. 'Ugly men' on the other hand invest a lot in character,wealth and other qualities unrelated to their physicaL appearance. If you are a good-looking guy,but also focused more on character, making good money, God etc, A Nigerian girl will pick you ahead others.

2. Be Bold and Blunt: This may sound ridiculous, but a Nigerian single lady will a total stranger in her subconscious if he walks up to her from nowhere and says, "I think I want to marry you". This does not mean she'll say "Yes" or that you (the stranger) won't get a dirty slap (very unlikely though), she'll most probably laugh, hiss and walk away. This scenario is in the event that you met her at a random public location. If you met this Nigerian lady say in her office, and told her you want to marry her from day one...with subsequent, persistent and follow up visits, she'll say "Yes" in 3 to 6 months.

3. Let your first date be in her parents house: when you've seen a Nigerian lady that you want to marry visit her in her parents or guardian's house first before taking her out to cinemas, malls, beach etc. If she's not staying with parents or guardians, insist on meeting them first (even if dem dey village) . This move/gesture has a psychological effect on Nigerian ladies, makes them let down their guards and take you VERY SERIOUSLY.

4. Ensure your current house is at least a 2 bedroom flat with no male squatters. When a serious Nigerian lady comes to visit you, and she meets a mini-flat with mattresses on the floor and one or two of your guys wearing boxers and 'hailing' her, chances of her marrying you diminishes by 60%. If a more serious suitor walks into her life at that moment,and he lives ALONE in a 2 or 3 bedroom flat, SHE WILL MARRY HIM.

5. If she's already wearing another man's engagement ring then your chances are brighter: Yes, this is a very controversial point but Nigerian ladies that are already engaged tend to be very vulnerable, relationship wise; they tend to feel as though being on the edge of a cliff and waiting for a 'reasonable voice' to tell them "DON'T JUMP". You can end up being that 'reasonable voice' when you fall in love with a Nigerian lady that is already engaged to another man. Hey, she hasn't said "I do" yet, hence all is fair in love and war. If you really love her, take advantage of her vulnerable state of being engaged and sell yourself as a better product. SHE WILL LISTEN and there's a 49% chance that she'd say "Yes" to you. 49% is NOT a bad probability ratio at all considering the circumstances.

Comments and insults are Welcome.

LOL!!!

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naijaboiy:

Please I don't have time for inconsequential dolts.

Just swerve real fast.

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F U C K Y O U. Like i said, keep deceiving yourself. a dolt knows another.

Am running away from nigerian women, all of them wants to marry. U better keep ur list. Maybe ur list will work well in Congo but not in this nowadays nigeria. Nigerian women are even ready to marry cripple men, they are very desperate , all in d name of my my friends are getting married. As for me, I chew them like chew gum

Your number 5 point is quite weird . Never,ever chase a woman in a relationship else you get burnt. If she is vulnerable after collecting anothers man's ring,what is the proof she wont be vulnerable after you give her a ring?. If she wants to date you let her leave her boyfriend first . Women of integrity dont change anyhow,when they are with you there is no vulnerability.

Okuda:


F U C K Y O U. Like i said, keep deceiving yourself. a dolt knows another.

Mumu is pained

<----------- keep swerving please.

sorry no 3 can never work in my father's house. no date in my parent house. the rule in my house is no girl brings a boy home and no boy brings a girl to the house until when i see a sign of seriousness in u and I am included in your future.

my dad hates the idea of bringing diff people to the house, he believes it gives the family bad name or something.
he keeps telling us 'no matter how spoilt the world is, there r guys and ladies somewhere that will search to settle for decent people with decent background and upbringing'.

IN SUMMARY you r welcome to my daddy's house after i see how serious you r. u r not to tell me u r serious, i will see it myself

Follow me one twitter@freshuaczy

ElFenomeno1:
Hot nonsense
Get lost OP!

God knows I didn't force you to read this post/thread

ALL THIS MONKEYS RANTIN ON NL ...WITHOUT MONEY U BE ZEROOOOOO..WOMEN DEY CHOP FINE BOY

braine:
Lol. This is a really nice piece. I particularly like number 2. Straight up.

Thanks

All this one na plenty talk

(1) make money
(2) make more money
(3) make even more money
(4) make even more bastard money
(5) spend money

Nicepoker:
The only smart way is for U To be successful.

There are many rich & successful but LONELY Nigerian men that have lost beautiful women to very average bobos.

abbey621:
Young men listen up, there's only one sure way to have women swarming over you and that is to have plenty of money, with money comes great confidence and with great confidence comes leadership. Ever wonder why geeks like Bill gates, Zuckerberg and others are able to marry gorgeous chicks, it's simple: Money, Money , Money!!!!! Money will get you the girl, now keeping her is another story

Money does not breed self-confidence; there are lots of rich men that can't step up to a decent lady. Such men rather use/waste their wealth on high class pro$titudes or gold diggers.

RedEboe:


There are many rich & successful but LONELY Nigerian men that have lost beautiful women to very average bobos.

well on a second thought I now come into conclusion that's Where attitude and accommodating Character comes into play. But one of ur points says. Going for a first date in her parent's house. U think that's proper?

Be ugly, leaving with ur guys in a 3 bedroom apartment but una all get cars n money dey well. Then be shy n the 1st date outside her house. Watch d magic as d girl go love sharply but this works for the larger percentage of ladies, d others wife dem

Koolking:


Dude, forget this epistle. The only language are

1. Money

2. More money

Again another big lie.
MONEY can help you win (some) girls' body(ies) but it can NEVER help you win their Love & Loyalty

Some ladies will never fall for these. Never!!

captainbaroni:
i love you man you are right

Love u too bro #NoHomo

sucess001:


love the write up especially the spice of humor. Nice!

Thanks for reading.

prettyrosiemua:
The point about girls who wear engagement ring is so true. Guys shouldn't leave an engagement ring on a girls finger for more than 3 months. Only engage her when u're ready to settle down.

You are very right.
I once had a female friend that was engaged to here 'foreign-based' bobo for about 3 years. He still married some else over there.

RedEboe:
1. Are you a fine boy? Forget all you've heard, the truth is NIGERIAN GIRLS LOVE HANDSOME MEN. Though many do end up with not-too-handsome dudes, and it's not their fault. A lot of good-looking Nigerian men rely more on their looks and invest little in character and other qualities. 'Ugly men' on the other hand invest a lot in character,wealth and other qualities unrelated to their physicaL appearance. If you are a good-looking guy,but also focused more on character, making good money, God etc, A Nigerian girl will pick you ahead others.

2. Be Bold and Blunt: This may sound ridiculous, but a Nigerian single lady will a total stranger in her subconscious if he walks up to her from nowhere and says, "I think I want to marry you". This does not mean she'll say "Yes" or that you (the stranger) won't get a dirty slap (very unlikely though), she'll most probably laugh, hiss and walk away. This scenario is in the event that you met her at a random public location. If you met this Nigerian lady say in her office, and told her you want to marry her from day one...with subsequent, persistent and follow up visits, she'll say "Yes" in 3 to 6 months.

3. Let your first date be in her parents house: when you've seen a Nigerian lady that you want to marry visit her in her parents or guardian's house first before taking her out to cinemas, malls, beach etc. If she's not staying with parents or guardians, insist on meeting them first (even if dem dey village) . This move/gesture has a psychological effect on Nigerian ladies, makes them let down their guards and take you VERY SERIOUSLY.

4. Ensure your current house is at least a 2 bedroom flat with no male squatters. When a serious Nigerian lady comes to visit you, and she meets a mini-flat with mattresses on the floor and one or two of your guys wearing boxers and 'hailing' her, chances of her marrying you diminishes by 60%. If a more serious suitor walks into her life at that moment,and he lives ALONE in a 2 or 3 bedroom flat, SHE WILL MARRY HIM.

5. If she's already wearing another man's engagement ring then your chances are brighter: Yes, this is a very controversial point but Nigerian ladies that are already engaged tend to be very vulnerable, relationship wise; they tend to feel as though being on the edge of a cliff and waiting for a 'reasonable voice' to tell them "DON'T JUMP". You can end up being that 'reasonable voice' when you fall in love with a Nigerian lady that is already engaged to another man. Hey, she hasn't said "I do" yet, hence all is fair in love and war. If you really love her, take advantage of her vulnerable state of being engaged and sell yourself as a better product. SHE WILL LISTEN and there's a 49% chance that she'd say "Yes" to you. 49% is NOT a bad probability ratio at all considering the circumstances.

Comments and insults are Welcome.

LOL!!!

you try

BOUNTYDOG:

Summarise the op in 2 words 1.Persistence 2.Commitment

3. Guts

krrixchase:
" one or two of your guys wearing boxers and 'hailing' her"

now dis got me laughing... They will be like " Aunty fine bros babe.. Welcome o".. U nailed this one man.. Nice

LOL...thanks

Virgin girl for life, Or no marriage.

what of me that I live in a room self contain?

Naija guys are stupid for thinking a lady is all about money.... Ladies need love.... The money is security

RedEboe:


Money does not breed self-confidence; there are lots of rich men that can't step up to a decent lady. Such men rather use/waste their wealth on high class pro$titudes or gold diggers.

Without money they won't have the means of patronizing such women would they? Furthermore I've never seen a rich guy unable to get laid and we all know the more you get laid the higher your confidence gets. It all starts with money, back in 100 level I lacked confidence, but surrounded myself with motivational guys, I was the financier and in return they showed me the way. Needless to say by 300 level I was a Pro, I could bag any female of my choice. Money is like a catalyst, it speeds up the process!